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LuckyCharms

(22,161 posts)
Wed Mar 27, 2024, 12:38 PM Mar 2024

When I post something stupid...

Is there a way I can make it so it never happened?

I know you can delete a post, but I want to make it like it never happened so I don't get embarrassed.

Admins: Can you get on this right away?

Hurry up.

Thank you in advance.

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When I post something stupid... (Original Post) LuckyCharms Mar 2024 OP
Replies remain, but embarassment fades, as does memory. . . . . nt Bernardo de La Paz Mar 2024 #1
Every night before falling asleep... LuckyCharms Mar 2024 #2
Ah. Letting go is a skill that can be greatly increased by repeated practice Bernardo de La Paz Mar 2024 #6
I do same Lucky Duncanpup Mar 2024 #17
You can either stop making the goofs or just get totally ignore them. I've failed to stop making them ... marble falls Mar 2024 #3
I'm going to have to try to ignore them. LuckyCharms Mar 2024 #4
It's easy to drop them, adopt a Paris Hilton smile and say nothing. marble falls Mar 2024 #10
Embrace your mistakes, and then laugh long and hard at yourself... Think. Again. Mar 2024 #5
Well stated. . . . nt Bernardo de La Paz Mar 2024 #7
I get that, and I've felt that way about a post or two of mine in the past. Xavier Breath Mar 2024 #8
I've never seem a stupid post from anyone else here... LuckyCharms Mar 2024 #12
I thank you. Xavier Breath Mar 2024 #15
Stupid posts? Harker Mar 2024 #9
That one post I did that time. LuckyCharms Mar 2024 #11
Ah. Harker Mar 2024 #13
Thank you for not remembering. LuckyCharms Mar 2024 #14
Anytime, Lucky! Harker Mar 2024 #19
As usual dweller Mar 2024 #16
"I've learned so much from my mistakes, I'm thinking of making a few more." sop Mar 2024 #18
We just need to add an ignore button. Onthefly Mar 2024 #20
The problem is we can't ignore ourselves. Niagara Mar 2024 #22
You're one of the most awesome DU-ers that make the lounge my favorite hangout! Niagara Mar 2024 #21
Dear LuckyCharms. I like all your posts. I enjoy reading them. debm55 Mar 2024 #23
when i post something embarrassing... ret5hd Mar 2024 #24
I don't think I have seen a "stupid" post from you. I still haven't figured out how to delete any of mine. nt LoisB Mar 2024 #25
You need a time machine. cloudbase Mar 2024 #26

Bernardo de La Paz

(60,320 posts)
6. Ah. Letting go is a skill that can be greatly increased by repeated practice
Wed Mar 27, 2024, 12:48 PM
Mar 2024

Letting go is not accomplished by fighting the recurring thoughts. Greet them (hello old friend) and then open a window in your mind and let a puff of fresh mental air and a sigh blow them away. As many times as it happens, don't combat them, acknowledge them and let them go.

What's done is done. No point in crying over spilt milk. The hand of time, having writ, moves on.

Worry about the things you can change (you did by self-deleting something, and also you did by posting the OP). Don't worry about what you can't change (replies). Seek the wisdom to tell the two apart.

By making that important distinction, it is easier to let go. Practice simply by doing, as needed.

marble falls

(71,394 posts)
3. You can either stop making the goofs or just get totally ignore them. I've failed to stop making them ...
Wed Mar 27, 2024, 12:44 PM
Mar 2024

... but I am quite good at ghosting my mistakes.

 

Think. Again.

(22,456 posts)
5. Embrace your mistakes, and then laugh long and hard at yourself...
Wed Mar 27, 2024, 12:48 PM
Mar 2024

...because there's way too much actual bad stuff out there to be concerned about.

Xavier Breath

(6,554 posts)
8. I get that, and I've felt that way about a post or two of mine in the past.
Wed Mar 27, 2024, 12:49 PM
Mar 2024

But doing so would conceivably also remove any responses to your post. So even if you feel your post was embarrassment-inducing, I'm betting the people that responded to you don't feel the same way about their posts and would like them to remain. My .02.

ret5hd

(22,341 posts)
24. when i post something embarrassing...
Wed Mar 27, 2024, 01:19 PM
Mar 2024

i quickly look around and find someone else’s post that is embarrassing and point to THAT post so no one notices my post.

in fact that’s what i’m doing now…can you guide me to the post you want everyone to not see?

cloudbase

(6,202 posts)
26. You need a time machine.
Wed Mar 27, 2024, 02:03 PM
Mar 2024

Lucky for you I happen to have a working model for sale. Call me last Tuesday and we'll talk price.

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