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Siwsan

(26,251 posts)
Sun Oct 10, 2021, 08:11 AM Oct 2021

This was a first. When I reached down to pet one of the feral kittens, Skittish growled at me

A very soft growl, but a growl, none the less. That was actually the first sound I've ever heard her make. Lately, Scooter and Mittens have been meowing every time they see me, and coming right up to my feet, or my hand as I set down their bowl.

So now I pretty much know there is some hope for partially habituating the siblings, but probably none, at all, when it comes to Skittish.

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This was a first. When I reached down to pet one of the feral kittens, Skittish growled at me (Original Post) Siwsan Oct 2021 OP
Pease do not give up hope for Skittish, it may just take more time. You are doing niyad Oct 2021 #1
I'm going to carry on Siwsan Oct 2021 #3
--Everybody-- has a bad day once in a while!!! ret5hd Oct 2021 #2
Oh, I'm not giving up Siwsan Oct 2021 #4
Please don't give up on Skittish yet. At this point I think any vocalization is abqtommy Oct 2021 #5
I was just so surprised! Siwsan Oct 2021 #6
I love you Skittish. If your survival or "partial habituation" are in jeopardy because of someone Anon-C Oct 2021 #7
We adopted a cat from the shelter Marthe48 Oct 2021 #8
Don't give up. One of the first, if not the first, feral pregnant cats... 3catwoman3 Oct 2021 #9

niyad

(113,079 posts)
1. Pease do not give up hope for Skittish, it may just take more time. You are doing
Sun Oct 10, 2021, 08:15 AM
Oct 2021

such an amazing job with all of them. Thank you.

Siwsan

(26,251 posts)
3. I'm going to carry on
Sun Oct 10, 2021, 08:26 AM
Oct 2021

I think Skittish probably never had a positive human interaction when she was young. She does still walk up to me but when I go to set the dish down, she darts away. It's like we've reached a plateau in our interaction, but I won't give up.

I've been interacting with Mittens and Scooter since they were just a little older than Morgan and Madoc so somewhere in their brains they know I'm not a real threat. They just aren't quite "there" yet, but we're getting closer, every day.

ret5hd

(20,482 posts)
2. --Everybody-- has a bad day once in a while!!!
Sun Oct 10, 2021, 08:24 AM
Oct 2021

Even me, despite my near perfection. Give him/her another chance.

Siwsan

(26,251 posts)
4. Oh, I'm not giving up
Sun Oct 10, 2021, 08:27 AM
Oct 2021

It's the first time she's been there when I've reached out to pet her kittens. And, frankly, they seemed to ignore her. Well, they are 'teenagers' now.

Siwsan

(26,251 posts)
6. I was just so surprised!
Sun Oct 10, 2021, 09:36 AM
Oct 2021

It looks like the rain is going to clear out before their afternoon feeding. I'm going to try and sit with them while they eat.

Anon-C

(3,430 posts)
7. I love you Skittish. If your survival or "partial habituation" are in jeopardy because of someone
Sun Oct 10, 2021, 09:38 AM
Oct 2021

...else's need for you to perform to their expectation, that's our hang up as humans, and I apologize on our behalf. Most of us are not perfect, but you have a wonderful human with you at present and you are loved.

Marthe48

(16,905 posts)
8. We adopted a cat from the shelter
Sun Oct 10, 2021, 10:01 AM
Oct 2021

We had her for almost 7 years. Her responses were never correct. She would head bump us, but when we tried to pet her, she slap and hiss. She was just really messed up. Maybe Skittish is the same. All you can do is what you're doing. You've had wonderful success with your clowder of ferals. You have a good heart

3catwoman3

(23,950 posts)
9. Don't give up. One of the first, if not the first, feral pregnant cats...
Sun Oct 10, 2021, 11:45 PM
Oct 2021

…taken in by the Tiny Kittens organization in Vancouver BC was Sloane, who was off-the-charts hostile. Her kittens were successfully socialized and adopted, and Sloane was returned to her colony after she was spayed..

The Tiny Kittens volunteers continued to gently interact with Sloane when they would visit the colony with food and toys. Much to everyone’s surprise and delight, Sloane eventually decided human beings were quite OK and was eventually adopted. I don’t recall exactly how long this took, but it was months.

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