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Hugh_Lebowski

(33,643 posts)
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 02:25 PM Apr 2023

I announce with a seriously grieving heart that Jean Luc crossed the rainbow bridge this morning

We knew he had a heart murmur and the vet told me if he starts coughing regularly that I should bring him in, which he had been having short coughing fits a couple times a day for the past two weeks. But it took a week before they had an opening.

They had to I guess kinda forcibly lay him on his side for a chest xray at the vet and he basically went into respiratory failure. Drugs to make him pee didn't work. He spent his last hour on oxygen but he was still really struggling and the vet said 'it's time'. Mandy and I were with him when he passed giving him love and scritches.

I had NO idea he was in that bad of shape. It's super freaking heartbreaking, I loved this cat to pieces.

My sweet, handsome boy ...

Made it to 13 years, 4 months.







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I announce with a seriously grieving heart that Jean Luc crossed the rainbow bridge this morning (Original Post) Hugh_Lebowski Apr 2023 OP
i'm so sorry. mopinko Apr 2023 #1
Hugs mercuryblues Apr 2023 #2
... 2naSalit Apr 2023 #3
So sorry for your loss MN2theMax Apr 2023 #4
So sorry! RIP, beautiful Jean Luc. Ocelot II Apr 2023 #5
I'm so very sorry. sdfernando Apr 2023 #6
Hugh, I am very sorry for the loss of you sweet little baby. You and Mandy were with him as he debm55 Apr 2023 #7
Gorgeous and loved. Losing our pets is Polly Hennessey Apr 2023 #8
Hugs malaise Apr 2023 #9
My condolences about your devestating loss, Hugh. Niagara Apr 2023 #10
I am SO SORRY, Hugh.... Diamond_Dog Apr 2023 #11
Deeply beautiful friend. No one would want to ever lose him. So sorry. Judi Lynn Apr 2023 #12
I'm so very sorry. GPV Apr 2023 #13
So so sorry montanacowboy Apr 2023 #14
So sorry Lifeafter70 Apr 2023 #15
Lady Bast, please take Your Jean Luc gently home in Your loving arms, and send peace niyad Apr 2023 #16
My heart is with you, Hugh_Lebowski. ZZenith Apr 2023 #17
... revmclaren Apr 2023 #18
So Sorry Hugh ProfessorGAC Apr 2023 #19
My condolences on your loss. He was a lovely boy. Mad_Dem_X Apr 2023 #20
So sorry . He was a handsome cat riverbendviewgal Apr 2023 #21
I am so, so sorry. Such a sweet, beautiful kitty, and highplainsdem Apr 2023 #22
So sorry for your loss Ruby Zee Apr 2023 #23
Hugh, I am so sorry about Jean Luc, peacebuzzard Apr 2023 #24
😢🕯 blm Apr 2023 #25
Sorry for your loss. yonder Apr 2023 #26
I am so sorry mgardener Apr 2023 #27
I'm very sorry. Peace and strength to you. kairos12 Apr 2023 #28
He was just beautiful! How lucky you are to have had beauty fill your eyes for 13 yrs, 4 mos!!! Karadeniz Apr 2023 #29
May Jean Luc follow a prism of light across the Rainbow Bridge and be greeted by his feline MLAA Apr 2023 #30
May Jean Luc follow a prism of light across the Rainbow Bridge and be greeted by his feline MLAA Apr 2023 #31
May Bast Welcome Him Deep State Witch Apr 2023 #32
So sorry Jilly_in_VA Apr 2023 #33
I am so very sorry for your loss of beautiful Jean Luc.💔 lucca18 Apr 2023 #34
Aw, you're a cat guy! I knew there was a reason I liked you. BlackSkimmer Apr 2023 #35
What a beautiful animal. Ligyron Apr 2023 #36
He's running in fields of flowers chasing butterflies SonofDonald Apr 2023 #37
Sorry for your lost. republianmushroom Apr 2023 #38
I'm so sorry for your loss. (((hugs))) 2 Meow Momma Apr 2023 #39
My condolences Ohio Joe Apr 2023 #40
So sorry for your loss KS Toronado Apr 2023 #41
It breaks my heart, too. Savor your memories. marbley falls Apr 2023 #42
what a gorgeous beloved guy... bluboid Apr 2023 #43
I'm so sorry CaptainTruth Apr 2023 #44
My deepest condolences. sinkingfeeling Apr 2023 #45
I am so very sorry for your loss. onecaliberal Apr 2023 #46
My heart goes out to you. kgray96057 Apr 2023 #47
So sorry. Such a handsome fellow. Stay encouraged. ❤️ littlemissmartypants Apr 2023 #48
I am so sorry. What a beautiful boy. LoisB Apr 2023 #49
My sincere condolences, Hugh Not Heidi Apr 2023 #50
Cats don't tell us something is wrong until they're ready to die Warpy Apr 2023 #51
I am so very sorry for your loss. slightlv Apr 2023 #52
Oh no. I am so sorry. IcyPeas Apr 2023 #53
Beautiful cat louslobbs Apr 2023 #54
I'm so sorry. I know that pain all too well. Sky Jewels Apr 2023 #55
My heart goes out to all of you. Hope22 Apr 2023 #56
Losing a fur kid just hurts your heart Bayard Apr 2023 #57
I feel for you. 70sEraVet Apr 2023 #58
I'm so sorry. What a beautiful kitty. yardwork Apr 2023 #59
What a beautiful kitty. nclib Apr 2023 #60
I'm so very sorry for your loss. StarryNite Apr 2023 #61
My sympathies. Sure leaves a hole. mountain grammy Apr 2023 #62
What a handsome fur bud. So sorry you've lost him... electric_blue68 Apr 2023 #63
I'm so sorry Hugh. My sympathy to you and the family livetohike Apr 2023 #64
Tears in my eyes. I am so sorry you and your wife have lost your great love. Fla Dem Apr 2023 #65
A loving peaceful end is all you could give him, and he understood. housecat Apr 2023 #66
So sad to hear you lost Jon Luc. pazzyanne Apr 2023 #67
I am so sorry. I can tell that you love this little guy. Maraya1969 Apr 2023 #68
Very sorry for you loss gohuskies Apr 2023 #69
I'm so sorry. AllyCat Apr 2023 #70
RIP Jean-Luc. Elessar Zappa Apr 2023 #71
So sorry, my friend. cayugafalls Apr 2023 #72
Condolences,Hugh_Lebowski gademocrat7 Apr 2023 #73
So very sorry Chicagogrl1 Apr 2023 #74
A classy little guy, with a classy name.. Permanut Apr 2023 #75
I understand the pain JPK Apr 2023 #76
So happy you had 13.33 years together! Sorry for your loss. Cross peacefully, Jean Luc! keopeli Apr 2023 #77
My condolences 💐 Deuxcents Apr 2023 #78
He is a handsome boy indeed. murielm99 Apr 2023 #79
So sorry... 58Sunliner Apr 2023 #80
So sorry, Hugh... MiHale Apr 2023 #81
So sorry for your loss. kacekwl Apr 2023 #82
Saddened. cachukis Apr 2023 #83
I am sooo sorry, Hugh. It is a most horrible event. judesedit Apr 2023 #84
My condolences Wild blueberry Apr 2023 #85
My deepest condolences to you💔 virgdem Apr 2023 #86
I'm so sorry. area51 Apr 2023 #87
Between the lovely color, soldierant Apr 2023 #88
He was a Blue Burmese Hugh_Lebowski Apr 2023 #111
Ah. Well, the French soldierant Apr 2023 #118
Sorry for your loss. AltairIV Apr 2023 #89
I'm so very sorry cate94 Apr 2023 #90
I am so sorry. It's so hard to know when it's the right time.. CousinIT Apr 2023 #91
So sorry Meowmee Apr 2023 #92
I am so sorry for your loss. They are family and he looks so sweet. Evolve Dammit Apr 2023 #93
💔 I'm so sorry Raine Apr 2023 #94
Oh no. I am so very sorry for your loss. Laffy Kat Apr 2023 #95
I'm so sorry Danmel Apr 2023 #96
I lost my sweet girl Lexie kitty a week ago, it's so very hard when you love them so Jack-o-Lantern Apr 2023 #97
You made him safe, Codifer Apr 2023 #98
So sorry for your loss of Jean Luc, Hugh! Different Drummer Apr 2023 #99
Man. I am sending my best thoughts. I completely get your pain brother The Polack MSgt Apr 2023 #100
My hearts aches with yours, Hugh UpInArms Apr 2023 #101
If our babies lived to be 100 years old it still BigmanPigman Apr 2023 #102
I'm sorry for the passing of Jean-Luc dai13sy Apr 2023 #103
I'm so sorry MustLoveBeagles Apr 2023 #104
My condolences raising2moredems Apr 2023 #105
He looks like he was so comfortable in the life you gave him... JudyM Apr 2023 #106
my sympathy to you Skittles Apr 2023 #107
All our condolences, Hugh_Lebowski. calimary Apr 2023 #108
I know how much it hurts and I'm so sorry ailsagirl Apr 2023 #109
Very sorry for your loss, Hugh Mousetoescamper Apr 2023 #110
Great looking cat. My condolences CentralMass Apr 2023 #112
i am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful boy. dawn5651 Apr 2023 #113
I'm sorry for your loss, he looked like a sweet little boy. Bluethroughu Apr 2023 #114
condolences llashram Apr 2023 #115
I am so sorry for your loss of Jean Luc. CottonBear Apr 2023 #116
you will miss him forever demigoddess Apr 2023 #117

debm55

(61,581 posts)
7. Hugh, I am very sorry for the loss of you sweet little baby. You and Mandy were with him as he
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 02:31 PM
Apr 2023

passed. You both loved him and he knew it. It is hard, very hard to say good bye. May all your memories be sweet ones.

Polly Hennessey

(8,956 posts)
8. Gorgeous and loved. Losing our pets is
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 02:34 PM
Apr 2023

so hard, so very hard. I love his name, Jean Luc. Looks like he had a comfy chair/sofa to lounge on. Life was good for him. Have no regrets because I know he would say to you: “Thanks for everything. I had a great time.”

Niagara

(12,092 posts)
10. My condolences about your devestating loss, Hugh.
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 02:35 PM
Apr 2023

I remember when you inherited Jean Luc.


R.I.P. Handsome boy.







Diamond_Dog

(41,000 posts)
11. I am SO SORRY, Hugh....
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 02:35 PM
Apr 2023

I know how much you loved that beautiful fur baby. I’m so sorry you’re grieving for his loss.

I’m sure he passed knowing how loved he was by you.

Judi Lynn

(164,164 posts)
12. Deeply beautiful friend. No one would want to ever lose him. So sorry.
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 02:37 PM
Apr 2023

You gave him shelter, security, appreciation, and love, and gained an indescribable presence in your life.

Maybe to be continued later in your experiences?

Let's hope the mystery to be revealed ahead will be as wonderful as you could ever hope.

Very best wishes.

montanacowboy

(6,729 posts)
14. So so sorry
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 02:38 PM
Apr 2023

such a beautiful kitty- we had a dog with the same heart problems and had to do the same thing. It's never easy and the pain is deep. But the best choice was made, an easy and caring journey to the bridge. Hugs.

Lifeafter70

(1,194 posts)
15. So sorry
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 02:43 PM
Apr 2023

When we had to make that decision for our 14 yr old pupper Snootchie Boochies it was hard to do. We were with her too, to let her know how much we loved her.

niyad

(133,934 posts)
16. Lady Bast, please take Your Jean Luc gently home in Your loving arms, and send peace
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 02:44 PM
Apr 2023

and comfort to his grieving loved ones.

My heart is breaking for the loss of your precious Jean Luc, dear Hugh. Thank you for so generously sharing him with us.

highplainsdem

(63,014 posts)
22. I am so, so sorry. Such a sweet, beautiful kitty, and
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 03:08 PM
Apr 2023

it's so hard to say goodbye. I lost two of my last four cats at about the same age (both to cancer), and even knowing that they are old cats, it's hard not to wish for at least a few more years. I wish you'd had more time with Jean Luc, but you gave him so much love in the years you had with him.

Sending hugs to you and Mandy. And I'm hoping you'll have comforting signs from Jean Luc, even though I know you don't believe in that sort of thing.

Ruby Zee

(209 posts)
23. So sorry for your loss
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 03:11 PM
Apr 2023

I had a cat hide a similar problem from me until it was too late to do anything. It's a survival adaptation to not show weakness.

peacebuzzard

(5,887 posts)
24. Hugh, I am so sorry about Jean Luc,
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 03:16 PM
Apr 2023

I have a sweet boy, Uncle Chico, a street stray I brought home 5 years ago who recently was diagnosed with a heart murmur. He seems to have very raspy breathing at times; I am going to take him to a specialist for a cardiogram, or sonogram I can't remember which.
He is probably 10. I love this kitty, and I understand your great loss of Jean Luc. . So sorry to hear about your loss.

yonder

(10,313 posts)
26. Sorry for your loss.
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 03:18 PM
Apr 2023

I don’t know why losing a four-legged friend is so tough. And they don’t usually let on that something is going on either. Just now, I watched one of our cats try to eat a yellowjacket - I think it got her but she’s looking back at me all nonchalant like “I meant to do that, ya know”.

That's just the way the beasts that let us share our lives with them are. And it doesn’t help they can’t let us know in just so many words. Especially with cats.

He's a pretty boy. Again sorry.

Karadeniz

(24,759 posts)
29. He was just beautiful! How lucky you are to have had beauty fill your eyes for 13 yrs, 4 mos!!!
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 03:22 PM
Apr 2023

MLAA

(19,794 posts)
30. May Jean Luc follow a prism of light across the Rainbow Bridge and be greeted by his feline
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 03:28 PM
Apr 2023

brothers, sisters, parents and friends from across his 9 lives.

MLAA

(19,794 posts)
31. May Jean Luc follow a prism of light across the Rainbow Bridge and be greeted by his feline
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 03:28 PM
Apr 2023

brothers, sisters, parents and friends from across his 9 lives.

Deep State Witch

(12,753 posts)
32. May Bast Welcome Him
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 03:29 PM
Apr 2023

With loving arms and kitty treats!

I lost my Tynan a week and a half ago. I miss him every day.

Jilly_in_VA

(14,616 posts)
33. So sorry
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 03:29 PM
Apr 2023

No more coughing or struggling to breathe at Rainbow Bridge. Happy trails, Jean Luc,

 

BlackSkimmer

(51,308 posts)
35. Aw, you're a cat guy! I knew there was a reason I liked you.
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 03:32 PM
Apr 2023

Very sorry to hear this.

What a beautiful cat he was.

They really do leave paw prints on our hearts.

Hugs.

SonofDonald

(2,050 posts)
37. He's running in fields of flowers chasing butterflies
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 03:41 PM
Apr 2023

I offer my condolences, cats are who they are but I can tell he was special and well loved, you can see he loved you too

Just seeing his pic makes me want to start petting air cats 🐈‍⬛

bluboid

(845 posts)
43. what a gorgeous beloved guy...
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 03:59 PM
Apr 2023

I'm so sad for your loss - cats are the most amazing characters of any species, in my book.
you are so priveleged to have loved & cared for him to the end. the love he gave you is priceless.

CaptainTruth

(8,249 posts)
44. I'm so sorry
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 03:59 PM
Apr 2023

I know how much it hurts to lose a kitty, they're members of your family.

Looking at the pictures makes me think you can take comfort in knowing that you gave him a happy life, & he knew he was loved.



Warpy

(114,650 posts)
51. Cats don't tell us something is wrong until they're ready to die
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 04:17 PM
Apr 2023

so don't feel guilty about not rushing him in sooner. As long as they enjoy any part of their lives, they keep mum about health issues.

They just don't live long enough, no matter how old they are when they go.

You're going to hurt for a while, you've lost such a good friend. Just know you did your best with him with what you had to work with. It's not like he told you he was really sick because he didn't. Cats don't do that. They prefer to enjoy life until it's time.


slightlv

(7,933 posts)
52. I am so very sorry for your loss.
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 04:21 PM
Apr 2023

May Bast bless his crossing, and may he joyfully greet you when the time is appropriate. I lost my very special friend to a medical crisis no one saw coming, as well, a year ago. There are nights when the lack of his presence curled in my arms is especially acute, even a year and month later. For such small creatures, the impact they make on our lives is huge. Wishing sweet memories for you, and may the soul ache be gentle with you.

 

Sky Jewels

(9,148 posts)
55. I'm so sorry. I know that pain all too well.
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 04:27 PM
Apr 2023

Kitties are the best and they sure make their homes in our hearts.

Bayard

(30,229 posts)
57. Losing a fur kid just hurts your heart
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 04:34 PM
Apr 2023

I've said goodbye to so many over the years, of various species, and it never gets any easier.

He knew you loved him, and appreciated you being there at the end.

StarryNite

(12,167 posts)
61. I'm so very sorry for your loss.
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 04:42 PM
Apr 2023

What a beautiful kitty. We never have our fur babies long enough.

electric_blue68

(27,232 posts)
63. What a handsome fur bud. So sorry you've lost him...
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 04:45 PM
Apr 2023

Agood friend lost her handsome black cat in a somewhat similar way several years back. He had coughing, too. Vet found something was on his heart.

So now I understand how devastating it can be.

livetohike

(24,402 posts)
64. I'm so sorry Hugh. My sympathy to you and the family
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 04:49 PM
Apr 2023

on your loss of beautiful Jean Luc. May all of your good memories help ease the sadness .

Fla Dem

(27,757 posts)
65. Tears in my eyes. I am so sorry you and your wife have lost your great love.
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 04:50 PM
Apr 2023

I know I too will be beyond heartbroken when my "Baby Girl" crosses the "Bridge". She is 17 this month and has ruled our roost since she was 4 months.


Totally understand the great emotional loss you both are experiencing. While it's painful now, may you always look back at the wonderful 14 years she completed your life with a smile and warm, loving feelings.

I and my girl send you hugs.




housecat

(3,138 posts)
66. A loving peaceful end is all you could give him, and he understood.
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 04:50 PM
Apr 2023

Beautiful cat. We had a similar experience taking Margay to the vet and leaving without him. I can still see his eyes as I held him one last time and felt the life leave his body. You will feel pain, because you loved him, but as with people, they are always with us in our memories. Never really gone.

Maraya1969

(23,548 posts)
68. I am so sorry. I can tell that you love this little guy.
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 04:51 PM
Apr 2023

I don’t know what you think of slurpy little messages like this, but the course in miracles says, “relationships never die, they just change form”

gohuskies

(1,229 posts)
69. Very sorry for you loss
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 04:51 PM
Apr 2023

Heart disease in our feline companions is so hard to treat. They hide the symptoms so well until so vulnerable. It's crushing to lose Jean Luc so unexpectedly like this. I will say a prayer for him and to you.

Permanut

(8,557 posts)
75. A classy little guy, with a classy name..
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 05:14 PM
Apr 2023

who was lucky enough to have you for a, what's the name? Not owner, or alpha male. Servant? Butler? These guys don't have owners.

Good on ya for spoiling him rotten, that's our job, and thanks for sharing him and his pics with us.

JPK

(995 posts)
76. I understand the pain
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 05:16 PM
Apr 2023

We lost our 14 year old Cocker Spaniel girl due to a pulmonary embolism. Similarly she seemed healthy and then started coughing. Took her to the vet, got the diagnosis. Had the let her go. Such a sweet soul and even now several years later we still grieve when we think about her. At the proper time, maybe you'll find a new friend to love and care for.

Deuxcents

(27,640 posts)
78. My condolences 💐
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 05:22 PM
Apr 2023

I hope the many memories you and your family have will help comfort you now and always. Our fur babies may not be here physically but they never leave our hearts..at least that’s what I’ve learned over the years 🫶

judesedit

(4,601 posts)
84. I am sooo sorry, Hugh. It is a most horrible event.
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 06:48 PM
Apr 2023

I am crying with you. Our animal friends are more loving and loyal than many of our people friends.

soldierant

(9,372 posts)
88. Between the lovely color,
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 07:23 PM
Apr 2023

the lovely eyes, and the adorable name I deduce a Chartreux. Not, of course, that there is any such thing as a not-wonderful cat. My heart (cpmplete with all the paw prints left by departed friends) is with you.

 

Hugh_Lebowski

(33,643 posts)
111. He was a Blue Burmese
Tue Apr 11, 2023, 02:45 AM
Apr 2023

I inherited him from my beloved aunt when she passed in 2021. She took care of a LOT of feral cats (at one point it was 17), but had a couple Burmese indoor cats she paid a lot of $$$ for. Bit of a splurge for her but she loved the breed and you didn't find 'em in shelters up by Yosemite, where she lived.

After she passed, he quickly became my favorite cat I've ever known ... and I've known a lot of kitties in my life

He was a little rocker dude (my aunt, who was retired, pretty much raised him on music) and seriously never cared how loud and rocking the tunes were going, he'd just chill, sleeping on my 15" subwoofer (seen in one of the pics above) while I worked all day listening to music

IOW, absolutely perfect cat for me. So sad I only got about 22 months with him after my aunt passed.

soldierant

(9,372 posts)
118. Ah. Well, the French
Tue Apr 11, 2023, 03:00 PM
Apr 2023

did spend a lot of time in SE Asia in the 20thC. So not so far off. I'veknown a Sia,ese cross who adored the Mills Brothers and a Himmy who was gug hoon Glazunov and Shostakivich. They are such individuals and, to us dull humans, so unexpected, aren't they.

AltairIV

(1,067 posts)
89. Sorry for your loss.
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 07:45 PM
Apr 2023

So very sorry for your tragic loss. Our little friends do indeed become part of our family, he was certainly a very handsome fellow.

CousinIT

(12,736 posts)
91. I am so sorry. It's so hard to know when it's the right time..
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 07:58 PM
Apr 2023

….and when to say goodbye. They hide their suffering very well and that doesn’t help.

Meowmee

(9,212 posts)
92. So sorry
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 08:04 PM
Apr 2023

Run free sweet Jean Luc, free from pain…watch over your people 🐾❤️🌈

2 of mine passed from hcm also 😿

Raine

(31,235 posts)
94. 💔 I'm so sorry
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 08:09 PM
Apr 2023
mine crossed the bridge in October I miss him everyday. It takes a long time, they're family and they leave a big empty place in your heart. 💕

R-I-P Jean Luc

Laffy Kat

(16,988 posts)
95. Oh no. I am so very sorry for your loss.
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 08:37 PM
Apr 2023

He was a beautiful cat, fur looks like velvet. I can tell he was pampered and loved. They break our hearts every effing time!

Danmel

(5,801 posts)
96. I'm so sorry
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 08:38 PM
Apr 2023

They are such a big part of our lives and it's so hard to say goodbye. Safe passage to your beautiful Jean-Luc and sending hugs to you.

Codifer

(1,211 posts)
98. You made him safe,
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 09:06 PM
Apr 2023

and happy and loved. You both had near 14 years as fellow travelers, trusted partners.

BigmanPigman

(55,499 posts)
102. If our babies lived to be 100 years old it still
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 10:29 PM
Apr 2023

would not be long enough. Please take care of yourself and be sure to allow yourself the time to grieve. It is not easy but that is why we love and miss them so much, they are not "pets", they are our children, our best friends and our constant companions through both good and rough times.

dai13sy

(570 posts)
103. I'm sorry for the passing of Jean-Luc
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 10:30 PM
Apr 2023

He is beautiful. We never get enough time with our babies. We always long for more. You and Mandy hold on tight to each other and your memories of Jean-Luc

raising2moredems

(760 posts)
105. My condolences
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 11:17 PM
Apr 2023

So hard when fur babies leave our family. You gave him a loving fur-ever home, he lacked for nothing. Yet it is still hard. There is no time table for grieving, I still grieve fur babies I lost 16, 41, 50+ years ago - they leave a hole that never heals. What lessens the grieving is the (dumped by cretins) fur babies who now have a loving, lacking for nothing fur-ever home.

JudyM

(29,785 posts)
106. He looks like he was so comfortable in the life you gave him...
Mon Apr 10, 2023, 11:20 PM
Apr 2023

he was a lucky boy to be so loved, and to obviously feel it. So sorry you guys are having to face this pain, and unexpectedly. It’s a shock to the system. Wishing you peace and comfort as much as possible.

Skittles

(172,773 posts)
107. my sympathy to you
Tue Apr 11, 2023, 12:08 AM
Apr 2023


Grieve not
nor speak of me with tears
but laugh and talk of me
as if I were beside you
I loved you so
’twas Heaven here with you

- Isla Paschal Richardson

calimary

(90,717 posts)
108. All our condolences, Hugh_Lebowski.
Tue Apr 11, 2023, 12:12 AM
Apr 2023

Sweet kitty. Looks like you gave him a good life.



He’ll meet some new friends Upstairs after he gets settled.

CottonBear

(21,615 posts)
116. I am so sorry for your loss of Jean Luc.
Tue Apr 11, 2023, 12:54 PM
Apr 2023

Jean Luc was a very, beautiful kitty.

May his spirit always remain in your heart. 💛 🐈‍⬛

demigoddess

(6,675 posts)
117. you will miss him forever
Tue Apr 11, 2023, 01:08 PM
Apr 2023

cats are like that. We lost one over 30 years ago and I still miss him.

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