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Things have improved here out here on the outer tip of Cape Cod.
We are getting used to this new house we have rented. Our daughters are now both here with their men and children, as is my brother, up from northern Virginia. We will be eating out for the first time tonight. Since my wife is a better chef than most of the fancy expensive places to eat, and loves to cook, who needs a restaurant?
The cool, rainy weather has given way to a sunny upper 70s. Today at the beach, we ran into an old friend from 40 years ago. She is a (retired?) academic who taught at Yale. Then we ran into a colleague of mine from New York City who has done very well for himself, and loves this area so much, he just bought a house here. I don't know what he paid for it, but chances are, it set him back plenty. The thing is, if you make a move like that, you are tied to the house forever, but he has decided that he wants to spend the rest of his summers here, so who's to say he made the wrong move? Chacun à son goût.
So days are once again divided between the water and food shopping, and the evenings are divided between local music and food. My family is here, and, I don't have to go ANYWHERE!! The real world starts again in two and a half weeks, but I'm in no rush.
Sunset last night over Cape Cod Bay:

ultralite001
(2,551 posts)Spectacular...
Enjoy this family time...
That is all...
DFW
(60,182 posts)Aye, Aye, cap'n!
Raven
(14,275 posts)what's happening to Nantucket. I'd be interested in your observations.
https://www.bostonglobe.com/2022/07/08/metro/sad-farewell-an-island-paradise/
DFW
(60,182 posts)DFW
(60,182 posts)Last edited Sun Jul 10, 2022, 09:05 PM - Edit history (1)
What has happened to Nantucket has happened to every island paradise I know of sooner or later. From the Big Island of Hawai'i to Ilovik (look it up) in Croatia, the fight to preserve what made the place so attractive in the first place and the wish of the islanders to sell their dwellings for big money have been in conflict for decades.
Even Billy Joel sang in his song "Downeaster Alexa" "there ain't no island left for islanders like me." Not one place has managed to find a "right" balance between the desire to preserve a place as it is/was and the island's need to bring in money from the free market to provide funds to improve life there.
Nantucket is an extreme example, but what happened there is just a preview to many Caribbean Islands, Martha's Vineyard, Oahu and Maui, soon the Big Island, etc etc etc.
The comments on the article were mostly so typical, I could have written them myself, and been 80% word for word in my guess. The filthy rich "corporate" types destroying the place with their money, the stupid "libbruls" trying to stymie the free market, blah, blah. It's always one or the other, and no one jumps in at the onset of the problem to take preventive action, because no one sees that there WILL be a problem unless some ground rules are made BEFORE it gets so acute.
The Outer Cape is sparsely enough populated so that it hasn't gotten to crisis levels yet here, but there are definitely certain areas where most locals can no longer afford to live as well as the people from outside. I know one local woman who lives in a house on land inherited from her parents. We met her the first time we came here in 1984. She still lives there, grows much of her own food, and has enough work to support the taxes on her property. But the taxes ARE horrendous, and that weighs on the locals as well. It doesn't do you much good to inherit your house if you make $35,000 gross and have to pay $15,000 in property taxes every year. It takes some kind of fortitude to refuse to sell even if the property acreage could net her maybe $2 million.
I have never been interested on owning a second home, not even here, so I have no idea what the costs are. I do know that everyone I know who DOES own a home here that serves as a second home is saddled with costs and aggravation (repairs, weather damage, whatever) beyond anything I would want to deal with, even if I COULD afford the kind of place we'd want. My wife won't hear of it. She says it's beautiful while we're here, but when we leave, she doesn't want to hear another word until next year.
alwaysinasnit
(5,624 posts)CaliforniaPeggy
(156,619 posts)And your photo looks heavenly!
Two and a half weeks is a nice long time, and I know you and your beautiful wife and your daughters and their beautiful families will enjoy every second.
Lionel and I send our very best wishes for an incredible vacation for all of you!
DFW
(60,182 posts)It's a workout for sure. Carrying ever-growing grandchildren around, walking to the Bay beach and back (LONG stairs), walking up the sand dune path at Long Nook has me panting every time. Of course, since Long Nook Beach is one of the most beautiful in all of North America, we still do it. Every year for the past 38!! Not even the Great Whites can keep us away. Of course, I have to add that no Great White Shark has bitten either of us, either, so our views are tainted by that fact.
Of course, meeting up with guys like this little fellow always make things interesting:

These little critters are NOT usually so casual about sunning themselves on a beach where humans tend to pass with some kind of regularity, so we called animal rescue, who came out, pronounced the little seal healthy enough to leave alone, put a temporary barrier around it's sunning spot, and kept it there until he/she swam off.
Karadeniz
(24,746 posts)trof
(54,274 posts)When we lived in New Hampshire we spent a couple of weeks every summer in a beautiful house on a bluff near Nobska Light.
I miss those times.
Enjoy
DFW
(60,182 posts)So you KNOW we love it, too!
BigmanPigman
(55,137 posts)DFW
(60,182 posts)I just used a bit of a close up. It's just a house. It must have a hell of a view, though.
ancianita
(43,307 posts)So even enjoy the boredom.
Thanks for your post and spectacular sunset shot.
DFW
(60,182 posts)So, I will enjoy the boredom, even if there in reality isn't too much of that.
mgardener
(2,360 posts)We will be going in the Fall.
Provincetown and Truro can't be beat.
The sunsets are spectacular!
Have a wonderful time !
2naSalit
(102,780 posts)I spent most of my childhood summers on the south shore of the cape next to Hyannis. My dad's parents lived there forever.
There are many things I miss about that place, wish I could live there.
DFW
(60,182 posts)Truro, on the other hand, has something like 2500 inhabitants spread out all over the Dunes. My work is always in big cities: Paris, Brussels, Zürich, Barcelona, München--granted, not the worst cities to work in, but cities all the same.
For one month out of the year, we want to leave all that behind.
2naSalit
(102,780 posts)It wasn't so crowded back in the 1950s and 60s, the Cape was still considered rural back then for the most part.
I haven't been back in so long, I don't know if I would be able to enjoy it with all the build up I've heard about.
DFW
(60,182 posts)Ain't nobody here but us raccoons!
2naSalit
(102,780 posts)gademocrat7
(11,940 posts)Enjoy your vacation.
CentralMass
(16,971 posts)DFW
(60,182 posts)Compared to Truro, Wellfleet is a metropolis! Almost 2800 people live there
CentralMass
(16,971 posts)Boomerproud
(9,291 posts)Wishing you and yours 2 weeks of bliss.
Niagara
(11,850 posts)Leith
(7,864 posts)until the next one.
highplainsdem
(62,134 posts)getting better and better for all of you.
FakeNoose
(41,622 posts)... but Cape Cod weather is sometimes disappointing and not always reliable. However it changes quickly, so that's the good news. People who come to Cape Cod are so down to earth and friendly, don't you think?
Love this photo. Have a wonderful time with your family.
DFW
(60,182 posts)"If you don't like the weather on the Cape, just wait a minute. Five minutes, max!"
CentralMass
(16,971 posts)It was run on the 2nd or third Saturday of October. While I sometimes ran the the 2nd leg, a 9.5 mile leg that went past the now decommissioned Plymouth nuclear power plant and up the steepest and longest hill on the Cape, i usually ran leg #7, a 13.5 mile stretch that went through Truro and Welfleet.. it was a unique way to experience the Cape in the October air. We would follow in cars from the Rock to watch the other runners and got to take the Cape's beauty at a slower pace. Although I could kick out 6 minute miles in my younger years on that 13.5 stretch That is a beautiful stretch road then through to dunes to Provincetown. Enjoy.
Hekate
(100,133 posts)Upthevibe
(10,180 posts)Wicked Blue
(8,866 posts)I adore Cape Cod, but haven't been there in years.
My favorite spot is Mayflower Beach just before sunset, when the bay is iridescent from the sun's setting rays. You can walk way, way out on the rippled sand and still only be ankle deep.
Your picture is awesome.