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Siwsan

(26,259 posts)
Tue Feb 8, 2022, 02:17 PM Feb 2022

What a pleasant surprise I received at Target, just now

I went in to see if they had the kind of kitten kibble the boys like. No such luck. As I was wandering out I saw the cereal aisle and decided to buy a big box of Special K with Red Berries. Nights when I just don't have a specific appetite, I eat a bowl of cereal.

There was a young man in line, in front of me, just finishing what looked like a complicated purchase via a gift card. All of a sudden he told the clerk to add my cereal to his total! It took me a second to comprehend. His explanation was that I just looked like a good person. I thanked him profusely and vowed to pay it forward. He smiled.

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What a pleasant surprise I received at Target, just now (Original Post) Siwsan Feb 2022 OP
That is so sweet! tblue37 Feb 2022 #1
Lovely story! And what a great kid! highplainsdem Feb 2022 #2
And what a perceptive kid! soldierant Feb 2022 #50
What a sweet thing for him to do. Srkdqltr Feb 2022 #3
He had you spotted, didn't he! Good person, indeed! CurtEastPoint Feb 2022 #4
Great story! PJMcK Feb 2022 #5
There are so many good people out there DENVERPOPS Feb 2022 #16
He was very perceptive! You are definitely a good person DeeDeeNY Feb 2022 #6
I second that! calimary Feb 2022 #9
Aw, sweet! Lunabell Feb 2022 #7
Maybe he was... IrishAfricanAmerican Feb 2022 #8
Of many people something like that should happen to, you are certainly one of them! Fla Dem Feb 2022 #10
What a sweet story. Kindness to the kind from the kind. LoisB Feb 2022 #11
At Dillions 3 weeks ago KS Toronado Feb 2022 #12
very sweet NJCher Feb 2022 #14
❤ Lovely. c-rational Feb 2022 #22
Beautiful thing to do, KS Toronado! JudyM Feb 2022 #34
Times are tough homegirl Feb 2022 #38
Oh, my! I do this, too! The last person I gave a fiver to actually started crying. It's tough Nay Feb 2022 #55
Reading this brightened my day. StarryNite Feb 2022 #13
Bless you DENVERPOPS Feb 2022 #15
aw man Skittles Feb 2022 #36
She is the most loved and most DENVERPOPS Feb 2022 #37
Blessings upon her... electric_blue68 Feb 2022 #48
Almost DENVERPOPS Feb 2022 #49
Would you ask her what she's using. I could probably find something similar 👍 electric_blue68 Feb 2022 #51
Just DENVERPOPS Feb 2022 #57
Sorry, if I wasn't clear! Please ask her what brand, and type of yarn... electric_blue68 Feb 2022 #58
She doesn't remember DENVERPOPS Feb 2022 #60
What a great idea! Blessings on your lovely wife! nt Nay Feb 2022 #56
Love, love LOVE those RAOK! BobTheSubgenius Feb 2022 #17
I've done that twice and both revolved around birthdays ... aggiesal Feb 2022 #18
That was karma... hippywife Feb 2022 #19
Wow, that was really sweet! Emile Feb 2022 #20
Pay it forward for wife & I is usually in Pas-de-Calais Feb 2022 #21
You deserve any and all RAOK Picaro Feb 2022 #23
That IS a nice surprise! Your energy is radiating out and he couldn't miss it! liberalla Feb 2022 #24
That is so awesome. Ka-Dinh Oy Feb 2022 #25
I love stories like this! NurseJackie Feb 2022 #26
Your kindness radiates so much that a stranger can see it! Totally Tunsie Feb 2022 #27
Yeah but! Aussie105 Feb 2022 #28
Never fear - I found it elsewhere! Siwsan Feb 2022 #29
How nice. blueinredohio Feb 2022 #30
Oh, there's Many, many good people in this world. You nust don't hear much about them electric_blue68 Feb 2022 #45
Something like that puts you in a great mood all day!!! Karadeniz Feb 2022 #31
That's wonderful sellitman Feb 2022 #32
This message was self-deleted by its author JudyM Feb 2022 #33
You've been paying it forward all along, Siwsan. JudyM Feb 2022 #35
Thank you for sharing that kind moment. niyad Feb 2022 #39
Nice guy I_UndergroundPanther Feb 2022 #40
Aw, that was so sweet of him wendyb-NC Feb 2022 #41
That's great! samplegirl Feb 2022 #42
Rescued cat karma. Hoyt Feb 2022 #43
i looked so pathetic MFM008 Feb 2022 #44
Three times over a ?two yr period people in front of me paid for my groceries... electric_blue68 Feb 2022 #46
Wonderful story. electric_blue68 Feb 2022 #47
Are you having a canned cat food shortage where you are? catbyte Feb 2022 #52
I most definitely am Siwsan Feb 2022 #53
Yes TuxedoKat Feb 2022 #59
Bastet rewarded you. ChazInAz Feb 2022 #54

soldierant

(6,847 posts)
50. And what a perceptive kid!
Wed Feb 9, 2022, 04:43 AM
Feb 2022

It's not always as easy as it sounds to recognize a good person without prior knowledge, and he was spot on.

PJMcK

(22,031 posts)
5. Great story!
Tue Feb 8, 2022, 02:23 PM
Feb 2022

One Christmas Day, while driving to visit family, I pulled up to the toll booth I used to drive through every day. This was before electronic tolling and I was sort-of friendly with the toll taker since I would see him fairly often. After wishing him a merry Christmas, I paid my toll as well as that for the car behind me. When I saw the toll taker the following week, he told me that I started a trend that lasted about 8 or 10 cars!

Enjoy the cereal.

DENVERPOPS

(8,810 posts)
16. There are so many good people out there
Tue Feb 8, 2022, 03:28 PM
Feb 2022

It seems the good people have focused on being even better, especially to others less fortunate.

Where did all the total assholes come from??????????

Last week someone, late at night, siphoned all the gas out of my truck that I park out on the street. I thought that maybe I should just tape a twenty dollar bill inside the gas tank door, but figured they would just take the twenty AND siphon off all my gas.....Not Funny.....

KS Toronado

(17,199 posts)
12. At Dillions 3 weeks ago
Tue Feb 8, 2022, 03:12 PM
Feb 2022

A 20 something Mexican who had his wife's shopping list and everything on the list was ahead of me in line.
Grocery total was $68.?? and he only had $60, began by handing the checkout clerk the baby diapers to see
how much it would reduce his bill. I thought that wasn't going to make his wife happy, so I handed him a $10
and refused the change. The look on his face was my reward.
His look....

homegirl

(1,428 posts)
38. Times are tough
Tue Feb 8, 2022, 11:32 PM
Feb 2022

when I leave the supermarket with a trunk load of groceries I keep a $5.00 bill on the seat next to me. There is usually someone at the traffic light with a sign asking for help. We can all afford to give - and we should.

Nay

(12,051 posts)
55. Oh, my! I do this, too! The last person I gave a fiver to actually started crying. It's tough
Wed Feb 9, 2022, 10:49 AM
Feb 2022

out there, folks.

DENVERPOPS

(8,810 posts)
15. Bless you
Tue Feb 8, 2022, 03:22 PM
Feb 2022

my wife and I have done the exact same thing in grocery stores. We are retired and far from rich, but comfortable.

My wife is an angel and knits thick wool scarves and puts one in a grocery bag with nutrition bars, Gatorade, socks, personal care items, and a ten dollar bill. She puts them in her car, and everyone along her drive who is homeless, she stops and gives one to them.......
Last week when the temp got below zero here, she loaded up her car with her bags and drove around until she distributed all the bags she had..........

I am nominating her for sainthood....................

DENVERPOPS

(8,810 posts)
37. She is the most loved and most
Tue Feb 8, 2022, 10:18 PM
Feb 2022

incredible woman I have ever met.........

She knocked my socks off the first night I went out with her.......

The homeless handbags are just one of hundreds of things she does for others.......

electric_blue68

(14,886 posts)
48. Blessings upon her...
Wed Feb 9, 2022, 04:07 AM
Feb 2022

I'm such a slow crocheter - otherwise I'd might do hats.

Once I did a more chunky hat as donation to a yarn store that would bundle them all up and donate them at the end of their drive.

I wonder if chunky yarn neck warmers at least be a little help? Or ear warner's?

Opinions, pls. Good idea?
If I started sometime in the spring, I could get maybe a bunch done.

DENVERPOPS

(8,810 posts)
49. Almost
Wed Feb 9, 2022, 04:36 AM
Feb 2022

anything and everything helps them........they are living a continual nightmare in so many ways......

The neck scarfs my wife knits for them is really large furry yarn....

electric_blue68

(14,886 posts)
58. Sorry, if I wasn't clear! Please ask her what brand, and type of yarn...
Wed Feb 9, 2022, 04:21 PM
Feb 2022

of the "large, furry yarn" (as you put it) she is using to knit those neck scarves.

Yarn is almost always all around yarn used for knitting, crocheting, etc. 👍
And thanks, no rush. 🙂

DENVERPOPS

(8,810 posts)
60. She doesn't remember
Wed Feb 9, 2022, 07:27 PM
Feb 2022

and threw the skein? wrapper away. I'll try to remember to watch when she buys some more and send you the info......
Knitting is totally new to her.........

aggiesal

(8,911 posts)
18. I've done that twice and both revolved around birthdays ...
Tue Feb 8, 2022, 03:43 PM
Feb 2022

I was in line at a store and the person behind was purchasing a birthday gift for themself.
The person wanted the item as a gift but nobody gifted it. So I told the cashier to add the purchase and I said Happy Birthday.

A second time, a young family was in front of me at Costco trying to buy groceries including a birthday cake for one of their young kids. When they cashed out, they couldn't afford the cake so they asked to put it back. I told the cashier to let them know that I'd pay for it and tell them not to leave. So when it was my turn I paid for the cake, then rang my groceries.

Both thanked me, and told them not to worry, but when you see the same thing, pay it forward. Both agreed.

Happy for your surprise!

Pas-de-Calais

(9,904 posts)
21. Pay it forward for wife & I is usually in
Tue Feb 8, 2022, 04:37 PM
Feb 2022

Starbucks drive thru.
Pull up for pay & pick up to find out the car in front paid for your order

Xmas time our $27 order was picked up!
I repaid the favor by doing same to the next 4 customers, in order to get close to our total

Picaro

(1,517 posts)
23. You deserve any and all RAOK
Tue Feb 8, 2022, 04:43 PM
Feb 2022

Siswan you are very kind and that kindness, I believe, draws kindness to to you.

Ka-Dinh Oy

(11,686 posts)
25. That is so awesome.
Tue Feb 8, 2022, 05:10 PM
Feb 2022

My friend and I were at a coffee drive through yesterday and the people in the car ahead of us had paid for our drinks. Sometimes things good just happen to remind us that there is still common decency and goodness in these hard times.

Totally Tunsie

(10,885 posts)
27. Your kindness radiates so much that a stranger can see it!
Tue Feb 8, 2022, 07:19 PM
Feb 2022

Just imagine what your kitties must feel for you.

Aussie105

(5,383 posts)
28. Yeah but!
Tue Feb 8, 2022, 07:48 PM
Feb 2022

The Kitty Kibble!

Kitties is gonna starve!

Biden's economy is coming crashing down!

. . . . never mind me, I'm just trying to think like a Republican, seeing the downside in everything and blaming Joe . . . and it really hurts my brain!



Siwsan

(26,259 posts)
29. Never fear - I found it elsewhere!
Tue Feb 8, 2022, 07:51 PM
Feb 2022

Shocking lack of canned cat food on the shelves. I've got 2 more cans for the ferals that I am using sparingly when I mix it with the dry.

The boys's canned kitten food is well stocked in the pantry, for now.

Response to Siwsan (Original post)

wendyb-NC

(3,322 posts)
41. Aw, that was so sweet of him
Wed Feb 9, 2022, 01:26 AM
Feb 2022

He's right, you are a good person. You are so kind, in how you care for your 2 kitties and also make sure the feral cats and kittens outside are fed
food and have shelter from the storms of winter.

MFM008

(19,805 posts)
44. i looked so pathetic
Wed Feb 9, 2022, 02:13 AM
Feb 2022

an angel in man form bought all my baked goods for me when I ran out of money in the line close to Christmas at Safeway....

electric_blue68

(14,886 posts)
46. Three times over a ?two yr period people in front of me paid for my groceries...
Wed Feb 9, 2022, 04:01 AM
Feb 2022

I was a bit careful with my money, but not strapped for cash. Maybe tired, but not bedraggled looking.

I declined at first, but let them.


I try to, and do small, and modest good deeds of various sorts much of my life. That's how my folks raised me.

catbyte

(34,374 posts)
52. Are you having a canned cat food shortage where you are?
Wed Feb 9, 2022, 09:44 AM
Feb 2022

The cat food shelves at the small, independent grocery store I shop at have been almost bare for a few weeks now. I asked about it and they said their supplier can't get anything. Even larger chains like Kroger are having trouble and stocks are down. I've been able to get my deliveries of canned food but even they have been delayed. Outside Kitty refuses to eat any sort of "pate" type of canned food and forget kibble, lol, so it's been dicey. He's the pickiest feral I've ever encountered. My cats love kibble and I haven't had any problems with kibble deliveries.

It's weird.

Siwsan

(26,259 posts)
53. I most definitely am
Wed Feb 9, 2022, 09:48 AM
Feb 2022

I have plenty for the boys, right now and Gryff prefers dry food. Madoc is happy with either. BUT the canned food I buy for the ferals is out of stock and has been for a while. Fortunately I bought extra the last time I saw it, but now I'm down to the last two cans. They really love the wet/dry mix but I'm having to make it drier. I bought a couple of cans of sardines to substitute, if I run out of wet food for them. I'll just shred the fish and try to stretch it as far as I can.

I check, every single day, to see if they restock.

TuxedoKat

(3,818 posts)
59. Yes
Wed Feb 9, 2022, 05:14 PM
Feb 2022

Been a shortage here since late last summer. I stock up as much as I can but feel guilty buying it when others need it too. One cat is so finicky too. There are only a few varieties she deigns to eat.

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