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Lady Freedom Returns

(14,120 posts)
Tue Mar 8, 2022, 11:00 PM Mar 2022

My cousin Ben was killed. +quick update.

Last edited Wed Mar 9, 2022, 02:57 PM - Edit history (2)

Literally just got the news. He just got shot in the line of duty. Hit me a little hard. Believe it or not I thought I would go before he would.

He was in the army then he joined the police force. I understood their both are dangerous but....


Add: the assailant died of his gunshot wounds. Find myself upset that he can't go to court and be sentenced to jail time.


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My cousin Ben was killed. +quick update. (Original Post) Lady Freedom Returns Mar 2022 OP
So sorry Enter stage left Mar 2022 #1
Thank you. Lady Freedom Returns Mar 2022 #4
I'm so sorry. nt Phoenix61 Mar 2022 #2
Thank You! n/t Lady Freedom Returns Mar 2022 #5
Oh no, I am so very sorry. Irish_Dem Mar 2022 #3
It definitely caught me off guard. Lady Freedom Returns Mar 2022 #9
Yes, I think of my four police cousins as just doing their jobs. Irish_Dem Mar 2022 #24
So, so sorry ❤️ MLAA Mar 2022 #6
Thank You! n/t Lady Freedom Returns Mar 2022 #63
I'm so sorry..... essaynnc Mar 2022 #7
We grew up together. Lady Freedom Returns Mar 2022 #16
Oh no. Please accept my condolences. MontanaMama Mar 2022 #8
Thank You! n/t Lady Freedom Returns Mar 2022 #17
Deepest Condolences SheltieLover Mar 2022 #10
Thank You! n/t Lady Freedom Returns Mar 2022 #18
Oh, no! I am so sorry. frogmarch Mar 2022 #11
Thank You! n/t Lady Freedom Returns Mar 2022 #19
I'm so very sorry. sinkingfeeling Mar 2022 #12
Thank You! n/t Lady Freedom Returns Mar 2022 #20
I am so sorry to hear the loss of your cousin Ben bottomofthehill Mar 2022 #13
Thank You! n/t Lady Freedom Returns Mar 2022 #21
I'm so very sorry for your loss. mzmolly Mar 2022 #14
Thank You! n/t Lady Freedom Returns Mar 2022 #22
I am sorry thinkingagain Mar 2022 #15
Thank You! n/t Lady Freedom Returns Mar 2022 #23
I am so sorry Lady Freedom BootinUp Mar 2022 #25
They haven't released the information till they notified the family. Lady Freedom Returns Mar 2022 #29
How sad for you, his family, his work family, and all who loved him. Tanuki Mar 2022 #26
Thank You! n/t Lady Freedom Returns Mar 2022 #30
... Nevilledog Mar 2022 #27
Thank You! n/t Lady Freedom Returns Mar 2022 #31
I am so sorry for your loss, LFR. sheshe2 Mar 2022 #28
Thank You! n/t Lady Freedom Returns Mar 2022 #32
How sad for your family. 3catwoman3 Mar 2022 #33
I hope so to. Lady Freedom Returns Mar 2022 #34
I'm very sorry for your loss, LFR. brer cat Mar 2022 #35
Thank You Lady Freedom Returns Mar 2022 #37
I'm so sorry. Sunny Daze Mar 2022 #36
Thank You n/t Lady Freedom Returns Mar 2022 #38
I am so sorry for your loss IbogaProject Mar 2022 #39
Thank You n/t Lady Freedom Returns Mar 2022 #40
My condolences Deuxcents Mar 2022 #41
Thank You n/t Lady Freedom Returns Mar 2022 #42
🕊 Deuxcents Mar 2022 #46
omg you must be in shock, so sorry for your loss ancianita Mar 2022 #43
I'm so very sorry for your loss n/t rustysgurl Mar 2022 #44
I am so very sorry for your loss.Your DU family is here for you. niyad Mar 2022 #45
That is horrible. chowder66 Mar 2022 #47
My condolences. Grumpy Old Guy Mar 2022 #48
I'm so sorry MustLoveBeagles Mar 2022 #49
Shocking. Sorry to hear about your loss. Pepsidog Mar 2022 #50
So sorry to hear about your cousin. FuzzyRabbit Mar 2022 #51
That's awful. So sorry for your loss. Wicked Blue Mar 2022 #52
I am so sorry to hear about your cousin, LFR. smirkymonkey Mar 2022 #53
I'm sorry for your loss. samir.g Mar 2022 #54
🕯️ Duppers Mar 2022 #55
I am very sorry. murielm99 Mar 2022 #56
So sorry KT2000 Mar 2022 #57
My deepest condolences to you and your family. Boomerproud Mar 2022 #58
My deepest sympathies for you and your family! Emile Mar 2022 #59
Oh, no. AngryOldDem Mar 2022 #60
Lady, I'm very sorry. Not Heidi Mar 2022 #61
So sorry for your loss. Mad_Dem_X Mar 2022 #62
Thanks everyone. Lady Freedom Returns Mar 2022 #64
I'm so sorry for your loss wendyb-NC Mar 2022 #65
I'm very sorry. Ocelot II Mar 2022 #66

Irish_Dem

(47,457 posts)
3. Oh no, I am so very sorry.
Tue Mar 8, 2022, 11:03 PM
Mar 2022

You must still be in shock if you just heard the news.

I have four cousins who are police officers in a large city. I cannot image getting the call you just received.

Lady Freedom Returns

(14,120 posts)
9. It definitely caught me off guard.
Tue Mar 8, 2022, 11:09 PM
Mar 2022

Apparently the whole family is reaching out to each other to report the news.

He's the first in my generation of the family to die.

Irish_Dem

(47,457 posts)
24. Yes, I think of my four police cousins as just doing their jobs.
Tue Mar 8, 2022, 11:26 PM
Mar 2022

Their father and uncles were policemen too.

So it would be a shock to hear of their death on the job.

Yes the first one to die in the cousin line up is hard. Yes I am sure the family is reaching out, getting the word out.

I am glad the family is connecting now. That will help.

bottomofthehill

(8,348 posts)
13. I am so sorry to hear the loss of your cousin Ben
Tue Mar 8, 2022, 11:12 PM
Mar 2022

Police work is not easy. It is dangerous and lately, mostly thankless. He has given his life in the line of duty to protect us.

BootinUp

(47,197 posts)
25. I am so sorry Lady Freedom
Tue Mar 8, 2022, 11:27 PM
Mar 2022

Please take care of yourself and your family. His service was very honorable and brave.

Lady Freedom Returns

(14,120 posts)
29. They haven't released the information till they notified the family.
Tue Mar 8, 2022, 11:33 PM
Mar 2022

So there's not much we know yet about the circumstances. It's also an open investigation.

Thinks that is part of the stress of this.

Tanuki

(14,922 posts)
26. How sad for you, his family, his work family, and all who loved him.
Tue Mar 8, 2022, 11:27 PM
Mar 2022

He was obviously a courageous man who lived a life of service to his country and his community. May he rest in peace.


3catwoman3

(24,054 posts)
33. How sad for your family.
Tue Mar 8, 2022, 11:41 PM
Mar 2022

I hope everyone has someone to lean on so no one has to be the strong one all the time.

Deuxcents

(16,351 posts)
41. My condolences
Tue Mar 8, 2022, 11:58 PM
Mar 2022

My step father n 2 uncles n a brother in law we’re all police officers. I remember my mom n sister pacing the floor many a time, worried n waiting. I honor your cousin’s life and hope your memories will give you peace.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
53. I am so sorry to hear about your cousin, LFR.
Wed Mar 9, 2022, 01:03 AM
Mar 2022

What a terrible shock! My sincere condolences to you and your family.

Boomerproud

(7,968 posts)
58. My deepest condolences to you and your family.
Wed Mar 9, 2022, 05:58 AM
Mar 2022

My nephew is an officer so it's a source of concern in our minds and hearts.

wendyb-NC

(3,330 posts)
65. I'm so sorry for your loss
Wed Mar 9, 2022, 08:22 PM
Mar 2022

What a sad thing, to have happen. My sincere condolences to you and all who knew and loved him. He was a hero.

Take care of yourself, as you process the shock of his loss. Take care, and peace. :hug

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