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geardaddy

(25,392 posts)
Thu Aug 25, 2022, 01:52 PM Aug 2022

I just found out that a good friend of mine from high school died.

I have been in touch with him over the years and last year found out he had cancer in his abdomen. He had survived bone cancer in high school and had his leg amputated. He went on to become a cardiologist and had a wonderful family of his own. He was only 57.

I'm heartbroken. He was always upbeat despite his troubles. What an amazing guy.

RIP Mike.

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I just found out that a good friend of mine from high school died. (Original Post) geardaddy Aug 2022 OP
he was a remarkable person Skittles Aug 2022 #1
Thank you Skittles geardaddy Aug 2022 #2
... Skittles Aug 2022 #5
I have four friends from childhood I still keep in close touch. We are all in our early 70's mitch96 Aug 2022 #3
Same here. geardaddy Aug 2022 #4
"Mike was a true genius and a caring individual who really helped his patients" mitch96 Aug 2022 #10
I don't think that it's sick to recognize the reality of life and death. soldierant Aug 2022 #22
Deepest condolences SheltieLover Aug 2022 #6
Thank you SheltieLover geardaddy Aug 2022 #7
Yw SheltieLover Aug 2022 #8
Condolences for your loss. IrishAfricanAmerican Aug 2022 #9
Thank you IrishAfricanAmerican geardaddy Aug 2022 #12
I'm very sorry for your loss. 57 is so young! MontanaMama Aug 2022 #11
Very sorry for your loss geardaddy Aug 2022 #13
Very sorry to hear of the loss. He sounds amazing. Defied the odds; remarkable. Evolve Dammit Aug 2022 #14
He did geardaddy Aug 2022 #15
We need his spirit and I hope you and his family will be "OK". I know that's not much. Very sorry. Evolve Dammit Aug 2022 #24
I'm very sorry. NoSheep Aug 2022 #16
Thank you nosheep geardaddy Aug 2022 #18
So sorry for your lost. May Mike Rest in Peace and May his Memory be a Blessing. iluvtennis Aug 2022 #17
Thank you iluvtennis geardaddy Aug 2022 #19
So sorry for your loss. Joinfortmill Aug 2022 #20
Thanks Joinfortmill geardaddy Aug 2022 #21
I feel your pain. I very very tired of the good dying young. While the old greedy SOBs live on & on. usaf-vet Aug 2022 #23
Thanks usaf-vet geardaddy Aug 2022 #25

mitch96

(15,802 posts)
3. I have four friends from childhood I still keep in close touch. We are all in our early 70's
Thu Aug 25, 2022, 02:15 PM
Aug 2022

Some are healthy, some more than others. Still sharp in the mind. This may sound sick but sometimes I wonder how many of us will make it thru this decade....
m

geardaddy

(25,392 posts)
4. Same here.
Thu Aug 25, 2022, 02:20 PM
Aug 2022

I have a group of high school friends that get together on and off. Mike was one who had moved away, but I still kept in touch via phone and I got to see him a couple of years ago in the city he was living in.

We're all in reasonably good health, as we're in our mid-50s. Mike was a true genius and a caring individual who really helped his patients, and who cared for his friends and family deeply.

mitch96

(15,802 posts)
10. "Mike was a true genius and a caring individual who really helped his patients"
Thu Aug 25, 2022, 03:22 PM
Aug 2022

After working in hospitals for 40+ years I can attest that is the kind of doctor/specialist you want to look for..
I'll raise a glass to Dr Mike this weekend... Guinness of course...
m

soldierant

(9,354 posts)
22. I don't think that it's sick to recognize the reality of life and death.
Thu Aug 25, 2022, 04:58 PM
Aug 2022

Your wondering is not any kind of ill wish - and sane people are aware that all life ends in death eventually.

I would be worrying what kind of fantasy world we have created - or has been created for us - that we might mistake the acceptance of reality for sickness.

SheltieLover

(80,454 posts)
8. Yw
Thu Aug 25, 2022, 03:19 PM
Aug 2022

May he find peace & happy memories help you overcome your grief.

Healing vibes on the way to you. 💓💓💓

MontanaMama

(24,722 posts)
11. I'm very sorry for your loss. 57 is so young!
Thu Aug 25, 2022, 03:25 PM
Aug 2022

The mayor of my city passed away last week at the age of 57 of pancreatic cancer. Mayor Engen was in my high school graduating class and went on to be the 50th and longest service mayor of beautiful blue Missoula. I wasn't friends with him but being the same age and as someone who has been in my periphery my whole life this affected me deeply. He was such a good person...he cared about people and worked to make the lives of his fellow citizens better every single day. He sounds a lot like your friend, Mike.

Please accept my condolences...I wish you peace during these hard days.

geardaddy

(25,392 posts)
15. He did
Thu Aug 25, 2022, 03:54 PM
Aug 2022

and he really lived life. I was inspired by him. And the great thing was he had an incredible wit and was so humble.

Evolve Dammit

(21,774 posts)
24. We need his spirit and I hope you and his family will be "OK". I know that's not much. Very sorry.
Thu Aug 25, 2022, 06:43 PM
Aug 2022

usaf-vet

(7,811 posts)
23. I feel your pain. I very very tired of the good dying young. While the old greedy SOBs live on & on.
Thu Aug 25, 2022, 06:34 PM
Aug 2022
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