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Aristus

(72,178 posts)
Thu Sep 12, 2024, 03:40 PM Sep 2024

I got laid off yesterday.

Surprise, surprise: it wasn’t due to office politics. It was a last hired, first fired situation for a company that has never had first-rate financial stats, and is scrambling after cost-cutting measures.

Plus, I was the oldest provider in my section, with undoubtedly the highest salary. So I accepted their very generous severance package, and called it a day.

I went back to the office this morning to close out my remaining charts, turn in my keys and my ID badge, and say goodbye to my colleagues.

Now I’m at my favorite local pub enjoying a burger and a beer. Looking forward to some time off. Except for when I had my kidney stone, I haven’t had more than a week off at a time in twelve years. I’m going to chill for a while.

I love you all…

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I got laid off yesterday. (Original Post) Aristus Sep 2024 OP
🫶🏽 blm Sep 2024 #1
Enjoy the break. Let us know your next venture. Joinfortmill Sep 2024 #2
So sorry . Apply for Unemployment. and enjoy the time. Take care. Love you. Deb. debm55 Sep 2024 #3
I second that Jerry2144 Sep 2024 #15
You can probably even apply online. LiberalBrooke Sep 2024 #48
Big, big hugs, my dear Aristus . . . CaliforniaPeggy Sep 2024 #4
Time off is good. And after, a new adventure. Scrivener7 Sep 2024 #5
So sorry. Hopefully, there is always an opening for good health care providers. patricia92243 Sep 2024 #6
It seems so common these days - TBF Sep 2024 #7
way back in the day, the worst performers were laid off Skittles Sep 2024 #11
totally true, sadly Dock_Yard Sep 2024 #22
enjoy life outside of work as long as you can Voltaire2 Sep 2024 #8
I'm sorry only if you are. I thought you kinda liked the hours there. Enjoy your time off. sinkingfeeling Sep 2024 #9
*hugs* May you find a better spot. GPV Sep 2024 #10
Damn. underpants Sep 2024 #12
I hope you have some good time off Alice Kramden Sep 2024 #13
Enjoy your time off. redstatebluegirl Sep 2024 #14
You are skilled and smart. You will get a better position in no time, if that is what you decide you want. LuckyCharms Sep 2024 #16
exactly- sometimes better is on the horizon et tu Sep 2024 #34
Here's hoping this will be one of those silver lining situations. 3catwoman3 Sep 2024 #17
I retired at the end of last year and Prof. Toru Tanaka Sep 2024 #132
I had to have a heart attack to retire. byronius Sep 2024 #18
Stress and worry are killers. SergeStorms Sep 2024 #27
Take care, Aristus gademocrat7 Sep 2024 #19
Good luck and you deserve the time off.nt moniss Sep 2024 #20
Similar to me exactly 4Y ago ... Dock_Yard Sep 2024 #21
Life is too short..... SergeStorms Sep 2024 #23
While it sucks to be at loose ends, thee will always be work for a PA Warpy Sep 2024 #24
And we love you. Good luck and enjoy a few chill days! erronis Sep 2024 #25
Bet your patients will miss you. Take care. Silent Type Sep 2024 #26
it really sounds like a mixed bag for you. barbtries Sep 2024 #28
I'm sorry mgardener Sep 2024 #29
krum AllaN01Bear Sep 2024 #30
No doubts, you will land on your feet when you decide to re-enter the job market. OAITW r.2.0 Sep 2024 #31
Good luck you'll find a better position in the future. kimbutgar Sep 2024 #32
"When one door closes another opens... other than that it's a pretty good ca" mahina Sep 2024 #124
Stay in the groove. cachukis Sep 2024 #33
You sound relaxed Wild blueberry Sep 2024 #35
Getting laid off was the only way Figarosmom Sep 2024 #36
I missed a voluntary severance program at my previous job by like a month when I left Shermann Sep 2024 #40
I may have a cocktail in your honor. BoomaofBandM Sep 2024 #37
Enjoy your time off, Aristus. Diamond_Dog Sep 2024 #38
Happy Birthday! Lulu KC Sep 2024 #66
Thank you! Diamond_Dog Sep 2024 #71
Oh my! Aristus Sep 2024 #74
Thank you, Aristus! Diamond_Dog Sep 2024 #75
I enjoyed a nice, citrusy Hefeweizen from a local brewery. Aristus Sep 2024 #79
Sounds delish Diamond_Dog Sep 2024 #88
Wishing you a very Happy Birthday, and a wonderful coming year. niyad Sep 2024 #86
Enjoy your time off ms.pamela Sep 2024 #39
Thank you. Aristus Sep 2024 #64
Good Rest and Good Luck 🍀 Clouds Passing Sep 2024 #41
Be sure to flip your status to "Open to Work" if you are on LinkedIn. Shermann Sep 2024 #42
Take this time to breathe. SunSeeker Sep 2024 #43
That sucks. So sorry, Aristus Wicked Blue Sep 2024 #44
Whatever you do, I hope you enjoy it. LoisB Sep 2024 #45
I'm sorry that happened. raccoon Sep 2024 #46
Getting laid off might be a blessing in disguise. Desert grandma Sep 2024 #47
I was laid off twice in my career from downsizing so I can sympathize. Lonestarblue Sep 2024 #49
Sounds like you'll do ok. CaptainTruth Sep 2024 #50
I'm sorry this happened to you. HeartsCanHope Sep 2024 #51
I'm glad you got severance! viva la Sep 2024 #52
See ya in the lounge later! AKwannabe Sep 2024 #53
Take it in stride. I like your rationale! Best, ED Evolve Dammit Sep 2024 #54
Enjoy! orangecrush Sep 2024 #55
I hope you enjoyed that burger and beer, you deserve it! KatyaR Sep 2024 #56
Enjoy the break Easterncedar Sep 2024 #57
No doubt your next gig will be even better for you! MLAA Sep 2024 #58
It was a local Hefeweizen. Aristus Sep 2024 #59
Courage mon brave! Mme. Defarge Sep 2024 #60
I will not. Aristus Sep 2024 #62
Wow, that was brief... malthaussen Sep 2024 #61
Ten months. Aristus Sep 2024 #63
how are you so sure those politics didn't factor into your layoff Skittles Sep 2024 #96
I'm not 100% sure. But sure enough. They do large-scale staff layoffs every ten years or so, Aristus Sep 2024 #100
enjoy the time for sure southmost Sep 2024 #65
Congratulations? GAJMac Sep 2024 #67
Activate your network. Hiring sites are beyond broken. usonian Sep 2024 #68
WoW! Was a shock reading your post. chillfactor Sep 2024 #69
It was very much their loss, Aristus. Wishing you lots of unexpected joys in your time off, and a much highplainsdem Sep 2024 #70
It's a temporary condition. COL Mustard Sep 2024 #72
I'm really sorry, but glad you sound like you'll be okay. LauraInLA Sep 2024 #73
This could be a blessing in disguise for you Niagara Sep 2024 #76
Have a wonderful reality and recover. chouchou Sep 2024 #77
Enjoy your time off & good luck finding the perfect position! SheltieLover Sep 2024 #78
Thank you! Aristus Sep 2024 #80
Yw! SheltieLover Sep 2024 #82
Right now, just being awake and not at work for an extended period of time would be an adventure. Aristus Sep 2024 #92
Well then, why not rest up then treat yourself to a vaca? SheltieLover Sep 2024 #95
We demand frequent updates.. Permanut Sep 2024 #81
Just in time for the holidays! Bayard Sep 2024 #83
Take care! You have the right perspective. Onthefly Sep 2024 #84
Don't be in a big hurry to go back to work. captain queeg Sep 2024 #85
And we love you back. So. .that other position you were going to start in niyad Sep 2024 #87
No. The position is still open. Aristus Sep 2024 #94
Enjoy your well earned time off, Aristus! ColinC Sep 2024 #89
Sorry to hear that biophile Sep 2024 #90
Probably not all bad... 2naSalit Sep 2024 #91
Congratulations on much deserved time off! Enjoy! nt Trueblue Texan Sep 2024 #93
Silver lining? True Dough Sep 2024 #97
Time to chill for a while... MiHale Sep 2024 #98
So sorry that happened to you Generic Brad Sep 2024 #99
Good luck. It wasn't your fault . So many things are out of our control. I hope you land on your feet. surfered Sep 2024 #101
Sounds like you planned ahead. Good job on that part. keithbvadu2 Sep 2024 #102
Enjoy your time off, Aristus. I'm sure there is a position sueh Sep 2024 #103
The first and only time I got laid off soldierant Sep 2024 #104
I misread the title as "I got laid yesterday" Polybius Sep 2024 #105
... Aristus Sep 2024 #107
After coming back to this thread several times...... calikid Sep 2024 #106
Aww... Aristus Sep 2024 #110
You've done so much good for so many. MontanaMama Sep 2024 #108
Enjoy your unexpected respite! AmBlue Sep 2024 #109
Recharge all your batteries, dear Aristus UpInArms Sep 2024 #111
I can relate. Lionel Mandrake Sep 2024 #112
Chilling for a while sounds like exactly the right thing DFW Sep 2024 #113
Here's To A Soft Landing ProfessorGAC Sep 2024 #114
enjoy poozwah Sep 2024 #115
Sending good thoughts Marthe48 Sep 2024 #116
Good luck to you SocialDemocrat61 Sep 2024 #117
8 years ago, I was let go from a 32 year career liberal N proud Sep 2024 #118
Five years is a very generous commitment at any age. Shermann Sep 2024 #134
Congratulations! You have been given a vacation RainCaster Sep 2024 #119
I hope you enjoy every moment of this well deserved time off - Erda Sep 2024 #120
A pause is good to reset. pandr32 Sep 2024 #121
Hope you enjoy your time off Picaro Sep 2024 #122
Love you too Aristus. mahina Sep 2024 #123
Happy for you. You "sound" totally okay with it. YES to that burger & beer NoSheep Sep 2024 #125
Sorry about your layoff, BlueKota Sep 2024 #126
Sorry to hear it SpankMe Sep 2024 #127
Enjoy the time off! roamer65 Sep 2024 #128
Look a it this way. bif Sep 2024 #129
Bill jcboon Sep 2024 #130
The dude abides. Prairie_Seagull Sep 2024 #131
On the Up Side... SleeplessinSoCal Sep 2024 #133

Jerry2144

(3,272 posts)
15. I second that
Thu Sep 12, 2024, 04:16 PM
Sep 2024

The benefits are like additional money while you take a break. Go tomorrow and apply

CaliforniaPeggy

(156,619 posts)
4. Big, big hugs, my dear Aristus . . .
Thu Sep 12, 2024, 03:46 PM
Sep 2024

Enjoy your well-earned time off. Take care of yourself!

I'm more than sure that there's a job out there that will suit you. Hope you find it when you're good and ready.

TBF

(36,665 posts)
7. It seems so common these days -
Thu Sep 12, 2024, 03:50 PM
Sep 2024

I was in my late 30's when I got laid off. It had never happened to me previously, so I figured I'd just have a nice summer. My mom said I should apply for unemployment & I figured ok I could do that. This was 20 years ago and there were requirements to apply for a certain number of jobs per week to claim. So I dutifully did that, and wouldn't you know I had a new job within a couple of weeks. It was a little less money but in my field so I took it (and didn't really get nearly as much pool time as I hoped!).

Hopefully you'll get a little time to rest before it starts up again.

Skittles

(171,704 posts)
11. way back in the day, the worst performers were laid off
Thu Sep 12, 2024, 03:53 PM
Sep 2024

now your accomplishments really don't mean that much, it's strictly numbers

Voltaire2

(15,377 posts)
8. enjoy life outside of work as long as you can
Thu Sep 12, 2024, 03:51 PM
Sep 2024

we are here for just a moment and then we are gone.

LuckyCharms

(22,645 posts)
16. You are skilled and smart. You will get a better position in no time, if that is what you decide you want.
Thu Sep 12, 2024, 04:23 PM
Sep 2024

In the meantime, enjoy your respite from the rat race!

et tu

(2,387 posts)
34. exactly- sometimes better is on the horizon
Thu Sep 12, 2024, 04:59 PM
Sep 2024

a friend of mine just recently got a severance package from
a business [hunter douglas] because their blinds are made in mexico
and accounting support is heading to india. but she definitely has degrees
and skills, something even better is on the horizon for her. many times in
a new job things are better- pay, working conditions and new friendships
to be made. she also is taking a month off before she dives into the 'new'.
best wishes for you~

3catwoman3

(29,402 posts)
17. Here's hoping this will be one of those silver lining situations.
Thu Sep 12, 2024, 04:30 PM
Sep 2024

I know things didn't live up to expectations at this place, despite sounding good going in.

Kick back, put your feet up, hoist a few, read some good books, and enjoy the time off. If you haven't had more than a week at a time in 12 years, you are way overdue. I'm a firm believer that "doing nothing is doing something."

Now that I am retired, people often ask me what I do. I tell them, "Whatever I want, and not whatever I don't want."

Prof. Toru Tanaka

(2,926 posts)
132. I retired at the end of last year and
Fri Sep 13, 2024, 01:32 PM
Sep 2024

I second your statement. Just keeping up on yardwork and helping with housework and laundry keep me busy now. That and my two fantasy football leagues.

Aristus, I hope you get a good opportunity in the future- I thought of that saying ‘when one door closes, another opens” when reading your post. Enjoy your break and all the best to you!

byronius

(7,973 posts)
18. I had to have a heart attack to retire.
Thu Sep 12, 2024, 04:34 PM
Sep 2024

Wake up call. It’s been a long and stressful career, and now I get to take it easy a bit.

I worked out regularly, no bad habits — just job stress. Whew. I accept the message.

SergeStorms

(20,584 posts)
27. Stress and worry are killers.
Thu Sep 12, 2024, 04:47 PM
Sep 2024

You're lucky you got "a wake up call." Many people just drop in their tracks, lights off. Enjoy your retirement.

Dock_Yard

(246 posts)
21. Similar to me exactly 4Y ago ...
Thu Sep 12, 2024, 04:41 PM
Sep 2024

Aged out of my small tech support work group at age 66.
The failing giant IT company was silently doing this to what the CEO called "dino-baby" staff for 2 decades.
The official reasons were made up out of loose ends, my pref reviews never alluded to any deficiencies.
Maddening.
I feel you, but I hope your life IMPROVES as much as mine has (in forced retirement).

SergeStorms

(20,584 posts)
23. Life is too short.....
Thu Sep 12, 2024, 04:43 PM
Sep 2024

to spend time worrying about things you can't control.
I'm sure you'll enjoy the time off, and if you should choose to seek employment once again, be happy we're in the Biden/Harris economy and not Shit-stain45's.
I've thoroughly enjoyed my retirement for 20+ years now, and I hope to continue enjoying it for 20+ more. 😀
Best wishes for you, Aristus!

Warpy

(114,614 posts)
24. While it sucks to be at loose ends, thee will always be work for a PA
Thu Sep 12, 2024, 04:44 PM
Sep 2024

even if you have to relocate to find it.

Time off is important. Septermber-October is the perfect time to travel.

barbtries

(31,307 posts)
28. it really sounds like a mixed bag for you.
Thu Sep 12, 2024, 04:47 PM
Sep 2024

enjoy your time off. But it never feels good to lose a job. I hope it wasn't too big of a surprise.

OAITW r.2.0

(32,133 posts)
31. No doubts, you will land on your feet when you decide to re-enter the job market.
Thu Sep 12, 2024, 04:51 PM
Sep 2024

Enjoy the Fall!

kimbutgar

(27,248 posts)
32. Good luck you'll find a better position in the future.
Thu Sep 12, 2024, 04:51 PM
Sep 2024

Or maybe you can change fields? I always worked in office jobs in the financial industry and in 2013 after my boss died and another temp job I worked at I got laid off with a nice severance. I took a job as a move/ packing person who pack up seniors and then unpack them on the other side. It is so rewarding from the office work and I reactivated my teaching credential and became a substitute teacher. I love working with the young and old.

Remember the old adage when one door closes another one opens! Good luck!

Wild blueberry

(8,295 posts)
35. You sound relaxed
Thu Sep 12, 2024, 05:04 PM
Sep 2024

Please enjoy your time.
Looking forward to hearing about your next adventure. We love you, too.

Figarosmom

(11,979 posts)
36. Getting laid off was the only way
Thu Sep 12, 2024, 05:05 PM
Sep 2024

I ever got a vacation. It also helped me get my college degree on all grants from displaced worker programs. It's better than out and out being fired. Good luck and enjoy your time off. Just don't take too long before looking for a new job.

Shermann

(9,062 posts)
40. I missed a voluntary severance program at my previous job by like a month when I left
Thu Sep 12, 2024, 05:17 PM
Sep 2024

I would be great to bank a severance package and then roll right into your next job.

BoomaofBandM

(1,956 posts)
37. I may have a cocktail in your honor.
Thu Sep 12, 2024, 05:08 PM
Sep 2024

Enjoy your time off. Maybe have two ask me anything buzz nights.

Diamond_Dog

(40,569 posts)
38. Enjoy your time off, Aristus.
Thu Sep 12, 2024, 05:10 PM
Sep 2024

You definitely deserve some time to recharge your batteries!

Let’s do a toast ….

To you for being so hardworking, compassionate, and a good Democrat

To me cause it’s my birthday today!

Cheers!

Diamond_Dog

(40,569 posts)
75. Thank you, Aristus!
Thu Sep 12, 2024, 07:47 PM
Sep 2024

I’m so boring. Just having a glass of my usual Chardonnay. I’m sure you’ve had some exotic craft beer with your burger.

Do you have any leads on another workplace? In your field, you must be in high demand.

Aristus

(72,178 posts)
79. I enjoyed a nice, citrusy Hefeweizen from a local brewery.
Thu Sep 12, 2024, 07:54 PM
Sep 2024

Yum!

I could always go back to my old employer. Yeah, I would face the prospect, like before (and the reason I left in the first place) of dying from overwork. But at least going back would be as easy as walking in the clinic door and talking to the manager.

An old colleague of mine (who recently ran for the local school board as a Democrat, and for whom I voted!) works for an organization I have applied to before, but they didn't have any openings in my field. I'll try there again some time.

Diamond_Dog

(40,569 posts)
88. Sounds delish
Thu Sep 12, 2024, 08:18 PM
Sep 2024


Your old workplace (and the patients) will be lucky to have you back (if that’s what you decide).

ms.pamela

(88 posts)
39. Enjoy your time off
Thu Sep 12, 2024, 05:14 PM
Sep 2024

Aristus, I believe you live in Washington State and work in the medical field. You won't have a hard time finding work here but finding a good workplace is another thing. Good Luck

Aristus

(72,178 posts)
64. Thank you.
Thu Sep 12, 2024, 06:14 PM
Sep 2024

I notice you post very little here. So I appreciate your kind and thoughtful reply all the more.

Thanks again...



Shermann

(9,062 posts)
42. Be sure to flip your status to "Open to Work" if you are on LinkedIn.
Thu Sep 12, 2024, 05:20 PM
Sep 2024

I may be in the same boat next year; things are already in motion.

SunSeeker

(58,278 posts)
43. Take this time to breathe.
Thu Sep 12, 2024, 05:22 PM
Sep 2024

Enjoy this opportunity you have been given. When one door closes, another always opens.

Desert grandma

(1,076 posts)
47. Getting laid off might be a blessing in disguise.
Thu Sep 12, 2024, 05:37 PM
Sep 2024

It has always been that for me. I was able to take some much needed time off, and it always led to a better position later. I hope the same for you! Enjoy the rest you so deserve!

Lonestarblue

(13,474 posts)
49. I was laid off twice in my career from downsizing so I can sympathize.
Thu Sep 12, 2024, 05:43 PM
Sep 2024

That said, I ended up in better situations. I’m wishing you some downtime just to enjoy life and then a whole new experience for you to love!

CaptainTruth

(8,198 posts)
50. Sounds like you'll do ok.
Thu Sep 12, 2024, 05:43 PM
Sep 2024

I wish you all the luck in the world.

When I was in a similar situation years ago I held out for the generous severance package, then took a year off to have some fun, do some things I always wanted to do, & think about what I wanted to do with the rest of my life.

I decided to start my own business in a different field, something I enjoy doing, & I've never regretted it. It's hard work but I love being my own boss & I have so many satisfied customers it can be a challenge to juggle all their projects, but I wouldn't want it any other way.

I hope you also find a path that makes you happy!

HeartsCanHope

(1,680 posts)
51. I'm sorry this happened to you.
Thu Sep 12, 2024, 05:49 PM
Sep 2024

Enjoy your time off. When you are ready I'm sure you will be able to find a new position. Take care.

viva la

(4,598 posts)
52. I'm glad you got severance!
Thu Sep 12, 2024, 05:50 PM
Sep 2024

My whole department got laid off last year, but they paid us for another 3 months. I got panicked and started looking for a job right away, and surprise, got one immediately. I kind of wish I would have taken a month off and just enjoyed my leisure.

KatyaR

(3,639 posts)
56. I hope you enjoyed that burger and beer, you deserve it!
Thu Sep 12, 2024, 06:01 PM
Sep 2024

Enjoy your downtime. It's precious.

Easterncedar

(6,265 posts)
57. Enjoy the break
Thu Sep 12, 2024, 06:04 PM
Sep 2024

I am so happy being retired, much as I enjoyed my job. I am very sorry for the people you have been caring for, but it can be a joy to feel free to take care of yourself.
Please do!

MLAA

(19,741 posts)
58. No doubt your next gig will be even better for you!
Thu Sep 12, 2024, 06:06 PM
Sep 2024

Now, to the important question, what kind of beer did you order?

malthaussen

(18,567 posts)
61. Wow, that was brief...
Thu Sep 12, 2024, 06:09 PM
Sep 2024

... doesn't seem like you had that job very long at all. Their loss, assuredly.

-- Mal

Aristus

(72,178 posts)
63. Ten months.
Thu Sep 12, 2024, 06:10 PM
Sep 2024

Only the first two months were without stress, related to the kinds of petty office politics I never has to deal with at my old job.

Skittles

(171,704 posts)
96. how are you so sure those politics didn't factor into your layoff
Thu Sep 12, 2024, 08:39 PM
Sep 2024

petty reasoning kind of thing

Aristus

(72,178 posts)
100. I'm not 100% sure. But sure enough. They do large-scale staff layoffs every ten years or so,
Thu Sep 12, 2024, 08:56 PM
Sep 2024

because the higher-ups are lousy at managing money. I have a pretty large salary, and was hired very recently, so I'm sure those put me in the crosshairs.

southmost

(834 posts)
65. enjoy the time for sure
Thu Sep 12, 2024, 06:20 PM
Sep 2024

got a severance package in 2019 resulting from a merger, was tough finding a job, but did appreciate the time off ...and eventually changed career paths, look up 🫡😁

usonian

(25,300 posts)
68. Activate your network. Hiring sites are beyond broken.
Thu Sep 12, 2024, 07:04 PM
Sep 2024

And post your resume here (or DU mail it)
🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀

chillfactor

(7,694 posts)
69. WoW! Was a shock reading your post.
Thu Sep 12, 2024, 07:06 PM
Sep 2024

Glad you got a good severance package. Take some time off to smell the roses!

highplainsdem

(62,134 posts)
70. It was very much their loss, Aristus. Wishing you lots of unexpected joys in your time off, and a much
Thu Sep 12, 2024, 07:08 PM
Sep 2024

better job in the future with a more dependable employer.

Niagara

(11,849 posts)
76. This could be a blessing in disguise for you
Thu Sep 12, 2024, 07:48 PM
Sep 2024

Take some time off, stick to your normal sleep schedule, network with past and current colleagues and stick to your workouts.


When your ready get back out there!


Enjoy your burger and beer.

Aristus

(72,178 posts)
92. Right now, just being awake and not at work for an extended period of time would be an adventure.
Thu Sep 12, 2024, 08:25 PM
Sep 2024

I left my old job on a Friday and started my new job the very next Monday. Other than a week off to fly to Colorado to attend my granddaughter's high school graduation, I haven't really had any time off since then.

Bayard

(29,679 posts)
83. Just in time for the holidays!
Thu Sep 12, 2024, 07:59 PM
Sep 2024

Fall is the best time of year. Take long walks in the woods, and enjoy your down time.

Could you just go ahead and retire?

captain queeg

(11,780 posts)
85. Don't be in a big hurry to go back to work.
Thu Sep 12, 2024, 08:09 PM
Sep 2024

Don’t know how old you are but maybe you can find a way to retire. I retired at 62 for medical reason, which seems to be a common case. For a couple years I toyed with idea of returning to work but the retired life suits me.

niyad

(132,429 posts)
87. And we love you back. So. .that other position you were going to start in
Thu Sep 12, 2024, 08:16 PM
Sep 2024

Nov (if I remember correctly???) is no more? I know you will land on your feet, but sending vibes for the absolutely most perfect position for you!

Enjoy this time off, relax, and savour this wonderful fall season. How is Mrs. A doing?

Aristus

(72,178 posts)
94. No. The position is still open.
Thu Sep 12, 2024, 08:28 PM
Sep 2024

But I won't be around to take it, even if I still wanted to. I withdrew my application for the position when I learned that the doctor who has been making my life miserable for the last eight months was going to be working there, too. Working with her would definitely not be worth the shorter commute.

As I have said several times before in my drinking threads: Office politics.

biophile

(1,421 posts)
90. Sorry to hear that
Thu Sep 12, 2024, 08:23 PM
Sep 2024

I hope new adventures are ahead for you! You know, the old “when one door closes…” In the meantime, you deserve the break! A person of your talent and charm will always land on their feet!
Good luck!

2naSalit

(102,778 posts)
91. Probably not all bad...
Thu Sep 12, 2024, 08:24 PM
Sep 2024

As you mentioned, it gives you some chill time. All in all, I think congrats are in order.

True Dough

(26,664 posts)
97. Silver lining?
Thu Sep 12, 2024, 08:41 PM
Sep 2024

Luxembourg, Liechtenstein, or Andorra. The time might be now?!?

Some employer is going to be head over heels to have you. In the meantime, we might get a double or triple dose of Aristus around the Lounge. We all win!!!

MiHale

(13,032 posts)
98. Time to chill for a while...
Thu Sep 12, 2024, 08:45 PM
Sep 2024

You are where you are at the exact time you’re supposed to be there.

Generic Brad

(14,374 posts)
99. So sorry that happened to you
Thu Sep 12, 2024, 08:49 PM
Sep 2024

You sound like you have a good perspective on the matter. I wish you the best as you reorientate yourself.

surfered

(13,455 posts)
101. Good luck. It wasn't your fault . So many things are out of our control. I hope you land on your feet.
Thu Sep 12, 2024, 09:07 PM
Sep 2024

sueh

(1,955 posts)
103. Enjoy your time off, Aristus. I'm sure there is a position
Thu Sep 12, 2024, 09:48 PM
Sep 2024

waiting for you if you want it.

soldierant

(9,354 posts)
104. The first and only time I got laid off
Thu Sep 12, 2024, 09:59 PM
Sep 2024

I was in my mid-sixties. The company moved my department's functions to other states. Prior to that I had always had somewhere to go in advance of leaving - starting with leaving the military and having the GI bill. But at least at that point I didn't have to wait long to be full age for Social Security. I hope you find something that will work for you equally smoothly, though I'm sure not in the same details.

Polybius

(21,900 posts)
105. I misread the title as "I got laid yesterday"
Thu Sep 12, 2024, 10:10 PM
Sep 2024

Hope that at least put a smile on your face. Good luck and hope you find another job soon!

calikid

(710 posts)
106. After coming back to this thread several times......
Thu Sep 12, 2024, 10:10 PM
Sep 2024

I think this is a good thing you losing your "job", we all here will get to enjoy more time with you!

MontanaMama

(24,721 posts)
108. You've done so much good for so many.
Thu Sep 12, 2024, 10:25 PM
Sep 2024

Time for doing some good for you. I’m sorry about the circumstances but may they wind up being a blessing.

AmBlue

(3,460 posts)
109. Enjoy your unexpected respite!
Thu Sep 12, 2024, 10:27 PM
Sep 2024

May you find a new opportunity that better suits you, and that has better command of their finances. In the meantime, time to stop and smell the roses.

Lionel Mandrake

(4,209 posts)
112. I can relate.
Fri Sep 13, 2024, 12:39 AM
Sep 2024

I got laid off in 1992 after 23 years at the same company. I also had mixed feelings about it.

DFW

(60,180 posts)
113. Chilling for a while sounds like exactly the right thing
Fri Sep 13, 2024, 05:46 AM
Sep 2024

I think I’d do the same under the circumstances, although at age 72, if I got laid off, I’d probably say what the hell, and call it a day. I’ve been with same outfit since August, 1975, and have a little equity in the company, so I’d say, pay me out and we’re done.

Boredom terrifies me more than anything else, so make sure it doesn’t stalk you. I hear the labor market isn’t too bad in the States right now, so unless your only marketable skill is training squirrels to speak Bulgarian, I would think you could find some gainful employment somewhere, if you decide you’re in the market sgain.

poozwah

(413 posts)
115. enjoy
Fri Sep 13, 2024, 08:58 AM
Sep 2024

what a great attitude! enjoy your unscheduled vacation! best of luck to you in the future!

Marthe48

(23,174 posts)
116. Sending good thoughts
Fri Sep 13, 2024, 09:07 AM
Sep 2024

It is a surprise, because it is so soon after you landed your position. Maybe it's better in the long run to get away from a company that seems to be unsure of its near term and long term goals.

At the end of the day, it cannot be just about the bottom line.

liberal N proud

(61,194 posts)
118. 8 years ago, I was let go from a 32 year career
Fri Sep 13, 2024, 09:29 AM
Sep 2024

It was office politics as the VP doing the layoffs had a grudge against engineering.
Walked in one morning and my manager was walking out saying nothing, I was next, I reach my office and received a call to come to his office. Then they went down the line letting all my people go.

It was a shocker, about 3 months before I found something, it looked like a good fit until after about 4 months, they just shut down. Financial troubles.

It took me another 3 months, I worked at AutoZone for a few, did some IT work for several months before landing another engineering position, did that for 5 years before walking away because of office politics, that and a small company had been recruiting me for months. I changed companies and roles at 64, promising the owner I would work 5 years before I retire, health permitting.

Just don’t get discouraged, enjoy your time off if you can and know you will find another job.

Shermann

(9,062 posts)
134. Five years is a very generous commitment at any age.
Fri Sep 13, 2024, 03:40 PM
Sep 2024

I'm debating making a similar commitment in the near future. The alternative is the gig economy.

Erda

(231 posts)
120. I hope you enjoy every moment of this well deserved time off -
Fri Sep 13, 2024, 10:11 AM
Sep 2024

and every moment into the future!

Picaro

(2,393 posts)
122. Hope you enjoy your time off
Fri Sep 13, 2024, 11:02 AM
Sep 2024

Sometimes stepping off the treadmill for a bit can be very restorative.

BlueKota

(5,342 posts)
126. Sorry about your layoff,
Fri Sep 13, 2024, 11:26 AM
Sep 2024

but glad you have sometime for rest and relaxation. Hope you have many brighter days ahead.

SpankMe

(3,719 posts)
127. Sorry to hear it
Fri Sep 13, 2024, 11:27 AM
Sep 2024

I'm glad there was a good severance package. I was laid off in 2021 under similar circumstances, but there was no severance. Just a final paycheck and escort out the door after being watched cleaning out my cubicle.

They probably hired you for your experience to help guide and build your area of the company. Your pay was close to being commensurate with your graybeard status. Incredibly, this status also makes you a tempting target come RIF time.

Enjoy your time off! I hope you can turn something up soon.

roamer65

(37,953 posts)
128. Enjoy the time off!
Fri Sep 13, 2024, 11:29 AM
Sep 2024

If I get severanced, I plan on taking a couple of months off and then looking for some contract jobs.

bif

(26,993 posts)
129. Look a it this way.
Fri Sep 13, 2024, 11:31 AM
Sep 2024

When you're working, all you think about is what you'd do if you had time off. And when you're not working, all you think about is getting another job. So just chill and make the best of it!

Prairie_Seagull

(4,688 posts)
131. The dude abides.
Fri Sep 13, 2024, 01:28 PM
Sep 2024

Sorry this happened to you.

I have books stacked to the arm on my recliner and I am retired. I can only imagine what your reading list is like.
Start with the fun stuff. haha

SleeplessinSoCal

(10,412 posts)
133. On the Up Side...
Fri Sep 13, 2024, 03:19 PM
Sep 2024

More time to volunteer to elect Kamala/Tim!

Meanwhile, collect that unemployment insurance and eventually find that perfect fit.



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