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True Dough

(26,667 posts)
Sat Oct 8, 2022, 10:08 AM Oct 2022

What are you liking less and less as you get older?

For me, it's cold weather. And BS, I have no tolerance for people peeing on my shoe and telling me it's raining. Get outta here!

*Not that anyone ever liked BS (other than the MAGA crowd).

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What are you liking less and less as you get older? (Original Post) True Dough Oct 2022 OP
People! Hugh_Lebowski Oct 2022 #1
Republican people. Funtatlaguy Oct 2022 #2
K&R!!!! And all Maggots now. n/t RKP5637 Oct 2022 #4
We may be cut from the same fabric! Chainfire Oct 2022 #11
+1 I'm turning into a misanthrope. No bullshit allowed, I don't fight I just walk away in disgust. mitch96 Oct 2022 #28
Whiny lying asshole republicans! Emile Oct 2022 #3
Just getting older. TreasonousBastard Oct 2022 #5
Driving at night. gab13by13 Oct 2022 #6
Chocolate quaint Oct 2022 #7
Whoa! Let's explore... True Dough Oct 2022 #10
Upsetting to lose one's go-to mood fix. quaint Oct 2022 #13
I'm not one to question hormones (my wife taught me that lesson) True Dough Oct 2022 #17
Chocolate? True Blue American Oct 2022 #12
I've been lacto-ova-vegetarian for 55 years. quaint Oct 2022 #15
Well, we have those too. Sorry about True Blue American Oct 2022 #35
Love pineapple in all forms. quaint Oct 2022 #42
See if I can post this. True Blue American Oct 2022 #46
Thanks so much. quaint Oct 2022 #48
I just made one True Blue American Oct 2022 #51
Sounds great. quaint Oct 2022 #53
My Son,DIL and Grandson brought Ky, fried chicken tenders, True Blue American Oct 2022 #66
I'm just a dairy-eating vegetarian. quaint Oct 2022 #73
Great! True Blue American Oct 2022 #74
Delusional folk DUgosh Oct 2022 #8
Agreed! FalloutShelter Oct 2022 #22
Hot weather, other people, and stupid, hateful Republicans. Polly Hennessey Oct 2022 #9
Hot weather gets me down too. My cooling system doesn't work like it used to. Chainfire Oct 2022 #14
I'm with you there. Diamond_Dog Oct 2022 #20
There are only so many clothes one can remove. FalloutShelter Oct 2022 #23
I live in Florida, if you remove too many clothes the mosquitos will haul you away. Chainfire Oct 2022 #24
LOL FalloutShelter Oct 2022 #27
The last time I wore shorts, I had to go get an infusion of two units of whole blood. Chainfire Oct 2022 #34
:) True Blue American Oct 2022 #36
Yea, and if it was not mosquitos, it is the bathing beauties that won't leave a fellow alone. Chainfire Oct 2022 #59
I feel for you! True Blue American Oct 2022 #68
It is the same thing that they do! Chainfire Oct 2022 #70
Yes, Mr Trump, sir, all those bathing beauties, it's worse than ... JustABozoOnThisBus Oct 2022 #69
Trumpsters Meadowoak Oct 2022 #16
Republicans Xoan Oct 2022 #18
Just about anything on TV besides my favorite sports teams Diamond_Dog Oct 2022 #19
Texting is fine, though! True Blue American Oct 2022 #37
For me, it's hot weather. Aristus Oct 2022 #21
Moved east from W. Seattle, Prairie_Seagull Oct 2022 #49
Organized religion and toxic masculinity Sucha NastyWoman Oct 2022 #25
Putting down the coffee and going to work RainCaster Oct 2022 #26
People's stupidity AKwannabe Oct 2022 #29
You did just fine. True Blue American Oct 2022 #38
one of the many plusses of getting old is agingdem Oct 2022 #55
Good for you! True Blue American Oct 2022 #72
Me too. I f*****g hate stupid people. Aristus Oct 2022 #52
Commercials. Sneederbunk Oct 2022 #30
Yes, yes, yes,. So annoying, we watch some of the old shows, Mary Tyler Moore, Bob Newhart, etc...... a kennedy Oct 2022 #33
Long term goals... multigraincracker Oct 2022 #31
Hearing less I_UndergroundPanther Oct 2022 #32
Closed Captaining works! True Blue American Oct 2022 #40
I use closed captioning alot. I_UndergroundPanther Oct 2022 #62
I thought all the old movies True Blue American Oct 2022 #67
did you see this post in the Classic Film group: IcyPeas Oct 2022 #71
Flat screen TVs usually have sucky speakers. I got a $50 soundbar that really helps. Midnight Writer Oct 2022 #60
Business people pretty much ruling the world. Buckeye_Democrat Oct 2022 #39
Other people n/r al_liberal Oct 2022 #41
Getting old and starting to fall apart at the seams. MOMFUDSKI Oct 2022 #43
If it will make you feel better True Blue American Oct 2022 #47
All of the above. I hate cold weather. Putting on a coat every Boomerproud Oct 2022 #44
Professional (and "amateur") sports. malthaussen Oct 2022 #45
Damn! Now you made me realize it's not 'other people' peeing on my shoe. keithbvadu2 Oct 2022 #50
Are you "leaking" something to us here, keith? True Dough Oct 2022 #56
Welllllllllllllllll,,, keithbvadu2 Oct 2022 #64
Older people who focus too much on getting older and accept limitations they highplainsdem Oct 2022 #54
+1 Jade Fox Oct 2022 #58
Republicans. Elessar Zappa Oct 2022 #57
Hot weather, rude people, and crazy drivers. Midnight Writer Oct 2022 #61
Music, especially most "music" since the turn of the century. Efilroft Sul Oct 2022 #63
Couldn't agree with you more. Boomerproud Oct 2022 #65
I'm good. Dysfunctional Oct 2022 #75
 

Chainfire

(17,757 posts)
11. We may be cut from the same fabric!
Sat Oct 8, 2022, 10:28 AM
Oct 2022

Other than my immediate family, I don't like anyone! All of my former friends and part of my family have turned to Trumpers.

mitch96

(15,802 posts)
28. +1 I'm turning into a misanthrope. No bullshit allowed, I don't fight I just walk away in disgust.
Sat Oct 8, 2022, 11:10 AM
Oct 2022

True Dough

(26,667 posts)
10. Whoa! Let's explore...
Sat Oct 8, 2022, 10:28 AM
Oct 2022

Were you once a lover of chocolate but your tastes are changing? Does it have unpleasant side effects now? Is it dark chocolate? Milk chocolate? White chocolate? All chocolate?

I'm very sorry to hear this, quaint. Chocolate is one of life's guilty pleasures, IMO.

quaint

(5,078 posts)
13. Upsetting to lose one's go-to mood fix.
Sat Oct 8, 2022, 10:30 AM
Oct 2022

I blame loss of certain hormones.
Moved on...

Still like dark chocolate, don't love any longer.
What's mike?

True Dough

(26,667 posts)
17. I'm not one to question hormones (my wife taught me that lesson)
Sat Oct 8, 2022, 10:43 AM
Oct 2022


Mike, BTW, is Milk, as in milk chocolate. It was a typo. Now fixed!

True Blue American

(18,579 posts)
12. Chocolate?
Sat Oct 8, 2022, 10:28 AM
Oct 2022

The older I get the more I love it!

I hate cold weather, am getting ready to make a big pot of chicken and dumplings! That always warms me. Up, or a cup of hot chocolate!

Hugs help, too!

quaint

(5,078 posts)
15. I've been lacto-ova-vegetarian for 55 years.
Sat Oct 8, 2022, 10:34 AM
Oct 2022

My current crave is mamoul. More cookies, please.

True Blue American

(18,579 posts)
35. Well, we have those too. Sorry about
Sat Oct 8, 2022, 11:32 AM
Oct 2022

Last edited Sat Oct 8, 2022, 12:15 PM - Edit history (1)

The rest. I am baking a pineaplapplecake now. Recipe I found on the net! Could you handle that? It simply uses crushed pineapple instead of the other ingredients. No oil,, even to grease the pan.

SC really at work today!

True Blue American

(18,579 posts)
51. I just made one
Sat Oct 8, 2022, 12:46 PM
Oct 2022

But used French Vanilla cake mix I already had! I am always experimenting with cakes, but this one did not even use a mixer. Cream cheese, butter and powdered sugar did. She used some of the pineapple in her icing. Paula and I did not.

True Blue American

(18,579 posts)
66. My Son,DIL and Grandson brought Ky, fried chicken tenders,
Sat Oct 8, 2022, 05:57 PM
Oct 2022

They gobbled them right up, my suggestion, we each had a piece, I kept a couple, sent the rest home with them. You will love it. So moist, takes longer to bake. I did add a couple of eggs, just stirred it up.

Can you tolerate any kind of milk! Or Coffee?

quaint

(5,078 posts)
73. I'm just a dairy-eating vegetarian.
Sat Oct 8, 2022, 07:22 PM
Oct 2022

Without meat, I still eat a balanced and yummy diet. Being active, I tend to spend more calories than I take in.
I'm healthy.

True Blue American

(18,579 posts)
74. Great!
Sat Oct 8, 2022, 07:29 PM
Oct 2022

Are you an exercise nut! I am, at the pool at 6AM for my pool class.. keeps me going. Some neuapathy. My Doctor said I was doing exactly what I should so you do the same. That cake may put a couple of Lbs. On!

DUgosh

(3,140 posts)
8. Delusional folk
Sat Oct 8, 2022, 10:25 AM
Oct 2022

Living in alternate reality - no time for those folks, and no apologies or explanations.
Climate change is hard. Extreme cold, no rain and extra hot weather is all difficult to deal.
Youngish women with daughters who don’t vote, and aren’t concerned for bodily autonomy, or the future of their daughters health decisions and access to birth control.

Diamond_Dog

(40,575 posts)
20. I'm with you there.
Sat Oct 8, 2022, 10:48 AM
Oct 2022

I don’t like being cold, but for me being too hot is just miserable.

 

Chainfire

(17,757 posts)
24. I live in Florida, if you remove too many clothes the mosquitos will haul you away.
Sat Oct 8, 2022, 11:01 AM
Oct 2022

We have mosquitos that are so big, that yesterday, I saw one standing, flat footed, propositioning my turkey.

 

Chainfire

(17,757 posts)
59. Yea, and if it was not mosquitos, it is the bathing beauties that won't leave a fellow alone.
Sat Oct 8, 2022, 02:03 PM
Oct 2022

It is a rough state.

 

Chainfire

(17,757 posts)
70. It is the same thing that they do!
Sat Oct 8, 2022, 06:16 PM
Oct 2022

Sometimes it is just a curse to be a handsome man in Florida...

(If my wife sees this, my goose is cooked)

JustABozoOnThisBus

(24,681 posts)
69. Yes, Mr Trump, sir, all those bathing beauties, it's worse than ...
Sat Oct 8, 2022, 06:10 PM
Oct 2022

... getting drafted and getting sent to Vietnam.

A rough state, indeed.

Diamond_Dog

(40,575 posts)
19. Just about anything on TV besides my favorite sports teams
Sat Oct 8, 2022, 10:47 AM
Oct 2022

Waiting, as in a doctor’s office.

Driving at night.

Republicans.

Making or taking phone calls.

Aristus

(72,180 posts)
21. For me, it's hot weather.
Sat Oct 8, 2022, 10:50 AM
Oct 2022

Notwithstanding the fact that the weather is getting hotter and hotter as I get older.

I grew up in warm climates before moving to the Pacific Northwest. I grew accustomed to cold rainy weather, which suits my solitary, reclusive nature.

I dread the approach of summer now. Bright sunny days make me feel guilty for staying inside.

Prairie_Seagull

(4,688 posts)
49. Moved east from W. Seattle,
Sat Oct 8, 2022, 12:28 PM
Oct 2022

and by far not the only but just the most recent is wildfire smoke. Not age related really but it is newish.

AKwannabe

(6,890 posts)
29. People's stupidity
Sat Oct 8, 2022, 11:11 AM
Oct 2022

Gonna be real cranky as I age and I got no tolerance for stupidity! Stupid fucking tRump voters at the TIP TOP of my list. Stupid fucking tRump insurrectionists nosing right up the other group’s stupid asses. Stupid fucking SC acting like their aren’t two other branches of govt and literally killing from the bench.

I could go on…but I think it would take too long!

agingdem

(8,847 posts)
55. one of the many plusses of getting old is
Sat Oct 8, 2022, 01:25 PM
Oct 2022

the little filter in your head that flashes "DON'T SAY THAT!!!" disappears, and decades of words and thoughts come spilling out and it's exhilarating.. in my younger days, my mommy days, my wife of an attorney days, I kept my mouth shut for the sake of my family, but now as a widow with adult children/grandchildren living their lives hundreds of miles away, I find living alone liberating not lonely...no compromising, no holding back for fear of offending..getting old is not bad

I will say this..I hate standing in line, I hate stupid people giving me unsolicited advise, I despise Trump and the Republican Party as a whole (sorry Liz Cheney, but your moment of conscience does not move you into my saint column..you and I do not detest Trump for the same reasons)..and as much as I love my family, I do not trust them to respect my wishes...if I need help, I'll ask..



True Blue American

(18,579 posts)
72. Good for you!
Sat Oct 8, 2022, 07:17 PM
Oct 2022

We spend our lives doing what is expected of us. All good, but now is our time. We do not owe anyone anything. It is our time. I love my kids, they are good to me but they have their own life. We are still capable, have our friends and lives.

Aristus

(72,180 posts)
52. Me too. I f*****g hate stupid people.
Sat Oct 8, 2022, 12:48 PM
Oct 2022

Especially the ones who are proud of being stupid. Right-wingers love to complain that there's no shame anymore. If they think shame is such a good thing, they can bring it back by being ashamed of their stupidity and ignorance.

a kennedy

(35,977 posts)
33. Yes, yes, yes,. So annoying, we watch some of the old shows, Mary Tyler Moore, Bob Newhart, etc......
Sat Oct 8, 2022, 11:26 AM
Oct 2022

and we can’t believe how FEW commercials there were during those shows!!!!! And the musical intros to each of the shows lasted dang near 5 minutes……now there is hardly any musical intro's, just ALL commercials. And how many 10 second commercials can they fit in 5 minutes anyway?? 🤬 🤬 🤬

I_UndergroundPanther

(13,369 posts)
32. Hearing less
Sat Oct 8, 2022, 11:25 AM
Oct 2022

Sometimes I have to turn up the tv to hear dialog. Hate the loud background music drowning out dialog. Hate when characters whisper.

I_UndergroundPanther

(13,369 posts)
62. I use closed captioning alot.
Sat Oct 8, 2022, 02:56 PM
Oct 2022

Some things dont have it and its usually the kinds of movies I like sadly.

Campy,horror,horror comedy and cult classics,sci fi,regular horror but not slasher type movies and occult horror. Psychological thrillers, dystopian..
The weirder the better.

Midnight Writer

(25,409 posts)
60. Flat screen TVs usually have sucky speakers. I got a $50 soundbar that really helps.
Sat Oct 8, 2022, 02:08 PM
Oct 2022

Manufacturers sacrifice speaker quality so they can keep the TVs super-flat and to keep costs down.

Buckeye_Democrat

(15,526 posts)
39. Business people pretty much ruling the world.
Sat Oct 8, 2022, 11:38 AM
Oct 2022

It's not just Trump who is a moron with too much influence.

 

MOMFUDSKI

(7,080 posts)
43. Getting old and starting to fall apart at the seams.
Sat Oct 8, 2022, 12:06 PM
Oct 2022

The whole country was catering to us boomers our entire lives. The gal at the makeup counter few years back told me they were now only offering makeup for the younger gals. That is when I knew it was over for my group. People that wear their religion on their sleeves. 25 years of diabetes which translates to being hungry/on-a-diet all that time. There is more bit this will suffice for now. Just happy to amongst fellow travelers.

True Blue American

(18,579 posts)
47. If it will make you feel better
Sat Oct 8, 2022, 12:26 PM
Oct 2022

As one who was in the cosmetics line the older you get the less make up you should use.

I once let one of the experts in Estée Lauder do a make over. When a dear friend, a young handsome man started laughing I quickly went back to my minumel make up and never went back.

Boomerproud

(9,291 posts)
44. All of the above. I hate cold weather. Putting on a coat every
Sat Oct 8, 2022, 12:14 PM
Oct 2022

time I go outside. Hate it. Also, the music and general culture of today.

malthaussen

(18,567 posts)
45. Professional (and "amateur") sports.
Sat Oct 8, 2022, 12:18 PM
Oct 2022

Mostly, it's the fault of the media, for both the incessant commercials and the idiocy of most of the sportscasters. But I am finding the rules changes made in the sports (especially instant replay officiating) are making the games far less enjoyable. True, in the case of football especially, there are rules changes necessary for the health of the players, so one can hardly fault them, but it does make the game different from when I was younger.

Commercialization has ruined a lot of things. When the NCAA started selling sponsor's rights to bowl game names, and when stadiums started being named after corporations, I began to be disenchanted with them. Okay, it's their thing, and they can do what they want to do, but I don't have to participate.

Although I was never a big fan of the Olympics, once they abandoned all pretense of "amateurism" and began permitting professionals full participation in the games, it completely invalidated them, as far as I'm concerned. Which is an overreaction, because not all Olympic athletes are professionals, but the most-publicized events are all the province of paid athletes.

Hell, at this point in history, even chess players are paid professionals. 'tis the way of the world, but that doesn't mean I have to like it.

-- Mal

keithbvadu2

(40,915 posts)
50. Damn! Now you made me realize it's not 'other people' peeing on my shoe.
Sat Oct 8, 2022, 12:38 PM
Oct 2022

Damn! Now you made me realize it's not 'other people' peeing on my shoe.

True Dough

(26,667 posts)
56. Are you "leaking" something to us here, keith?
Sat Oct 8, 2022, 01:26 PM
Oct 2022

Maybe it "Depends" on how we interpret your post?

highplainsdem

(62,135 posts)
54. Older people who focus too much on getting older and accept limitations they
Sat Oct 8, 2022, 01:13 PM
Oct 2022

shouldn't have to accept as normal.

I'm a boomer, so I remember when our generation wasn't supposed to trust anyone over 30, and 40 was old, and we saw nothing wrong with singing about hoping to die before you get old.

I'm thankful that a lot of the musicians I admired then - the ones smart enough not to kill themselves, intentionally or not, at a young age - have realized that getting older doesn't have to mean decrepit-old.

Useless-old.

Out-of-touch-old.

I'm thankful for organizations like AARP and their reminders that being older doesn't necessarily mean being less active or less creative or less involved.

I realize that some health problems that are hard to cope with are inevitable (especially if due to injuries), but a lot are preventable or reversible.

And I like to see older people focus on what they can still do, and how healthy and active they can still be.

I saw entirely too much of nursing homes during the last years of my mom's life. It left me feeling more than ever that everyone should do everything possible to avoid ending up in one. And it was particularly sad to see that a number of those people had resigned themselves to ending up in a nursing home, even when they shouldn't have, years before they ended up there. In many ways, they'd just given up.

I prefer focusing on health and creativity and staying involved and staying in touch with people, as long as possible. And focusing less on being older.



Efilroft Sul

(4,413 posts)
63. Music, especially most "music" since the turn of the century.
Sat Oct 8, 2022, 03:24 PM
Oct 2022

Which is kind of sad in my case. When I was younger, I was the go-to guy in my area for keyboards, plus I played a few sessions as a teenage trombonist with two gents who used to be in the Tonight Show Band under Doc Severinsen's direction.

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