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Atticus

(15,124 posts)
Sun Jan 30, 2022, 05:09 PM Jan 2022

I went outside to scoop snow off the drive and found myself reminded of both my parents,

each for a different reason.

First, as I walked out in the bright sunlight of a brilliantly clear day, I could not help but notice the millions of tiny sparkling points in the snow as individual crystals, viewed from just the right angle, refracted the light and displayed every color in the spectrum for an instant. And, I recalled my Mom first pointing this beauty out to me as a small boy and telling me those were "God's diamonds".

Then, as I pushed the fluffy snow off the concrete drive, I realized that I was being kept warm by my Dad's blanket-lined OSHKOSH denim chore coat and his moosehide mittens with wool inserts. Dad had split a lot of wood wearing that coat and those mittens. Wearing them felt like a hug.

Thanks, Mom.

Thanks, Dad.

I was lucky to be your son.

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I went outside to scoop snow off the drive and found myself reminded of both my parents, (Original Post) Atticus Jan 2022 OP
A warm moment in the cold, both literally and figuratively. badhair77 Jan 2022 #1
Sweet tribute. Totally Tunsie Jan 2022 #2
This message was self-deleted by its author Chin music Jan 2022 #3
Seconded. St. Alfonzo Jan 2022 #33
So beautiful- thank you for sharing that... lisa58 Jan 2022 #4
What a lovely tribute to your parents. Sienna86 Jan 2022 #5
My Mom called falling snow Sky Diamonds. Those are good memories to have irisblue Jan 2022 #6
There's not a day that goes by, when I don't think about those that are gone from my life. OAITW r.2.0 Jan 2022 #7
What nice nice remembrance of your Mom and Dad. GentryDixon Jan 2022 #8
Very nice indeed...... MyOwnPeace Jan 2022 #9
What a wonderful tribute! mgardener Jan 2022 #10
Similar experience yesterday in my dad's big parka JudyM Jan 2022 #11
I am glad you have fond memories of your parents. You made me smile today...thank you. cayugafalls Jan 2022 #12
The Sky World screamcheese Jan 2022 #13
How wonderful to feel close to both of them today 💖 MLAA Jan 2022 #14
Those memories keep them close in your heart Marthe48 Jan 2022 #15
I shoveled a lot of snow as a kid in NE Iowa wearing those kinds of mittens. rsdsharp Jan 2022 #16
A beautiful post zeusdogmom Jan 2022 #17
Sometimes, just a small memory has so much meaning. TNNurse Jan 2022 #18
What a beautiful post! ❤️❤️ secondwind Jan 2022 #19
Thank you for sharing those beautiful thoughts of your Mom and Dad. They must have been LoisB Jan 2022 #20
I remember being tasked to chop up ice after ice storms nuxvomica Jan 2022 #21
My similar memories extend back two generations. Parents and grandparents. Lucky to remember both. usaf-vet Jan 2022 #22
What a wonderful post!😍 lucca18 Jan 2022 #23
Awww yeah, this is the Atticus I remember. ancianita Jan 2022 #24
beautiful - thank you! bluboid Jan 2022 #25
what a wonderful post Atticus IcyPeas Jan 2022 #26
how beautiful :) samnsara Jan 2022 #27
Awww, sweet.... ificandream Jan 2022 #28
I love this. PittBlue Jan 2022 #29
Those are truly wonderful moments Fla Dem Jan 2022 #30
A beautiful tribute to your parents, Atticus. mia Jan 2022 #31
So happy for your sweet memories!!! Karadeniz Jan 2022 #32
Thank you for reminding me to cherish the good stuff. MissMillie Jan 2022 #34
I kept some of my Dads coats for the exact same reason. The Jungle 1 Jan 2022 #35

badhair77

(4,208 posts)
1. A warm moment in the cold, both literally and figuratively.
Sun Jan 30, 2022, 05:13 PM
Jan 2022

Priceless. I’ll look at the fresh snow in a new light.

Response to Atticus (Original post)

lisa58

(5,755 posts)
4. So beautiful- thank you for sharing that...
Sun Jan 30, 2022, 05:28 PM
Jan 2022

I lost my husband and daughter- my parents and aunts and uncles- and I sit with them every night. I know the hug you feel when those memories surface.

OAITW r.2.0

(24,287 posts)
7. There's not a day that goes by, when I don't think about those that are gone from my life.
Sun Jan 30, 2022, 05:47 PM
Jan 2022

The trigger can be an object, a picture, or a simple thought.....

I spent 4 hours today scooping and shoveling snow. Did it happily, knowing that the dry snow was perfect to get the job done. I'm now enjoying a gin Bloody Mary, watching the KC/Cinn game (getting interesting) and reading wonderful posts on DU....like yours!

GentryDixon

(2,947 posts)
8. What nice nice remembrance of your Mom and Dad.
Sun Jan 30, 2022, 05:47 PM
Jan 2022

My Dad had a houseful of only girls, so I was his sidekick. I climbed on roofs to shovel snow to prevent collapse, helped him do any plumbing or electrical task. He was happy to guide me, and I was eager to learn.

When I married, my husband was surprised at the tasks I was able to accomplish. I just took it upon myself to do things like install my sprinkler system electrical. It's been my job for the last 30+ years to adjust & eventually install a new system. I dig up & replace sprinklers that go bad over the winter.
All of these little tasks I have my Dad to thank for giving me the confidence that I could do anything.

My Mom taught me the joy of cooking & baking. I got her 14" cast iron skillet when she passed. There was lots of sausage gravy made in that skillet to go with her homemade biscuits. 👩?🍳

MyOwnPeace

(16,917 posts)
9. Very nice indeed......
Sun Jan 30, 2022, 05:54 PM
Jan 2022

great memories of such simple things.

Wonder what memories the kids of those Carhartt burners are going to have?

JudyM

(29,187 posts)
11. Similar experience yesterday in my dad's big parka
Sun Jan 30, 2022, 05:58 PM
Jan 2022

Warmer than any of my coats, so I put it on to shovel in the blizzard. Kept me warmer than I could’ve imagined. When I got inside and took it off, I just hugged it, almost holding him again with a heart full of love and gratitude. ❤️

rsdsharp

(9,136 posts)
16. I shoveled a lot of snow as a kid in NE Iowa wearing those kinds of mittens.
Sun Jan 30, 2022, 06:24 PM
Jan 2022

We called them choppers mitts. The originals spilt at the top seam when I was about 12. We bought a new pair, but they were so much stiffer than the originals, that I rarely used them.

LoisB

(7,180 posts)
20. Thank you for sharing those beautiful thoughts of your Mom and Dad. They must have been
Sun Jan 30, 2022, 07:08 PM
Jan 2022

wonderful people.

nuxvomica

(12,409 posts)
21. I remember being tasked to chop up ice after ice storms
Sun Jan 30, 2022, 07:14 PM
Jan 2022

It would sometimes get very thick on the front porch and I'd be out there with a large flat-head screwdriver, a hammer and a long-necked ice chopper to chip away at it. Despite the work being tiresome, I would study the ice, looking for the best spot and the best chopping angle to free up large pieces with one stroke. I fancied myself a sort of diamond cutter, and the chunks I liberated were just as beautiful as anything from Tiffany's. That was the thing about winter as a kid. It was often bitter cold, and the shoveling and chopping were tough, but there was beauty and magic all around, and there was nothing like the quiet after a snowfall, when the clearing of thoroughfares was finally done, and the blanket of tiny blue diamonds enclothed everything.

usaf-vet

(6,161 posts)
22. My similar memories extend back two generations. Parents and grandparents. Lucky to remember both.
Sun Jan 30, 2022, 07:17 PM
Jan 2022

Dad and his WW II Navy peacoat. The wonderful meals he cooked on a tight budget.
Mom and her lessons on how to use a sewing machine. As well as needle and thread. I was a hit at USAF Bootcamp. Sewing name tags.
My Maternal Grandfather how to use a hand saw and a hammer. From a cabinet maker.
My Maternal Grandmother teaching my wife to make Mock Cherry Pie. Black toast from the woodstove.
My Paternal Grandfather and Grandmother their old English traditions and food. Tea, crumpets, beef, and kidney pie, Lyle Syrup.

A small example of great memories of those loved ones who have passed

My similar memories extend back two generations. Parents and grandparents. Lucky to remember both.

ancianita

(35,932 posts)
24. Awww yeah, this is the Atticus I remember.
Sun Jan 30, 2022, 07:26 PM
Jan 2022

Keep loving yourself. Thank you for sharing your heart here; it does mine a lot of good.

Fla Dem

(23,586 posts)
30. Those are truly wonderful moments
Sun Jan 30, 2022, 09:41 PM
Jan 2022

When we feel our parents there with us again.

I know for many people memories of their parents are the last thing they want because of a difficult childhood.

I’m truly sorry for those who cannot fondly look back on their childhood years.

MissMillie

(38,529 posts)
34. Thank you for reminding me to cherish the good stuff.
Mon Jan 31, 2022, 08:54 AM
Jan 2022

My mom left us a year and a half ago, and what would have been her 88th birthday is in just a few days.

I feel her the most when I'm in the kitchen.

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