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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsWhat is an annoying habit a person can have? In my opinion. flicking their long hair back and forth, How about you?
ScoutHikerDad
(101 posts)I really just want to slap people who do that-so gross!
debm55
(61,721 posts)Raven123
(7,897 posts)Happens to all of us occasionally, but some people just cant plan, or just dont care.
debm55
(61,721 posts)PoindexterOglethorpe
(28,493 posts)It comes in no small part from having spent ten years as an airline ticket agent at DCA. Trust me, airlines care a great deal that flights are on time. If a flight was late, every single minute of the delay had to be attributed to some employee or group of employees. Two minutes to ground handlers (meaning they were slow at opening the cargo doors), three minutes to unloading (five minutes was the allowed time, this took longer), then it loads and the doors close on time. Alas, there's a delay, so five minutes delay now gets blamed on Air Traffic Controls. During the flight, those minutes are made up, but now there's a delay approaching the airport. Six minutes blamed on air traffic control.
I think you get the idea. Being on time is wonderful, fabulous, and everyone should always be on time everywhere. Really, they should. And keep this in mind the next time your flight or bus trip or trip somewhere is delayed.
debm55
(61,721 posts)3catwoman3
(29,804 posts)anciano
(2,316 posts)before they can even finish what they are trying to say.
debm55
(61,721 posts)Ocelot II
(131,226 posts)debm55
(61,721 posts)markodochartaigh
(5,545 posts)The only habit that I judge as unacceptable is voting against worker rights, minority rights, or democracy.
Other than that, I'm not really that bothered by anything.
debm55
(61,721 posts)Turbineguy
(40,209 posts)debm55
(61,721 posts)msongs
(74,188 posts)debm55
(61,721 posts)JBTaurus83
(1,675 posts)While someone else is speaking. Also turning every conversation into something that happened to them that was better or worse. I call those people one uppers.
debm55
(61,721 posts)SheltieLover
(81,712 posts)Ever known someone who talks non-stop every waking moment?
They're exhausting.
debm55
(61,721 posts)JBTaurus83
(1,675 posts)Im a relatively quiet person, and I think some people fear any type of silence.
SheltieLover
(81,712 posts)Diamond_Dog
(41,047 posts)SheltieLover
(81,712 posts)Diamond_Dog
(41,047 posts)and told long winded stories plus he talked slowly, plus he told the same stories over and over again! Youre right, its exhausting to be around someone like that.
johnp3907
(4,339 posts)When I notice that someone with no hearing issues does this a lot I stop responding. I don't repeat what I just said, and the vast majority of times they then respond to what I'd orininally said, proving that they heard what I said in the first place and that the "What" or "Huh" was more like a "Ummmm...." or a "Hmmmm..."
debm55
(61,721 posts)Aristus
(72,523 posts)For example: Someone who exclaims: "Oh my-LANTA!" long after it stopped being funny.
Pick the most annoying catch phrase you hear constantly, and insert.
debm55
(61,721 posts)LogDog75
(1,372 posts)If you can complete the thought without resorting to Yada-Yada-Yada, then just keep quiet.
debm55
(61,721 posts)catbyte
(39,308 posts)No, no I don't. Stop it.
I just thought of another one. When people say "whenever" when they should say "when." Come on. When means a single event, whenever means you did or saw something multiple times.
Does that make me old? If so, GET OFF MY LAWN!
debm55
(61,721 posts)Buckeye_Democrat
(15,539 posts)... I'm not at all annoyed. I feel like I'm too old to assume she's flirting, however. So I instead say, "SASSY!", but non-verbally (in my imagination only).
Like this:
As for what annoys me lately, I think it's mostly my coworkers who seem to demand praise from others without reciprocating, despite how others are objectively more deserving of it. It was never this bad years ago. I think there's a growing narcissism problem in this country, not just in the White House. Maybe social media is helping to create more praise and self-confirmation addicts?
🤷♂️
debm55
(61,721 posts)ProfessorGAC
(77,277 posts)Chew the gum in silence, please.
debm55
(61,721 posts)Response to debm55 (Original post)
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Mike Nelson
(10,943 posts)debm55
(61,721 posts)sinkingfeeling
(58,038 posts)JoseBalow
(9,739 posts)debm55
(61,721 posts)Ziggysmom
(4,157 posts)So gross.
debm55
(61,721 posts)Pinback
(13,653 posts) particularly a quiet one. Ive been known to share my feelings about the issue with the people yakking behind me, which is generally not well received but does get them to shut the hell up.
debm55
(61,721 posts)Solly Mack
(97,267 posts)debm55
(61,721 posts)Solly Mack
(97,267 posts)There's also not being serious, and I wasn't.
debm55
(61,721 posts)Orrex
(67,392 posts)What more do you want from me?
Solly Mack
(97,267 posts)Orrex
(67,392 posts)Solly Mack
(97,267 posts)hydrolastic
(549 posts)While they are talking shit about people.
debm55
(61,721 posts)tanyev
(49,682 posts)on either side, and then constantly running their hands through it as if to rearrange it. Lady, that hair is in exactly the same place it was before you fixed it, so what are you doing? If youre going to do anything to it, flip it back behind your shoulders, otherwise leave it alone.
Theres a contestant on the new Dancing With The Stars season that does this. Its probably a nervous habit, but it really is annoying to watch during her interviews.
debm55
(61,721 posts)Mister Ed
(6,991 posts)It's become increasingly commonplace to use this phrase the way "mmm-hmm" or "uh-huh" have long been used - interjecting it periodically into a conversation just to show that one is attentive and listening, and is following what the speaker is saying. It has the opposite effect, though, making it seem as though the person rapidly saying "yeah-yeah-yeah-yeah-yeah" is bored or annoyed with the speaker.
debm55
(61,721 posts)True Dough
(27,310 posts)
You can add my annoying posts to your list of annoying habits!
debm55
(61,721 posts)justaprogressive
(7,164 posts)when a woman flicks her long hair After all I flick MY long hair,
why shouldn't they???
Now SNIFFLING on the other hand, that could drive anybody crazy!
debm55
(61,721 posts)
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