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captain queeg

(10,154 posts)
Sun Feb 13, 2022, 01:53 AM Feb 2022

Just realized I'll be 65 tomorrow.

I really never think about it. If someone asks me how old I am I always have to stop and think. I feel bad sometimes that I never remember family members’ birthdays. I know some people consider that knowledge very important. I’m usually lucky if I remember what month someone’s birthday is.

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Just realized I'll be 65 tomorrow. (Original Post) captain queeg Feb 2022 OP
Fuck, I wish I was your age. OAITW r.2.0 Feb 2022 #1
I was pulled over by a cop once for speeding Skittles Feb 2022 #2
Please tell me he sang to you, and cheerfully slammed his ticket book shut. n/t Harker Feb 2022 #25
This message was self-deleted by its author Harker Feb 2022 #26
Be sure to sign up for Medicare dweller Feb 2022 #3
hey Skittles Feb 2022 #4
I found this handout from CMS to be informative. Frasier Balzov Feb 2022 #7
I think it's automatic if you are taking social security captain queeg Feb 2022 #8
not taking SS early Skittles Feb 2022 #10
I think you need to sign up for medicare anyway,,,, KarenS Feb 2022 #18
My private insurance stopped paying claims after I was eligible for Medicare. Midnight Writer Feb 2022 #28
Just Med A dweller Feb 2022 #24
I turned 65 in December LetMyPeopleVote Feb 2022 #11
Wishing you an early Happy Birthday. niyad Feb 2022 #5
Happy Birthday!! Welcome to 65!! Pas-de-Calais Feb 2022 #6
Will be 65 in December coolsimo Feb 2022 #9
Happy birthday LetMyPeopleVote Feb 2022 #12
I helped an old guy at the mall move a big show case. multigraincracker Feb 2022 #13
Congratulations! BlueMTexpat Feb 2022 #14
Happy Birthday! You are a mere child (said the 78 year old - lol) patricia92243 Feb 2022 #15
Several years ago, no not decades! I got carded. Yes, I really did. They were serious! sprinkleeninow Feb 2022 #16
I will be 74 in April. I got carded for a beer at Cracker Barrel Friday. I pointed to my hair or doc03 Feb 2022 #22
Mb that's the reasonable answer! 😄 sprinkleeninow Feb 2022 #33
Happy Birthday! SheltieLover Feb 2022 #17
Yes, very good advice. sprinkleeninow Feb 2022 #35
👍 SheltieLover Feb 2022 #36
Happy Birthday!! KarenS Feb 2022 #19
Have a Happy Birthday, and remember. . . DinahMoeHum Feb 2022 #20
Tell people you will be 75, Emile Feb 2022 #21
Tip, Medicare. gov kacekwl Feb 2022 #23
I'm 66 today. malthaussen Feb 2022 #27
Same birthday. Cool. Congrats. captain queeg Feb 2022 #31
Happy Birthday! 🎂 lucca18 Feb 2022 #29
Congrats! Auggie Feb 2022 #30
Happy Birthday! petronius Feb 2022 #32
Awesome birthday wishes! 🥳 sprinkleeninow Feb 2022 #34

Skittles

(153,138 posts)
2. I was pulled over by a cop once for speeding
Sun Feb 13, 2022, 01:57 AM
Feb 2022

he mentioned my birthday, I said that's in a couple of days.....he looked at me wide-eyed and I said aw man, it's today? Argh.

Response to Skittles (Reply #2)

captain queeg

(10,154 posts)
8. I think it's automatic if you are taking social security
Sun Feb 13, 2022, 02:49 AM
Feb 2022

Which I am, but I’m keeping my retiree health care. I think it might be automatic at 65 even if you are still working. My sister told me her husband, who is still working, has Medicare now. Knowing him, I doubt he did anything to sign up, but don’t take it from me or stuff you read online. Check it out officially with Medicare. It does make me wonder if you get signed up and are still working, do they keep taking it out of your paycheck? Anyone in that situation? As I remember it was the second largest deduction from my pay, or nearly so.

KarenS

(4,071 posts)
18. I think you need to sign up for medicare anyway,,,,
Sun Feb 13, 2022, 07:40 AM
Feb 2022

I believe there is a penalty if you sign up later,,,,

Please just look into it to be sure. Better safe than sorry.

Midnight Writer

(21,738 posts)
28. My private insurance stopped paying claims after I was eligible for Medicare.
Sun Feb 13, 2022, 01:33 PM
Feb 2022

They said that Medicare should be the primary insurer and they would pay the rest.

Plus, there are penalties for late sign-up.

dweller

(23,625 posts)
24. Just Med A
Sun Feb 13, 2022, 11:22 AM
Feb 2022

If you stay on your employer insurance

Sorry I logged out after dropping what I considered to be a boring tidbit about Medicare … was I wrong 😑


✌🏻

LetMyPeopleVote

(145,079 posts)
11. I turned 65 in December
Sun Feb 13, 2022, 03:41 AM
Feb 2022

I signed up for Medicare. As a partner in my law firm, I pay for my insurance. Medicare with a supplement and drug plan is cheaper

coolsimo

(26 posts)
9. Will be 65 in December
Sun Feb 13, 2022, 02:51 AM
Feb 2022

I know what you mean, I had to sit and think for a minute if it was this year. Yep, it sure is.

multigraincracker

(32,659 posts)
13. I helped an old guy at the mall move a big show case.
Sun Feb 13, 2022, 04:33 AM
Feb 2022

He pulled out a $20 bill to give me. I said no way and he then told me how much it meant to have a young guy help him. Told me he'll be ok in a couple of year when he won't have all of his medical bills because he will be on Medi Care. I said. Sony I've been on it for 7 years.

BlueMTexpat

(15,366 posts)
14. Congratulations!
Sun Feb 13, 2022, 05:02 AM
Feb 2022

65 is a magic age. As others have stated above, you will be eligible for Medicare!

Medicare is one of the few things in the US health care system that works, which is why GQPers hate it! Yes, it could be improved, e.g., there should be no necessity for a Medigap plan, etc. But still, it is such a comfort to realize that there are no more co-pays or other hassles for the most part.

Even better, you are edging closer to being eligible for SSI. It is not a lot, but it arrives every month.

Every day, I bless all those who made Medicare and SSI into realities for US citizens.

But we still lag behind Europe in these respects. Unfortunately.

And Happy Birthday, you young thing, from one who is nearing 80!

doc03

(35,324 posts)
22. I will be 74 in April. I got carded for a beer at Cracker Barrel Friday. I pointed to my hair or
Sun Feb 13, 2022, 09:22 AM
Feb 2022

lack of it and said isn't this enough but the waitress said she has to card everyone.

sprinkleeninow

(20,235 posts)
33. Mb that's the reasonable answer! 😄
Sun Feb 13, 2022, 07:27 PM
Feb 2022

I still don't look 'my age' or even act like it.

I thot perhaps my hip chic-y hair, clothes, mannerism, my New England accent...

No matter. I had a laugh. 😄

SheltieLover

(57,073 posts)
17. Happy Birthday!
Sun Feb 13, 2022, 05:25 AM
Feb 2022


Pls remember to look into Part D Medicare. The meds plans are not automatic & there is a1% per month penalty for life for each month you wait to sign up.

Your Council on Aging is a great resource to cut red tape regarding Medicare & they can tell you in a few min. Which plan covers any meds you take & which is least expensive.

Enjoy your special day!

DinahMoeHum

(21,783 posts)
20. Have a Happy Birthday, and remember. . .
Sun Feb 13, 2022, 08:19 AM
Feb 2022

. . .growing old is not for sissies.

And don't forget your Medicare sign-up.

And if you can, wait a little longer until you reach "full retirement age" before you sign up for Social Security. (I plan to do that this August)



Emile

(22,639 posts)
21. Tell people you will be 75,
Sun Feb 13, 2022, 08:43 AM
Feb 2022

you'll get comments on how good you look for your age.

Myself, I'm old as dirt.

lucca18

(1,241 posts)
29. Happy Birthday! 🎂
Sun Feb 13, 2022, 02:27 PM
Feb 2022

I also try not to think about it!
I am happy that I am healthy and exercise a lot.

The only regret, is that I used to always complain through the years that I was getting older.
I wish I hadn’t done that because I wasted a lot of negative energy.

Have fun on your birthday!

sprinkleeninow

(20,235 posts)
34. Awesome birthday wishes! 🥳
Sun Feb 13, 2022, 07:31 PM
Feb 2022

Regarding Medicare enrollment early or full benefit age: I took early benefits after I did the math of not receiving the extra amount for 4 years. Didn't want to wait.

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