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What is the scariest thing to you? Mine is clowns. it can living or in costume, but it scares you. (Original Post) debm55 Oct 2023 OP
Spiders. Also landlord. cbabe Oct 2023 #1
Yes, I can see why they would scare you. debm55 Oct 2023 #3
Bees, wasps and hornets. 3catwoman3 Oct 2023 #2
Yes, especially if you have every been stung. Bees are okay but wasps and hornets scare me. debm55 Oct 2023 #5
I am with you on that one. There is not anything else that really frightens me, but I have led a sheltered life. ;) Chainfire Oct 2023 #27
Oh, man, I wish I had not read your reply. 3catwoman3 Oct 2023 #62
Not much. I get nervous crossing high bridges. Ocelot II Oct 2023 #4
I know poeple that have the same fear. It is hard to get around Pittsburgh without crossing a bridge. debm55 Oct 2023 #7
Scariest thing these days... The possibility of former pres. DjT... Jrose Oct 2023 #6
Yes, I closed my eyes when I saw it and what he represents. debm55 Oct 2023 #8
Perish the thought! 3catwoman3 Oct 2023 #9
That is mine too. Throw the potential Texas outcomes into the mix yellowdogintexas Oct 2023 #24
.... Different Drummer Oct 2023 #26
Public speaking! Elessar Zappa Oct 2023 #10
I was also afraid, but I ended up being a teacher for 40 some years. Take deep breathes and have some notes to follow. Don't debm55 Oct 2023 #12
Snakes. Terrified of them. Dulcinea Oct 2023 #11
Well, that would be enough to scare you. I don't like them either. debm55 Oct 2023 #14
I share your horror of snakes. Glorfindel Oct 2023 #38
Artificial Intelligence going rogue njhoneybadger Oct 2023 #13
Yes, very scary. The more I read about it the more scared I become. debm55 Oct 2023 #15
It's already happened, if I'm any judge. Different Drummer Oct 2023 #33
When angry ... my wife... MiHale Oct 2023 #16
I'm sorry for you MiHale. debm55 Oct 2023 #55
Heights. MOMFUDSKI Oct 2023 #17
I was terrified of heights for years. It came on when I was in my teens yellowdogintexas Oct 2023 #23
Husband and I have been on numerous vacations MOMFUDSKI Oct 2023 #59
Heights--never used to be afraid, now I am. debm55 Oct 2023 #56
We could be in a fascist dictatorship the day after inauguration 2025. Hotler Oct 2023 #18
Scares me. n/t Different Drummer Oct 2023 #34
I'm mostly successful in compartmentalizing this - so far... electric_blue68 Oct 2023 #98
MAGA idiots, they don't live in reality, and no one really knows Meadowoak Oct 2023 #19
They don't even know--and that's scary. n/t Different Drummer Oct 2023 #37
Oooh, here's just the movie for you ! eppur_se_muova Oct 2023 #20
Hate that debm55 Oct 2023 #48
It gives me the creeps... dlilafae Oct 2023 #21
fascist repugs!!!! overleft Oct 2023 #22
Big rabbits, real or otherwise rogerballard Oct 2023 #25
Yes scary, debm55 Oct 2023 #49
I am always wary of Republicans that have a plan. SalamanderSleeps Oct 2023 #28
Heights & tight spaces MustLoveBeagles Oct 2023 #29
Yes, elevators. debm55 Oct 2023 #57
Heights. I used to be able to carry a 75 pound bundle of shingles up a ladder, but now LuckyCharms Oct 2023 #30
Sometimes they bother me, sometimes not. I wouldn't want to climb a ladder though. debm55 Oct 2023 #53
Understand that Rebl2 Oct 2023 #93
I'm fearless! Nothing scares me. Proud Southern Belle Oct 2023 #31
Clowns are psychopaths. LuckyCharms Oct 2023 #35
Agreed! Different Drummer Oct 2023 #41
I take it you don't like clowns either. Hate it when they get up in your face. debm55 Oct 2023 #44
I know a woman who has bad panic attacks when she sees a clown. LuckyCharms Oct 2023 #45
Thank you Lucky, Fear is a natural response to something/anything that makes us feel uncomfortable. Not having fear debm55 Oct 2023 #80
Lyrics from a Ween song: LuckyCharms Oct 2023 #81
. Must be wonderful and dangerous not to be afraid of anything. I felt that way when I was younger--I have no fear, debm55 Oct 2023 #47
Welcome to DU. KS Toronado Oct 2023 #58
Dentists Emile Oct 2023 #32
I like my dentist. but I know not all are like him. Especially dental specialists. debm55 Oct 2023 #39
Steve Martin - Dentist ggma Oct 2023 #73
And STATUES will give me a panic attack ggma Oct 2023 #74
Oh no!!!! debm55 Oct 2023 #76
Read they have a high suicide rate due to MOMFUDSKI Oct 2023 #78
Ugh - I had a great dentist as a kid TexasBushwhacker Oct 2023 #102
Another Trump presidency. CaptainTruth Oct 2023 #36
True debm55 Oct 2023 #40
Scariest movie I ever saw... "Alien". Jrose Oct 2023 #42
Yes, especially the one scene. debm55 Oct 2023 #52
No Doubt, Alien was also the scariest movie that I ever saw too. Stuart G Oct 2023 #61
Cancer. Midnight Writer Oct 2023 #43
Oh, yes. debm55 Oct 2023 #51
This when I was a child. Different Drummer Oct 2023 #46
The eyes are spooky. debm55 Oct 2023 #50
Thought Fireball XL5 was stupid, wouldn't watch. KS Toronado Oct 2023 #54
My favorite show. I was a sucker for any SciFi. Marcuse Oct 2023 #63
The Spaceship would have been cool. KS Toronado Oct 2023 #65
Yeah, thinking about trump back in the Oval Office is pretty scary Bayard Oct 2023 #60
There is no amount of money that could get me into a submarine. Laffy Kat Oct 2023 #64
Me either. debm55 Oct 2023 #67
I am with you MOMFUDSKI Oct 2023 #79
Women and the Police. Mr.Bill Oct 2023 #66
Mr.Bill, why? debm55 Oct 2023 #68
Just a little humor. Mr.Bill Oct 2023 #75
TY Mr. Bill, How is the new house coming along?? debm55 Oct 2023 #82
It's in place, leveled Mr.Bill Oct 2023 #84
Huh? There are no women in The Police. mwooldri Oct 2023 #103
mine is inanimate WhiteTara Oct 2023 #69
Sorry. debm55 Oct 2023 #70
about? WhiteTara Oct 2023 #71
being on the ledge, getting ready to jump. debm55 Oct 2023 #85
well that was another life or perhaps WhiteTara Oct 2023 #86
Thank you for explaining to me. debm55 Oct 2023 #88
but why clowns? WhiteTara Oct 2023 #91
I have no reason-it is what it is. debm55 Oct 2023 #94
thermonuclear weapons, religions, and the coming leap in AI power Celerity Oct 2023 #72
For me, it"s heights grumpyduck Oct 2023 #77
Sorry, grumpyduck. I used to bounce on the bed too. debm55 Oct 2023 #83
Colonoscopy doctor. Emile Oct 2023 #87
Got that right. I have one scheduled for January. But I am more afraid of the spinal tap for November. Terribly afraid. debm55 Oct 2023 #89
I find the trailer and promotional material for The Nun II really disturbing. LudwigPastorius Oct 2023 #90
Large packed Rebl2 Oct 2023 #92
I can understand that. TY debm55 Oct 2023 #95
Evangelical Christian Fascists malthaussen Oct 2023 #96
Yes, TY debm55 Oct 2023 #97
republicans nt. barbtries Oct 2023 #99
Yes. debm55 Oct 2023 #100
Self Driving Cars. mwooldri Oct 2023 #101
I know, can be very dangerous debm55 Oct 2023 #106
Driving on the mountain roads here. Especially at night. LakeArenal Oct 2023 #104
Yes. debm55 Oct 2023 #107
Great heights & spiders. tblue37 Oct 2023 #105
Yes, debm55 Oct 2023 #108
Heritage Foundation Project 2025.... lastlib Oct 2023 #109
Me too debm55 Oct 2023 #110

debm55

(60,202 posts)
5. Yes, especially if you have every been stung. Bees are okay but wasps and hornets scare me.
Mon Oct 23, 2023, 12:15 PM
Oct 2023
 

Chainfire

(17,757 posts)
27. I am with you on that one. There is not anything else that really frightens me, but I have led a sheltered life. ;)
Mon Oct 23, 2023, 01:47 PM
Oct 2023

A little anecdote for a fellow sufferer. I was fishing in a small boat and the wind had drifted me into some willows. When I looked up, I was facing what must have been three hundred wasps, on a huge nest, 5" from my nose. I about jumped out of the boat. For some reason, they did not come after me. It was a miracle!

3catwoman3

(29,321 posts)
62. Oh, man, I wish I had not read your reply.
Mon Oct 23, 2023, 03:59 PM
Oct 2023

I would have absolutely junked out of the boat.

I jumped off a relatively high rung of a ladder once when a bee buzzed past me. I’m not allergic, that I know of. My heart rate shoots up so high when I hear a bee that I think my adrenal glands mu
be acting as a built-in Epi-pen.

debm55

(60,202 posts)
7. I know poeple that have the same fear. It is hard to get around Pittsburgh without crossing a bridge.
Mon Oct 23, 2023, 12:17 PM
Oct 2023

Jrose

(1,531 posts)
6. Scariest thing these days... The possibility of former pres. DjT...
Mon Oct 23, 2023, 12:16 PM
Oct 2023

returning to office... or any of his political allies getting into the White House.
Second scariest thing: DjT's mugshot (related to scariness of clowns)!

yellowdogintexas

(23,693 posts)
24. That is mine too. Throw the potential Texas outcomes into the mix
Mon Oct 23, 2023, 01:36 PM
Oct 2023

and it is even worse.

I tell people who think it wouldn't be THAT bad to look up and read Project 2025, along with a few highlights of stuff they have planned.

It's so scary

Elessar Zappa

(16,385 posts)
10. Public speaking!
Mon Oct 23, 2023, 12:25 PM
Oct 2023

I turn red, my voice gets shaky, I can feel my heartbeat thundering against my chest. I’m in university now and am extremely nervous because I have to take Speech next semester.

debm55

(60,202 posts)
12. I was also afraid, but I ended up being a teacher for 40 some years. Take deep breathes and have some notes to follow. Don't
Mon Oct 23, 2023, 12:29 PM
Oct 2023

try to memorize the speech--it doesn't work. Good luck.

Different Drummer

(9,083 posts)
33. It's already happened, if I'm any judge.
Mon Oct 23, 2023, 01:53 PM
Oct 2023

A robot kicked me off Facebook due to the actions of a hacker.

MiHale

(12,980 posts)
16. When angry ... my wife...
Mon Oct 23, 2023, 12:38 PM
Oct 2023

I try to never put her in that mood…but something’s are out of my control.

 

MOMFUDSKI

(7,080 posts)
17. Heights.
Mon Oct 23, 2023, 12:45 PM
Oct 2023

Fine as a kid. Age 19 went up in the Arc De Triumph in Paris and looked down. Got the funny feeling in my stomach. Next day I could only go up to first level of the Eiffel. Been like that since then.

yellowdogintexas

(23,693 posts)
23. I was terrified of heights for years. It came on when I was in my teens
Mon Oct 23, 2023, 01:32 PM
Oct 2023

As a kid, I would scamper around on a local bluff with a fire tower on top and it never bothered me . All of a sudden, I started getting the pit of the stomach feeling looking out windows above 2nd floor, and balconies were horrifying. When I had to go down a set of stairs, if I could not see my feet (like if carrying a laundry basket) I would be shaking and sweating by the time I got to the bottom. This was a bad problem when I lived in the college dorm and had to get to the laundry room in the basement!!!

In my 30s I started caving and ran into situations that involved heights, which were quite terrifying. However getting through them alive, and learning how to navigate them has pretty much done away with the acrophobia!

 

MOMFUDSKI

(7,080 posts)
59. Husband and I have been on numerous vacations
Mon Oct 23, 2023, 03:26 PM
Oct 2023

and I found myself on a road suspended like a ribbon at Mt. St. Helens, driving up White Mountain in NH, Top of the World Highway in Alaska, many more situations. Husband was doing the driving and I toughed it out but I don't believe I will ever get over it.

Hotler

(13,747 posts)
18. We could be in a fascist dictatorship the day after inauguration 2025.
Mon Oct 23, 2023, 12:50 PM
Oct 2023

Martial law declared and the constitution suspended.

electric_blue68

(26,811 posts)
98. I'm mostly successful in compartmentalizing this - so far...
Tue Oct 24, 2023, 11:54 AM
Oct 2023

Doing my best to not get worked up till Sept '24.

Oh, I sure as hell know how terrifying this possibility is!!!!! 😩

But I have a couple of challenges (1 very concerning) and that's what I'm dealing w right now - while I also persue my creativity, fun, enjoy the people I hang out w and do Dem type occasional activism.

They'll be plenty of time to get hysterical in Sept '24! 😄😐

There is at a possibility that things will work out for Dems before that time! (I'm not counting on it, but I'll keep the door of Hope open 👍 )

Meadowoak

(6,606 posts)
19. MAGA idiots, they don't live in reality, and no one really knows
Mon Oct 23, 2023, 12:50 PM
Oct 2023

What they are capable of.

LuckyCharms

(22,535 posts)
30. Heights. I used to be able to carry a 75 pound bundle of shingles up a ladder, but now
Mon Oct 23, 2023, 01:51 PM
Oct 2023

I get shaky at about 8 feet up.

 
31. I'm fearless! Nothing scares me.
Mon Oct 23, 2023, 01:51 PM
Oct 2023

Why would anybody be afraid of clowns? Most people are scared of being alone. They need to grow up!

LuckyCharms

(22,535 posts)
45. I know a woman who has bad panic attacks when she sees a clown.
Mon Oct 23, 2023, 02:04 PM
Oct 2023

I'm not afraid of them personally, but I can understand why some people are.

debm55

(60,202 posts)
80. Thank you Lucky, Fear is a natural response to something/anything that makes us feel uncomfortable. Not having fear
Mon Oct 23, 2023, 08:31 PM
Oct 2023

can be dangerous. When one is young, fear is looked upon as being a bad thing. I have my reasons for fearing clowns. Lack of fear, for whatever reason can be life threatening as some of my friends found out==drinking and driving, swimming in Lake Erie without life guards, etc.

LuckyCharms

(22,535 posts)
81. Lyrics from a Ween song:
Mon Oct 23, 2023, 08:33 PM
Oct 2023

"Though love has its place in the sun, it's only man's fear that carries him on"

debm55

(60,202 posts)
47. . Must be wonderful and dangerous not to be afraid of anything. I felt that way when I was younger--I have no fear,
Mon Oct 23, 2023, 02:08 PM
Oct 2023

Last edited Mon Oct 23, 2023, 11:02 PM - Edit history (2)

nothing will happen to me, I am 68 years old now. As the years have gone by, I have learned I have lost many friends and relatives because of their lack of fear. With time, you will learn also that a certain amount of fear is necessary..

debm55

(60,202 posts)
39. I like my dentist. but I know not all are like him. Especially dental specialists.
Mon Oct 23, 2023, 01:59 PM
Oct 2023

TexasBushwhacker

(21,195 posts)
102. Ugh - I had a great dentist as a kid
Tue Oct 24, 2023, 02:04 PM
Oct 2023

But then I had a couple of bad experiences as an adult and I avoid going to them for far too long.

Marcuse

(8,984 posts)
63. My favorite show. I was a sucker for any SciFi.
Mon Oct 23, 2023, 04:01 PM
Oct 2023

I even had the model XL5 that could be slingshotted from Earth and deploy a parachute in the vacuum of outerspace.










Bayard

(29,539 posts)
60. Yeah, thinking about trump back in the Oval Office is pretty scary
Mon Oct 23, 2023, 03:43 PM
Oct 2023

Wasps make me screech and run though. Allergic.

Mr.Bill

(24,906 posts)
75. Just a little humor.
Mon Oct 23, 2023, 08:00 PM
Oct 2023

It's just a funny quote by Burt Reynolds from one of his Gator movies.

Personally, I don't like spiders.

Mr.Bill

(24,906 posts)
84. It's in place, leveled
Mon Oct 23, 2023, 08:40 PM
Oct 2023

and they are working to connect septic line to it. Next will be the water then the electricity. Still lots do do, water softener, rain gutters, building the deck. We can move in before the deck is built, the contractor doing the set-up will put a temporary set of steps at each doorway which is required to get an occupancy permit. It's going to take awhile, but we are comfortable at our daughter's house for now.

mwooldri

(10,817 posts)
103. Huh? There are no women in The Police.
Tue Oct 24, 2023, 02:04 PM
Oct 2023

Sting, Andy Summers, Stewart Copeland.

But they did sing about Roxanne...

WhiteTara

(31,254 posts)
69. mine is inanimate
Mon Oct 23, 2023, 06:07 PM
Oct 2023

roller coasters. And heights.

during the height of the witch burnings, women would hold hands in long lines and leap from cliffs to their deaths in order not to be tortured by the inquisitors. It must have been a past life, because it's a phobia I can't get past.

WhiteTara

(31,254 posts)
86. well that was another life or perhaps
Mon Oct 23, 2023, 09:18 PM
Oct 2023

just a dream, made up to assuage my confusion about my fear.

The daughters of Buddha are fearless, so I'm working on my fears.

WhiteTara

(31,254 posts)
91. but why clowns?
Tue Oct 24, 2023, 10:56 AM
Oct 2023

They're a life saver at rodeos, crowd a bunch of them in a tiny car and wear big floppy shoes. Is it the white paint on their faces? Or the painted big smile?

grumpyduck

(6,672 posts)
77. For me, it"s heights
Mon Oct 23, 2023, 08:16 PM
Oct 2023

when I don't have anything to hang on to. Ladders not so much unless I get to the top, and I love flying, but looking down like from the top of a building... well, I don't like it.

I hate it, but I think it goes back to when I was a kid, maybe five or six, and was bouncing up and down on a bed. Then I had a jump malfunction and landed halfway across the room. Didn't break anything, but my arm was in a sling for a couple of weeks.

No more bouncing on beds for me.

debm55

(60,202 posts)
89. Got that right. I have one scheduled for January. But I am more afraid of the spinal tap for November. Terribly afraid.
Mon Oct 23, 2023, 09:51 PM
Oct 2023

LudwigPastorius

(14,663 posts)
90. I find the trailer and promotional material for The Nun II really disturbing.
Tue Oct 24, 2023, 03:01 AM
Oct 2023

I don't know why. I wasn't raised Catholic, or had any kind of contact with nuns growing up.

There's just something about a demonic nun that scares the shit out of me.

malthaussen

(18,560 posts)
96. Evangelical Christian Fascists
Tue Oct 24, 2023, 11:51 AM
Oct 2023

Not a lot scares me, but those people are unpredictable and dangerous.

-- Mal

barbtries

(31,295 posts)
99. republicans nt.
Tue Oct 24, 2023, 01:55 PM
Oct 2023

they're like zombies; they don't die and just keep coming, wreaking havoc and misery in their wake.

mwooldri

(10,817 posts)
101. Self Driving Cars.
Tue Oct 24, 2023, 02:02 PM
Oct 2023

Please don't laugh... I got freaked out as a kid by Herbie the Love Bug movie... VW Beetle, drives itself, rears up on two wheels, hood chomping away... I swore that car was going to eat me!

LakeArenal

(29,949 posts)
104. Driving on the mountain roads here. Especially at night.
Tue Oct 24, 2023, 02:07 PM
Oct 2023

There are no shoulders and it’s a long way down when a giant tourist bus zips around a curve in your lane.


Also the general fear for Democracy, poor people and the truth.

lastlib

(28,180 posts)
109. Heritage Foundation Project 2025....
Fri Oct 27, 2023, 03:15 PM
Oct 2023

If the FOOL* or another GOPher wins the White House, American democracy is toast. - - -

Project2025

(*FOOL -- Former Office-Occupying Liar.)

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