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After eleven years, one of my homeless patients has an apartment and is off the streets. (Original Post) Aristus Jan 2022 OP
Good to hear. sheshe2 Jan 2022 #1
That's wonderful! femmedem Jan 2022 #2
Wonderful! Nt XanaDUer2 Jan 2022 #3
Nice! Scrivener7 Jan 2022 #4
What great news, my dear Aristus! CaliforniaPeggy Jan 2022 #5
No. He is still eligible for care here. Aristus Jan 2022 #11
Oh, how good, my dear Aristus! That is good to know. n/t CaliforniaPeggy Jan 2022 #15
This message was self-deleted by its author Chin music Jan 2022 #6
Great news! chillfactor Jan 2022 #7
Yaaaaaay! SheltieLover Jan 2022 #8
Awwwwwwwwwww, THANKS! Such good news! calimary Jan 2022 #9
Wonderful! IrishAfricanAmerican Jan 2022 #10
That's incredible Picaro Jan 2022 #12
Best news I've gotten all day! Mme. Defarge Jan 2022 #13
That is fantastic news. That someone I don't know moved into an apartment is such great news LoisB Jan 2022 #14
It is always nice when you can see someone have a little thrill. JanMichael Jan 2022 #16
So wonderful and heartwarming in these trying times! Hope springs eternal. cornball 24 Jan 2022 #17
This is the best. MontanaMama Jan 2022 #18
Yay! Cozmo Jan 2022 #19
Very good news! gademocrat7 Jan 2022 #20
Thank you so much for sharing this very happy news with us. niyad Jan 2022 #21
THANK YOU FOR DOING THIS! Groundhawg Jan 2022 #22
That's wonderful. It's great to hear good news. badhair77 Jan 2022 #23
That's wonderful news. Thank you 😊 mountain grammy Jan 2022 #24
That's very good news wendyb-NC Jan 2022 #25
Great dear heart PufPuf23 Jan 2022 #26
Great News, Thank You for sharing with us. K and R Stuart G Jan 2022 #27
Wow wryter2000 Jan 2022 #28
How does anyone even survive eleven years on the street? Laffy Kat Jan 2022 #29
The stereotype is a person begging on the streets during the day, Aristus Jan 2022 #30
Thank you, Aristus. nt Laffy Kat Jan 2022 #31
That is absolutely wonderful. I've worried about our homeless lately. nolabear Jan 2022 #32
There is hope. In_The_Wind Jan 2022 #33
Thank goodness. Aristus Jan 2022 #34
That is how it is done. One by one. That was my wife's job practically all her professional life DFW Jan 2022 #35
I have admired for years the work you and your wife do. Aristus Jan 2022 #36
You have paid your dues as well DFW Jan 2022 #37

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,614 posts)
5. What great news, my dear Aristus!
Fri Jan 7, 2022, 07:36 PM
Jan 2022

But does that mean he can't be your patient any longer?

I think having a home of his own, be it apartment or whatever, outweighs getting to come to see you. But still...



I wish him joy!

Aristus

(66,348 posts)
11. No. He is still eligible for care here.
Fri Jan 7, 2022, 07:48 PM
Jan 2022

At the old clinic, a patient was eligible for care for up to one year after getting off the streets.

Our newer clinic is open to all patients, but about 60% of my patient population is homeless.

Response to Aristus (Original post)

Picaro

(1,521 posts)
12. That's incredible
Fri Jan 7, 2022, 07:51 PM
Jan 2022

“After 11 years”…

What a country we live in where those without just have to go without. It’s amazing your patient survived.

Revel in this good news.

Mme. Defarge

(8,028 posts)
13. Best news I've gotten all day!
Fri Jan 7, 2022, 07:56 PM
Jan 2022

Are we drinking tonight? I feel the need to self-medicate with all of the awful stuff happening on so many fronts.

LoisB

(7,205 posts)
14. That is fantastic news. That someone I don't know moved into an apartment is such great news
Fri Jan 7, 2022, 07:56 PM
Jan 2022

to me says a lot about how ready I am to move on from gloom and doom.

JanMichael

(24,886 posts)
16. It is always nice when you can see someone have a little thrill.
Fri Jan 7, 2022, 08:12 PM
Jan 2022

It doesn't happen often, enjoy it. This can be very thankless and soul crushing work.

badhair77

(4,217 posts)
23. That's wonderful. It's great to hear good news.
Fri Jan 7, 2022, 09:03 PM
Jan 2022

I’m sure your patient is relieved and finding some good in life.

Laffy Kat

(16,377 posts)
29. How does anyone even survive eleven years on the street?
Sat Jan 8, 2022, 05:28 PM
Jan 2022

I can't even imagine. I know I take so much for granted.

Aristus

(66,348 posts)
30. The stereotype is a person begging on the streets during the day,
Sat Jan 8, 2022, 06:24 PM
Jan 2022

and sleeping on the streets at night. Who could possibly sustain that for a period of years?

But it's not uncommon for homeless people to work during the day, and stay at a shelter or a cheap motel at night. The number of homeless people who work a regular job would astonish the blissfully ignorant 'why-don't-they-just-go-get-a-job?' types. Just having a paying job is not necessarily enough to get one off the streets. Not when you need first and last month's rent, damage deposit, credit check, criminal background check, etc.

There are homeless people who travel. For the price of a bus ticket, a homeless person can travel somewhere warmer, or with better job prospects.

There are homeless patients with some form of disability. (The number of them who are veterans suffering from physical disabilities, or mental health conditions like PTSD, would turn your hair white.) State disability benefits can usually get them regular meals and a night or two a month in a motel room. The first few days of the month are the quiet time at the homeless clinic. So many of my patients get their benefit checks and invest in a couple of nights in a motel room. I can't even begin to imagine the bliss of trading the street or a homeless shelter for a single room with heat, running water, a soft bed, and warm blankets, not to mention the security of a locked door.

This is mainly the chronically homeless; maybe 10-15% of the total homeless population. The average stay on the streets for the remaining 85% is around nine months before getting mainstreamed again.

Still, eleven years is a long goddamned time. I'm happy for my patient.

nolabear

(41,963 posts)
32. That is absolutely wonderful. I've worried about our homeless lately.
Sat Jan 8, 2022, 09:48 PM
Jan 2022

GOD, this weather! You and I both know one reason we have a fairly high population is it’s generally pretty temperate in the winter. I cannot imagine dealing with the snow and rain this last couple of weeks.

I’m happy for you both. Never give up.

DFW

(54,378 posts)
35. That is how it is done. One by one. That was my wife's job practically all her professional life
Wed Jan 12, 2022, 04:34 PM
Jan 2022

She was a social worker in northwestern Germany, and she worked with long-term, difficult cases of unemployed people. There were immigrants, drug cases, alcoholics, social misfits, you name it. If they were cases the normal channels didn't want, or couldn't handle, they landed with my wife (or other social workers who worked with similar cases). Some clearly didn't want her help ("meddling" ), and some were grateful for it. Some of the immigrants only went to her because the welfare office said they would pull all payments if they didn't show.

There was once one youngish Russian man who always "didn't understand enough German" when he was asked to do something he didn't want to do. My wife's solution to that was to call him him of a Friday evening, after she had found a possible job placement, and tell him to be in her office at 8:00 the next Monday morning. He suddenly didn't know enough German (again) to know what she wanted. She said just a moment, and handed the phone to me. I told the guy in Russian what my wife wanted, and asked if he NOW understood? There was no wiggling out it this time. He had to admit he had understood, and he was indeed in her office at 8:00 the next Monday. Surprise, surprise, he even went for the interview, found it was a job he liked, and he took it. Suddenly, he could afford his own place and other stuff.

She did this thankless job for decades. She could have been a model, and she tossed that for this job instead. No wonder she stayed with me all these years. I must have seemed like an easy (if long term) case compared to all the hard core cases she had to deal with for most of her life.

Aristus

(66,348 posts)
36. I have admired for years the work you and your wife do.
Wed Jan 12, 2022, 04:36 PM
Jan 2022

Thank you for sharing such a great story about the Russian guy.

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