just need to vent

[PA_jen]

my Husband is an ass.

we are down to 1 car no problem I work from home but now I am stranded because he went on a guys trip and my mother was rushed to the hospital. she lives an 1 1/2 away from me. Husband is 2 1/2 hours away from our home has been claiming he is coming back since 11 am.

he has yet to show up! His family is in trouble I drop everything, and I am there to help but my husband is more worried about disappointing his friends than helping me.


I don't know what to do.

[MLAA]

1. OMG, I'm so sorry about Mom and sorry he is an asshole.

Is it feasible to rent a car? Or is there a bus to there?

[PA_jen]

2. no unfortunately. He claims icy road lately is slowing him down.

i am constant contact with the hospital. She has an infection but they don't know where or how to treat her until they know more.

[patricia92243]

11. He can't help icy roads. Calm down.

[PA_jen]

14. I'm sorry you are right. I also thought he was more south than he was.

[MLAA]

13. Fingers crossed!

[PA_jen]

15. thank you

[GreenWave]

3. This is a very seriously selfish guy.

I would sat do not capitalize husband, If you had vows about being together during tough times, tell him he has failed at those. And if he feels his friends and family are top priority he has become a so called husband,

Stay safe!

[PA_jen]

16. He is trying to get home.

[Duncanpup]

4. Hug's to you and thinking of your Mother

And WTF is wrong with your Hubs geez it your mom.

[PA_jen]

17. He is trying to get home.

[Scrivener7]

5. I'm so sorry. Can you rent a car? Enterprise used to advertise that they'd come to you.

If you can't rent or borrow, there is very little you CAN do. Except wait for him, and maybe talk to your mom as much as you can while you do.

Keep us posted. You will get through this.

[SheltieLover]

8. I've personally had Enterprise pick me up, so this could work!

[PA_jen]

18. enterprise wanted $100.00 a day and aren't open on the weekend( in my area)

It would have been too much. But got a care and I am going first thing in the morning. sorry.

[SheltieLover]

21. Are the roads safe?

[wnylib]

6. I can't offer any advice on what to do about your husband.

That's for you to decide.

But I can offer my opinion that he sounds thoughtless and that I can understand your frustration.

Is there anyone else near you, friend, neighbor, or relative who would be willing and able to give you transportation to see your mother?

Can you speak to someone at the hospital for information on how your mother is doing? Maybe if/when she's able to communicate you can speak with her at the hospital by phone.

[MuseRider]

7. I understand.

All you can do right now is just get through. I am sorry about your Mother. Venting helps a little but it does not solve things. Many hugs.

[PA_jen]

19. thank you

[SheltieLover]

9. Healing vibes on the way to you & mom! 💓💓💓

Get a ride? Rent a car? Talk with her on phone?

[PA_jen]

20. got a car and will go up tomrrow.

[MLAA]

24. Keep us posted!💕

[onecaliberal]

10. Keeping peaceful vibes for your mom and for you.

I hope you can get to her soon.

[PA_jen]

22. thank you

[Faux pas]

12. ...

Sorry about your mom. As to your husband....he's a guy.

[PA_jen]

23. thank you

[Laffy Kat]

25. This was exactly how my husband acted. I feel you.

He's my ex now. I hope your mother is ok.

[Skittles]

26. he needs a righteous ass-kicking, PA_jen

YES INDEED