We unexpectedly had to put our dog Dug down today
Dug had inoperable cancer. This afternoon he collapsed. He wasn't breathing. He wasn't moving. After about 45 seconds to a minute he started moving and breathing. I carried him to the car to go see the vet. She listened to his heart and lungs. She said she didn't like his breathing. Knowing his end was near, we decided it was time to do the humane thing. I stayed with him through the end.
I posted Dug's story here years ago: https://www.democraticunderground.com/10027865713
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I'm sure he knew you were there and that this eased his crossing.
They sure do leave their pawprints on our hearts.
We never get enough time. 💔
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Embrace the memories and time the both of you had together. Let your grief flow--you lost a companion and a buddy. When the time is right, the memories of Dug might bring you to another buddy. Until then and if then, let your feelings flow. Love ,Debbie
Having just lost my cat pal of 17 years 3 weeks ago, I understand the sorrow and sense of loss you are feeling. I expect to see her whenever I come into the house or look at the sofa. But it's getting better and I'm sure it will with you as well.
They stay in our hearts forever.
is the worst pain I have ever experienced. I hope you can get through this better than I have.
https://poets.org/poem/epitaph-dog
To mark a friend's remains these stones arise;
I never knew but one—and here he lies.
Losing a family member is so hard. My sympathies to you and your family.Dug had a good home with you and your family. Remember the good times.
I know how painful this is. Dug was just a little angel on earth to share some time with you.I am so very sorry. Thanks for sharing Dug's beautiful story of how he came into your life. And how he left; and how he shared a story of love and hope with his little journey through your life and now you share the moment of life love and loss with your friends. What a beautiful friend and angel on this fragile earth. 💔
I had to do the same thing with my last dog, who was old and had become completely blind in his last days, from cataracts...
The blindness made him more restless--- apparently he was 'searching for the light' and would make the circuit around the house, walking round and round, bumping his head into the wall all the way around...
When it was over, I embraced him and cried.... but it was better to put an end to his pain and frustration.
He will probably visit you in your dreams... savor those moments! 
I know how tough it is, but look back on the life and love that you and Marta gave him - and how lucky he was that he found you. 
Wishing you comfort through this painful grief. My heart goes out to you
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❤️ Jinx ❤️
He went loved and was not alone and you didn't let him suffer. That's all you could have done.
Rest in Peace dear Dug
but you have countless memories to always hold close.
One of the hardest things we go through. Take care Steve.
