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(4,637 posts)Or who sang a song I can sing all the way through.
Or who told me that thing yesterday.
Or why I'm standing in the middle of the laundry room with my car keys in my hand.
debm55
(61,732 posts)sinkingfeeling
(58,038 posts)debm55
(61,732 posts)sinkingfeeling
(58,038 posts)replacement. But I don't have time between my planned travels for it. I'm trying to make it until summer of 2025.
debm55
(61,732 posts)Deuxcents
(27,703 posts)And Ive known them since birth! Or getting married, having their own kids. I will say that Ive been pretty lazy lately and I think its because the heat has zapped my energy and I just dont care so I take a nap and enjoy it!
debm55
(61,732 posts)to college at night, raising a family, keeping a home, etc,etc. Now the thought of all that makes me tired.
elleng
(141,926 posts)debm55
(61,732 posts)elleng
(141,926 posts)Had surgery, shunt placed July 5, to drain fluid faster, so hoping.
Ocelot II
(131,231 posts)And my birthday suit looks like I forgot to take it out of the dryer.
debm55
(61,732 posts)Nanuke
(935 posts)debm55
(61,732 posts)go faster. Then I really take a nap.
Laffy Kat
(16,990 posts)Polly Hennessey
(8,968 posts)yellowdogintexas
(23,763 posts)OAITW r.2.0
(32,606 posts)Your age is totally a function of your mind.
debm55
(61,732 posts)excessive energy and he gave me valium.
OAITW r.2.0
(32,606 posts)Smoke 2 bowls and call me in the morning.
debm55
(61,732 posts)anymore.
OAITW r.2.0
(32,606 posts)Try a different idea.
Lunabell
(7,309 posts)But, I'm not going to do it until the pain gets unbearable. I just can't stomach the thought of implants in my body or the thought of orthopedic surgery after having seen, heard and smelled (yes, bone surgery smells because of the drilling, sawing and chiseling) orthopedic surgery as a student nurse. I shudder.
debm55
(61,732 posts)the recovery.PS wanted to work in preemie unit, left when I found out that I had to do sort of rotations in other units. Went into teaching.
Lunabell
(7,309 posts)But, I changed my mind because I'm gay and back then, I didn't want any bullshit about it. Turns out I was right to do that. Whatever strides we've made have almost been erased. I love being a nurse. I'm a born care-taker and it's a profession where I can always find a job. Now, I work exclusively with pediatric home health and my knees aren't as much of an issue.
debm55
(61,732 posts)Emile
(43,265 posts)debm55
(61,732 posts)is having me see a neurologist as my needle prob(all 70 of those shits on my leg and spine and leg) showed abnormal That is the doctor that told me my leg is numb because I am overweight 5'4' 139 lbs.
They did tests for arthritis and said no. I am sorry for you and hope they can give you something.
debm55
(61,732 posts)Last edited Tue Aug 29, 2023, 09:12 AM - Edit history (1)
dreams everyone...
OAITW r.2.0
(32,606 posts)Seriously. I'm 70 and I have never heard this person/corporate name.
virgdem
(2,323 posts)OAITW r.2.0
(32,606 posts)virgdem
(2,323 posts)The only reason I know about men's clothing names is that I help my husband with his clothing selection (he's not a fan of shopping for clothing).
Ocelot II
(131,231 posts)their target market is middle-aged and older women.
LuckyCharms
(23,067 posts)debm55
(61,732 posts)Upthevibe
(10,235 posts)I have to say that I can for sure tell I'm slowing down....
My spelling has especially gotten worse (I've never been that great of a speller anyway). And it's not uncommon for me to go into another room and forget what the Hell I went in there for.
99 times out of a 100 when I go back to where I was I'll remember what I was needing to do.
I also get tired more easily. Fortunately, I've ALWAYS been a nap taker. I LOVE my naps! When I wake up I have a new burst of energy. Even when I was in my 20's on my lunch breaks I would normally take a nap when possible. I've done that throughout my life. I take naps almost every day...
debm55
(61,732 posts)go back and fix. Sometimes I get them, sometimes not.
Mr.Bill
(24,906 posts)Stairs without handrails are dangerous. I have to move slowly and deliberately on any stairs. I do not climb ladders anymore. We have grab rails in out tub/shower. I really miss them when we stay at a hotel.
Niagara
(12,126 posts)1. Fibromyalgia flare ups.
2. Food sensitivities. It's a drag that I have to avoid certain ingredients and food items.
3. Gum sensitivities. Cold items really aren't that great anymore, hold the ice in that drink.
4. Temporary Forgetfulness. Why did I walk into this room?
5. Having to say unusual phrases. For example, while turning off the coffee pot before leaving for work, I'll say something off the wall so that I remembered that I turned off the coffee pot before leaving the house. Usually it's "Purple Banana Cheesecake".
6. My 96 year old grandmother not remembering who I am.
debm55
(61,732 posts)Prairie_Seagull
(4,806 posts)Still sticking with mind over matter in this case. I am stubborn.
debm55
(61,732 posts)AKwannabe
(6,897 posts)And worst of all
January 6, 2021
All that has transpired is getting real fucking old and makes me tired and old feeling.
Fucking sick of it!
Prairie_Seagull
(4,806 posts)debm55
(61,732 posts)Last edited Tue Aug 29, 2023, 11:29 AM - Edit history (1)
of it
tblue37
(68,449 posts)nolabear
(43,850 posts)Mad_Dem_X
(10,226 posts)Don't know which is worse.
debm55
(61,732 posts)Last edited Tue Aug 29, 2023, 12:55 PM - Edit history (1)
Ocelot II
(131,231 posts)looking at the magazine rack, and realizing that I have no idea who any of the celebrities on the covers are. I couldn't pick any of them out of a lineup.
debm55
(61,732 posts)Elessar Zappa
(16,385 posts)and Ive noticed it takes much longer for me to recuperate from weightlifting, particularly deadlifts and squats.
debm55
(61,732 posts)LudwigPastorius
(15,006 posts)and having a grown ass 40 something look at me like I am insane because they don't know what I'm talking about.
debm55
(61,732 posts)Doc_Technical
(3,785 posts)Titles of books, movies, tv shows, songs. albums.
It isn't lost data, it's a problem with data retrieval.
My data bus must be malfunctioning.
debm55
(61,732 posts)Doc_Technical
(3,785 posts)chrisjourney9876
(33 posts)I don't look as young as I used to.
debm55
(61,732 posts)wnylib
(26,464 posts)politics, historical events, or even just clothing fashions and seeing jaws drop in surprise that I am speaking from personal memory and experience, not from reading about it.
Being the last one still alive from my family of origin. Parents, siblings, aunts and uncles, and several older cousins all deceased.
Being the last one left from a local circle of friends. One of them passed away just this year. Her daughter is pregnant now at the same age that her mother was when pregnant for her. Past memories came to me of when her mother was pregnant, how we all used to get together for lunches at a restaurant. The mother was so large that she had to take the outside seat in the booth and turn sideways.
I have some newer friends, but we lack the long shared history of the old ones.
So that's what makes me feel old. But, I also feel young in some ways. I get around better than some people in their 70s. I guess I look younger because people are surprised if they hear my age. It's genetic, apparently. My mother looked younger than her age, too. I still enjoy getting involved in community activities, learning new things, reading, movies, and until recently, bike riding.
debm55
(61,732 posts)actual experience. Happens to me too.
Aristus
(72,523 posts)I heard it for the first time on the soundtrack to Baz Luhrman's "Romeo + Juliet" in 1997. I was only twenty-eight. But the song, about the alternating periods of angst and carefree enjoyment of young life, made me instantly feel old. Like those very same emotions had passed me by, and it was time to be a responsible adult.
That feeling hasn't changed now that I'm going on fifty-five.
lastlib
(28,609 posts)...is closer to the start of World War I than it is to today......
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