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Justice wanted

(2,657 posts)
Tue Dec 27, 2011, 10:41 PM Dec 2011

Please tell me 2012 will be better.

I wouldn't wish the past year on my worse enemy.

Jan-- My friend killed herself and her family. We are the ones who called the police because we couldn't get a hold of her for a week.

Feb-- I start throwing up all night. I go up to our town hospital thinking I had the stomach flu and would give me some fluids (treat me like a drug seeker like they treat EVERYONE and send me on my way.) Find out I had an umbilical hernia. Emergency surgery to remove it end up getting Fungal pneumonia and spending 1 full month in the hospital and a total of 3 months on oxygen. Basically I wasn't back to work til may.

Since I was renting from my friend I made a deal with her estate to keep up with the grass if I got a deal on the rent. Hubby and I get a lawn morow and it kept breaking down so we ended up hiring someone and paying them. (Thought we would save money.)

Drug user broke into the empty side of the house and stole one of the few things left in the in my friend's house. The A/C and for a short time used it as a hide out.

A couple months ago our toilet began to leak. Ends up the seal at the base is basically broken down and the leak has been going on for a while (unknown to us) it ruin the carpet and floor boards underneath. Basically to fix it a new toilet is needed carpet and floor boards BUT no money in the estate to do so. Handy man who came to look at the bathroom also noticed that the roof on the empty side of the house is caving in. Basically we are going to have to find another place to live.

Last night my Aunt had a massive stroke. She is brain dead and now they have her on a vent until her son gets home to see her.



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Please tell me 2012 will be better. (Original Post) Justice wanted Dec 2011 OP
The odds are extremely good that the next year will be better for you. dimbear Dec 2011 #1
Thank you Justice wanted Dec 2011 #4
Many hugs to you tabbycat31 Dec 2011 #2
Yes, I will second that. Hugs to you as well. Justice wanted Dec 2011 #3
Promise... Dystopian Dec 2011 #5
Life is suffering. And you've had more than your share. Shoe Horn Dec 2011 #6
God, I hope so. progressoid Dec 2011 #7

dimbear

(6,271 posts)
1. The odds are extremely good that the next year will be better for you.
Tue Dec 27, 2011, 10:59 PM
Dec 2011

You have math on your side and all my good wishes.

tabbycat31

(6,336 posts)
2. Many hugs to you
Tue Dec 27, 2011, 11:06 PM
Dec 2011

My 2011 sucked too (for different reasons), and I might type up a similar post.

Let's hope that 2012 is better for both of us.

Dystopian

(6,437 posts)
5. Promise...
Tue Dec 27, 2011, 11:34 PM
Dec 2011

Justice wanted

I'm so sorry that you've endured way too much....
Life will get better for you...
I had a similar year ...about 20 years ago...
I'm still here.

Wishing you the beautiful things in life that you deserve..........
This too, shall pass .... yes, we do remember, yet the memories are not quite as painful...

I feel for you.....and your family.....
Sad about your Aunt....
May you all find peace of mind....and comfort in the joyous memories of life...



peace & love to you~

Shoe Horn

(302 posts)
6. Life is suffering. And you've had more than your share.
Wed Dec 28, 2011, 12:19 AM
Dec 2011

Time for a break, I think.

Here's wishing you a better 2012.

progressoid

(53,240 posts)
7. God, I hope so.
Wed Dec 28, 2011, 01:41 AM
Dec 2011

You need one of these:

My 2010 was like kind of like that (and part of this year too). Brother killed. Parents house flooded. Business failing. Medical bills. Etc etc etc.

I know its just another day of the year, but I really want Jan 1 to mean a new start this time.

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