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Quick question with probably long complex answers:
The hospital that has my mom says they have concerns that she doesnt have a safe space to go to. That seems like theyre admitting that they shouldnt release her?
(Quick background: she lives alone in a small house with her hoard. She was on her bathroom floor from last Saturday thru yesterday afternoon. She tested positive for Covid and is still weak.)
Im on my way up to the hospital, but the hospital says they dont have any beds.
choie
(4,111 posts)then be able to access home care? That would enable her to remain in her house and receive care.
MissB
(15,811 posts)She would qualify. Her only asset is a small old car and her monthly social security.
h2ebits
(645 posts)If your mom is a hoarder, then the hospital is probably correct in saying that her home is not safe for her to return to. Also, she lives alone which is problematic for care.
Have you looked into her being transferred to a nursing home? Most hospitals have a social worker on staff to help with this type of thing.
MissB
(15,811 posts)My brother owns it (bought it as a safe place for her to live). I pay a portion of the mortgage each month. Shes never owned even a portion of the house in any way.
Im hoping the patient advocate can help, Ill ask about a social worker too. She will be very resistant to anything other than her own home, sadly. To the detriment of her health.
h2ebits
(645 posts)Medicaid has strict requirements on amount of assets that can be retained and a house can be major so I'm glad to hear that is not part of her estate.
This is a difficult time for her, as well as, you and your brother. I'm sure that the patient advocate/social worker will be able to help.
choie
(4,111 posts)and it's usually best for someone to be able to remain in their home, if at all possible, and that's what having home care would enable her to do. As for eligibility, a primary residence is usually an exempted asset, as long as the home equity interest is under a certain amount.
MissB
(15,811 posts)She is likely being transferred to another hospital as this one doesnt have any beds to admit her. I had to push a bit, but the dr came back and said that her chest X-rays showed pneumonia which is enough to get her admitted.
Meanwhile Dh and I went and cleaned up her bathroom. Countless contractors garbage bags full of stuff. I think she was just walking on top of the piles to get to the toilet, which was actually clean (toilet, not floor).
I am going home and bathing in Lysol. This was my first exposure to my moms hoard and it is
bad. Really bad.
1WorldHope
(693 posts)They are the experts in all things for aging.