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debm55

(60,568 posts)
Fri Mar 10, 2023, 10:32 PM Mar 2023

Looking back at your youth, was there anything that you did that now you think, I can"t believe I

was that dumb, silly, or stupid to do that? I remember going to the Drive In and smoking op----- h--- and drove home on RT 30 with my friends. It was dumb and we were lucky. Rt 30 is a main hilly highway here. I was 18. I still cringe when I think of how stupid I was.
Or driving home from Pink Floyde's concert with a friend on LSD on the Parkway through the Tunnels in Pittsburgh in 1973. Dumb.
Cousin went through a drainage pipe, down to the river. She asked me to go with her. I was afraid of rats. So I met her at the river instead. Never regretted not going through. She also crossed a railroad bridge. I declined. Never was a drinker. Slid down huge slag piles on boxes.

What did you do then, that you would never do now? And looking back are glad you made it to your 21st birthday.

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Looking back at your youth, was there anything that you did that now you think, I can"t believe I (Original Post) debm55 Mar 2023 OP
siphoned gas in the middle of the night from a car parked at a gas station Skittles Mar 2023 #1
OMG, skittles, I drove a 1965 Chevy Impala when I drove stoned. Your lucky that nothing happened debm55 Mar 2023 #3
it makes me cringe when I think about it Skittles Mar 2023 #6
I don't think so, as I tend to be 'conservative,' life-style wise, that is, elleng Mar 2023 #2
elleng, you are lucky. But in my youth, I lived sort of on the edge in certain ways and conservative debm55 Mar 2023 #5
You see "effeng" while I see True Dough Mar 2023 #10
OMG, I am so sorry, I took my meds, so I shouldn't be posting at all. I am so embarrassed. debm55 Mar 2023 #15
It's not that big a deal True Dough Mar 2023 #18
I see what you did You made me smile. debm55 Mar 2023 #35
LOL! Niagara Mar 2023 #31
I do the same-I type Siswan then I look and change. debm55 Mar 2023 #36
This message was self-deleted by its author debm55 Mar 2023 #16
I plea the 5th. Chainfire Mar 2023 #4
Chain, in your youth-late teens, young adult. I like your answer though. debm55 Mar 2023 #8
I did stupid things, the worst of which was drunk driving from the time I was 15 until I was about Chainfire Mar 2023 #13
I'm so very sorry you had to see that Chainfire. Sometimes in our youth, we feel that we are debm55 Mar 2023 #19
yes Kali Mar 2023 #7
Here it is True Dough Mar 2023 #14
I had a lotta fun Kali Mar 2023 #17
Oh yes... Ohio Joe Mar 2023 #9
Oh, so many things. Laffy Kat Mar 2023 #11
Laffy Kat, almost the same home situation here. My parents thought they only had 2 kids, not 3. It debm55 Mar 2023 #21
You are one of the strong ones. Laffy Kat Mar 2023 #27
I lived in the Denver foothills, rural, naive.. likesmountains 52 Mar 2023 #12
You were very lucky. I used to thumb to college and work as I lived out of town. Nothing happened debm55 Mar 2023 #22
Alot of drag racing my dad's 1966 Chevelle and driving narrow sinkingfeeling Mar 2023 #20
You were very lucky. My friend and his father were drag racing at a mall parking lot. Car overturned debm55 Mar 2023 #24
Riding downhill in supermarket shopping carts. Chipper Chat Mar 2023 #23
Wow, Chipper that was dangerous. You are lucky that nothing else happened. debm55 Mar 2023 #25
Utter stupidly college behavior Chipper Chat Mar 2023 #26
Knocked myself out jumping on a Slip and Slide in the front yard. mbusby Mar 2023 #28
Yes. Ocelot II Mar 2023 #29
I'm very lucky to have made it to adulthood without Phoenix61 Mar 2023 #30
I use to do backward flips off the diving board as a teenager. Niagara Mar 2023 #32
I took a quaalude and went swimming. lark Mar 2023 #33
... highplainsdem Mar 2023 #34

Skittles

(171,698 posts)
1. siphoned gas in the middle of the night from a car parked at a gas station
Fri Mar 10, 2023, 10:36 PM
Mar 2023

during the gas crisis of 1973 ......... my dad found out when my bf and I were returning the gas cans to my dad's garage.....he gave us a severe lecture, but when my bf mentioned he had "five extra gallons", my dad said, "Put it in the (his) Impala)".....

debm55

(60,568 posts)
3. OMG, skittles, I drove a 1965 Chevy Impala when I drove stoned. Your lucky that nothing happened
Fri Mar 10, 2023, 10:40 PM
Mar 2023

to you.

Skittles

(171,698 posts)
6. it makes me cringe when I think about it
Fri Mar 10, 2023, 10:44 PM
Mar 2023

but my bf had a hospitalized family member he desperately wanted to visit....

elleng

(141,926 posts)
2. I don't think so, as I tend to be 'conservative,' life-style wise, that is,
Fri Mar 10, 2023, 10:38 PM
Mar 2023

but I'll think about it.

debm55

(60,568 posts)
5. elleng, you are lucky. But in my youth, I lived sort of on the edge in certain ways and conservative
Fri Mar 10, 2023, 10:43 PM
Mar 2023

in others. You know, I honestly don't remember thinking of the dangers involved. I guess that is the downfall of youth.

debm55

(60,568 posts)
15. OMG, I am so sorry, I took my meds, so I shouldn't be posting at all. I am so embarrassed.
Fri Mar 10, 2023, 10:53 PM
Mar 2023

True Dough

(26,664 posts)
18. It's not that big a deal
Fri Mar 10, 2023, 10:56 PM
Mar 2023

I've messed up my share of usernames, demb65. Think nothing of it!

Niagara

(11,849 posts)
31. LOL!
Sat Mar 11, 2023, 09:05 AM
Mar 2023

I always want to type "Siswan" for DU'er Siwsan.


It helps me to click on the names and copy and paste.



It happens to the best of us. Most of the time I accidently leave out words in a sentence so I sound extremely intelligent. I even proofread and still have missing words.


Response to True Dough (Reply #10)

 

Chainfire

(17,757 posts)
13. I did stupid things, the worst of which was drunk driving from the time I was 15 until I was about
Fri Mar 10, 2023, 10:51 PM
Mar 2023

20. I would drive holding one hand over an eye to keep from seeing double. I was damn lucky, and brought that kind of behavior to a screeching halt when I was driving home plastered and came upon a fatal wreck that was one of my buddies who most likely was doing the same thing. There was hair, teeth any eyeballs all over the road and it was a wakeup for me.

debm55

(60,568 posts)
19. I'm so very sorry you had to see that Chainfire. Sometimes in our youth, we feel that we are
Fri Mar 10, 2023, 10:57 PM
Mar 2023

invisible and nothing will happen to us or those we love. And I 'm glad you changed your ways. My awakening was hitting a parked car. Never drove stoned again.

Laffy Kat

(16,951 posts)
11. Oh, so many things.
Fri Mar 10, 2023, 10:50 PM
Mar 2023

There was a period between 15- and 16-years-old that I was out of control. It is a miracle I didn't get killed or arrested. My parents were so wrapped up in their own lives that they really didn't have a clue about my risk-taking behaviors. Fortunately, I got it out of my system and ended up quite responsible, even working, going to school, and living on my own by the time I was 17. It could have gone either way.

debm55

(60,568 posts)
21. Laffy Kat, almost the same home situation here. My parents thought they only had 2 kids, not 3. It
Fri Mar 10, 2023, 11:08 PM
Mar 2023

very abusive. Lucky, I put myself through college. Lived up in the Nittany Mountains and worked at a factory. Got a job. Can't say I got myself together as I am still on that journey to free myself from the sexual, physical and emotional abuse. But I have come a long way.

Laffy Kat

(16,951 posts)
27. You are one of the strong ones.
Fri Mar 10, 2023, 11:36 PM
Mar 2023

It amazes me what some of us go through and come out the other side smarter and even more determined.

likesmountains 52

(4,280 posts)
12. I lived in the Denver foothills, rural, naive..
Fri Mar 10, 2023, 10:51 PM
Mar 2023

I remember skipping school a few times, driving downtown to Denver City Park, meeting some strangers ( guys) who were stationed at Lowry AFB, and going with them to their housing unit and playing cards...we could have disappeared and no one would have had a clue what happened to us. Lucky girls we were. And another time , we met a couple of guys living in a run down motel on South Santa Fe ( The Titan Manor if you know old Denver) and went to their room with them...again..escaped unscathed.

debm55

(60,568 posts)
22. You were very lucky. I used to thumb to college and work as I lived out of town. Nothing happened
Fri Mar 10, 2023, 11:12 PM
Mar 2023

but you were damn lucky. Can't see doing that today. I don't think we were dumb, just young and thinking it won't happen to us. We were lucky it didn't.

sinkingfeeling

(57,832 posts)
20. Alot of drag racing my dad's 1966 Chevelle and driving narrow
Fri Mar 10, 2023, 11:05 PM
Mar 2023

2 lane county roads at 100MPH.

debm55

(60,568 posts)
24. You were very lucky. My friend and his father were drag racing at a mall parking lot. Car overturned
Fri Mar 10, 2023, 11:15 PM
Mar 2023

Friend died. Dad was driving. RIP Mark

Chipper Chat

(10,868 posts)
23. Riding downhill in supermarket shopping carts.
Fri Mar 10, 2023, 11:13 PM
Mar 2023

This was in SAN FRANCISCO!
very stupid and dangerous. One kid got a broken arm when the cart hit a telephone pole.

Phoenix61

(18,827 posts)
30. I'm very lucky to have made it to adulthood without
Sat Mar 11, 2023, 01:50 AM
Mar 2023

injury or a police record. Too many friends did not.

Niagara

(11,849 posts)
32. I use to do backward flips off the diving board as a teenager.
Sat Mar 11, 2023, 09:09 AM
Mar 2023

The last time I did it, I got too close to the diving board and the inside of my arm had a diving board rash from the elbow to the wrist. It hurt.


I'm lucky that I didn't hit my head, knock myself out and drown in our pool.

lark

(26,080 posts)
33. I took a quaalude and went swimming.
Sat Mar 11, 2023, 10:44 AM
Mar 2023

I could barely hold on to the inner tube and didn't even really care. Luckily my sisters boyfriend is a strong swimmer and pulled me back to near the banks where I could get my feet.

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