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(196,495 posts)rurallib
(64,688 posts)alittlelark
(19,139 posts)hlthe2b
(113,971 posts)May the beauty of Colorado bring you peace, and the loving thoughts of DUers, your friends, and family bring you comfort.
bsiebs
(959 posts)KitFox
(566 posts)manifests so physically, too. Losing your spouse is a whole different kind of grief. I actually made myself a sign that said Dont go looking for something big; get through the day; get through the night. I hung it up by my computer. My heart just aches knowing what he is facing. Gentle hugs to you, kentuck🩷
malaise
(296,105 posts)Tree Lady
(13,282 posts)debm55
(60,612 posts)justaprogressive
(6,909 posts)calimary
(90,021 posts)Thanks for this thread, malaise.
AllaN01Bear
(29,493 posts)WinstonSmith4740
(3,436 posts)You'll get through this.
Haggis 4 Breakfast
(1,505 posts)skydive forever
(512 posts)My wife passed about 7 years ago, and it still sucks. But believe me when I say, it does get better, but it's never the same.
democrank
(12,598 posts)Were here for you.
H2O Man
(79,052 posts)Always here for you.
niyad
(132,440 posts)Billsdaughter
(149 posts)Everyone has summed it up for me already!
Hope you can feel all of the love being sent to you.
MiHale
(13,032 posts)SleeplessinSoCal
(10,412 posts)Every morning we get news of the most recent erosion of our great society.
Kentuck, despite the lessening of grief of my hubby's passing a year ago, knowing he doesn't have to see America sink to Fascism is somewhat comforting.
Sending you a big hug,
malaise
(296,105 posts)SleeplessinSoCal
(10,412 posts)LoisB
(13,028 posts)Solly Mack
(96,943 posts)Emile
(42,289 posts)Kentuck you have friends who care.
live love laugh
(16,383 posts)Warpy
(114,615 posts)The good memories of a lifetime spent getting to know someone crowd out the bad memories of the end of that lifetime.
However, until that happens, it knocks us flat.
But it takes time
Dem2theMax
(11,005 posts)We are here for you, whenever you're ready.
markie
(24,017 posts)I kept this where I could see it after my husband died....

Rec and hugs.
JMCKUSICK
(6,048 posts)MLAA
(19,745 posts)🩷
SaveOurDemocracy
(4,566 posts)Know we are holding you in our hearts ❤️
Marie Marie
(11,309 posts)KT2000
(22,151 posts)mwmisses4289
(4,186 posts)HeartsCanHope
(1,680 posts)You and your family are in my thoughts.
gademocrat7
(11,940 posts)Please know your DU family is with as you grieve the loss of your beloved wife.
70sEraVet
(5,482 posts)And come back to us when you can. We are here for you.
lark
(26,081 posts)CaptainTruth
(8,200 posts)BComplex
(9,914 posts)These life changes are so heavy on the soul, and Kentuck, you are so loved.
I wish there was more we in your DU family could do for you.
Clouds Passing
(7,934 posts)pandr32
(14,272 posts)senseandsensibility
(24,974 posts)Dorothy V
(508 posts)even when we think it can't. The pain will subside as time goes by. Just remember, you are never truly alone. Come here when you feel like you are. We are all here for you.