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When you were a teen (or now) did you clean a room by shoving the mess in a closet or under the bed? (Original Post) debm55 Aug 2023 OP
My kid does. RandySF Aug 2023 #1
HAHAHHAHA debm55 Aug 2023 #2
Oh hell no. My mom wouldn't have put up with that. underpants Aug 2023 #3
Funny, look under the bed too. debm55 Aug 2023 #5
... and under the bed. FalloutShelter Aug 2023 #4
Fallout, we use the same place. debm55 Aug 2023 #7
Not when I was a teen subject to parental inspection. 50 Shades Of Blue Aug 2023 #6
You are so funny. debm55 Aug 2023 #9
No way. MontanaMama Aug 2023 #8
Did you check under the bed and in the closet??? debm55 Aug 2023 #11
Yes...the child's closet is a disaster. MontanaMama Aug 2023 #17
You are funny. What are you going to do when he comes back and can't find his stuff? debm55 Aug 2023 #18
It never worked then - I was always busted - but I do it now Ocelot II Aug 2023 #10
I know, Even now I have tons of shoes and slippers under the bed. debm55 Aug 2023 #12
No. My mother had been a Sargent in the WACS. rsdsharp Aug 2023 #13
So you really cleaned your room? That's good. debm55 Aug 2023 #14
She wore a platinum and diamond dinner ring. rsdsharp Aug 2023 #15
Oh, sorry. debm55 Aug 2023 #16
I shared a room with my sister AnnaLee Aug 2023 #19
Very good debm55 Aug 2023 #23
No, but for a while there I thought I was a genius. grumpyduck Aug 2023 #20
grumpy, at least you had a system debm55 Aug 2023 #24
Yeah, there's that. grumpyduck Aug 2023 #28
Oh, gawd, no! Scottie Mom Aug 2023 #21
I.m sort of like that too. Don't think it's werd at all debm55 Aug 2023 #26
Glad to hear that... Scottie Mom Aug 2023 #27
I would have if I could have. 3catwoman3 Aug 2023 #22
In that respect I'm like that. I will run down to the garbage can an throw it away debm55 Aug 2023 #25
All the beds in my house have "hospital corners." Scottie Mom Aug 2023 #29
None of mine do. While staying on a small German hotel... 3catwoman3 Aug 2023 #36
Well, here is the difference and why i always make a bed with hospital corners. Scottie Mom Aug 2023 #37
I need to have loose top sheet. If we are at a Hotel, I will pull them out, My feet feel better, debm55 Aug 2023 #41
We're in the process of selling our mobile home. Mr.Bill Aug 2023 #30
WOW, Mr.Bill you timed it! debm55 Aug 2023 #32
Yes. lastlib Aug 2023 #31
That's funny, lastlib debm55 Aug 2023 #33
I did as a child Tree Lady Aug 2023 #34
Grandma, what's cleaning??? debm55 Aug 2023 #35
OMG...I remember my mother and my grandmother taking a knife and wrapping a rag around the point... Scottie Mom Aug 2023 #38
I never got away with that... GP6971 Aug 2023 #39
so sorry debm55 Aug 2023 #40
When I was a kid, but my mom was no fool ailsagirl Aug 2023 #42
Sorry, ailsagirl. debm55 Aug 2023 #43
That's OK ailsagirl Aug 2023 #44
Reminds me of Mark Twain's quote ailsagirl Aug 2023 #45
Excellent debm55 Aug 2023 #46
Not me. Emile Aug 2023 #47
Emile, I did do it right--I stuck it under the bed. You would would not believe the socks without debm55 Aug 2023 #48
Not really, my fathers words still ring in my ears. Prairie_Seagull Aug 2023 #49
Hahaha debm55 Aug 2023 #51
Yeah. Elessar Zappa Aug 2023 #50
Or maybe not debm55 Aug 2023 #52
"Clean a room?" I am not familiar with this expression. :) n/t malthaussen Aug 2023 #53
hahaha debm55 Aug 2023 #54
One house we lived in had a couple of spare bedrooms... malthaussen Aug 2023 #55
hahahahaha. That is funny. debm55 Aug 2023 #58
In the 60's ballardgirl Aug 2023 #56
No, people didn't have as much "stuff", like shoes, games. etc. Put we did have chip bags, pop debm55 Aug 2023 #57
I grew up in small homes sharing rooms with multiple siblings. hunter Aug 2023 #59
Very true debm55 Aug 2023 #60
I should have read your post first... Phentex Aug 2023 #63
I cleaned up my room by cleaning up my room. Aristus Aug 2023 #61
Aristus, don't let her read this. debm55 Aug 2023 #64
I slept on top of the bedspread. No one cared what the room looked like. Phentex Aug 2023 #62
That's funny. debm55 Aug 2023 #65

underpants

(196,494 posts)
3. Oh hell no. My mom wouldn't have put up with that.
Mon Aug 28, 2023, 03:10 PM
Aug 2023

My daughter moved into her dorm last weekend. I still haven’t been in her room. I’m scared.

MontanaMama

(24,722 posts)
8. No way.
Mon Aug 28, 2023, 03:14 PM
Aug 2023

I was a tidy as a teen and I am now too. My folks wouldn't have put up with a messy room for one thin minute. My kiddo on the other had...yikes.

MontanaMama

(24,722 posts)
17. Yes...the child's closet is a disaster.
Mon Aug 28, 2023, 03:29 PM
Aug 2023

There's nothing I can/will do until he goes to AK fishing with his dad next week. Mama will have her way with that closet. Count on that.

Ocelot II

(130,533 posts)
10. It never worked then - I was always busted - but I do it now
Mon Aug 28, 2023, 03:17 PM
Aug 2023

because I can get away with it until I have to find something.

AnnaLee

(1,391 posts)
19. I shared a room with my sister
Mon Aug 28, 2023, 03:37 PM
Aug 2023

So, yes, I shoved the mess on her side of the closet and under her bed. This left room for the good stuff to go on my side and under my bed.

grumpyduck

(6,672 posts)
20. No, but for a while there I thought I was a genius.
Mon Aug 28, 2023, 03:43 PM
Aug 2023

Sometime in high school, I decided to sort my clean laundry by partially opening each drawer of my dresser and tossing things in from the bed: T-shirts in one, boxer shorts in another, socks in another, something else in another. Not folded, just tossed. My Mom was disappointed, but I told her that they didn't need to be folded since no one would see them anyway. She just walked out of my room shaking her head.

Scottie Mom

(5,838 posts)
21. Oh, gawd, no!
Mon Aug 28, 2023, 03:45 PM
Aug 2023

I'm just the opposite on this.

If I know that there might be a messy drawer or closet somewhere, that gets my attention first. You could blindfold me and ask me to get something in my house, and I would got right to it at least 90% of the time or better.

While I am a picky housekeeper on dusting, polishing, vacuuming, scrubbing floors, cleaning windows, etc., I have have to have closets and drawers in perfect order. It's like if I don't, I am not being honest with myself about how things really are! As in: Looks good on the surface, but a mess underneath.

Weird, huh?

Scottie Mom

(5,838 posts)
27. Glad to hear that...
Mon Aug 28, 2023, 05:10 PM
Aug 2023

...I felt like the Lone Rangerette!

The other day, I had a guest at my house and the bathroom door remained locked and locked closed after he left the bathroom. So, my guest apologized and asked for a screw driver. Told him it was not needed. I walked into my bedroom and opened a drawer and pulled out the little key that was used to open inside the house door locks. I got that key almost 19 years ago when I moved in -- new house and those keys were in plastic attached to the bathroom door locks. First time I ever had to use that key...and I knew exactly where it was. Still in the little plastic bag where it had been attached to the lock.

I just knew where it was! Go figure...

3catwoman3

(29,406 posts)
22. I would have if I could have.
Mon Aug 28, 2023, 03:48 PM
Aug 2023

My mom used to call neatness fanatics “demon housekeepers.” She was one. It was not nough for clothes to be put away in dresser drawers, they had to be neatly folded, too. Beds were made before leaving for school, with neat hospital square corners - she was a nurse.

On Thursday evenings, it was empty-the-wastebasket night because trash collection was on Friday, and woe to whomever was the first person to put something in the just-emptied bathroom wastebasket. I used to flush Kleenex down the commode so as not to be the one that was guilty of defiling a newly empty wastebasket.

debm55

(60,612 posts)
25. In that respect I'm like that. I will run down to the garbage can an throw it away
Mon Aug 28, 2023, 04:43 PM
Aug 2023

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Scottie Mom

(5,838 posts)
29. All the beds in my house have "hospital corners."
Mon Aug 28, 2023, 05:13 PM
Aug 2023

I learned that phrase when I was in the 6th grade and I rarely hear it used anymore. I have said it to housekeepers I have...and I usually get a puzzled look back at me.

3catwoman3

(29,406 posts)
36. None of mine do. While staying on a small German hotel...
Mon Aug 28, 2023, 07:17 PM
Aug 2023

...several years ago, I decided I liked their idea of just folding back the duvet/coverlet to the foot of the bed to let the bottom sheet air out. That is what I have done ever since.

It's fast and easy, plus I get to enjoy the pretty sheets I have instead of hiding them under a bedspread/duvet/etc.

And, I would end up undoing the top sheet every night because I like my feet to be free.

Scottie Mom

(5,838 posts)
37. Well, here is the difference and why i always make a bed with hospital corners.
Mon Aug 28, 2023, 07:51 PM
Aug 2023

If the top sheet comes loose, I will get up and remake the bed -- even in the middle of the night -- so that I can pull the top sheet taunt over me. I cannot stand to have crinkled up sheet around my feet! Hospital corners helps to prevent the crinkled sheet around my feet problem.

What I do with the top sheet when I make the bed is put is print side down and turn it over the top of the quilts I use so that the print shows in a big band just below the pillows at the top of the bed.

How interesting that something that seems so simple -- putting sheets on a bed -- is seen so differently by different people.

debm55

(60,612 posts)
41. I need to have loose top sheet. If we are at a Hotel, I will pull them out, My feet feel better,
Mon Aug 28, 2023, 09:40 PM
Aug 2023

Mr.Bill

(24,906 posts)
30. We're in the process of selling our mobile home.
Mon Aug 28, 2023, 05:19 PM
Aug 2023

We told the realtor we can have it ready to be shown at any time with two hours notice. Ready means all clutter removed from countertops in the kitchen and bathroom, everything reasonably clean, no dirty dishes in the sink, bed made, etc. I have a small walk-in closet in the main bedroom with a locking door. That's where we throw everything. We have no garage, our outdoor shed is packed full to tidy up the outdoor spaces. The closet was well photographed in all the advertising about the house so no one needs to see it.

We can just about do it in one hour.

Tree Lady

(13,282 posts)
34. I did as a child
Mon Aug 28, 2023, 06:21 PM
Aug 2023

And my younger daughter did. We both laugh about it now. On family call I had to smile as my granddaughter in her mid 20's talked about learning what deep cleaning was.

Scottie Mom

(5,838 posts)
38. OMG...I remember my mother and my grandmother taking a knife and wrapping a rag around the point...
Mon Aug 28, 2023, 07:54 PM
Aug 2023

...to clean corners on the linoleum floors in our house. This was back in the 1950s. Yep, Grammy deep cleaning methods!

ailsagirl

(24,287 posts)
45. Reminds me of Mark Twain's quote
Mon Aug 28, 2023, 10:38 PM
Aug 2023

“When I was a boy of 14, my father was so ignorant I could hardly stand to have the old man around. But when I got to be 21, I was astonished at how much the old man had learned in seven years.”
😎🤣😆😁🤩

debm55

(60,612 posts)
48. Emile, I did do it right--I stuck it under the bed. You would would not believe the socks without
Mon Aug 28, 2023, 10:50 PM
Aug 2023

partners you can find under there.

Prairie_Seagull

(4,688 posts)
49. Not really, my fathers words still ring in my ears.
Tue Aug 29, 2023, 10:23 AM
Aug 2023

"It is easier to clean up a small mess than it is a big one". So of course I had to share the pain, my daughters now are quoting my father back to me. I don't know where they heard that. Haha

ETA. Maybe the first 'life hack' haha

Elessar Zappa

(16,385 posts)
50. Yeah.
Tue Aug 29, 2023, 10:32 AM
Aug 2023

Even now, under my bed is a mess of books and notebooks. Maybe I should clean today….

malthaussen

(18,567 posts)
55. One house we lived in had a couple of spare bedrooms...
Tue Aug 29, 2023, 12:34 PM
Aug 2023

... I literally moved into a new bedroom when the one I had been using filled up.

-- Mal

ballardgirl

(191 posts)
56. In the 60's
Tue Aug 29, 2023, 12:44 PM
Aug 2023

When I was a teen, we really didn't have so much stuff. Mine all went into the closet or drawer. Maybe we were just poor.

debm55

(60,612 posts)
57. No, people didn't have as much "stuff", like shoes, games. etc. Put we did have chip bags, pop
Tue Aug 29, 2023, 12:53 PM
Aug 2023
bottles, records., etc.

hunter

(40,690 posts)
59. I grew up in small homes sharing rooms with multiple siblings.
Tue Aug 29, 2023, 01:39 PM
Aug 2023

My parents didn't care in any way what our bedrooms looked like so long as the doors could be shut.

Phentex

(16,709 posts)
63. I should have read your post first...
Tue Aug 29, 2023, 06:14 PM
Aug 2023

basically same answer as mine. I only got my own room after the older ones trailed off.

Aristus

(72,187 posts)
61. I cleaned up my room by cleaning up my room.
Tue Aug 29, 2023, 05:25 PM
Aug 2023

I was (and am) a neatnik; my brother was the slob. I hated sharing a room with him, and was overjoyed when we moved into a new house and I got my own room at last.

Then I married a slob. Mrs. Aristus. I adore her to Heaven and back. But she's not a neatnik. By any stretch.

Phentex

(16,709 posts)
62. I slept on top of the bedspread. No one cared what the room looked like.
Tue Aug 29, 2023, 06:11 PM
Aug 2023

To this day, I won't make a bed unless it's wash day. Even then, I throw stuff on top.

I didn't have a lot of clothes so there was just a clean pile and a dirty pile and I washed something when I wanted to wear it.

I only ever had a few friends over and they didn't care. I'm sure it was a pig sty.

The priest dropped in from time to time but NEVER in my bedroom ha ha!

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