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Ocelot II
(130,538 posts)Otherwise, I'd avoid the omnipresent but nasty sweet potato and marshmallow casserole.
debm55
(60,621 posts)Ocelot II
(130,538 posts)But I'm fine hanging out with the cat. No hassles, no family drama, no sweet potato casserole. It's all good.
AnnaLee
(1,392 posts)But I have a large Turkey whether I want a large Turkey or not. I Instacart-ed a couple of days ago and Fred Meyer has a get a free Turkey if you spend over $150. The Turkey was supposed to weight 10-14 pounds. Well, they ran out, so they substituted a larger Turkey. It is defrosting in my frig as we speak. I am going to try to split it into smaller portions and instant pot the smaller portions. Might take two or more runs. It is big.
debm55
(60,621 posts)us, Love, Debbie.
Jilly_in_VA
(14,371 posts)cooked in any "sweet" form other than pie are anathema to me. I like mine savory, TYVM. That sweet potato and marshmallow thing always makes me want to puke,
claudette
(5,455 posts)I get the same way when I see (or even hear of) ham and pineapple! I love both of those foods, but PLEASE - not together! LOL
nocoincidences
(2,489 posts)is nasty. I hate the texture, the smell, and the rare accidental tastes I've put in my mouth. Yuck.
debm55
(60,621 posts)Not even shredded cucumbers mixed with lime jello, cottage cheese, mayo and grated onions? It sounds repulsive, but is sublime.
debm55
(60,621 posts)justaprogressive
(6,909 posts)...and no one can claim you're dieting
debm55
(60,621 posts)dem4decades
(14,061 posts)But there's so much food it's impossible to taste everything, and I'm not sure anyone would really want too.
debm55
(60,621 posts)rsdsharp
(12,004 posts)I wont skip anything. If youre talking about traditional Thanksgiving dishes, Id skip sweet potatoes in any form but especially that thing with marshmallows.
debm55
(60,621 posts)debm55
(60,621 posts)spooky3
(38,634 posts)debm55
(60,621 posts)spooky3
(38,634 posts)debm55
(60,621 posts)spooky3
(38,634 posts)Im with you on that jello thing, and turkey is kinda blah, but I love sweet potatoes with just a little butter and brown sugar; mashed potatoes; a little green bean casserole; pumpkin or apple pie; etc. and how bout those crescent rolls?
Hate mince pie , though. Im surprised its not mentioned.
debm55
(60,621 posts)justaprogressive
(6,909 posts)(sorry I don't mean to keep interrupting)
debm55
(60,621 posts)Emile
(42,293 posts)debm55
(60,621 posts)Emile
(42,293 posts)else.
getagrip_already
(17,802 posts)And never at a holiday meal or at a families home.
When faced with a buffet, I tend to choose small portions of what I want most, rather than fill up on bulk like stuffing, potato, or junky desserts. So even though I like it, I wouldn't take it.
I graze.
debm55
(60,621 posts)portions of everything except for the stuffing.
Big Blue Marble
(5,691 posts)Have not had turkey at Thanksgiving or anytime for 31 years.
debm55
(60,621 posts)happybird
(5,393 posts)My mom didnt do the marshmallow thing, thank gawd. She baked whole sweet potatoes, then sliced and pan seared them with butter a touch of maple syrup. Better than the casserole thing, but still sweet potatoes.
In general, Thanksgiving is my favorite meal of the year. I love everything about it and will even choke down some sweet potatoes in honor of the day/meal. The trick to the jello is green jello with mandarin oranges. It is refreshing and delicious!
debm55
(60,621 posts)Niagara
(11,855 posts)Watergate Salad.
debm55
(60,621 posts)Niagara
(11,855 posts)My mom never made it with the pineapple since she dislikes pineapple.
Once I told her that it would be better if there was shredded coconut on top of the salad. She gave me "that look" only because my mom doesn't like coconut either. I'm such a brat.
Srkdqltr
(9,761 posts)debm55
(60,621 posts)Brother Buzz
(39,900 posts)Jello Cottage Cheese Ambrosia crap that blue haired biddies try and push on you.
debm55
(60,621 posts)madaboutharry
(42,033 posts)I hate it. The end.
debm55
(60,621 posts)Dave in VA
(2,285 posts)is the same sentence?
Won't happen here!
(I do all the cooking except for dessert, nephew handles that.)
debm55
(60,621 posts)Sanity Claws
(22,413 posts)I absolutely hate most of what is considered traditional Thanksgiving Day meals. That includes green bean casserole, sweet potatoes with marshmallows, pumpkin pie. As for mashed potatoes, I always considered that children's food.
debm55
(60,621 posts)we visited Old Plymouth. I was shocked to see at the buffet, -wild turkey , eel, clams , fish etc. and fruits from the bogs. Got to stand on the rock. It was a pleasant surprise with the food selection. Also, corn fritters and corn pudding.and Venison. Quite different to taste the foods, I didn;t take any eel
ificandream
(11,837 posts)My sister-in-law likes to make that every year. Hopefully not this year.
Also ham. I hate it at Christmas, too. I'm a turkey person.
debm55
(60,621 posts)ificandream
(11,837 posts)Ilsa
(64,371 posts)Turkey gravy sounds better.
pandr32
(14,272 posts)I've only ever seen it in a school cafeteria and not at a traditional family dinner, thankfully.
I've also never had that green bean casserole with mushroom soup, or sweet potatoes covered in marshmallows and would certainly pass on them if I ran into them.
My hard pass is on dressing that is just basically stale bread cubes with seasoning. Boxed dressing--yuck!
I prefer dressing that is good enough to be a dish on its own with lots of diced adds like celery, peppers, and onions (or leeks), garlic, and with fresh sage and other herbs. It can be a cornbread base, a sourdough one, wild rice, etc. Adds like apples, mushrooms, truffles, chestnuts, oysters, chorizo, fennel, etc. are all good options and eggs help bind the stuffing dish and give it lusciousness. I always cook the dressing on the side with a rich, pre-made broth mixed with the beaten eggs and extra virgin olive oil. It puffs up while baking and becomes golden on the top. Never skimp on the herbs.
Having scads of gravy is necessary, so I use all the turkey drippings and juices for that and make it with scallions and the turkey liver pureed and added for flavor and nutrients along with a shot of sherry and the usual salt and pepper. Grandpa (British, and food lover) taught me to always add a touch of soy sauce as his secret ingredient "Just a splash!" he would instruct. It works! He also insisted on yorkshires instead of rolls. Gravy and crusty yorkshires are a must have every year now for my family even though Grandpa is long gone.
By the way, I don't eat any of the turkey or gravy because I am the only vegetarian in the family, but I cook meat dishes skillfully (much thanks to my Grandparents). One of the things my family looks forward to is a large left-over turkey pie with mushrooms, peppers, fresh herbs, white wine and leftover gravy the day after the turkey dinner served with mashed potatoes on the side. My kids loved turkey sandwiches for as long as we had leftover turkey, too. Turkey piled high with thin slices of swiss cheese, crunchy lettuce leaves, mayo, and a spoonful of leftover fresh cranberry relish. Family favorite.
Happy cooking!
debm55
(60,621 posts)not try the eel.
PS We make stuffing the way you described with onion, and celery and spices. Your dish sounds great
marble falls
(71,936 posts)debm55
(60,621 posts)pandr32
(14,272 posts)Traditional cooking with international twists is fun, delicious, and tends to get passed along from generation to generation. I feel so sad for those who had non-cooking families.
Wishing you a very happy holiday!
debm55
(60,621 posts)marble falls
(71,936 posts)debm55
(60,621 posts)Voltaire2
(15,377 posts)as a vegan it is not on my plate. I actually dislike being in the house while it is cooking as I find smell almost as revolting as the smell of bacon. On the other hand green beans, roasted vegetables potatoes of all sorts squash are all yummy. That sweet potato and marshmallow thing is disgusting, just bake them and leave 'em alone. Also if you are eating jello, what are you 5? (And it is distinctly non-vegetarian.)
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debm55
(60,621 posts)like you to answer a question for me. No snark on my part. What do vegans feed their pets? My dog Dolly had pancreatis twice. I order a special brand from chewy. It is canned and has veggies, rice and chicken in it. She has never had any other food except for the special treats that I give here. What would you feed your dog or cat? Not lucky for a snarky answer but a truthful one as I am interested.TY
justaprogressive
(6,909 posts)
Debm, If you're the one doing the cooking you might try something like this
changing the flavor of the Turkey...
https://www.livestrong.com/article/504388-how-to-stuff-a-turkey-with-oranges-lemons-limes/
IOW treat it like a Duck!
debm55
(60,621 posts)Diamond_Dog
(40,578 posts)Not that I dont like them, but when theres stuffing I prefer that instead. Theres so much food I cant possibly eat some of everything.
tblue37
(68,436 posts)Chipper Chat
(10,870 posts)And I can no longer get down Campbell's cream of mushroom soup.
debm55
(60,621 posts)Chipper Chat
(10,870 posts)viva la
(4,598 posts)I'm doing all the cooking, and that's just too labor-intensive. I'll just have mashed potatoes, sweet potato casserole, and rolls for carbs.
debm55
(60,621 posts)to have two people their to lift the turkey out of the cooking pan. What I do is place in square pan , just like i would if it was in the turkey and cook separately. Same ingredients, except I use Turkey broth from College Inn sold at the store.
anciano
(2,256 posts)can't think of any traditional dishes that I will skip, but we are expecting several guests and I don't know yet what side dishes will be available. However, I also would definitely skip the jello should that be one of them.
Best wishes for a great holiday!
beaglelover
(4,466 posts)I don't even know. They are friends of friends so I don't know what they will serve. But if they have mashed potatoes, I will probably skip them. Not worth the calories, IMO.
debm55
(60,621 posts)WhiteTara
(31,260 posts)It's so dark and miserable, what is there to be thankful for in a relationship that is so one sided that there is no relationship?
debm55
(60,621 posts)by my siblings, Still am, But since my father's death in September I have had no contact with them, Good wishes and hugs to you, been there
Love, Debbie
Chainfire
(17,757 posts)debm55
(60,621 posts)Niagara
(11,855 posts)Ham is gross
ham belongs in a compost
I'll combust
if I have to eat this disgust
It tastes like an armpit
who eats this shit?
I's rather eat rust
or perhaps dust
debm55
(60,621 posts)Niagara
(11,855 posts)AllaN01Bear
(29,498 posts)may be staying home
debm55
(60,621 posts)AllaN01Bear
(29,498 posts)debm55
(60,621 posts)AllaN01Bear
(29,498 posts)claudette
(5,455 posts)mushrooms or maple syrup! Ugh!
brewens
(15,359 posts)I'll go for anything else if I have a choice. I almost hate to deprive a real pumpkin pie person of even one slice. I know they live for that.
debm55
(60,621 posts)tornado34jh
(1,527 posts)My aunt would get Jones Sodas that were holiday themed. They stopped making them for unknown reasons. Now I don't like carbonated beverages at all, but each had Thanksgiving/Christmas flavors, and we would rank which was the best and the worst tasting. As I recall, I think the Thanksgiving ones were gravy, mashed potatoes, apple and pumpkin pie while the Christmas ones were peppermint bark, gingerbread, candy cane, something along those lives. I don't remember what the results were, as we did this a long time ago, I think before I finished high school. But those were good times.
debm55
(60,621 posts)tornado34jh
(1,527 posts)debm55
(60,621 posts)tornado34jh
(1,527 posts)I don't think I would ever try that. We have a place here in Lakeland, Florida called Rocket Fizz, and it features the wackiest, craziest candy and soda, some from Asia, heck there are even sodas with wacky names involving Osama Bin Laden, Kim Jong-Il (weird flavors, mind you), those sort of things.
debm55
(60,621 posts)tornado34jh
(1,527 posts)It would be quite funny to see how she would react
Permanut
(8,391 posts)I'm 100% on board with that.
debm55
(60,621 posts)Permanut
(8,391 posts)debm55
(60,621 posts)Permanut
(8,391 posts)I was thinking about the syrup and marshmallows.
LisaM
(29,634 posts)That stuff is nasty, with the gross mushroom soup (it's the 🍄 I don't like).
debm55
(60,621 posts)Runningdawg
(4,664 posts)Sides - Wedge salad, glazed carrots and apple strudel.
bamagal62
(4,504 posts)The canned cranberry sauce. It always grossed me out when it came out of the can. It reminds me of congealed salad, yuk!
I also have a weird thing about mixing sweet and savory. So, anything sweet like sweet potato casserole has to be eaten later like a dessert. Cant even be on the same plate!
I actually dont eat cranberry relish/sauce with my meal. I can eat it alone later in the day just in a bowl with a spoon.😂
debm55
(60,621 posts)woodsprite
(12,582 posts)If we were at my MILs, Id also add the raw cranberry orange salad.
debm55
(60,621 posts)DFW
(60,186 posts)I do not like them, Sam-I-Am.
Of course, we are having something like 20 people over, so my wife will make pumpkin-something, but I will neither eat it, nor even notice it was there.
We already have our fresh cranberries from Massachusetts, and my wife makes THE best cranberry sauce. My office is fed-exing over the stuffing mix, because Pepperidge Faahm remembahd.
debm55
(60,621 posts)DFW
(60,186 posts)Me from the USA, Austrians, Dutch friends driving over, and the usual cast of Germans and, if my daughter comes with her girls, half Germans and three-quarters Germans. Best meal in Germany on that day.
(You MUST read Art Buchwalds timeless column, Le Jour de Merci Donnant. A friend of the family, Art wrote it while he was a Paris correspondent in 1952. Its just as hilarious today as it was then.)