My parents/grandparents home to the end. My elder sister in a "place" - I don't like it.

[UTUSN]

It's "independent" not "assisted" or more. And she chose it and likes it, so nothing for me to say.

*** I'm contrarian and off-by-myself, so the place like that is like the hotel from The Shining. But she likes the (make work) activities and 200+ socialization, *UGH*!

Whaddu I wanna say here. I'm 7 years behind her (76, here) and we're still in our separate but equal right minds. We've never coincided on our likes. I feel responsible, but have NO and respect NO say-so.

[NoRethugFriends]

1. So what is the problem?

[UTUSN]

2. That I don't like it but have no say-so?

[NoRethugFriends]

8. I don't understand. Why do you need to like it?

Why are you not happy that she is happy there?

[UTUSN]

10. Uh, oh-I-don't-know - *feelings*? Something like that, but I can keep explaining if need be.

[UTUSN]

5. The answer is: Chips and salsa

[elleng]

3. Sorry, U.

Johann Sebastian Bach
Orchestral Suite #4

https://weta.org/player

[UTUSN]

4. Dear elleng/beautiful soul, LOVYA, thanks!

[SharonAnn]

6. I alive in a senior living facility and love it. Lots of independence, activities if

I want to participate, and friends. I can be alone in my apartment or out in public areas.

It's really the best of both worlds.

[UTUSN]

7. Fantastic. My sister loves her place, too.

[blm]

9. ((UTUSN))

🫤

[UTUSN]

12. I never have to explain to you.

[Deuxcents]

11. I'm with you..I just turned 76 n I think about my future..

So far, I’m independent n have a good n healthy life but..what will I do when I get old?!

[UTUSN]

13. I worry about some catastrophic physical thing with notody around, but on the CHEERFUL side...

Stiff upper lip for all of us!

[Deuxcents]

14. Staying positive is my way of thinking about these things

Anything can happen but I can’t worry about what hasn’t happened yet. Stay well 🤗