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Who are/were you happy to see this Christmas? (Original Post) debm55 Dec 2023 OP
Happy and mellow and relaxed and enjoying the rain! calimary Dec 2023 #1
Thank you calimary and enjoy yourself and have a Merry Christmas. debm55 Dec 2023 #2
I just made the rounds via telephone this morning. calimary Dec 2023 #8
With some folks yes, it is. debm55 Dec 2023 #12
Went to a candlelight Christmas Eve service yesterday evening Glorfindel Dec 2023 #3
That is very precious to see old friends. Have a very Merry Christmas. debm55 Dec 2023 #4
Merry Christmas to you, too, debm55. Glorfindel Dec 2023 #5
Redneck Trumper relatives driving AWAY from my house. Funtatlaguy Dec 2023 #6
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA was he a relative or neighbor???? debm55 Dec 2023 #7
Brother, unfortunately. 😩 Funtatlaguy Dec 2023 #15
My SILs cousin. He has an interesting job, is a great cook and always brings something unexpected. Runningdawg Dec 2023 #9
I bet it was-hahahah- Have a Merry Christmas, Runningdawg. debm55 Dec 2023 #10
Husband's granddaddy made and ran moonshine way back in the day. thatcrowwoman Dec 2023 #18
Wifey. Ferrets are Cool Dec 2023 #11
You are both blessed to have each other. Wish you both a happy and healthy Holiday and year. debm55 Dec 2023 #13
Thank you so much. Ferrets are Cool Dec 2023 #14
I'm happy to see you this Christmas, Debbie! That's who.🫶🏽 thatcrowwoman Dec 2023 #16
Thank you thatcrowwoman. I was feeling emotionally and physically like crap. You post made me feel good. Last night, I debm55 Dec 2023 #19
Feathered Bear, please. We'll get along great thatcrowwoman Dec 2023 #21
I will put a request for the feathered bear right away, debm55 Dec 2023 #24
my church family. AllaN01Bear Dec 2023 #17
Great AllaN01Bear, may they continue to bring you happiness during the holidays and into the New Year. debm55 Dec 2023 #20
Happy to hear from my daughters, and elleng Dec 2023 #22
elleng, how wonderful to hear from the daughters and 4 grands. Did you do on a video chat? I use some of my talking by debm55 Dec 2023 #26
No i-phone, no videos, just texts and pics! May see MD daughter 2morrow, w left-overs! elleng Dec 2023 #28
My husband as always! Rebl2 Dec 2023 #23
Hope you are feeling better and hope you and your husband have a blessed New Year. Ty debm55 Dec 2023 #42
My best friend had her son and three other friends over and... ailsagirl Dec 2023 #25
I know what you mean by driving in the dark. I am happy your day was filled friendship and happiness. Have a great and debm55 Dec 2023 #43
Thank you, debm55- you too!! 😎 ailsagirl Dec 2023 #44
Not happy but I did attempt to connect w a cousin. Wrote a couple long NoMoreRepugs Dec 2023 #27
So sorry that happened to you. I agree with your decision though. He doesn;t deserve your love and kindness. Same thing debm55 Dec 2023 #32
Christmas is a sad time for me. Aussie105 Dec 2023 #29
You read my posts in another forum, you know how it is with my family . You can't make fun of your dead husband and his debm55 Dec 2023 #33
My daughter and her daughter via What's App yellowdogintexas Dec 2023 #30
Yes, I mentioned that to a poster up thread. I use my i-phone to do it. Isn't it wonderful. Have a blessed rest of the debm55 Dec 2023 #34
Since one niece works Friday Saturday and Sunday and the other works doc03 Dec 2023 #31
doc03- from Pittsburgh, this is debm55 from Pittsburgh. You sound like you had a nice relaxing day. Good for you. Have debm55 Dec 2023 #36
I have seen the Eagle Cam a few years ago. There was a nest along the bike trail doc03 Dec 2023 #38
Was just the hub and me this year. Kids coming over Friday the 29th. Ziggysmom Dec 2023 #35
Ziggysmom. understand. I have no grandchildren. But when my son was young, it was loud with kids coming over with their debm55 Dec 2023 #37
Oh my goodness, after 42 years as a teacher, you really deserve a little peace and quiet! Ziggysmom Dec 2023 #41
Not exactly on Christmas but Elessar Zappa Dec 2023 #39
How wonderful. I hope you had a good time and got to reconnected with your brother. Have a happy holiday debm55 Dec 2023 #40

calimary

(90,021 posts)
1. Happy and mellow and relaxed and enjoying the rain!
Mon Dec 25, 2023, 04:28 PM
Dec 2023

We did all the family stuff and gift exchange and special meals over the long Thanksgiving weekend. Today is OURS.

Glorfindel

(10,175 posts)
3. Went to a candlelight Christmas Eve service yesterday evening
Mon Dec 25, 2023, 04:30 PM
Dec 2023

and saw several old friends, one I hadn't seen in almost exactly 60 years. I was glad to see them.

Runningdawg

(4,664 posts)
9. My SILs cousin. He has an interesting job, is a great cook and always brings something unexpected.
Mon Dec 25, 2023, 05:16 PM
Dec 2023

Our celebration was last night. He brought 2 quarts of moonshine from WY. Smooth as silk.

thatcrowwoman

(1,230 posts)
18. Husband's granddaddy made and ran moonshine way back in the day.
Mon Dec 25, 2023, 06:58 PM
Dec 2023

Shhhhhh. Deep in the mountains of western North Carolina.
Farmed tomatoes and tobacco and dairy cows, built a little church in his community and led the shape note singing there.
Helped raise my husband when his daddy ran off, leaving his mom and his little brother and him behind with next to nothing.

Now WNC has a gazillion breweries and brew pubs, several specializing in moonshine.
And there are dispensaries all over the place selling all manner of legal hemp-derived products.
Some will even ship it right to your home.
Times sure have changed since I came of age, and times will continue to do so.
C’est la vie.
I’m in for the long haul, spirit willing and the creek don’t rise.
🕊🩵💫🎶thatcrowwoman

Ferrets are Cool

(22,957 posts)
11. Wifey.
Mon Dec 25, 2023, 05:55 PM
Dec 2023

She almost wasn't here this year. I am thankful to celebrate another holiday with her.

debm55

(60,619 posts)
13. You are both blessed to have each other. Wish you both a happy and healthy Holiday and year.
Mon Dec 25, 2023, 06:00 PM
Dec 2023

thatcrowwoman

(1,230 posts)
16. I'm happy to see you this Christmas, Debbie! That's who.🫶🏽
Mon Dec 25, 2023, 06:38 PM
Dec 2023

It’s just me and my sweetie and our sweet Molly dog basking in the warmth of the wood stove this evening about to eat some leftovers from yesterday’s Chinese feast with the kids, and maybe watch a movie, maybe play some backgammon. It’s our traditional Jews on Christmas festivities.

Thanks for asking all your questions, dear Deb, and building community in the Lounge.
Thank you for your support and encouragement and your friendship.

May all who read here have Peace, sweet Shalom, Love and Light, and Music,
as we work to restore our Democracy and reclaim our freedoms and our rights in the year ahead.
🕊🩵💫🎶thatcrowwoman

debm55

(60,619 posts)
19. Thank you thatcrowwoman. I was feeling emotionally and physically like crap. You post made me feel good. Last night, I
Mon Dec 25, 2023, 07:20 PM
Dec 2023

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had about about all I could take in my personal life this past year. But I woke up this morning and it was a new day with a different view than I had last night. I sm glad to see you my friend. Hey , do you want a toy from the Misfit Island ? there are some left. I will send you an email tomorrow to tell you some things that have been own with me. Thank you so much again for your post, Love, Deb

thatcrowwoman

(1,230 posts)
21. Feathered Bear, please. We'll get along great
Mon Dec 25, 2023, 10:23 PM
Dec 2023

As long as it doesn’t have a squeaker.
If it squeaks, Molly, well, squeakers don’t last around Molly.
🕊🩵💫🎶tcw

debm55

(60,619 posts)
20. Great AllaN01Bear, may they continue to bring you happiness during the holidays and into the New Year.
Mon Dec 25, 2023, 07:22 PM
Dec 2023

debm55

(60,619 posts)
26. elleng, how wonderful to hear from the daughters and 4 grands. Did you do on a video chat? I use some of my talking by
Mon Dec 25, 2023, 10:49 PM
Dec 2023

using a video chat. No special computer set up. I use my i-phone. Here's wishing you a special rest of the Holiday Season and a wonderful New Year as you watch the little ones grow and blossom.

elleng

(141,926 posts)
28. No i-phone, no videos, just texts and pics! May see MD daughter 2morrow, w left-overs!
Mon Dec 25, 2023, 11:10 PM
Dec 2023

Older grandson (10 years) has a phone, not his mother's choice but she and I like that we can text, and we do!

Rebl2

(17,743 posts)
23. My husband as always!
Mon Dec 25, 2023, 10:37 PM
Dec 2023

Been under the weather the last two days, so pretty quiet day. Was really looking forward going to see my Mom at the nursing home, but have to put off until later in the week when I feel better.

debm55

(60,619 posts)
42. Hope you are feeling better and hope you and your husband have a blessed New Year. Ty
Tue Dec 26, 2023, 09:41 PM
Dec 2023

ailsagirl

(24,287 posts)
25. My best friend had her son and three other friends over and...
Mon Dec 25, 2023, 10:45 PM
Dec 2023

we had a marvelous time-- low-key, good conversation, excellent food, laughter. I was sorry it ended but I had to get back home before it got too dark (I refuse to drive after dark).

debm55

(60,619 posts)
43. I know what you mean by driving in the dark. I am happy your day was filled friendship and happiness. Have a great and
Tue Dec 26, 2023, 09:44 PM
Dec 2023

healtly new year.

NoMoreRepugs

(12,076 posts)
27. Not happy but I did attempt to connect w a cousin. Wrote a couple long
Mon Dec 25, 2023, 10:51 PM
Dec 2023

text msgs and got a merry Xmas meme in return. Last contact with him for me.

debm55

(60,619 posts)
32. So sorry that happened to you. I agree with your decision though. He doesn;t deserve your love and kindness. Same thing
Mon Dec 25, 2023, 11:30 PM
Dec 2023

with me and my family. Last year they somehow decided there would be no gifts as if was not their birthday. but Jesus". No one told me and I was accused of being a do gooder for sending 100 dollars, a card. and a hand written message. You know what. I sent an empty Hallmark and gave the 100 to Children's Hospital in Pittsburgh. They called today and left a message on where the money was. I didn't return the call. Why call me, it's not my birthday? I hate to be snarky, but sometimes people have to learn that words have meaning. You made the right decision. OH, my ears are burning , they must be complaining about me.

Aussie105

(7,921 posts)
29. Christmas is a sad time for me.
Mon Dec 25, 2023, 11:14 PM
Dec 2023

Just reminds me how far the different members of this extended family have drifted apart.
It's important to the wife, so I play along - days of cooking, etc.

There are so many of them, yet the contact during the year is minimal.
Often down to a cry for 'I want, I need. You got money, help me out!'.

Then some of you get together at Xmas day, act like you only spoke a week ago, be all jovial, bring and eat too much food, then go home and . . . donno, just makes me feel sad.

If you had a great time over Christmas, great. But don't assume it is the same for everyone.

(Somehow, I feel better and less guilty now, for typing that.)

debm55

(60,619 posts)
33. You read my posts in another forum, you know how it is with my family . You can't make fun of your dead husband and his
Mon Dec 25, 2023, 11:41 PM
Dec 2023

daughter in life and death, make both the pit of laughter at a funeral and really their whole lives and expect it to change magically in one day. Then go back to the vulgar name calling, Doesn't work that way with me. Treat me with love and respect all year round. Check the forum out and my posts on it. You posted to me the other day on it. I have other posts too. I understand what you are saying all too well my friend. And I am glad you stood up and spoke your mind to me. Be at peace. I have gone through alot.

yellowdogintexas

(23,694 posts)
30. My daughter and her daughter via What's App
Mon Dec 25, 2023, 11:19 PM
Dec 2023

We had a nice visit this afternoon watching them assemble one of the gifts I sent.
Best part of Christmas!

debm55

(60,619 posts)
34. Yes, I mentioned that to a poster up thread. I use my i-phone to do it. Isn't it wonderful. Have a blessed rest of the
Mon Dec 25, 2023, 11:43 PM
Dec 2023

holiday and may your new year be filled with love and good health.

doc03

(39,086 posts)
31. Since one niece works Friday Saturday and Sunday and the other works
Mon Dec 25, 2023, 11:24 PM
Dec 2023

Monday Tuesday and Wednesday we had our Christmas Thursday. Christmas was over for me today and it was 62 degrees and partly cloudy, so I went on a 20-mile bicycle ride. Saw a few more bikers and lots of walkers and got a picture of a Bald Eagle.

debm55

(60,619 posts)
36. doc03- from Pittsburgh, this is debm55 from Pittsburgh. You sound like you had a nice relaxing day. Good for you. Have
Mon Dec 25, 2023, 11:48 PM
Dec 2023

you watched the Eagle Cam online? I know where you biked. Right along the river. So calm and peaceful. May the rest of your holiday season be relaxing and your New Year be filled with love and health.

doc03

(39,086 posts)
38. I have seen the Eagle Cam a few years ago. There was a nest along the bike trail
Tue Dec 26, 2023, 12:20 AM
Dec 2023

on a hill near the water park, people were always on the trail taking photos, but I heard it fell down a few years ago.
I assume they have relocated somewhere. Happy New year.

Ziggysmom

(4,123 posts)
35. Was just the hub and me this year. Kids coming over Friday the 29th.
Mon Dec 25, 2023, 11:46 PM
Dec 2023

We really enjoyed the quiet. Love the kids, but........ quiet is nice!


debm55

(60,619 posts)
37. Ziggysmom. understand. I have no grandchildren. But when my son was young, it was loud with kids coming over with their
Mon Dec 25, 2023, 11:55 PM
Dec 2023

toys. I taught for 42years and it was the same with the kids in school as Christmas approached. May you continue to enjoy the quiet and relaxation--you have earned it. Hope you have a great holiday season and a healthy and happy New year 2024

Ziggysmom

(4,123 posts)
41. Oh my goodness, after 42 years as a teacher, you really deserve a little peace and quiet!
Tue Dec 26, 2023, 08:17 PM
Dec 2023

I'll never be a grandma; my daughter has the genetic kidney disease PKD, or polycystic kidney disease. Any kids could inherit the disease, plus a pregnancy could seriously harm her kidney function. We enjoy our fur kids and spend time with our friends kids. At least with kids belonging to our friends, we can send them home if they get naughty

Elessar Zappa

(16,385 posts)
39. Not exactly on Christmas but
Tue Dec 26, 2023, 01:30 AM
Dec 2023

my parents paid for a cruise to celebrate my 40th birthday earlier this month and my younger brother came along, who I don’t see that much. I was so glad to see him.

debm55

(60,619 posts)
40. How wonderful. I hope you had a good time and got to reconnected with your brother. Have a happy holiday
Tue Dec 26, 2023, 01:42 AM
Dec 2023

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