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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsWhen you were a teen (or now) did you clean a room by shoving the mess in a closet or under the bed?
RandySF
(84,263 posts)underpants
(196,494 posts)My daughter moved into her dorm last weekend. I still havent been in her room. Im scared.
debm55
(60,612 posts)FalloutShelter
(14,464 posts)debm55
(60,612 posts)50 Shades Of Blue
(11,389 posts)But I do now, LOL!
debm55
(60,612 posts)MontanaMama
(24,722 posts)I was a tidy as a teen and I am now too. My folks wouldn't have put up with a messy room for one thin minute. My kiddo on the other had...yikes.
debm55
(60,612 posts)MontanaMama
(24,722 posts)There's nothing I can/will do until he goes to AK fishing with his dad next week. Mama will have her way with that closet. Count on that.
debm55
(60,612 posts)Ocelot II
(130,533 posts)because I can get away with it until I have to find something.
debm55
(60,612 posts)rsdsharp
(12,002 posts)I may be dumb, but Im not stupid.
debm55
(60,612 posts)rsdsharp
(12,002 posts)That sucker hurt when it hit you.
debm55
(60,612 posts)AnnaLee
(1,391 posts)So, yes, I shoved the mess on her side of the closet and under her bed. This left room for the good stuff to go on my side and under my bed.
debm55
(60,612 posts)grumpyduck
(6,672 posts)Sometime in high school, I decided to sort my clean laundry by partially opening each drawer of my dresser and tossing things in from the bed: T-shirts in one, boxer shorts in another, socks in another, something else in another. Not folded, just tossed. My Mom was disappointed, but I told her that they didn't need to be folded since no one would see them anyway. She just walked out of my room shaking her head.
debm55
(60,612 posts)grumpyduck
(6,672 posts)Scottie Mom
(5,838 posts)I'm just the opposite on this.
If I know that there might be a messy drawer or closet somewhere, that gets my attention first. You could blindfold me and ask me to get something in my house, and I would got right to it at least 90% of the time or better.
While I am a picky housekeeper on dusting, polishing, vacuuming, scrubbing floors, cleaning windows, etc., I have have to have closets and drawers in perfect order. It's like if I don't, I am not being honest with myself about how things really are! As in: Looks good on the surface, but a mess underneath.
Weird, huh?
debm55
(60,612 posts)Scottie Mom
(5,838 posts)...I felt like the Lone Rangerette!
The other day, I had a guest at my house and the bathroom door remained locked and locked closed after he left the bathroom. So, my guest apologized and asked for a screw driver. Told him it was not needed. I walked into my bedroom and opened a drawer and pulled out the little key that was used to open inside the house door locks. I got that key almost 19 years ago when I moved in -- new house and those keys were in plastic attached to the bathroom door locks. First time I ever had to use that key...and I knew exactly where it was. Still in the little plastic bag where it had been attached to the lock.
I just knew where it was! Go figure...
3catwoman3
(29,406 posts)My mom used to call neatness fanatics demon housekeepers. She was one. It was not nough for clothes to be put away in dresser drawers, they had to be neatly folded, too. Beds were made before leaving for school, with neat hospital square corners - she was a nurse.
On Thursday evenings, it was empty-the-wastebasket night because trash collection was on Friday, and woe to whomever was the first person to put something in the just-emptied bathroom wastebasket. I used to flush Kleenex down the commode so as not to be the one that was guilty of defiling a newly empty wastebasket.
debm55
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Scottie Mom
(5,838 posts)I learned that phrase when I was in the 6th grade and I rarely hear it used anymore. I have said it to housekeepers I have...and I usually get a puzzled look back at me.
3catwoman3
(29,406 posts)...several years ago, I decided I liked their idea of just folding back the duvet/coverlet to the foot of the bed to let the bottom sheet air out. That is what I have done ever since.
It's fast and easy, plus I get to enjoy the pretty sheets I have instead of hiding them under a bedspread/duvet/etc.
And, I would end up undoing the top sheet every night because I like my feet to be free.
Scottie Mom
(5,838 posts)If the top sheet comes loose, I will get up and remake the bed -- even in the middle of the night -- so that I can pull the top sheet taunt over me. I cannot stand to have crinkled up sheet around my feet! Hospital corners helps to prevent the crinkled sheet around my feet problem.
What I do with the top sheet when I make the bed is put is print side down and turn it over the top of the quilts I use so that the print shows in a big band just below the pillows at the top of the bed.
How interesting that something that seems so simple -- putting sheets on a bed -- is seen so differently by different people.
debm55
(60,612 posts)Mr.Bill
(24,906 posts)We told the realtor we can have it ready to be shown at any time with two hours notice. Ready means all clutter removed from countertops in the kitchen and bathroom, everything reasonably clean, no dirty dishes in the sink, bed made, etc. I have a small walk-in closet in the main bedroom with a locking door. That's where we throw everything. We have no garage, our outdoor shed is packed full to tidy up the outdoor spaces. The closet was well photographed in all the advertising about the house so no one needs to see it.
We can just about do it in one hour.
debm55
(60,612 posts)It's still there.
(fifty years later.......
)
debm55
(60,612 posts)Tree Lady
(13,282 posts)And my younger daughter did. We both laugh about it now. On family call I had to smile as my granddaughter in her mid 20's talked about learning what deep cleaning was.
debm55
(60,612 posts)Scottie Mom
(5,838 posts)...to clean corners on the linoleum floors in our house. This was back in the 1950s. Yep, Grammy deep cleaning methods!
GP6971
(38,013 posts)first place my mother looked.
ailsagirl
(24,287 posts)Bottom line is, it didnt work ☹️
debm55
(60,612 posts)ailsagirl
(24,287 posts)I finally woke to the fact that she wasnt born yesterday.
ailsagirl
(24,287 posts)When I was a boy of 14, my father was so ignorant I could hardly stand to have the old man around. But when I got to be 21, I was astonished at how much the old man had learned in seven years.
😎🤣😆😁🤩
debm55
(60,612 posts)Emile
(42,289 posts)It would have drove me nuts, until I did it right.
debm55
(60,612 posts)partners you can find under there.
Prairie_Seagull
(4,688 posts)"It is easier to clean up a small mess than it is a big one". So of course I had to share the pain, my daughters now are quoting my father back to me. I don't know where they heard that. Haha
ETA. Maybe the first 'life hack' haha
debm55
(60,612 posts)Elessar Zappa
(16,385 posts)Even now, under my bed is a mess of books and notebooks. Maybe I should clean today .
debm55
(60,612 posts)malthaussen
(18,567 posts)debm55
(60,612 posts)malthaussen
(18,567 posts)... I literally moved into a new bedroom when the one I had been using filled up.
-- Mal
debm55
(60,612 posts)ballardgirl
(191 posts)When I was a teen, we really didn't have so much stuff. Mine all went into the closet or drawer. Maybe we were just poor.
debm55
(60,612 posts)hunter
(40,690 posts)My parents didn't care in any way what our bedrooms looked like so long as the doors could be shut.
Phentex
(16,709 posts)basically same answer as mine. I only got my own room after the older ones trailed off.
Aristus
(72,187 posts)I was (and am) a neatnik; my brother was the slob. I hated sharing a room with him, and was overjoyed when we moved into a new house and I got my own room at last.
Then I married a slob. Mrs. Aristus. I adore her to Heaven and back. But she's not a neatnik. By any stretch.
debm55
(60,612 posts)Phentex
(16,709 posts)To this day, I won't make a bed unless it's wash day. Even then, I throw stuff on top.
I didn't have a lot of clothes so there was just a clean pile and a dirty pile and I washed something when I wanted to wear it.
I only ever had a few friends over and they didn't care. I'm sure it was a pig sty.
The priest dropped in from time to time but NEVER in my bedroom ha ha!