Good morning everyone
I'm still alive and kicking. Please forgive me for not posting sooner, I'm still a horrible mess but breathing.
Please know I've read your comments but my brain is really foggy and slow so it will take some time to be able respond.
You all have been amazing friends and most importantly, you helped me go into surgery with a peaceful mindset and that saved my life.
I love you all and will try to post again soon.
You all are a gift from God.
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Take it day by day, but you are "over the hump" now. And debm55 did a great job updating us but we are happy you are able to do so directly now. Hang tight! 
Deb updated us a few times. So happy to know you are doing well!
I remember those first days of the new lease…(on life). Take care, listen to your nurses.
Don't apologize for not getting on here right away, you just had open heart surgery FFS!
Take care and get all the rest you can, we'll be here when you're feeling better.
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