Any ex-smokers miss smoking?

I still like to smell the smoke from a cigarette, pipe, or cigar. I have always said that if I receive a fatal diagnosis, the first thing I'll do is buy a pack of Salem Lights.

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I'd add a six-pack to that, though.

A couple of glasses of red wine every evening keep me centered.

After watching my husband die of tobacco caused oral cancer I never ever had any desire for another cigarette. We were both heavy smokers who had quit the habit but it was too late for him; the damage had already been done.

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... 12 years seems unusually long. I don't think I wanted one beyond 12 weeks. I recall an ex-smoker friend say it took a couple years, but got much easier along the way. I hope it gets easier for you.

He says when he used to see a whole butt that someone tossed in the sand on the way into an appointment, he always wanted/wants to smoke it.

He was a very polite smoker. Never in house or car.

Pot nor booze has ever satisfied.
He did vape for awhile with no nicotine just so he could feel that nice long satisfying draw.....

13 years.

Since my dad died, he left me a box of some really good cigars

Some Cuban, Dominican, Nicaraguan, etc

That was what killed him by the way -- he had a cigar every day

I will smoke one a year

That can't kill me?

It's how I remember my father -- it's like a communion with my deceased father on his terms

(it was always on his terms)

Not that often, though.

Smoke free for over 10 years.

But if you have those urges you need to acknowledge them, and then move on

That's the only thing I've done that helped!

Every once in a while I feel like having one. Not gonna happen.

Many times I "quit" and I just had one after months and ended up smoking regularly again.

I smoked for 22+ years

Don't be that

However, I really didn't like smoking them.

I tried smoking one a while ago, and it was a non starter for me!

I just had one drag and then started coughing

But the smell of others doing it smells really good to me

But I am hardly ever around it, since none of my friends smoke.

I had one friend who smoked for over 30 years and just couldn't/wouldn't stop. Until the inevitable happened. She had to have surgery and she's cancer-free, but she still sneaks a cig or two now and then. Which disturbs me. So she's constantly chewing on that nicotine gum.

(I haven't seen her in years but I know she's OK)

One day I was a smoker for 45 years, and the next day I was a non-smoker. I spent years and years "trying" to quit, and then one day, I stopped "trying" and just quit. And never looked back. It was the day I sat in the doctor's office with my wife and listened as the doctor told her she had terminal lung cancer. It all got very real that day, and I suddenly realized that I had never taken the possible consequences seriously. I always "knew" that smoking was seriously bad for me, I just never KNEW it. That day the truth sank in, and I realized that "the truth will set you free" only works when you KNOW the truth.

I still love, LOVE the smell of tobacco

I don't CRAVE nicotine anymore, but I still miss lighting up with that first cup of coffee or with that shot of whiskey

Quit 15 or so years ago. Ow the only time I think of it is if I smell the smoke close by, which rarely happens. Then just a slight twinge of interest.

In my most "Canadian"

It wasn't fun, so I quit, after 50 years of Camels, Luckys, and Pall Malls. It was difficult, but I
did it cold turkey. I miss it nearly every day. When I find out what it is that I will die from. I'll
start up again.

and the thing that got rid of my craving was taking about ten really deep breaths when I had a craving.

Cravings were pretty much gone in a couple of months.

I think the price of a pack of smokes would scare me into quitting these days.

16 years.


Tikki

a smoke I lit up one of them. I hated them. After a month of that I stopped craving. I fooled myself into thinking herbal yucky smokes were cigarettes and my crave was killed off. It has been 13 years without a crave.when I see someone smoking I feel sorry for them. I've completely replaced tabacco cigarette sensation with the gross sensation of herbal cigarettes where there is no kick. I hate thinking about inhaling smoke. I do not want marijuana to smoke today. I never really enjoyed weed but someone lit up beside me at the bus stop today and I though ew. I actively hate smoking anything.

My failures to remain a non smoker were for extreme circumstances. Failures lasted less than a month and it was not addicting or pleasurable.
But it has now been 22 smoke free of those awful nicotine laced cigs.
Don’t do the funny ones either but think they are useful in many circumstances. Because of sports and my job, I can’t do the funny ones. 🏊🏋🏻‍♂️🧘🏼‍♂️

when I actually quit. I stopped and started so many times that I quit paying attention. Sometime in the early to mid 90's was when I finally managed to do it. Only every once in a while, while sitting and reading or watching TV I will get a craving. Sometimes it is pretty strong but not enough to make me really want one but mostly is just lingers in my mind for awhile. It sucks doesn't it? I wish I could never feel like that again.

Deep breaths and visions of some very rich white man in a cowboy hat sitting in a very large, expensive office reclining in his leather recliner with his big, fancy cowboy boots on the desktop sucking on a cigar and looking out at millions of us coughing and hacking and dying while he smiles and looks at his tobacco portfolio. THAT and the help of lozenges is what finally kept me from having the next one until I was done with it finally.

Really!

I did smoke but, for some odd reason, I was never addicted. I know, I know, you'll say "Oh sure" but it's true.

I never had even one puff since that summer day back in 1993 when I smoked my last one. And never felt I needed one. In fact, I cannot stand the smell so I always look for an escape if ever confronted with the smoke.

My mom and brother are the same way.

BUT whether or not one is addicted doesn't matter, of course, since the damage to the body happens regardless.

Forgot to mention that back when I did smoke, I never smoked when I was alone. I know-- weird. It was only when I went out with friends that I did.

Only thing that worked for me was Chantix. Lost the desire.

I quit about 32 years ago when it was still possible to smoke on airplanes. I flew a great deal for work, but circumstances stopped me flying around the same time as I quit smoking for about a year. It was a huge surprise how much I wanted one in a 10 hour flight sitting in the row in front of the smokers. Smelled horrible and I couldn’t get out of my clothes fast enough on arrival. Managed to resist the temptation though.

Like if I get a whiff of a really good cigar or a strong menthol.

I am a never-smoker. My mom smoked when I was little, and I hated the smell. Still do. Never tried one; never even touched one. Never dated a smoker.

It surprises me how penetrating the smell is. If I am stopped at a traffic light and the first car in line is 5 cars ahead, windows open and the driver is smoking, the smell is still powerful enough and noxious enough to make me want to gag. Some pipe tobaccos have a pleasant aroma, but regular cigarettes -

Congratulations to all the former smokers here!

I would have the urge to smoke when I got stressed for up to 3 years after I quit, but I no longer do. I don't miss the hacking & coughing it caused me.

else’s cigarette. If I EVER have just one drag, it would be back to smoking for me, I can NEVER have that first drag EVER AGAIN.

The first month or two was really rough. I craved cigarettes constantly but didn't give in. The following months to the present day have been much better. I hardly think about smoking and don't miss it at all.

I missed it for the first year.
It'll be 30 years next year.