They cannot do anything much for dementia
My husband died from vascular dementia.
I was trying to get them to run an MRI scan on him but the resources aren't there for it where I live so I gave up on that idea.
He was dx'd in Feb. 2022 and was gone on May 12, 2022. 
He didn't want any tests and he didn't want to go see a neuropsychiatrist either, not that I blamed him.
Sad reality = dementia.
I don't believe you have this problem CTyankee.
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