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niyad

(113,048 posts)
Sat Feb 26, 2022, 02:21 PM Feb 2022

Odd question. My little rescue kitty has severe ptsd from his life on the street.

Every sound bothers him, even a car door closing next door. It just now occurred to me to wonder if a white noise machine would help, or, like with me, the sound would make it worse for him.

Does anybody here have any experience with this? I give him Quiet Moments melatonin from Naturvet when I know that things will be really noisy, but we are looking at a major construction project in our neighborhood soon, which will be torture for both of us.

Thank you for listening.

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Odd question. My little rescue kitty has severe ptsd from his life on the street. (Original Post) niyad Feb 2022 OP
Pheremones or CBD? SheltieLover Feb 2022 #1
I cannot be around cbd's, but I will try the others you mentioned. We have a niyad Feb 2022 #12
Felliway spray helps my cat to calm down. wnylib Feb 2022 #44
Thank you. niyad Feb 2022 #46
Health store might have pheremones SheltieLover Feb 2022 #51
Thank you. Will do. niyad Feb 2022 #53
Yw! SheltieLover Feb 2022 #56
I was going to suggest Bach Flowers RR. So, cool right out of the gate. electric_blue68 Feb 2022 #50
Thank you. He is such a sweet boy. niyad Feb 2022 #54
I have had great success with pheromones. Phoenix61 Feb 2022 #2
Where does one get these? niyad Feb 2022 #13
Be careful of diffusers and scents with cats jmbar2 Feb 2022 #18
Oh my word, thank you for this. I just got one of those plug-in diffusers as a niyad Feb 2022 #22
Here is an article on diffusers and pets womanofthehills Feb 2022 #40
Thank you. A most interesting read. niyad Feb 2022 #42
This is correct, but Feliway (feline pheremone replica) is something different - it is not Kashkakat v.2.0 Feb 2022 #57
I use comfort zone and get it on Amazon. nt Phoenix61 Feb 2022 #32
Try singing quietly.it used to calm my kitten down. It might help calm you a little anyway Walleye Feb 2022 #3
Hmmm. He does like me talking to him. niyad Feb 2022 #14
Try Feliway diffusers nt XanaDUer2 Feb 2022 #4
Where does one get these? niyad Feb 2022 #15
Most pet stores carry them, and Amazon (of course). Ocelot II Feb 2022 #23
Will check next time I am there, so thank you. niyad Feb 2022 #26
In my personal opinion comfort zone is just as Phoenix61 Feb 2022 #33
Thank you. I will look for it. niyad Feb 2022 #34
I see ads on tv XanaDUer2 Feb 2022 #31
Thank you. niyad Feb 2022 #35
Here's hoping your kitty feels better XanaDUer2 Feb 2022 #36
Thank you so much. I am hoping that at least some of the noise and activity niyad Feb 2022 #37
Sorry to hear this about your kitty. We have a rescue pup that has the same ptsd. Budi Feb 2022 #5
Thank you. I just want him to be happy and feel safe. niyad Feb 2022 #16
We play Bach cello music all the time on low volume to calm nerves - ours and dog's. n/t Peregrine Took Feb 2022 #6
Now there is a thought. niyad Feb 2022 #21
Low pitch sounds like the cello music wnylib Feb 2022 #45
He loves to cuddle, but hides under the covers when he hears noise if I am not niyad Feb 2022 #47
Aww. Poor little guy. wnylib Feb 2022 #48
I have a cat with the exact same problem. He was a feral stray kitten found in an abandoned Vinca Feb 2022 #7
Considering what that drug is used for in humans, would seriously hesitate niyad Feb 2022 #17
I trust the vet totally and I read about it online. Apparently, it's often given to both dogs Vinca Feb 2022 #24
A very wise idea. niyad Feb 2022 #25
We have a little noise machine that we use during fire cracker season, CrispyQ Feb 2022 #8
I cannot be anywhere near cbd's, or, indeed, anything from the hops family, so that niyad Feb 2022 #11
If your kitty doesn't require complete silence -- if he's OK with your TV on or music highplainsdem Feb 2022 #9
Will have to try the music. Do not have a television, but it does not seem to niyad Feb 2022 #19
Another kitty could possibly help womanofthehills Feb 2022 #41
Feliway Optimum? CousinIT Feb 2022 #10
Will check into that, thank you. niyad Feb 2022 #20
Try here, they have a sound generator that produces purring noise. Hotler Feb 2022 #27
That is an utterly fascinating site. Thank you for sharing. niyad Feb 2022 #28
I adopted a little kitten, Corgigal Feb 2022 #29
He does not like me being out of his sight, wants to be in my lap. When I am not home, niyad Feb 2022 #38
Kind of sweet he trust you. Corgigal Feb 2022 #43
Hi. Your kitty will heal over time. mysteryowl Feb 2022 #30
Oh, my guy is a cuddler as well. This new episode is happening because of a move to a niyad Feb 2022 #39
This cat rescue uses something called Zoundsforpets IcyPeas Feb 2022 #49
That is so sweet. Thank you for the link. niyad Feb 2022 #52
As always, DU'ers are the very best! No matter what the situation or problem, niyad Feb 2022 #55
One more thought - not noise related. 3catwoman3 Feb 2022 #58
Thank you. That is an excellent idea, especially as this winter has been very cold. niyad Feb 2022 #59
Our 2 took to them immediately. 3catwoman3 Feb 2022 #60
We do have heating pads and electric blankets, though. niyad Feb 2022 #61

SheltieLover

(57,073 posts)
1. Pheremones or CBD?
Sat Feb 26, 2022, 02:23 PM
Feb 2022

Play classical music?

Use Rescue Remedy or 5-Flower Essence (Bach vs FES brands, respectively. Both work.)

niyad

(113,048 posts)
12. I cannot be around cbd's, but I will try the others you mentioned. We have a
Sat Feb 26, 2022, 03:03 PM
Feb 2022

Natural Grocers right down the street.

SheltieLover

(57,073 posts)
51. Health store might have pheremones
Sun Feb 27, 2022, 06:03 AM
Feb 2022

But pet store will!

Grocer should have flower essences. As will any holistic vet. Most rescue orgs use these.

Good luck! Pls let us know how kitty is doing?

Phoenix61

(16,992 posts)
2. I have had great success with pheromones.
Sat Feb 26, 2022, 02:28 PM
Feb 2022

I got the kit that had 3 defusers and 6 bottles of pheromones. They have made a huge difference. CJ would freak out if I opened the blinds. Now he just looks at me.

niyad

(113,048 posts)
22. Oh my word, thank you for this. I just got one of those plug-in diffusers as a
Sat Feb 26, 2022, 03:21 PM
Feb 2022

loyalty gift yesterday, have not yet opened it up. Now I won't. He does not seem to mind incense (my previous cats LOVED incense!), or scented candles, but I will pay very close attention next time I use them.

Kashkakat v.2.0

(1,752 posts)
57. This is correct, but Feliway (feline pheremone replica) is something different - it is not
Sun Feb 27, 2022, 01:46 PM
Feb 2022

aromatherapy or chemical fragrance

Ocelot II

(115,584 posts)
23. Most pet stores carry them, and Amazon (of course).
Sat Feb 26, 2022, 03:47 PM
Feb 2022

I've been using a Feliway diffuser for a long time, first to calm one cat down so he didn't pee in the wrong places, and then to calm another one down so she didn't poo in the wrong places and hide from the guy who's been painting my walls. It's been working for us.

niyad

(113,048 posts)
37. Thank you so much. I am hoping that at least some of the noise and activity
Sat Feb 26, 2022, 07:29 PM
Feb 2022

will settle down, at least for a while. And I am hoping that the construction project will be canceled, for all our sakes. Fingers crossed for citizens speaking out.

 

Budi

(15,325 posts)
5. Sorry to hear this about your kitty. We have a rescue pup that has the same ptsd.
Sat Feb 26, 2022, 02:29 PM
Feb 2022

We can't take her for a walk unless we carry her part way 1st.
Every car that passes us or voice she hears triggers a shaking panic.
She has not gotten better in the 2 years we've had her.
We just let her call the shots as far as her security goes.
Its sad to witness, but we certainly do hold her in those moments.

Best of luck to you & all you can really do is provide comfort & a safe place for them.

🍃

wnylib

(21,324 posts)
45. Low pitch sounds like the cello music
Sat Feb 26, 2022, 10:49 PM
Feb 2022

should be soothing.

Try holding and cuddling the cat when it's noisy if it will tolerate being held.

Also, a comfortable small kitty cave, tunnel, or box helps them feel secure.


wnylib

(21,324 posts)
48. Aww. Poor little guy.
Sat Feb 26, 2022, 11:17 PM
Feb 2022

If he feels comfortable under the covers, let him be. But soft, low pitched music and Felliway might be soothing. I spray Felliway generously on a hand towel and put the towel near the cat. Sometimes putting the towel in the microwave for 10 or 15 seconds helps disperse the Felliway better.

Cats feel more secure and safe in small enclosures where they can hide. Mine goes into her tunnel for "safety." She came from a very hectic and unsafe home for her. I got her at 9 weeks old and already the fear and mistrust were strong in her. It took a long time for her to feel really safe. She's 6 now and still hyper alert to sounds, but no longer hides immediatelly. She perks her ears now and looks in the direction of the sound or at me, as if needing confirmation that I heard it, too and things are ok.

Besides her tunnel and Felliway, she has a comfort toy that she grabs in her mouth when she feels nervous. It is a fuzzy little wind up chicken.

It takes patience and affection for scared kitties to feel safe. A part of them will always, instinctively be alert for danger.

Vinca

(50,236 posts)
7. I have a cat with the exact same problem. He was a feral stray kitten found in an abandoned
Sat Feb 26, 2022, 02:33 PM
Feb 2022

factory with his litter. Since he was ill, he was isolated at the humane society and never socialized normally. He's now 12 years old and, despite having him since he was 5 months old, he's still nervous and jumpy around loud noises, unexpected movements and anyone who doesn't normally live in the house. The vet recently gave me 25 mg. tablets of gabapentin to try on him, but I've only used it once since I hate the idea of drugging the cat. Over-the-counter sprays, etc., haven't worked at all. I've just come to accept the fact the cat "ain't right" and can only give him a loving home until his time on earth is up.

niyad

(113,048 posts)
17. Considering what that drug is used for in humans, would seriously hesitate
Sat Feb 26, 2022, 03:08 PM
Feb 2022

giving it to a little kitty.

Like you, just trying to give him the best life possible.

Vinca

(50,236 posts)
24. I trust the vet totally and I read about it online. Apparently, it's often given to both dogs
Sat Feb 26, 2022, 03:59 PM
Feb 2022

and cats for anxiety issues. It did work the day I used it on him, but I think we'll save it for days when there's a plumber or some other stranger in the house who really freaks him out.

CrispyQ

(36,419 posts)
8. We have a little noise machine that we use during fire cracker season,
Sat Feb 26, 2022, 02:38 PM
Feb 2022

which, sadly is about 6-8 weeks long in my area. It has white noise & several other sounds, like a rainstorm, ocean waves, an oscillating fan, & lots more. I wouldn't want to go through summer without it! Our pup likes the steady rain sound best.

https://amazon.com/gp/product/B081T8QC65/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title

Oh wow, it's gone up. I know I didn't pay that much for it. More like $25.

We also use CBD oil & have had good success with that. I order from NuLeaf in Denver. They're just down the road so I get it in 1-2 days. I order CBD for myself, from them, too.

Also, I read that Amazon doesn't allow full spectrum CBD products, so don't buy products on Amazon. Some CBD dog treats we bought on Amazon didn't do a thing to lessen her stress, but the oil from above, does. That was a few years ago, so I don't know if that policy is still true.

We tried Rescue Remedy, with several animals in the past & never got results with that.

Also, can you find a secluded place, like a closet or cabinet or even a drawer, that you can sound-proof for your feline friend?

Good luck!

niyad

(113,048 posts)
11. I cannot be anywhere near cbd's, or, indeed, anything from the hops family, so that
Sat Feb 26, 2022, 03:01 PM
Feb 2022

is out. There are at least a half dozen pot pharmacies and shops within a couple of miles of me, but no help there.

He goes under the covers whenever he hears sound. So I make certain that he can get under easily.

Thank you for all your information.

highplainsdem

(48,900 posts)
9. If your kitty doesn't require complete silence -- if he's OK with your TV on or music
Sat Feb 26, 2022, 02:47 PM
Feb 2022

playing -- I'd recommend one of those at low volume. That's what I used to do with a rescued cat who was afraid of both the sound of lawn mowers and the sound of rain (not just thunder, simply rain).

niyad

(113,048 posts)
19. Will have to try the music. Do not have a television, but it does not seem to
Sat Feb 26, 2022, 03:11 PM
Feb 2022

bother him when I am watching anything on my computer, always at low volume. My guy does not like the wind at all.

womanofthehills

(8,657 posts)
41. Another kitty could possibly help
Sat Feb 26, 2022, 08:09 PM
Feb 2022

I finally had to get my dog a friend. He howled if I left him home alone. I really didn’t want to get another dog but they bonded really well and he’s fine staying home now. So now I have double the love.

CousinIT

(9,218 posts)
10. Feliway Optimum?
Sat Feb 26, 2022, 02:48 PM
Feb 2022

I haven't tried it but maybe it will help? https://us.feliway.com/products/feliway-optimum-diffuser-refill-kit-48ml-30-day

Relaxing music in the house - or if kitty can be distracted by YouTube videos (videos for cats search turns up all sorts of birdies and squirrels for kitty to watch) - usually with soft music. Distraction?

Hotler

(11,394 posts)
27. Try here, they have a sound generator that produces purring noise.
Sat Feb 26, 2022, 04:07 PM
Feb 2022

I've used it at times when i didn't feel well. There are other cool sounds also, look around.
https://mynoise.net/

Corgigal

(9,291 posts)
29. I adopted a little kitten,
Sat Feb 26, 2022, 04:59 PM
Feb 2022

years back, who was scared of everything. I ended up putting her in a big doggie crate with her litter box, and a area for her food bowl. We made a box cut out, so she could tune out the sights, and some sounds, when she had enough. She stated to feel safe in there, and we progressed from there.

Leave all your sounds alone, make her a space instead. Let her see you, smell you, and hear you.

niyad

(113,048 posts)
38. He does not like me being out of his sight, wants to be in my lap. When I am not home,
Sat Feb 26, 2022, 07:40 PM
Feb 2022

he sleeps under the covers. Too bad there are no earplugs for cats.

Corgigal

(9,291 posts)
43. Kind of sweet he trust you.
Sat Feb 26, 2022, 09:08 PM
Feb 2022

He will adapt, most of our domestic pets do.

I use to work part time in a dog kennel, and this might seem silly, but when they are all watching you because they are unsure of what is going on, I would just sing a song. It seemed to calm them. It just something to try out, you’ll figure it out.

mysteryowl

(7,361 posts)
30. Hi. Your kitty will heal over time.
Sat Feb 26, 2022, 05:29 PM
Feb 2022

I took in a part-feral stray a few years back. It was a lot of work, but it gets better. Now, my cat is a loving-friendly, cuddle-bug.

I ended up getting her a large open wire crate and put it in a quiet room. She has a shelf to rest on and gaze out a window if she wants.
I would put blankets on 1/2 of the crate top to make it cozy. She had all the comforts she needed in there.
I would interact with her intermittently and when I did, I put "Rescue Remedy" drops on her skin.
www.rescueremedy.com/en-us/
I would put a drop or two on my finger and gently rub it on her inside ear flap, or the semi hairless area on her face. It also works between their paw pads. It really works.

Also, nowadays there is CBD for pets.

The quiet safe place has become my cat's go-to over the years, all on her own. I leave the door open and I frequently can find her sleeping in her very own bed. Today for example.

Keep us update.

niyad

(113,048 posts)
39. Oh, my guy is a cuddler as well. This new episode is happening because of a move to a
Sat Feb 26, 2022, 07:48 PM
Feb 2022

new neighborhood, several neighbors moving out and in, and the neighborhood itself, not exactly quiet. I am hoping that a planned major construction project, which I knew nothing about, can be blocked. We would both be going nuts!

IcyPeas

(21,839 posts)
49. This cat rescue uses something called Zoundsforpets
Sun Feb 27, 2022, 01:51 AM
Feb 2022
Zoundz Music For Pets™ creates happier pets by reducing anxiety in dogs and cats. Scientific research inspired us to create a solution for pet professionals and pet parents caring for stressed pets.


https://www.zoundzforpets.com/


niyad

(113,048 posts)
55. As always, DU'ers are the very best! No matter what the situation or problem,
Sun Feb 27, 2022, 08:57 AM
Feb 2022

someone, or many of you, have the information, and the kindness and caring. I wish that I could hug you all. Be safe.

3catwoman3

(23,944 posts)
58. One more thought - not noise related.
Sun Feb 27, 2022, 04:56 PM
Feb 2022

You said your kitty likes to be on your lap whenever possible.

We just got our cats heated beds. They are pressure activated - turn on when the cat gets in, and off when the cat leaves. Available as a round medium size and an oval large. There is a hint of residual warmth when not occupied.

https://www.chewy.com/kh-pet-products-thermo-kitty-fashion/dp/54595?utm_source=google-product&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=12643702756&utm_content=K%26H%20Pet%20Products&utm_term=&gclid=EAIaIQobChMI8Y7uuOGg9gIVwR-tBh2pVQzdEAQYBSABEgK9V_D_BwE

I wonder if a heated bed might feel to your kitty as if he were sitting on your lap, especially if you put a T-shirt or something in there with your scent on it.

niyad

(113,048 posts)
59. Thank you. That is an excellent idea, especially as this winter has been very cold.
Sun Feb 27, 2022, 08:11 PM
Feb 2022

I will check it out.

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