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DFW

(60,182 posts)
Sat Jul 9, 2022, 05:23 PM Jul 2022

Well, much as it started out poorly.....

Things have improved here out here on the outer tip of Cape Cod.

We are getting used to this new house we have rented. Our daughters are now both here with their men and children, as is my brother, up from northern Virginia. We will be eating out for the first time tonight. Since my wife is a better chef than most of the fancy expensive places to eat, and loves to cook, who needs a restaurant?

The cool, rainy weather has given way to a sunny upper 70s. Today at the beach, we ran into an old friend from 40 years ago. She is a (retired?) academic who taught at Yale. Then we ran into a colleague of mine from New York City who has done very well for himself, and loves this area so much, he just bought a house here. I don't know what he paid for it, but chances are, it set him back plenty. The thing is, if you make a move like that, you are tied to the house forever, but he has decided that he wants to spend the rest of his summers here, so who's to say he made the wrong move? Chacun à son goût.

So days are once again divided between the water and food shopping, and the evenings are divided between local music and food. My family is here, and, I don't have to go ANYWHERE!! The real world starts again in two and a half weeks, but I'm in no rush.

Sunset last night over Cape Cod Bay:

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Well, much as it started out poorly..... (Original Post) DFW Jul 2022 OP
Wow... ultralite001 Jul 2022 #1
Following your instructions to the letter! DFW Jul 2022 #23
Beautiful Sunset! I given you a link to an article that appeared in the Boston Globe today about Raven Jul 2022 #2
I will get back to this later. I do have some observations, also about the comments. n/t DFW Jul 2022 #21
Have a few minutes now DFW Jul 2022 #24
Thanks for sharing this beautiful photo. alwaysinasnit Jul 2022 #3
My dear DFW, I believe you have found your own bit of Paradise...it sounds heavenly! CaliforniaPeggy Jul 2022 #4
Thanks, Peggy! DFW Jul 2022 #25
Enjoy !!! Karadeniz Jul 2022 #5
Just dead solid perfect! trof Jul 2022 #6
For us, it's a huge 4000 mile trek to get here DFW Jul 2022 #26
That big house looks like the Kennedy compound. BigmanPigman Jul 2022 #7
Ha ha! Hardly. It's not all that big. DFW Jul 2022 #22
Tough life, D, you in a beautiful place, surrounded by love, water and food for two & a half weeks ancianita Jul 2022 #8
I bust my ass for eleven months out of the years for this DFW Jul 2022 #27
I love Cape Cod mgardener Jul 2022 #9
Enjoy while you can! 2naSalit Jul 2022 #10
Hyannis by Cape standards is almost considered urban sprawl DFW Jul 2022 #28
Can't say I blame you. 2naSalit Jul 2022 #31
Come up here to Truro DFW Jul 2022 #33
I think I might. 2naSalit Jul 2022 #34
Amazing photo! gademocrat7 Jul 2022 #11
Wellfleet? CentralMass Jul 2022 #12
Close! Truro. DFW Jul 2022 #29
I swapped the two mentally. Now I remember . It staer4s to thin out once you hit Truro. CentralMass Jul 2022 #32
Stunning photo. It almost looks like a painting Boomerproud Jul 2022 #13
Enjoy your family time and those superb sunsets! Niagara Jul 2022 #14
May you have the best vacation of your life Leith Jul 2022 #15
Gorgeous photo! And your vacation sounds amazing! I hope it just keeps highplainsdem Jul 2022 #16
You probably know this already 😎 FakeNoose Jul 2022 #17
After 38 years in a row of coming here, believe me, we know! DFW Jul 2022 #30
Years ago there was an annual 80 mile Cape Cod Relay that went from Plymouth Rick up to Race Point. CentralMass Jul 2022 #18
Gorgeous, gorgeous photo. Have a wonderful time. 💖 Hekate Jul 2022 #19
DFW...Beautiful!!!!n/t Upthevibe Jul 2022 #20
Nice Baggies Jul 2022 #35
I am so envious Wicked Blue Jul 2022 #36

Raven

(14,275 posts)
2. Beautiful Sunset! I given you a link to an article that appeared in the Boston Globe today about
Sat Jul 9, 2022, 05:31 PM
Jul 2022

what's happening to Nantucket. I'd be interested in your observations.

https://www.bostonglobe.com/2022/07/08/metro/sad-farewell-an-island-paradise/

DFW

(60,182 posts)
21. I will get back to this later. I do have some observations, also about the comments. n/t
Sun Jul 10, 2022, 10:52 AM
Jul 2022

DFW

(60,182 posts)
24. Have a few minutes now
Sun Jul 10, 2022, 07:21 PM
Jul 2022

Last edited Sun Jul 10, 2022, 09:05 PM - Edit history (1)

What has happened to Nantucket has happened to every island paradise I know of sooner or later. From the Big Island of Hawai'i to Ilovik (look it up) in Croatia, the fight to preserve what made the place so attractive in the first place and the wish of the islanders to sell their dwellings for big money have been in conflict for decades.

Even Billy Joel sang in his song "Downeaster Alexa" "there ain't no island left for islanders like me." Not one place has managed to find a "right" balance between the desire to preserve a place as it is/was and the island's need to bring in money from the free market to provide funds to improve life there.

Nantucket is an extreme example, but what happened there is just a preview to many Caribbean Islands, Martha's Vineyard, Oahu and Maui, soon the Big Island, etc etc etc.

The comments on the article were mostly so typical, I could have written them myself, and been 80% word for word in my guess. The filthy rich "corporate" types destroying the place with their money, the stupid "libbruls" trying to stymie the free market, blah, blah. It's always one or the other, and no one jumps in at the onset of the problem to take preventive action, because no one sees that there WILL be a problem unless some ground rules are made BEFORE it gets so acute.

The Outer Cape is sparsely enough populated so that it hasn't gotten to crisis levels yet here, but there are definitely certain areas where most locals can no longer afford to live as well as the people from outside. I know one local woman who lives in a house on land inherited from her parents. We met her the first time we came here in 1984. She still lives there, grows much of her own food, and has enough work to support the taxes on her property. But the taxes ARE horrendous, and that weighs on the locals as well. It doesn't do you much good to inherit your house if you make $35,000 gross and have to pay $15,000 in property taxes every year. It takes some kind of fortitude to refuse to sell even if the property acreage could net her maybe $2 million.

I have never been interested on owning a second home, not even here, so I have no idea what the costs are. I do know that everyone I know who DOES own a home here that serves as a second home is saddled with costs and aggravation (repairs, weather damage, whatever) beyond anything I would want to deal with, even if I COULD afford the kind of place we'd want. My wife won't hear of it. She says it's beautiful while we're here, but when we leave, she doesn't want to hear another word until next year.

CaliforniaPeggy

(156,619 posts)
4. My dear DFW, I believe you have found your own bit of Paradise...it sounds heavenly!
Sat Jul 9, 2022, 06:29 PM
Jul 2022

And your photo looks heavenly!

Two and a half weeks is a nice long time, and I know you and your beautiful wife and your daughters and their beautiful families will enjoy every second.

Lionel and I send our very best wishes for an incredible vacation for all of you!

DFW

(60,182 posts)
25. Thanks, Peggy!
Sun Jul 10, 2022, 07:25 PM
Jul 2022

It's a workout for sure. Carrying ever-growing grandchildren around, walking to the Bay beach and back (LONG stairs), walking up the sand dune path at Long Nook has me panting every time. Of course, since Long Nook Beach is one of the most beautiful in all of North America, we still do it. Every year for the past 38!! Not even the Great Whites can keep us away. Of course, I have to add that no Great White Shark has bitten either of us, either, so our views are tainted by that fact.

Of course, meeting up with guys like this little fellow always make things interesting:


These little critters are NOT usually so casual about sunning themselves on a beach where humans tend to pass with some kind of regularity, so we called animal rescue, who came out, pronounced the little seal healthy enough to leave alone, put a temporary barrier around it's sunning spot, and kept it there until he/she swam off.

trof

(54,274 posts)
6. Just dead solid perfect!
Sat Jul 9, 2022, 06:43 PM
Jul 2022

When we lived in New Hampshire we spent a couple of weeks every summer in a beautiful house on a bluff near Nobska Light.
I miss those times.
Enjoy

DFW

(60,182 posts)
22. Ha ha! Hardly. It's not all that big.
Sun Jul 10, 2022, 10:53 AM
Jul 2022

I just used a bit of a close up. It's just a house. It must have a hell of a view, though.

ancianita

(43,307 posts)
8. Tough life, D, you in a beautiful place, surrounded by love, water and food for two & a half weeks
Sat Jul 9, 2022, 06:47 PM
Jul 2022

So even enjoy the boredom.

Thanks for your post and spectacular sunset shot.

DFW

(60,182 posts)
27. I bust my ass for eleven months out of the years for this
Sun Jul 10, 2022, 07:42 PM
Jul 2022

So, I will enjoy the boredom, even if there in reality isn't too much of that.

mgardener

(2,360 posts)
9. I love Cape Cod
Sat Jul 9, 2022, 06:50 PM
Jul 2022

We will be going in the Fall.
Provincetown and Truro can't be beat.
The sunsets are spectacular!

Have a wonderful time !

2naSalit

(102,780 posts)
10. Enjoy while you can!
Sat Jul 9, 2022, 07:17 PM
Jul 2022

I spent most of my childhood summers on the south shore of the cape next to Hyannis. My dad's parents lived there forever.

There are many things I miss about that place, wish I could live there.

DFW

(60,182 posts)
28. Hyannis by Cape standards is almost considered urban sprawl
Sun Jul 10, 2022, 07:44 PM
Jul 2022

Truro, on the other hand, has something like 2500 inhabitants spread out all over the Dunes. My work is always in big cities: Paris, Brussels, Zürich, Barcelona, München--granted, not the worst cities to work in, but cities all the same.

For one month out of the year, we want to leave all that behind.

2naSalit

(102,780 posts)
31. Can't say I blame you.
Sun Jul 10, 2022, 07:49 PM
Jul 2022

It wasn't so crowded back in the 1950s and 60s, the Cape was still considered rural back then for the most part.

I haven't been back in so long, I don't know if I would be able to enjoy it with all the build up I've heard about.

DFW

(60,182 posts)
29. Close! Truro.
Sun Jul 10, 2022, 07:46 PM
Jul 2022

Compared to Truro, Wellfleet is a metropolis! Almost 2800 people live there

CentralMass

(16,971 posts)
32. I swapped the two mentally. Now I remember . It staer4s to thin out once you hit Truro.
Sun Jul 10, 2022, 08:36 PM
Jul 2022

highplainsdem

(62,134 posts)
16. Gorgeous photo! And your vacation sounds amazing! I hope it just keeps
Sat Jul 9, 2022, 08:13 PM
Jul 2022

getting better and better for all of you.

FakeNoose

(41,622 posts)
17. You probably know this already 😎
Sat Jul 9, 2022, 08:18 PM
Jul 2022

... but Cape Cod weather is sometimes disappointing and not always reliable. However it changes quickly, so that's the good news. People who come to Cape Cod are so down to earth and friendly, don't you think?

Love this photo. Have a wonderful time with your family.

DFW

(60,182 posts)
30. After 38 years in a row of coming here, believe me, we know!
Sun Jul 10, 2022, 07:48 PM
Jul 2022

"If you don't like the weather on the Cape, just wait a minute. Five minutes, max!"

CentralMass

(16,971 posts)
18. Years ago there was an annual 80 mile Cape Cod Relay that went from Plymouth Rick up to Race Point.
Sat Jul 9, 2022, 08:39 PM
Jul 2022

It was run on the 2nd or third Saturday of October. While I sometimes ran the the 2nd leg, a 9.5 mile leg that went past the now decommissioned Plymouth nuclear power plant and up the steepest and longest hill on the Cape, i usually ran leg #7, a 13.5 mile stretch that went through Truro and Welfleet.. it was a unique way to experience the Cape in the October air. We would follow in cars from the Rock to watch the other runners and got to take the Cape's beauty at a slower pace. Although I could kick out 6 minute miles in my younger years on that 13.5 stretch That is a beautiful stretch road then through to dunes to Provincetown. Enjoy.

Wicked Blue

(8,866 posts)
36. I am so envious
Mon Jul 11, 2022, 12:26 AM
Jul 2022

I adore Cape Cod, but haven't been there in years.

My favorite spot is Mayflower Beach just before sunset, when the bay is iridescent from the sun's setting rays. You can walk way, way out on the rippled sand and still only be ankle deep.


Your picture is awesome.

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