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This. that or the other------personally give out candy at door. leave candy filled bowl on porch. or don't give. (Original Post) debm55 Oct 2024 OP
I avoid the whole thing altogether - I usually go out for the evening Ocelot II Oct 2024 #1
Thank you Ocelot II. That's a good plain. debm55 Oct 2024 #5
Our area is too rural for door-to-door trick or treating PJMcK Oct 2024 #2
Thank you PJMcK That is very bice of you. debm55 Oct 2024 #6
Put on a show on the street gab13by13 Oct 2024 #3
Oh you are bad. HAHAHAHHAHHAHAHAH. That's a lot of kids. debm55 Oct 2024 #7
Police do a trick or treat thing here, presumably to keep the kiddos SheltieLover Oct 2024 #4
That's a great idea. Thank you SheltieLover. debm55 Oct 2024 #8
We don't get many, but I do love seeing the kiddos! Silver Gaia Oct 2024 #9
Thank you Silver Gala. debm55 Oct 2024 #10
Perfect weather, anticipate 60 or so kids to hand small packages of organic gummy bears. quaint Oct 2024 #11
Thank you quaint. debm55 Oct 2024 #12
Hang out with neighbors in the street and hand out candy Phentex Oct 2024 #13
Thank you Phentex. That's what we do. debm55 Oct 2024 #14
I always allow the trick or treaters to choose 1 or 2 items from my treat bowl Niagara Oct 2024 #15
Same here. Thank you Niagara. debm55 Oct 2024 #16
You're welcome, Debbie Niagara Oct 2024 #17
I turned away a couple of octogenarians this evening True Dough Oct 2024 #30
I think it's someone from DU playing tricks on you, True Niagara Oct 2024 #46
I go to my bank, pick up several rolls of quarters. chouchou Oct 2024 #18
HAHAHAHAHAHAHHA. that's true and stuck eating the leftovers. debm55 Oct 2024 #19
We turn off any and all outdoor lights and don't answer the door. CTyankee Oct 2024 #20
Thank you CTyankee debm55 Oct 2024 #22
Last five years, we've had no trick or treaters. Elessar Zappa Oct 2024 #21
We have had less and less as the kids have grown up and moved. debm55 Oct 2024 #24
We Answer The Door ProfessorGAC Oct 2024 #23
So do we. debm55 Oct 2024 #25
Thank you ProfessorGAC. It takes a trip up three sets of steps to get to our house. So now we use the garaage. debm55 Oct 2024 #42
We live in a senior community so no kids but radical noodle Oct 2024 #26
Headline in the next Seniors Sunrise Gazette: True Dough Oct 2024 #31
That was my fear radical noodle Oct 2024 #47
Aha! True Dough Oct 2024 #48
What would you expect from someone who grew up radical noodle Oct 2024 #50
That would have been a great idea and I bet you could have had others join you. debm55 Oct 2024 #43
A few "giving out" ideas for next year Niagara Nov 2024 #62
Great ideas! radical noodle Nov 2024 #64
Perhaps you could come up with even better ideas for next year, radical noodle Niagara Nov 2024 #68
Hand out candy at the front door gademocrat7 Oct 2024 #27
That's a neat idea. debm55 Oct 2024 #44
This message was self-deleted by its author debm55 Oct 2024 #45
Hand out candy at the door PikaBlue Oct 2024 #28
Thank you PikaBlue. debm55 Oct 2024 #37
We usually give out candy at the door. Ilikepurple Oct 2024 #29
Thank you ilikepurple. debm55 Oct 2024 #38
Giving out candy now! arkielib Oct 2024 #32
Six minutes to go for ours. debm55 Oct 2024 #39
In person. FalloutShelter Oct 2024 #33
That's always fun to do. debm55 Oct 2024 #40
We live in a rural area Jilly_in_VA Oct 2024 #34
thank you Jilly_in_VA debm55 Oct 2024 #41
We hand our candy at the door. onecaliberal Oct 2024 #35
Thank you onecaliberal. debm55 Oct 2024 #36
Mrs. Ed and I have a system. Mister Ed Oct 2024 #49
Thank you, Mister Ed, That sounds familiar. debm55 Oct 2024 #55
Don't give. Island Blue Oct 2024 #51
Thank you Island Blue. That sounds really great what you community did to get together. debm55 Oct 2024 #56
We don't give as we don't have anyone stopping by...the kids on the street GP6971 Oct 2024 #52
Yes, I understand. I counted and we had 15 kids. After waiting for 45 minutes for kids to come we called it a day. debm55 Oct 2024 #57
Most of my near by neighbors kids grew up and moved BlueKota Oct 2024 #53
A teenager came by with no costume The Wizard Oct 2024 #54
I uually give to the teens. Heck if might have been his costume debm55 Oct 2024 #59
No candy here..there are no side walks, no street lights and bits of acreage between Tikki Oct 2024 #58
Tiki . i am very happy for safety of the chidren.. debm55 Oct 2024 #60
Gave out candy at the door. We love Luciferous Nov 2024 #61
Thank you Luciferous. debm55 Nov 2024 #65
I decorate and give it out and the door. OldBaldy1701E Nov 2024 #63
Thank you very much OldBaldy1701E debm55 Nov 2024 #66
One year, I left a bowl of candy on my porch... ailsagirl Nov 2024 #67
I understand. Thank you ailsagirl debm55 Nov 2024 #73
Yesterday when I went out to pick up candy and the empty wrappers, there weren't any. quaint Nov 2024 #69
Thank you quant. debm55 Nov 2024 #72
I hand it out. Dulcinea Nov 2024 #70
Thank you Dulcinea. debm55 Nov 2024 #71

Ocelot II

(130,533 posts)
1. I avoid the whole thing altogether - I usually go out for the evening
Thu Oct 31, 2024, 09:42 AM
Oct 2024

so I don't have to buy candy, which I would eat, and otherwise deal with it. We don't get a lot of trick-or-treaters anyhow, and the weather is just awful so far today - cold, raining, windy, and predicted to get colder and start snowing.

PJMcK

(25,048 posts)
2. Our area is too rural for door-to-door trick or treating
Thu Oct 31, 2024, 09:46 AM
Oct 2024

It wouldn’t be safe so the community has a kids’ party the weekend before Halloween. Although my son is grown up, we usually make a monetary contribution for the party.

gab13by13

(32,321 posts)
3. Put on a show on the street
Thu Oct 31, 2024, 09:47 AM
Oct 2024

Add an animatronics every year. Make the little kids cry. Usually get 400 kids, only got 300 this year, PM me for candy.

SheltieLover

(80,454 posts)
4. Police do a trick or treat thing here, presumably to keep the kiddos
Thu Oct 31, 2024, 09:49 AM
Oct 2024

safe, so I don't do anything.

Silver Gaia

(5,361 posts)
9. We don't get many, but I do love seeing the kiddos!
Thu Oct 31, 2024, 10:08 AM
Oct 2024

I put it in their bags myself so I can see how cute they are. I loved it when I was a kid, and I love it now!

We have decorations and lights up, too.

quaint

(5,080 posts)
11. Perfect weather, anticipate 60 or so kids to hand small packages of organic gummy bears.
Thu Oct 31, 2024, 10:54 AM
Oct 2024

Phentex

(16,709 posts)
13. Hang out with neighbors in the street and hand out candy
Thu Oct 31, 2024, 11:43 AM
Oct 2024

while snacking and imbibing for those who choose.

Niagara

(11,850 posts)
15. I always allow the trick or treaters to choose 1 or 2 items from my treat bowl
Thu Oct 31, 2024, 01:56 PM
Oct 2024

If the trick or treaters are very young, I'll let them know what's available in my treat bowl.


Anyone who shows up at my door in costume is getting a treat. I don't do age limits.


👻🍁🎃

True Dough

(26,667 posts)
30. I turned away a couple of octogenarians this evening
Thu Oct 31, 2024, 07:34 PM
Oct 2024

Or maybe those were kids dressed up as elderly people. Hold on, I better go see if I can catch up with them. If it's the real deal, it won't take too long.

chouchou

(3,144 posts)
18. I go to my bank, pick up several rolls of quarters.
Thu Oct 31, 2024, 02:23 PM
Oct 2024

Little kids get one quarter, big kids 2 quarters. Everybody seems to like it and seems like the parent appreciates it..
(I've done it for years in order to not eat the damn leftovers until I look like Porky-Hog!

ProfessorGAC

(76,703 posts)
23. We Answer The Door
Thu Oct 31, 2024, 05:17 PM
Oct 2024

We give a few mini-candy bars & a bag of chips to each kid.
Thing runs 3½ hours, so if get tired of it, I just put the bin on the steps and put a sign saying "Take A Few".
But, I usually stick it out for 80-90% of the time period.

debm55

(60,612 posts)
42. Thank you ProfessorGAC. It takes a trip up three sets of steps to get to our house. So now we use the garaage.
Thu Oct 31, 2024, 07:59 PM
Oct 2024

radical noodle

(10,595 posts)
26. We live in a senior community so no kids but
Thu Oct 31, 2024, 07:28 PM
Oct 2024

I've often been tempted to dress up and go house to house giving out candy to the neighbors. The only thing that's stopped me is that 80% or more are diabetic and therefore shouldn't have candy. I think it would be great fun otherwise.

True Dough

(26,667 posts)
31. Headline in the next Seniors Sunrise Gazette:
Thu Oct 31, 2024, 07:39 PM
Oct 2024
Radical Noodle Instigates Three Diabetic Comas In Community


Yeah, I can see how you'd want to avoid something like that.

radical noodle

(10,595 posts)
47. That was my fear
Thu Oct 31, 2024, 09:02 PM
Oct 2024

I might be driven out of the community. I'm already in trouble for speeding.

Niagara

(11,850 posts)
62. A few "giving out" ideas for next year
Fri Nov 1, 2024, 07:15 AM
Nov 2024

Seniors always appreciate the little things so I wanted to throw out a few "giving out" ideas for next Halloween. You could have a treat bowl to pass out the variety of items.


1. Word searches. Reasonably priced at the dollar store.


2. Deck of playing cards. I'm not a senior but I always have a deck of playing cards in my home because I'm "old school" that way.


3. Scratch off lottery tickets. Could be placed in a Halloween greeting card.


4. Post office stamps. You can purchase a book, sheet or roll of stamps and decide where you want to tear the perforated line and how many you want to hand out. Don't forget to keep some for yourself if you need to. Could be placed in a Halloween greeting card.


5. Sugar free candy. They make a variety of sugar free candy, someone might appreciate the gesture.

Niagara

(11,850 posts)
68. Perhaps you could come up with even better ideas for next year, radical noodle
Sat Nov 2, 2024, 09:11 AM
Nov 2024

You're welcome!

Response to gademocrat7 (Reply #27)

PikaBlue

(495 posts)
28. Hand out candy at the door
Thu Oct 31, 2024, 07:30 PM
Oct 2024

I, typically, have over 100 trick-or-treaters. I may double that amount this year because the weather is clear and very warm. There are times when I would prefer to tuck in and just read; however, there are so few fun, community events for children these days so I try to help keep the tradition alive. As for any leftover goodies, my junior and graduate-level students scarf those right down. 😉

Ilikepurple

(677 posts)
29. We usually give out candy at the door.
Thu Oct 31, 2024, 07:31 PM
Oct 2024

The number a treat or treaters varies so much we seem t9 either run out of candy or have too much left over. This feels like a too much left year because we bought a lot of candy. We usually donate surplus candy.

arkielib

(436 posts)
32. Giving out candy now!
Thu Oct 31, 2024, 07:47 PM
Oct 2024

I loved trick or treating when I was a kid, and loved even more later taking my much younger sister trick-or-treating. I would keep telling her “just one more house” when she got tired and wanted to go home. Giving out candy brings back some good memories.

Jilly_in_VA

(14,371 posts)
34. We live in a rural area
Thu Oct 31, 2024, 07:47 PM
Oct 2024

and off the road. I have never seen a trick-or-treater here. But we turn off the outside lights anyway.

Mister Ed

(6,927 posts)
49. Mrs. Ed and I have a system.
Thu Oct 31, 2024, 09:19 PM
Oct 2024

I sit out on the porch in the cold handing out candy, and she watches over me to make sure I do it right.

Island Blue

(6,287 posts)
51. Don't give.
Thu Oct 31, 2024, 10:04 PM
Oct 2024

Trick-or-treating used to be big in my neighborhood and I handed candy out, but for the past several years, the downtown area of my tiny little town has transformed into Halloween central. Homes, businesses & churches all participate with many giving out candy to 1,000 or so kids. It’s a really cool event!

debm55

(60,612 posts)
56. Thank you Island Blue. That sounds really great what you community did to get together.
Thu Oct 31, 2024, 10:39 PM
Oct 2024

GP6971

(38,013 posts)
52. We don't give as we don't have anyone stopping by...the kids on the street
Thu Oct 31, 2024, 10:08 PM
Oct 2024

are all grown up and our cul-de-sac is very much off the beaten path.

debm55

(60,612 posts)
57. Yes, I understand. I counted and we had 15 kids. After waiting for 45 minutes for kids to come we called it a day.
Thu Oct 31, 2024, 10:47 PM
Oct 2024

You would think we would get it but we still station us and our bowlful of candy in the driveway.

BlueKota

(5,345 posts)
53. Most of my near by neighbors kids grew up and moved
Thu Oct 31, 2024, 10:16 PM
Oct 2024

away. Also the road we live on road that is very busy, and a lot of people drive 75 even though the speed limit is 45. There are people who still walk, jog, and ride bikes on it, but I think they are taking too much of a risk. It's dangerous and certainly not safe for kids even if accompaniedby an adult.

So no trick or treaters here.

The Wizard

(13,735 posts)
54. A teenager came by with no costume
Thu Oct 31, 2024, 10:16 PM
Oct 2024

I asked him if he wanted a celery stalk.
I left some candy in a bowl being held by one of the decorations. The first kids that came by took all the candy. I just waited at the door after that.
We had about 50 kids come by, and they all walked away with candy and a smile.

Tikki

(15,140 posts)
58. No candy here..there are no side walks, no street lights and bits of acreage between
Thu Oct 31, 2024, 11:03 PM
Oct 2024

homes where we live.
No parent would bring children in this area.
We don't want teens to venture here because of the traffic on the narrow road.

Halloween just doesn't vibe here.

Tikki

OldBaldy1701E

(11,142 posts)
63. I decorate and give it out and the door.
Fri Nov 1, 2024, 07:34 AM
Nov 2024

Not anymore, as this neighborhood has done a good job of discouraging anyone from ever setting foot on the property. So, we don't get trick or treaters. Hell, we don't get the time of day from anyone else on this street. By and large, everyone around here seems to want to act this way, so this is no surprise,. I guess.

But, back in the day, we would set up and the entire street was ready as well. Our street was one of the 'famous' ones for Halloween. We also did not discriminate against a visitor. If they wanted some candy, they got some. (I know my fat, old, diabetic ass could not eat any of it, so out it goes!)

ailsagirl

(24,287 posts)
67. One year, I left a bowl of candy on my porch...
Sat Nov 2, 2024, 07:30 AM
Nov 2024

Next morning it was gone. I went downstairs to look around (I lived on the second floor) and I found the empty bowl in the flower bed. That was the last time I did Halloween.

quaint

(5,080 posts)
69. Yesterday when I went out to pick up candy and the empty wrappers, there weren't any.
Sat Nov 2, 2024, 10:11 AM
Nov 2024

Not one on the porch or in the street. I was amazed until I realized I had no teenager visits and the little ones had one to three adults with them. Nice surprise. Just sharing.

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