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debm55

(60,612 posts)
Mon May 13, 2024, 04:30 PM May 2024

The doctor just called for the biopsy. Rich has malignant prostrate cancer. Doctor ordered a PET --see if it spread.

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That will be done tomorrow. And them chemo/radiation. I love him with all of my heart and soul.
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The doctor just called for the biopsy. Rich has malignant prostrate cancer. Doctor ordered a PET --see if it spread. (Original Post) debm55 May 2024 OP
{{{{{Deb&Rich}}}}} 50 Shades Of Blue May 2024 #1
So sorry to hear that deb. Sending lots of hugs and healing vibes. skylucy May 2024 #2
Oh deb XanaDUer2 May 2024 #3
Nuts. Thoughts are with you. Raven123 May 2024 #4
Oh no! Such awful news. femmedem May 2024 #5
Sending you warm thoughts and all my hopes that he will be one who does well with treatment. hlthe2b May 2024 #6
I am so sorry Deb.... AmBlue May 2024 #7
So sorry to hear that you and Rich are going through this. anciano May 2024 #8
Terrible news. AltairIV May 2024 #9
I am so so sorry DebM55 JMCKUSICK May 2024 #10
So sorry, I will be hoping and pulling for you both Walleye May 2024 #11
I'm so very sorry! May treatment go well! *hugs* GPV May 2024 #12
My thoughts are with you both. nt Dear_Prudence May 2024 #13
Positive vibes your way. Laffy Kat May 2024 #14
I'm sorry MustLoveBeagles May 2024 #15
Hopefully it has not spread. As far as I know, Prostate cancer is slow growing and most men will get it if they beaglelover May 2024 #16
I'm so sorry! Diamond_Dog May 2024 #17
eep. AllaN01Bear May 2024 #18
So very sorry!! nocoincidences May 2024 #19
Healing thoughts for you both, a great big hug, and strength to you both for the journey ahead. LoisB May 2024 #20
Hugs to you both. Eko May 2024 #21
Sending you both love and hugs happybird May 2024 #22
Love and hugs ms liberty May 2024 #23
Deb, I am crying with you mvd May 2024 #24
Holding you both- and all who love you- in my heart. n/t TygrBright May 2024 #25
I am dreadfully sorry to hear that. GreenWave May 2024 #26
So sorry. Sending you both lots of warm hugs and best wishes. nt Biophilic May 2024 #27
Deepest sympathy GeoWilliam750 May 2024 #28
Sending healing vibes your way. Mr.Bill May 2024 #29
Oh no! Elessar Zappa May 2024 #30
Hugs..... onecaliberal May 2024 #31
I'm so sorry debm55 prostrate cancer is insidious kimbutgar May 2024 #32
Awwww, damn. My thoughts are with you both. catbyte May 2024 #33
I was in the hospital 5 days and about to do this protocol... MartyTheGreek May 2024 #34
I'm so sorry to hear that. barbtries May 2024 #35
All the best. Turbineguy May 2024 #36
So very sorry! bluestarone May 2024 #37
Never an easy path. WinstonSmith4740 May 2024 #38
Take it a step at a time. If the PSMA shows that it is confined to the prostate, you have curable options available. JohnSJ May 2024 #39
He's got a good woman to help him through. Harker May 2024 #40
I'm so sorry. Hoping for the best possible outcome. Solly Mack May 2024 #41
Lots of folks here to lean on, so please do. 3catwoman3 May 2024 #42
I am so very sorry. appleannie1 May 2024 #43
I am so so very sorry deb irisblue May 2024 #44
Sending prayers and good thoughts LetMyPeopleVote May 2024 #45
It's never easy to receive a cancer diagnosis. Niagara May 2024 #46
I'm so sorry, Deb. arkielib May 2024 #47
Rich and I thank you for all your good wishes. debm55 May 2024 #48
Sending blessings of healing, good health and happiness Wicked Blue May 2024 #49
I'm so sorry. area51 May 2024 #50
I'm so sorry to hear this ailsagirl May 2024 #51
So sorry debM CanonRay May 2024 #52
Oh, im so very sorry deb. revmclaren May 2024 #53
I'm so sorry Deb. essaynnc May 2024 #54
So sorry to read this. Hoping for the best outcome possible. OAITW r.2.0 May 2024 #55
I am so sorry for this news. I hope he will be ok. Treatments are better now, so I will tblue37 May 2024 #56
I'm very sorry to hear this. It's a blow for you both. greatauntoftriplets May 2024 #57
Again Rich and I thank you all for you kind thoughts and words. debm55 May 2024 #58
Hugs to you both. Duncanpup May 2024 #59
Sending love and hugs gademocrat7 May 2024 #60
Sending good vibes malaise May 2024 #61
(((((((((((((Deb and Rich))))))))))))) Holding you both in love and light. niyad May 2024 #62
Sending loving and healing thoughts. MLAA May 2024 #63
So sorry for your news Picaro May 2024 #64
That's rough. malthaussen May 2024 #65
Sorry to hear this. Hoping he does well with treatments! 70sEraVet May 2024 #66
Try to remain positive about the treatment. He needs you to hang onto. flying_wahini May 2024 #67
That is just awful. Please let us know how the PET turns out. ratchiweenie May 2024 #68
Sending you all of my love Goddessartist May 2024 #69
I am so sorry, Deb and Rich! Love and warm hugs to you both! LaMouffette May 2024 #70
Healing vibes for both of you CountAllVotes May 2024 #71
Sending good thoughts and healing vibes to both of you. c-rational May 2024 #72
So very sorry to hear this. Isn't prostate cancer one of the most treatable of cancers? My dad had it, a good friend TeamProg May 2024 #73
I am so sorry--such a terrible diagnosis. pandr32 May 2024 #74
I am so sorry. murielm99 May 2024 #75
😞 duckworth969 May 2024 #76
My heart goes out to the two of you! PJMcK May 2024 #77
... Permanut May 2024 #78
So sorry to hear this, Deb virgdem May 2024 #79
Hugs to you and your husband, Deb. democrank May 2024 #80
My brother had his prostate removed due to ca - 15 years ago. He's 87 now. Peregrine Took May 2024 #81
Thank you again everyone. Love, debbie and rich. debm55 May 2024 #82
We are here for you deb. alwaysinasnit May 2024 #83
I'm so sorry, Deb. But please keep in mind that cancer treatments are so much better now than they were highplainsdem May 2024 #84
So sorry to hear this, Deb! Different Drummer May 2024 #85
Damn debm55. Praying he gets through the treatments, and has a full recovery. a kennedy May 2024 #86
So sorry to read this, debm55 peggysue2 May 2024 #87
Sending best wishes and healing thoughts Laurelin May 2024 #88
Bummer! ProfessorGAC May 2024 #89
Oh debm55! I'm so sorry to hear this news :( sdfernando May 2024 #90

hlthe2b

(113,963 posts)
6. Sending you warm thoughts and all my hopes that he will be one who does well with treatment.
Mon May 13, 2024, 04:50 PM
May 2024

Many do. Positive thoughts and healing wishes!

anciano

(2,256 posts)
8. So sorry to hear that you and Rich are going through this.
Mon May 13, 2024, 04:54 PM
May 2024

Your DU family is here for you. 🙏

JMCKUSICK

(6,048 posts)
10. I am so so sorry DebM55
Mon May 13, 2024, 04:55 PM
May 2024

Please listen to each other, hold hands through your shared grief and sorrow. Make decisions together. There is time to memoribrate together, to say thank you, To pack for whatever journey lies ahead, making sure your favorite moments are easily accessible in the carry on.
Every tear I shed is but a tiny payment for the unimaginable joy I experienced with you, Mine are tears of celebration and gratitude. There's plenty of room fortears of sadness and loss too of course but most will be tears of joy.
With all my prayers to our higher spirit, power, etc.
God Speed

beaglelover

(4,466 posts)
16. Hopefully it has not spread. As far as I know, Prostate cancer is slow growing and most men will get it if they
Mon May 13, 2024, 05:13 PM
May 2024

live long enough. Even if it has spread, I hope it is still treatable. Hugs to you both!

Diamond_Dog

(40,575 posts)
17. I'm so sorry!
Mon May 13, 2024, 05:16 PM
May 2024

((hugs))

Hopefully it hasn’t spread and they can treat it. I will keep you both in my thoughts.

LoisB

(13,028 posts)
20. Healing thoughts for you both, a great big hug, and strength to you both for the journey ahead.
Mon May 13, 2024, 05:32 PM
May 2024

happybird

(5,393 posts)
22. Sending you both love and hugs
Mon May 13, 2024, 05:37 PM
May 2024

I am so sorry you and Rich are going through this. We are here for you and ready to listen any time you need to let some of the stress and worry out.

mvd

(65,912 posts)
24. Deb, I am crying with you
Mon May 13, 2024, 05:53 PM
May 2024

Went through this with my dad. Hopefully it hasn’t spread like his cancer did. Keeping both of you in my thoughts.

Mr.Bill

(24,906 posts)
29. Sending healing vibes your way.
Mon May 13, 2024, 06:09 PM
May 2024

Never underestimate the power of a group of people thinking positively.

Elessar Zappa

(16,385 posts)
30. Oh no!
Mon May 13, 2024, 06:19 PM
May 2024

I’m keeping you and him in my thoughts, Deb. Don’t panic yet, though I know it’s easier said than done.

kimbutgar

(27,248 posts)
32. I'm so sorry debm55 prostrate cancer is insidious
Mon May 13, 2024, 06:27 PM
May 2024

I’m hoping it hasn’t spread. Take care and be strong!

MartyTheGreek

(732 posts)
34. I was in the hospital 5 days and about to do this protocol...
Mon May 13, 2024, 06:32 PM
May 2024

My prostate was enlarged and caused bleeding in my bladder after intense exercise and a hot sauna. I peed blood then hours later could not pee at all!
I finally got a catheter in me hours after my ER visit and tests revealed that my condition was benign.

I recently had two close friends pass from this disease and I had my mind set on trying this protocol. Go to YouTube and search for the Joe Tippins cancer story and discover what he did to cure himself of cancer that already spread.

Go to Face Book and ask to join this group and search the files there for his cancer type and look for success stories.

My thoughts are with you two! R/Marty

https://www.facebook.com/groups/244815949755622

barbtries

(31,308 posts)
35. I'm so sorry to hear that.
Mon May 13, 2024, 06:33 PM
May 2024

We'll be here.

there's a Cancer forum on DU as well, you may get some answers to your questions there.

WinstonSmith4740

(3,436 posts)
38. Never an easy path.
Mon May 13, 2024, 06:48 PM
May 2024

But please try to remember his is one of the most successbully treated. I walked this path with my husband, but his was not on that treatable list. It's a tough road, and he'll need to lean on you, so PLEASE remember to take care of yourself. It's easy to forget to do. We're all here for you.

And I'm just going to throw this out here...Mike was pretty much able to sail through chemo with help from friendly herbs. One before he went in, and one when he came out. No nausea, and he could eat well.

 

JohnSJ

(98,883 posts)
39. Take it a step at a time. If the PSMA shows that it is confined to the prostate, you have curable options available.
Mon May 13, 2024, 06:52 PM
May 2024

If it shows spread there are options available that can keep it stable for quite a long time.

Since the physician called for a PSMA scan it is likely you are at a comprehensive cancer center, and that would be a good thing, but regardless you may want to consult with a second opinion after the PSMA scan.

Wishing you all the best.






appleannie1

(5,457 posts)
43. I am so very sorry.
Mon May 13, 2024, 07:06 PM
May 2024

I know first hand how you feel. Hopefully they have caught it soon enough to treat. Sending strength and hope your way.

Niagara

(11,850 posts)
46. It's never easy to receive a cancer diagnosis.
Mon May 13, 2024, 07:52 PM
May 2024

Here's hoping that it hasn't spread.


Sending positive vibes and best wishes!

tblue37

(68,436 posts)
56. I am so sorry for this news. I hope he will be ok. Treatments are better now, so I will
Mon May 13, 2024, 10:09 PM
May 2024

hope for the best for him & you.

greatauntoftriplets

(179,005 posts)
57. I'm very sorry to hear this. It's a blow for you both.
Mon May 13, 2024, 10:58 PM
May 2024

My thoughts and vibes are with you, and hopefully he'll learn that the cancer hasn't spread.

My brother-in-law is a 20+-year prostate cancer survivor. They treated him with radioactive seeds that they inserted into his prostate. It worked and he's alive and healthy at 84.

Best of luck.

gademocrat7

(11,940 posts)
60. Sending love and hugs
Tue May 14, 2024, 06:23 AM
May 2024

to your husband and you. We are with you on this journey. Take care.

niyad

(132,440 posts)
62. (((((((((((((Deb and Rich))))))))))))) Holding you both in love and light.
Tue May 14, 2024, 09:07 AM
May 2024

I just now saw this, and I am so very sorry. Sending vibes for strength and healing and energy, for best possible outcome. Please know that your DU family is here for you both, so lean as hard as you need.

malthaussen

(18,567 posts)
65. That's rough.
Tue May 14, 2024, 09:55 AM
May 2024

But treatment works pretty well these days. Hopefully, he'll pull through.

-- Mal

CountAllVotes

(22,215 posts)
71. Healing vibes for both of you
Tue May 14, 2024, 11:30 AM
May 2024

Hang-in there Deb.

You both need one another now more than ever.

Very sad to read your news.



 

TeamProg

(6,630 posts)
73. So very sorry to hear this. Isn't prostate cancer one of the most treatable of cancers? My dad had it, a good friend
Tue May 14, 2024, 11:52 AM
May 2024

had it, they were treated.

Hoping for the best.

pandr32

(14,272 posts)
74. I am so sorry--such a terrible diagnosis.
Tue May 14, 2024, 12:03 PM
May 2024

My hope is that the treatment will work. Best to both of you.

virgdem

(2,318 posts)
79. So sorry to hear this, Deb
Tue May 14, 2024, 12:45 PM
May 2024

Sending positive thoughts and prayers for the best outcome to this horrible disease.
Stay strong. Your hubby will need you now more than ever.

highplainsdem

(62,139 posts)
84. I'm so sorry, Deb. But please keep in mind that cancer treatments are so much better now than they were
Tue May 14, 2024, 01:50 PM
May 2024

when we were kids. I lost both my grandmothers to cancer when I was a child, but haven't lost any relatives to cancer since then, though a number of them have needed treatment for different types of cancer. Just the word is scary, when you can remember times when the treatments weren't as good. But Rich will be getting expert care.

And we're here for you. Lots of prayers and healing vibes for Rich, and hugs for you.

Different Drummer

(9,083 posts)
85. So sorry to hear this, Deb!
Tue May 14, 2024, 02:03 PM
May 2024

Hoping and praying that Rich's cancer hasn't metastasized. Please remember that we are all here for you!

a kennedy

(35,978 posts)
86. Damn debm55. Praying he gets through the treatments, and has a full recovery.
Tue May 14, 2024, 02:53 PM
May 2024

♥️ ♥️ ♥️ 🙏🏻 we are all here for you and your husband.

peggysue2

(12,533 posts)
87. So sorry to read this, debm55
Tue May 14, 2024, 03:13 PM
May 2024

Very scary when this sort of diagnosis is given. My husband had a health (cancer scare) last October, his diagnosis liver cancer. Seemed like everything was turned upside down and inside out. But . . .

As shocking as that initial news was, his outcome was very good.

Here's hoping you and your husband have an equally positive result at the end of this.

Cancer sucks but good outcomes are possible.

Sending blessings in your direction.

Laurelin

(897 posts)
88. Sending best wishes and healing thoughts
Tue May 14, 2024, 03:20 PM
May 2024

My aunt was diagnosed with metastasized breat cancer back when the prognosis was death in 5 years. She found that out 10 years later and asked her oncologist why he hadn't told her. He said, you're a person, not a statistic. You'll die when it's your time to die, not when the mythical average person dies. Anyway she did die of cancer, 24 years after she was diagnosed. She was 76.

I'm praying you'll get good news on the PET.

sdfernando

(6,084 posts)
90. Oh debm55! I'm so sorry to hear this news :(
Tue May 14, 2024, 04:26 PM
May 2024

I wish there was more I could do.

Please remember your DU family is always here to listen and support both of you.

Sending all the healing vibes I can muster and hoping for a good outcome.

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