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Floyd R. Turbo

(26,549 posts)
Tue Apr 18, 2023, 09:31 PM Apr 2023

Oh man! Just learned that one of my housemates from the sixties in Hollywood died in January.

We hadn’t spoken since 1970. He was an exceptional drummer who played in a few garage bands and did session work. He also sat in with a variety of groups on tour. Taking drugs fucked up his life and career. His other roommate and I both moved out in 70 due to his bullshit. At some point he moved back to our hometown where he died. As I understand it, he never again played professionally. Over the years I tried unsuccessfully to contact him. I’m unsure of the circumstances of his death. I just hope he went peacefully.

R.I.P. Allen.

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Oh man! Just learned that one of my housemates from the sixties in Hollywood died in January. (Original Post) Floyd R. Turbo Apr 2023 OP
Sorry for your loss. Meadowoak Apr 2023 #1
Thanks. Floyd R. Turbo Apr 2023 #7
❤️ ✿❧🌿❧✿ ❤️ Lucinda Apr 2023 #9
I am sorry for this. PoindexterOglethorpe Apr 2023 #2
I did in fact. A fbf posted a pic of her and her first boyfriend. The boyfriend was Allen. I Floyd R. Turbo Apr 2023 #8
Drugs and/or alcohol+bad behavior cost me quite a few friends Warpy Apr 2023 #3
I'm sorry you were not able to reconnect with your old friend. It's sad how alcohol and drugs Ziggysmom Apr 2023 #4
I'm sorry for your loss. area51 Apr 2023 #5
Started to lose some of my friends to alcohol and drugs before the end of high school Jarqui Apr 2023 #6
I'm so sorry. We've lost way too many talented musicians to highplainsdem Apr 2023 #10
Sorry Floyd. debm55 Apr 2023 #11
sorry to hear that. BlueWaveNeverEnd Apr 2023 #12

PoindexterOglethorpe

(25,868 posts)
2. I am sorry for this.
Tue Apr 18, 2023, 10:44 PM
Apr 2023

I'm going to guess that you learned about this death thanks to the internet.

I have been very grateful for the internet in letting me know about various deaths of people I know. I can think of several that I might never have heard about were it not for FB.

And yes, I also hope he went peacefully.

Floyd R. Turbo

(26,549 posts)
8. I did in fact. A fbf posted a pic of her and her first boyfriend. The boyfriend was Allen. I
Wed Apr 19, 2023, 07:51 AM
Apr 2023

followed the link to another fb page and found out about his death.

Warpy

(111,303 posts)
3. Drugs and/or alcohol+bad behavior cost me quite a few friends
Tue Apr 18, 2023, 10:51 PM
Apr 2023

and one by one, they've disappeared from the net.

I did find one a couple of weeks ago, bad alcoholic, looking his age but with clear eyes and big grin.

I won't contact him, but it made me stupidly happy to see that he'd gotten it together at some point.

Ziggysmom

(3,409 posts)
4. I'm sorry you were not able to reconnect with your old friend. It's sad how alcohol and drugs
Tue Apr 18, 2023, 11:04 PM
Apr 2023

can destroy many very talented people. Drugs cost me a few friends; alcohol cost me a husband. I admit I've tried both, but never developed any habit. I never want to judge anyone who has addiction issues; I've seen the pains they endure.

Jarqui

(10,128 posts)
6. Started to lose some of my friends to alcohol and drugs before the end of high school
Wed Apr 19, 2023, 12:21 AM
Apr 2023

Fifty years later, still losing them to drugs and alcohol ...

Some really good people.
Some losses I'll never get over.

Such a waste

highplainsdem

(49,015 posts)
10. I'm so sorry. We've lost way too many talented musicians to
Wed Apr 19, 2023, 09:28 PM
Apr 2023

drugs and/or alcohol.

I've lost friends and family members to them, too. Two were teenagers.

I hope your friend died peacefully. And that he was able to get his life turned around enough to find joy and purpose, even though the early problems ended his music career.

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