Ok, ok, am getting lightly hammered.......

[a kennedy]

Only reason I make it to Friday now days……husband died exactly 2 months and 1 day ago on May 4th……and I’m still alive. So……Friday was our night, like so many others, and damn it I’m drinking and watching stupid and movies he loved, and I’m talking to him, and missing him terribly. Happy Friday.

[onecaliberal]

1. Hugs

[magicarpet]

3. Be gentle with yourself....

[a kennedy]

13. Am trying.....but always needed him to say, but you DO look good.

[a kennedy]

12. ♥️ thank you.

[Dulcinea]

36. Peace and condolences.

He'll always be in your heart.

[niyad]

2. Hugggggs. You do whatever you need to do to help you get through this.

[a kennedy]

14. I will, and thank you for letting me do it.....

Just don’t know how long it’s gonna take. There is something everyday even 5 or 10 times a day I think about him. I miss him so much.

[a kennedy]

16. I will and thanks.

♥️.

[emulatorloo]

4. So so sorry for your loss. A big hug to you!

watching stupid and movies he loved, and I’m talking to him, and missing him terribly.

💔💔💔💔💔💔💔

[a kennedy]

17. Thanks and this is really the hardest part, watching his movies......

I watched them because he liked them……now I keep saying oh, hun, I see now why you liked this movie.

[lpbk2713]

5. Thanks for taking a break and talking to us.

Go right ahead. Don't let us interrupt.

[a kennedy]

18. Thank you.......

[badhair77]

6. I am so sorry for your loss. Please

give yourself some grace. Thinking of your shared times is all part of the grieving process. Hugs.

[a kennedy]

19. Grieving it's the worst.......i just want him back, I just want him here.

I do talk to him, I swear, I explane, I just miss him.

[badhair77]

23. It's been almost 4 years for me.

The sharp edges soften but I still miss him terribly. I just talked to him earlier today. Through it all I’ve found that gratitude and good memories have helped the most. I feel very grateful to have had the time and memories we had. I hope you can find some peace. Again, give yourself some grace and take care of yourself. Do special things for yourself.

[a kennedy]

24. Four years??? Oh my.......i hope for you as well you will find the peace that we both need to feel

better without them………

[badhair77]

28. We can never have too many hugs.

[ailsagirl]

7. I'm so sorry

[a kennedy]

20. Thank you......i's just so very hard.....

I see his damn slippers, his jackets, his damn underwear…..his EVERYTHING. AND I JUST MISS HIS ALL.

[debm55]

8. I am so sorry a kennedy. May his memories be a blessing to you. Take care and remember we love you. Love, Debbie

[a kennedy]

9. I love you all too......specially you debm55. How's your husband doing???

[debm55]

11. They are starting the radiation on July 23. They want to keep the hormone meds longer. His PSA has gone down--which is

great. Thank you a kennedy. Be good to yourself. and your husband will be with you forever. Love you, Debbie.

[Aristus]

10. Love, love, love...

I drink to the treasured memory of your husband…

Thank you for being here to share your memories of him with us…

[a kennedy]

21. Thank you for having drinks in memory of my husband....he would have loved that....

Thanks. K

[AllaN01Bear]

15. ""

[a kennedy]

22. Thank you.....

and love this Makes it feel like my husband and me really belong here, at DU.

[electric_blue68]

25. You're still in such an early part of the journey. Since you cared for him so much, it's going to be painful alot....

With Fri being your night - extra in your face!

You grieve the way that feels right to you.

[GPV]

26. *hugs*

[choie]

27. I am so very sorry, a kennedy

I lost my husband suddenly in 2016 and I don't know how I made it thru the first year. Grief is a bitch, and there's no right way to grieve.

[yonder]

29. I'm sorry for your loss and of those posting with similar heartbreak.

I wish I could help soak up that pain somehow but can only offer a few simple words.

[Joinfortmill]

30. He's with you. Hugs

[lapucelle]

31. ...

[Elessar Zappa]

32. I bet he was an amazing man.

RIP to him and peace to you.

[Fla Dem]

33. May you find peace and comfort. He'll always be with you.

[snot]

34. I think it's great that you're still talking to him.

Why not?

I've lived alone for long periods and at some point realized that vocalizing, both talking and singing, really helped. I read somewhere that birds must do a certain amount of singing in order to maintain their heart health; I've wondered if the same could be true for us.

So sorry for what you're going through!!!

[Duncanpup]

35. Hugs to you