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debm55

(60,611 posts)
Wed May 31, 2023, 01:46 PM May 2023

Name something that annoys you, but doesn't seem to bother other people. For me, I need a certain

amount of personal space between me and the person I am talking to.When talking to my neighbor, he gets into my personal space, so I step back, he steps forward, and on and on. It annoys me. What annoys you? It doesn't help that he spits the words out. PS. John with the LOUD talking and spitting, I DON't need you in my face.

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Name something that annoys you, but doesn't seem to bother other people. For me, I need a certain (Original Post) debm55 May 2023 OP
People who say wryter2000 May 2023 #1
They used to teach in journalism school ... Jeebo May 2023 #13
That's what I meant wryter2000 May 2023 #26
People. ret5hd May 2023 #2
Repetition in a song... LakeArenal May 2023 #3
That's why I hate the Beatles song "Hey Jude". Jeebo May 2023 #11
I thought I was the only one who disliked that song. BlackSkimmer May 2023 #31
How about the outro to The Boxer by Simon and Garfunkel? Wounded Bear May 2023 #34
"Still a man hears what he wants to hear and disregards the rest" Harker Jun 2023 #52
People who crunch ice. sinkingfeeling May 2023 #4
Tailgators! Niagara May 2023 #5
OMG, you are so right wryter2000 May 2023 #27
Yes! BlackSkimmer May 2023 #32
mp3 format GenXer47 May 2023 #6
People who wear their baseball cap backward. Jeebo May 2023 #7
Warming up the car Lemonwurst May 2023 #8
Yeah HoosierDebbie May 2023 #37
It used to be that people did that to warm up the oil in the engine. Axelrods_Typewriter May 2023 #44
Not using turn signals--assholes. debm55 May 2023 #9
YES, and that one causes accidents too. Stuart G May 2023 #40
Coffee slurpers... Mark.b2 May 2023 #10
Or slurpers of any sort. Bleah!! Sky Jewels Jun 2023 #56
Smoke from fire pits or chimneys so reeking creosote smell invades the house. yorkster May 2023 #12
90% of all people who camp... Chakaconcarne May 2023 #14
Public use of cell phones. Chainfire May 2023 #15
That is so true!!!! Do they text each other while making whoopie-baby,baby,baby debm55 May 2023 #16
Cell phone addiction ... Jeebo May 2023 #25
Thank you! mia Jun 2023 #55
Hair Bayard May 2023 #17
Me too. debm55 May 2023 #18
Oh this drives me NUTZ. LakeArenal May 2023 #19
Saying "less" when you mean "fewer." wryter2000 May 2023 #28
It leaves almost every news anchor out. LakeArenal May 2023 #30
Catching those stink bugs in the house. You can't squeeze them with a tissue because they let off debm55 May 2023 #20
Me too! Bayard May 2023 #21
You know that they hibernate. If you are like me, they hibernate in my attic.Come summer, now, they debm55 May 2023 #24
Yes, and they can get in every crook and cranny of a log cabin Bayard May 2023 #47
Skyscraper-tall hamburger / chicken sandwiches -- like 4"++ inches high progree May 2023 #22
Blame Dagwood Bumstead for that one. Jeebo May 2023 #29
And those metal poles that onion rings are stacked on. I like mine in a basket. debm55 May 2023 #35
I hate those too! Axelrods_Typewriter May 2023 #43
One of my workarounds that sometimes works - take out all the tomatos, lettuce, progree May 2023 #45
People who turn their turn signal while turning. Biophilic May 2023 #23
Plus once you see brake lights and a slow down the signal isn't really worth anything. LakeArenal May 2023 #33
Exactly. It's a totally worthless gesture. Biophilic May 2023 #39
People talking and eating at the same time. debm55 May 2023 #36
Certain classical music pieces beaten to a pulp through constant repetition. usonian May 2023 #38
The phrase "My Bad" Nanuke May 2023 #41
the stuff that gets all over your fingers from eating Cheetos very annoying debm55 May 2023 #42
Yeah, that. GoodRaisin Jun 2023 #48
Ending a sentence with a preposition. Scottie Mom May 2023 #46
How about, "Are you coming with"? Hermit-The-Prog Jun 2023 #50
LOL... Scottie Mom Jun 2023 #51
Watching the same stupid ads get played and replayed over and over and over. GoodRaisin Jun 2023 #49
Somebody too close to me who talks with their hands, sitting in a crowded circle raccoon Jun 2023 #53
going to the store and seeing items in aisles where they don't belong. For example, milk in the debm55 Jun 2023 #54

Jeebo

(2,560 posts)
13. They used to teach in journalism school ...
Wed May 31, 2023, 02:20 PM
May 2023

Do not refer to people as "that" but always as "who" or "whom". Is this what you're referring to? I don't know if they still teach that; it has been eight years since I retired after 45 years in that school of journalism.

-- Ron

wryter2000

(47,940 posts)
26. That's what I meant
Wed May 31, 2023, 03:59 PM
May 2023

"I dislike people that vote for Republicans." Aaargh.

I just remembered the thing that really pisses me off now, though. It's the fact that TV commercials have forgotten the word "twice" exists. "Taken two times a day." "Is two times more effective." That last one makes me wonder if it's actually 1 plus 2 times more effective, equaling three times as effective. What in hell is wrong with "twice as effective"? This is almost universal these days. Even "two times as effective" would be better.

LakeArenal

(29,949 posts)
3. Repetition in a song...
Wed May 31, 2023, 01:53 PM
May 2023

🎶Jaime’s gotta gun, Jaime’s got a gun, Jaime’s got a gun!🎶

Shoot the damn gun Jaime. Shoot me if it will shut this up.

Jeebo

(2,560 posts)
11. That's why I hate the Beatles song "Hey Jude".
Wed May 31, 2023, 02:14 PM
May 2023

That song is SO damn monotonous. And I don't care that much for it even before the monotony begins, but after all the na-na-nas start, it drives me nuts. I love the Beatles, I think they are the greatest band ever, nobody else is even close, but that is one of their most popular songs and I just don't understand what other people see in it.

-- Ron

 

BlackSkimmer

(51,308 posts)
31. I thought I was the only one who disliked that song.
Wed May 31, 2023, 04:37 PM
May 2023

I think it was the first Beatles song I didn't like.

Wounded Bear

(64,324 posts)
34. How about the outro to The Boxer by Simon and Garfunkel?
Wed May 31, 2023, 04:39 PM
May 2023


Seems like 10 minutes of "Lie, lie, lie..." Love S&G, and actually love the song, but I have no problem fast forwarding through the outro.
 

GenXer47

(1,204 posts)
6. mp3 format
Wed May 31, 2023, 02:04 PM
May 2023

This compressed format was never meant for consumer use. The bass is all mud and cymbals...what are those?

Jeebo

(2,560 posts)
7. People who wear their baseball cap backward.
Wed May 31, 2023, 02:11 PM
May 2023

I always want to tell them, "Hey dude, that bill is the FRONT of that cap, not the BACK! Would you wear your pants backward? Or your shirt?"

Just one of my pet peeves.

-- Ron

Lemonwurst

(327 posts)
8. Warming up the car
Wed May 31, 2023, 02:12 PM
May 2023

I live in the upper Northeast, and people here are generally proud of how we get through the cold winters. So for the life of me I don’t understand starting a gasoline auto and letting it run for several minutes just to avoid 2-3 minutes of driving without available heat. We are after all wearing warm jackets, etc. and it’s not like we’ll take them off immediately once we get in the car.

Waste of gas, waste of money, environmental impact, really what is so great about this that I’m missing?

HoosierDebbie

(450 posts)
37. Yeah
Wed May 31, 2023, 05:14 PM
May 2023

I really hate when cars are idling near my house. Maybe warming up, maybe waiting for all passengers to load up, maybe chatting before dropping off. That sound really irritates me.

44. It used to be that people did that to warm up the oil in the engine.
Wed May 31, 2023, 06:40 PM
May 2023

Nowadays (and for the past few decaades) oil is engineered so that warming it up is no longer necessary. If you look in the manual of most modern cars, it will also specifically say there's no benefit to the practice and that it could negatively impact fuel economy. Yet, people think they need to warm the car up for it to run properly or to get good mileage.

Mark.b2

(797 posts)
10. Coffee slurpers...
Wed May 31, 2023, 02:14 PM
May 2023

The MOST unnecessary human behavior ever.

If I’m ever tried for murder, the victim will have done this in the moments before I needed to act.

yorkster

(3,832 posts)
12. Smoke from fire pits or chimneys so reeking creosote smell invades the house.
Wed May 31, 2023, 02:19 PM
May 2023

Then it's run around and shut the windows time plus swearing, of course...

 

Chainfire

(17,757 posts)
15. Public use of cell phones.
Wed May 31, 2023, 02:52 PM
May 2023

People who are oblivious to the world around them because they have cell phones glued to their faces.

When that light turns green, I don't want to wait on you to wake the hell up... Nor do I want to have to dodge you crossing the centerline as I am passing because you are texting. I find it ridiculous when I see two young people dining in at a restaurant and both of them are on their phones. It makes me wonder if they are texting while making whoopie? And then there is always the young professional who wants to make sure everyone in the place understands how important that he is by loudly talking business on his phone. It happens in restaurants, doctor's offices, grocery store lines and it makes me fantasize about poking that phone up his dumb ass. (and yes, it is almost always a he)

Jeebo

(2,560 posts)
25. Cell phone addiction ...
Wed May 31, 2023, 03:50 PM
May 2023

I have thought for a long time that we are becoming WAY too dependent on cell phones. Everywhere you go, half the people there seem to be trying to memorize whatever's on that tiny cell phone screen. It's a psychological dependency, similar to a chemical dependency.

You might enjoy this short video:



-- Ron

Bayard

(29,683 posts)
17. Hair
Wed May 31, 2023, 02:59 PM
May 2023

More of a phobia, than an annoyance. And its only human hair, not animal.

I am disgusted if I see a hair anywhere in the kitchen. And if its in food--total freak out time. Its why I use liquid soap with a pump in the bathroom. Soap with hair on it really grosses me out.

LakeArenal

(29,949 posts)
19. Oh this drives me NUTZ.
Wed May 31, 2023, 03:04 PM
May 2023

People who don’t know when to use Amount vs Number.

Or

When to use Fewer vs Less.


Nobody seems to mind.

wryter2000

(47,940 posts)
28. Saying "less" when you mean "fewer."
Wed May 31, 2023, 04:03 PM
May 2023

To me, the proper use almost always tells me the person is intelligent and eloquent.

debm55

(60,611 posts)
20. Catching those stink bugs in the house. You can't squeeze them with a tissue because they let off
Wed May 31, 2023, 03:07 PM
May 2023

that darn odor. If you flush them, they do the backstroke and come back up. End up throwing them outside.

Bayard

(29,683 posts)
21. Me too!
Wed May 31, 2023, 03:15 PM
May 2023

I REALLY hate those little bastards!

You can flush them if you pick them up with TP. My preference is to throw them in the flaming woodstove. I imagine them crackling. In warmer weather, I wad them up in something I think they can't find their way out of, and throw them in the trash. Or, spray them with soap and flush them down the drain.

Die, die die!

debm55

(60,611 posts)
24. You know that they hibernate. If you are like me, they hibernate in my attic.Come summer, now, they
Wed May 31, 2023, 03:36 PM
May 2023

starting to come down from the attic. I can't stand them. I use TP, but they just do the backstroke and I have to reflush.

Bayard

(29,683 posts)
47. Yes, and they can get in every crook and cranny of a log cabin
Wed May 31, 2023, 10:36 PM
May 2023

And they really invaded the garage. I don't bring any boxes into the house.

We never saw them until a few years ago. Then they started showing up on the houseplants.

progree

(12,975 posts)
22. Skyscraper-tall hamburger / chicken sandwiches -- like 4"++ inches high
Wed May 31, 2023, 03:30 PM
May 2023

I don't remember when this trend started in restaurants and bars, it just grew slowly. Anyway ones stacked so high it's impossible to bite into unless crushing down one end hard, and ultimately it falls apart in a mess, so one has to eat it with a knife and fork, and that's just not the same thing.

One place I go to has a Burger Mondays special, but all the choices are these monster tall things. I'd rather have two manageably - sized sandwiches.

Jeebo

(2,560 posts)
29. Blame Dagwood Bumstead for that one.
Wed May 31, 2023, 04:15 PM
May 2023

I can't get my mouth open wide enough to eat one of those. I have to cut it up into little bite-sized pieces.

-- Ron

43. I hate those too!
Wed May 31, 2023, 06:36 PM
May 2023

I need to have more bun than patty, otherwise I get sick. I don't know why, I just do. I can't eat these massive monstrosities.

I also hate those burgers you see where they have tons of toppings. Yeah, the burger has tons of toppings, then one bite and the plate has tons of toppings. Or they don't chop the onion, they use onion slices, so you have to chomp down hard to not pull the onion out. Or they use a thick, watery tomato that makes the burger soggy and blech.

They're burgers made to look good, not taste good.

progree

(12,975 posts)
45. One of my workarounds that sometimes works - take out all the tomatos, lettuce,
Wed May 31, 2023, 06:44 PM
May 2023

onions, and that becomes my "side salad". (I eat everything ). I don't like tomatos in sandwiches and I don't miss the onion in a burger, or I leave a little in. Little pickle slices -- I leave about three in.

... and if there is a bun in the middle I take that out too. Even then what's left can be really thick.

Biophilic

(6,552 posts)
23. People who turn their turn signal while turning.
Wed May 31, 2023, 03:34 PM
May 2023

Do they think it’s supposed to help the car turn?

Biophilic

(6,552 posts)
39. Exactly. It's a totally worthless gesture.
Wed May 31, 2023, 05:35 PM
May 2023

And it ticks me off every time. Oh well I suspect there are lots of things that are more dangerous, but that one gets under my skin.

usonian

(25,313 posts)
38. Certain classical music pieces beaten to a pulp through constant repetition.
Wed May 31, 2023, 05:31 PM
May 2023

While perfectly wonderful on their own, they're like that pair of lucky socks that you never wash the luck out of. Ugh.

I made a list and buried it. Lucky you!

GoodRaisin

(10,922 posts)
48. Yeah, that.
Thu Jun 1, 2023, 05:01 AM
Jun 2023

Tried licking it off my fingers, didn’t help much. Stopped buying cheetos because of that very reason and settled on Fritos instead.

Scottie Mom

(5,838 posts)
46. Ending a sentence with a preposition.
Wed May 31, 2023, 09:58 PM
May 2023

Drives me crazy. “Where are you going to?” I want to scream, “Somewhere before that fucking ‘to.’”

😖🤯😡

Hermit-The-Prog

(36,631 posts)
50. How about, "Are you coming with"?
Thu Jun 1, 2023, 06:40 AM
Jun 2023

Yeah, I'm coming with a running chainsaw. You ready to run?

GoodRaisin

(10,922 posts)
49. Watching the same stupid ads get played and replayed over and over and over.
Thu Jun 1, 2023, 05:05 AM
Jun 2023

I detest advertising.

raccoon

(32,390 posts)
53. Somebody too close to me who talks with their hands, sitting in a crowded circle
Thu Jun 1, 2023, 09:59 AM
Jun 2023

Or otherwise having to be too close.

Someone sucking their fingers at the table, Such as sucking off sauce, etc. Yuck.

debm55

(60,611 posts)
54. going to the store and seeing items in aisles where they don't belong. For example, milk in the
Thu Jun 1, 2023, 10:11 AM
Jun 2023

bread aisle, bag of oranges in the canned goods aisles, etc. Also open bags of chips or cookies.

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