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MiHale

(13,032 posts)
Thu Dec 14, 2023, 09:08 AM Dec 2023

When I was 17, I'm 71 now...

My younger sister’s best friend and I went for a walk together, we sat in my childhood backyard on the crumbling foundation of an old grain silo. This 16 year old girl and I talked into the night about now forgotten subjects.
That was 54 years ago.
After having many dreams about that girl, about 4 years later we wed.
Our wedding day was a blowout party all day and into the night and beyond.
Next morning while watching football in our hotel room, she’s a huge lover of the game, we decided that our anniversaries would be “our day” so we have celebrated without outside fanfare for decades.

Today, we will be wed for 50 years but we’ve been in love with each other for longer.

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When I was 17, I'm 71 now... (Original Post) MiHale Dec 2023 OP
It's been a 'wonderful life', hasn't it? I'll raise a toast for you two a little later! marble falls Dec 2023 #1
Been a wild ride... MiHale Dec 2023 #3
Congratulations Duncanpup Dec 2023 #2
Thanks. MiHale Dec 2023 #5
Congratulations! nightwing1240 Dec 2023 #4
Thanks MiHale Dec 2023 #6
Congratulations! snowybirdie Dec 2023 #7
Hoping! Thanks MiHale Dec 2023 #8
That's wonderful! surfered Dec 2023 #9
Thank you... MiHale Dec 2023 #12
Congratulations! 70sEraVet Dec 2023 #10
Congrats! 2naSalit Dec 2023 #11
Hey 2na!...solid...more flexible... MiHale Dec 2023 #20
That's cool! 2naSalit Dec 2023 #31
Continued best wishes to you both! ECL213 Dec 2023 #13
Thanks MiHale Dec 2023 #22
Happy Anniversary. sinkingfeeling Dec 2023 #14
Thank you. MiHale Dec 2023 #23
Happy 50th Anniversary! Niagara Dec 2023 #15
Thanks. MiHale Dec 2023 #24
Congratulations. Great story. Enjoy your day. c-rational Dec 2023 #16
Will do, thank you. MiHale Dec 2023 #26
Yahooooooooo Magoo48 Dec 2023 #17
Thank you.. MiHale Dec 2023 #28
Congratulations! Your story is nearly identical to mine. Chainfire Dec 2023 #18
Thank you... MiHale Dec 2023 #30
Happy anniversary! yardwork Dec 2023 #19
Thanks... MiHale Dec 2023 #32
Congratulations! Happy Anniversary mountain grammy Dec 2023 #21
Thank you... MiHale Dec 2023 #33
That is a long, sweet ride. Salut! Ford_Prefect Dec 2023 #25
Thanks... MiHale Dec 2023 #36
Congrats, dad told me multigraincracker Dec 2023 #27
Hey mgc!... MiHale Dec 2023 #37
Congratulations! mahina Dec 2023 #29
Thank you and you're welcome... MiHale Dec 2023 #39
Congratulations and may you both have many more wonderful years together! Fla Dem Dec 2023 #34
Thank you.. MiHale Dec 2023 #40
Such a beautiful love story! Goddessartist Dec 2023 #35
Thank you... MiHale Dec 2023 #41
Oh thank you! Goddessartist Dec 2023 #43
Congratulations and wishing you many more years of happiness ahead! Diamond_Dog Dec 2023 #38
Thank you... MiHale Dec 2023 #42
I'm happy for the two of you. OLDMDDEM Dec 2023 #44
Thank you MiHale Dec 2023 #45
Happy Anniversary!!! woodsprite Dec 2023 #46
Happy Anniversary!.. MiHale Dec 2023 #53
And Happy Anniversary to you as well, with many more to come. niyad Dec 2023 #68
Awesome, Congrats! OverBurn Dec 2023 #47
Thanks.. MiHale Dec 2023 #54
Happy Anniversary you two. Tikki Dec 2023 #48
Thank you... MiHale Dec 2023 #55
Awwwww.... BigOleDummy Dec 2023 #49
I certainly couldn't 🤪 MiHale Dec 2023 #56
Congrats. We hit 50 in October. Lived in the same house for 35+ years. twodogsbarking Dec 2023 #50
Congratulations to you, also... MiHale Dec 2023 #57
How sweet! mgardener Dec 2023 #51
Congratulations KS Toronado Dec 2023 #52
Thank you... MiHale Dec 2023 #59
Congratulations on your special day. virgdem Dec 2023 #58
Happy Anniversary! MiHale Dec 2023 #62
Thank you. Enjoy your celebrations! virgdem Dec 2023 #83
Happy Anniversary to you as well, with many more to come. niyad Dec 2023 #71
Happy golden anniversary! pandr32 Dec 2023 #60
Thank you!... MiHale Dec 2023 #63
Congratulations LetMyPeopleVote Dec 2023 #61
Thanks.. MiHale Dec 2023 #64
Happy Anniversary! Congratulations! PittBlue Dec 2023 #65
Thank you... MiHale Dec 2023 #66
awwwwww, thank you for sharing with us. Happiest of anniversaries to you niyad Dec 2023 #67
Hey, niyad thank you. MiHale Dec 2023 #69
Congratulations!!!! Nt tazkcmo Dec 2023 #70
Thank you! MiHale Dec 2023 #73
Happy Anniversary! tblue37 Dec 2023 #72
Thank you... MiHale Dec 2023 #74
What a wonderful story IndyPepper Dec 2023 #75
Congratulations!!! Beacool Dec 2023 #76
Happy aniversary to both of you! debm55 Dec 2023 #77
Thanks deb... MiHale Dec 2023 #79
What a heart warming tale. 3catwoman3 Dec 2023 #78
Best part is Mary, my wife... MiHale Dec 2023 #81
Congrats to you both! Solly Mack Dec 2023 #80
Thank you. MiHale Dec 2023 #82
Sincerest Congratulations on this! True love over all is the key! (n/t) OldBaldy1701E Dec 2023 #84
Thank you.. MiHale Dec 2023 #85
Mazel tov, MiHale and love of your life! thatcrowwoman Dec 2023 #86
Thank you, tcw... MiHale Dec 2023 #87
"We are united through eternity." thatcrowwoman Dec 2023 #92
From someone who has passed 50 years together, welcome to the club. Pleae fill out the form at Wonder Why Dec 2023 #88
Thank you for your comment... MiHale Dec 2023 #98
Congratulations -- that's a wonderful milestone. yonder Dec 2023 #89
Thank you... MiHale Dec 2023 #99
Congratulations on reaching this milestone in your lives together sdfernando Dec 2023 #90
Thank you... MiHale Dec 2023 #100
Many congratulations! GeoWilliam750 Dec 2023 #91
Thank you... MiHale Dec 2023 #101
Nicely done.. Permanut Dec 2023 #93
Thanks...working on the next 25 today... MiHale Dec 2023 #102
Was married for 42 years. alfredo Dec 2023 #94
Thank you.. MiHale Dec 2023 #103
Married life is wonderful if you do it right. alfredo Dec 2023 #95
Love to hear about love. Congratulations MiHale The Polack MSgt Dec 2023 #96
Thank you... MiHale Dec 2023 #104
NICE!!! calimary Dec 2023 #97
Thanks yes, it was destined right from the beginning... MiHale Dec 2023 #105

MiHale

(13,032 posts)
20. Hey 2na!...solid...more flexible...
Thu Dec 14, 2023, 09:59 AM
Dec 2023

Like we used to be..

Thank you 2na. Cool thing is that we have a special loaf of bread for dinner today. Laura, our neighbor the one that made the squash flour from that crazy zucchini and acorn squash mashup baked us a loaf using the flour, it’s really good.

2naSalit

(102,793 posts)
31. That's cool!
Thu Dec 14, 2023, 10:11 AM
Dec 2023

Squash flour sounds good just because!

I have been contemplating my garden options for next year, I might move to a different unit soon so it would change a few things but I have better options about how I garden here. There are new managers and both are more reasonable in that issue. All of this because I started complaining about things. My friend, the property's maint. super is retiring next week but the new guy looks to be a better manager so I'm happy with that, he used to work in the park too so we have common acquaintances too. And he's a Democrat! Haven't met the new property manager yet.


Have a great day and congrats, 50 is a milestone of note.

multigraincracker

(37,651 posts)
27. Congrats, dad told me
Thu Dec 14, 2023, 10:05 AM
Dec 2023

that after a few years didn’t think his marriage to mom would make it. Then he said after a few more years he didn’t think he could live without her.
They both passed away in 2004 in their 90s.

MiHale

(13,032 posts)
37. Hey mgc!...
Thu Dec 14, 2023, 10:16 AM
Dec 2023

It’s been a crazy wild ride that I’d never do again, I’m just super happy it went the way it did. Wouldn’t ever want to mess anything up trying again.

Goddessartist

(2,176 posts)
35. Such a beautiful love story!
Thu Dec 14, 2023, 10:13 AM
Dec 2023

Congratulations! My little sister met her husband when she was 15 and he was 17. They've been blessed like you, and wed when she was 18. She's now 57.

Thank you for sharing your love. It's beautiful.

woodsprite

(12,582 posts)
46. Happy Anniversary!!!
Thu Dec 14, 2023, 10:30 AM
Dec 2023

It’s so wonderful that you take the time for yourselves, for your day.

Our anniversary is today but we’re in so much Christmas stuff (performances, charity work, etc) that we don’t take as much time as we should. Like tonight is our department party, kind of mandatory that we put our faces in. I probably should have picked a better date when we planned our wedding 😂

MiHale

(13,032 posts)
53. Happy Anniversary!..
Thu Dec 14, 2023, 11:12 AM
Dec 2023

Try to carve out a little time for both of you. Enjoy!

Thank you!

MiHale

(13,032 posts)
57. Congratulations to you, also...
Thu Dec 14, 2023, 11:21 AM
Dec 2023

We lived in the same house for a long time also but when we retired we went back to our roots.

virgdem

(2,318 posts)
58. Congratulations on your special day.
Thu Dec 14, 2023, 11:21 AM
Dec 2023

We share a special day with you. Today marks our 33rd anniversary. Going out to our special place tonight to celebrate.

pandr32

(14,272 posts)
60. Happy golden anniversary!
Thu Dec 14, 2023, 11:26 AM
Dec 2023

That's quite a tribute you wrote, and a huge milestone.
Wishing you both the very best.

niyad

(132,440 posts)
67. awwwwww, thank you for sharing with us. Happiest of anniversaries to you
Thu Dec 14, 2023, 12:09 PM
Dec 2023

and your lovely lady. And may you rival the Carters.

Beacool

(30,518 posts)
76. Congratulations!!!
Thu Dec 14, 2023, 01:18 PM
Dec 2023

50 years together is such an accomplishment. May uou have many more years of wedded bliss.

Happy Anniversary!!!




3catwoman3

(29,406 posts)
78. What a heart warming tale.
Thu Dec 14, 2023, 01:25 PM
Dec 2023

When going for marital longevity, maybe it helps to start on the early side, like you did - . You picked the right person the first time. Congratulations!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I was almost 31 when my husband and I tied the knot, and he was 36. We’d known each other for 4 years by that time. I proposed to him not quite 2 years into our relationship, and he turned me down. He didn’t pick the right person the first time, and was definitely suffering from the “once burned, twice shy” syndrome. 2 years later, when it was his idea, we finally got it done. He’s lucky I’m a very patient person -

We have every intention of making the 50 year mark, and hopefully beyond.

MiHale

(13,032 posts)
81. Best part is Mary, my wife...
Thu Dec 14, 2023, 01:42 PM
Dec 2023

and my sister are still best friends…in spite of me.

Thank you, you guys will make it, no doubt.

thatcrowwoman

(1,230 posts)
86. Mazel tov, MiHale and love of your life!
Thu Dec 14, 2023, 02:14 PM
Dec 2023

That’s a powerful love you two have created together.
And now you enter your golden years, a grand new adventure together.

May the two of you have much love and laughter, good health and good times, plenty and peace,
that sweet Shalom.
Wishing you many happy returns of the day.
🕊🩵💫thatcrowwoman

thatcrowwoman

(1,230 posts)
92. "We are united through eternity."
Thu Dec 14, 2023, 04:07 PM
Dec 2023

I got waves of full body goosebumps reading that, MiHale.
My Grandma Shorty told me “that’s the Spirit moving.”
Blessings be.
🕊tcw


Wonder Why

(7,025 posts)
88. From someone who has passed 50 years together, welcome to the club. Pleae fill out the form at
Thu Dec 14, 2023, 02:28 PM
Dec 2023
Contact the White House

and select Presidential greeting. You will get a nice personal letter congratulating you and your bride of 50 and a picture of Joe.

It's always great when I hear of others that stood by each other in good times and bad and cared enough to tough it out. Think back of the wonderful memories from the past and the thoughts of the future. Then look up and listen to Karen Carpenter's son "We've only just begun" and remember
And when the evening comes, we smile

I think of this as the evening of our lives together, and yes, we smile, still give each other a kiss every night not just as a married couple but as equal partners, lovers, friends and confidants.

I'm sure it is the same for you.

And feel luck and proud that you have discovered the joys and pleasures and shared the disappointments with someone for that long. And pause a little for those unable or unwilling to have been there and done that.

Hope to hear from you again celebrating your 75th.

MiHale

(13,032 posts)
98. Thank you for your comment...
Fri Dec 15, 2023, 08:47 AM
Dec 2023

Will fill out the form that’s awesome. Sorry for the later response the celebration got going!

yonder

(10,293 posts)
89. Congratulations -- that's a wonderful milestone.
Thu Dec 14, 2023, 03:17 PM
Dec 2023

We are looking at 40 next year and as you said up thread, solid and more flexible.

Congratulations!

sdfernando

(6,084 posts)
90. Congratulations on reaching this milestone in your lives together
Thu Dec 14, 2023, 03:33 PM
Dec 2023

in my extended family we have had 7 couples reach 50 or more years together, including my own parents.

Happy Anniversary!

MiHale

(13,032 posts)
100. Thank you...
Fri Dec 15, 2023, 08:52 AM
Dec 2023

You guys have some great role models.
Sorry for the later response the celebration got going!

alfredo

(60,301 posts)
94. Was married for 42 years.
Thu Dec 14, 2023, 06:00 PM
Dec 2023

Having a stable and loving relationship really kept me healthy and happy.

alfredo

(60,301 posts)
95. Married life is wonderful if you do it right.
Thu Dec 14, 2023, 06:15 PM
Dec 2023

It appears you and your spouse are doing it right..

You are a fortunate soul

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