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catbyte

(38,843 posts)
Wed Oct 29, 2025, 10:38 AM Oct 2025

YAY! I don't have cancer.

I had my yearly mammogram about a month ago and they found something "suspicious." Now, there's been something "sketchy" in one of them since my mid-20s that turned out to be nothing so I never thought anything about it. This time it was the other one. I got a couple of letters telling me I'd better get it checked out ASAP but I'd already made the appointment for tomography and ultrasound. Still, they were unnerving.

So, for the last month, I've been stressing about it. I had the appointments for the tests today. The tech doing the ultrasound was somber and spent a lot of time on the test. Then she soberly told me that a radiologist would come in to discuss the "next steps, if any." So I'm sitting there, wondering if I should start making arrangements for the care of my cats, etc. Five minutes later she comes in all nonchalant, saying, "Meh, it's nothing. You're good until next year." It was blah blah blah and I'll show you to the exit. Have a great day!

Huh. There was a cloud over practically the entire month of October (which is my favorite month) for nothing?

And I'm not even mad about it.

Whew!

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YAY! I don't have cancer. (Original Post) catbyte Oct 2025 OP
Good news is always welcome. Happy for you. Raven123 Oct 2025 #1
Yay, Indeed! walkingman Oct 2025 #2
PHWEW! So glad for you rurallib Oct 2025 #3
Congratulations!!! That's so fantastic to hear. DarthDem Oct 2025 #4
Your catbyte posts are my daily "bright spot" lapfog_1 Oct 2025 #5
Mine too ! fierywoman Oct 2025 #48
So happy for your great news and relief from the stress of waiting, wondering and worrying! KitFox Oct 2025 #6
Thank God girl !!!!! Happy for you. My cancer is done and i am cancer free now. Trueblue1968 Oct 2025 #7
Hooray!!! Nittersing Oct 2025 #8
Wonderful news, catbyte Grim Chieftain Oct 2025 #9
Very glad to hear you got the all clear Picaro Oct 2025 #10
Call it a Halloween scare! pandr32 Oct 2025 #11
Great news! underpants Oct 2025 #12
Aces! cachukis Oct 2025 #13
So happy for you and us! Lots of worry going Billsdaughter Oct 2025 #14
Yahooooooooo Magoo48 Oct 2025 #15
The saying is that women go to the doctor when well but men go when they aren't well. twodogsbarking Oct 2025 #16
Happy news!!!!! irisblue Oct 2025 #17
Great news for the Cat Lady!!!! nt mitch96 Oct 2025 #18
Phew! Very happy for you. nt LittleGirl Oct 2025 #19
Great news!!! Yay for sure! mountain grammy Oct 2025 #20
So glad to hear about your super-great news, catbyte. As an RN, I hear you about healthcare staff who are aloof wordstroken Oct 2025 #21
EXCELLENT News! 🎉 electric_blue68 Oct 2025 #22
Maybe every year we should get a good health scare, 70sEraVet Oct 2025 #23
Great news, catbyte! I was luckier than you in that when I was referred to a urologist for possible prostate cancer, generalbetrayus Oct 2025 #24
Yippee 😁 TommieMommy Oct 2025 #25
No Cancer ms.pamela Oct 2025 #26
Yay! Ohioboy Oct 2025 #27
I am so glad you are okay. Love, deb. debm55 Oct 2025 #28
Yay, indeed! TomSlick Oct 2025 #29
This is awesome! John Coktosten Oct 2025 #30
Be happy. Be VERY happy! DFW Oct 2025 #31
About 25 years ago, my wife advanced to the surgical biopsy stage, upon signing that she might wake up without... NNadir Oct 2025 #32
Good news! Wild blueberry Oct 2025 #33
Yay! area51 Oct 2025 #34
Excellent! stillspkg Oct 2025 #35
Congratulations!! Laurelin Oct 2025 #36
Yay is right!! KT2000 Oct 2025 #37
YAY!!! CaptainTruth Oct 2025 #38
That's great news MustLoveBeagles Oct 2025 #39
Great bews! I am so happy for you. brer cat Oct 2025 #40
yay. AllaN01Bear Oct 2025 #41
My husband's doctor sent him a cologuard test and the results came back as positive for cancer. HeartsCanHope Oct 2025 #42
Good News is always appreciated, especially this type of good news. Fla Dem Oct 2025 #43
Yay! Healthy boobies 😁 Clouds Passing Oct 2025 #44
That's great! Early detection is very important. Rizen Oct 2025 #45
WHOOPIE, catbyte!!!! some_of_us_are_sane Oct 2025 #46
Fantastic news! dlk Oct 2025 #47
Been there. Done that. Nervewracking!!! hamsterjill Oct 2025 #49
Yup me too. The technology in mammograms is sometimes a double edged sword. Marie Marie Oct 2025 #53
yikes, unnecessary drama JudyM Oct 2025 #50
Yahoo! MIButterfly Oct 2025 #51
Good news catbyte, and remember Novemberis almost as good as October. Polly Hennessey Oct 2025 #52
Wonderful news! karin_sj Oct 2025 #54
Very good news wendyb-NC Oct 2025 #55
Great news LetMyPeopleVote Oct 2025 #56
Good for you and your cats MissouriDem47 Oct 2025 #57
Happy Dance Time! Bayard Oct 2025 #58
You and Omaha Steve's good news lift my spirits. summer_in_TX Oct 2025 #59
Excellent news! 👏🏼👏🏼 benfranklin1776 Oct 2025 #60
Awesome friend Duncanpup Oct 2025 #61
so glad you are cleared from this worry!😻 peacebuzzard Oct 2025 #62
Great news! So glad you're ok! nt Trueblue Texan Oct 2025 #63
Great news! FemDemERA Oct 2025 #64
Great news, catbyte peggysue2 Oct 2025 #65
Very good news! red dog 1 Oct 2025 #66

rurallib

(64,607 posts)
3. PHWEW! So glad for you
Wed Oct 29, 2025, 10:55 AM
Oct 2025

Seems like we have had a lot of reports on here of members getting good reports. That is great!

Trueblue1968

(19,153 posts)
7. Thank God girl !!!!! Happy for you. My cancer is done and i am cancer free now.
Wed Oct 29, 2025, 11:07 AM
Oct 2025

Now I just have to get rich of my thyroid cancer. ..... Congrats again.

Picaro

(2,353 posts)
10. Very glad to hear you got the all clear
Wed Oct 29, 2025, 11:21 AM
Oct 2025

You know I love your postings. Glad you will be with us for the foreseeable future.😉

pandr32

(13,950 posts)
11. Call it a Halloween scare!
Wed Oct 29, 2025, 11:28 AM
Oct 2025

Now you can treat yourself to some relief. Thank goodness!
I am happy to hear you have cancer-free days ahead.

Billsdaughter

(132 posts)
14. So happy for you and us! Lots of worry going
Wed Oct 29, 2025, 11:46 AM
Oct 2025

around this week. As having gone through a very similar process just a few months ago, I can feel your exhale of relief from over here! Celebrate 🥳

GO LIONS!!!!

twodogsbarking

(17,957 posts)
16. The saying is that women go to the doctor when well but men go when they aren't well.
Wed Oct 29, 2025, 11:51 AM
Oct 2025

I see my doc regularly and I ain't no woman. Good for you my love. Stay well all.

wordstroken

(1,406 posts)
21. So glad to hear about your super-great news, catbyte. As an RN, I hear you about healthcare staff who are aloof
Wed Oct 29, 2025, 12:10 PM
Oct 2025

to their patients’ anxiety about the outcome of their tests. That aloofness becomes more universal every year.

Thankfully, your high standards, compassion, and empathy for others — both two and four legged — are head and shoulders above so many “professionals” who have an impact on the lives of others every single day.

Congratulations on your test results!! Your DU family is here for you, and for each other.

Love
💕 ❤️

🦋 wordstroken

70sEraVet

(5,356 posts)
23. Maybe every year we should get a good health scare,
Wed Oct 29, 2025, 12:30 PM
Oct 2025

Just to make sure we don't take life for granted!
Kidding, of course, but glad you're ok.

generalbetrayus

(1,598 posts)
24. Great news, catbyte! I was luckier than you in that when I was referred to a urologist for possible prostate cancer,
Wed Oct 29, 2025, 12:31 PM
Oct 2025

he was very positive about my outcome even though I was at stage 4B of 5! Eleven and a half years later, I no longer have a prostate gland, and his positive outlook turned out to be accurate.

ms.pamela

(81 posts)
26. No Cancer
Wed Oct 29, 2025, 12:35 PM
Oct 2025

There is nothing like being told you don't have cancer after a suspicious mammogram, I know, I have had that experience too. This is great news.

DFW

(59,877 posts)
31. Be happy. Be VERY happy!
Wed Oct 29, 2025, 01:16 PM
Oct 2025

When it was my wife’s turn, at age 49, it WAS cancer. Because she has/had “second class” (sort of tourist class) health insurance, even though a malignancy was detected, she was put in line, and told to wait six months while they found her an operation time slot. She was only 49, and the cancer grew aggressively while she was waiting. She survived the operation, the chemo, the radiation and the rehab, but she suffered terribly, and unnecessarily. She is a fighter, and she received unwavering support from our daughters, her mom, her friends, and, of course, me. But it was no picnic, although it was good preparation for the next time she had cancer, the second time being a form of cancer known here as “the murderer.” It is called that because it spreads quickly and silently, only showing itself when it is too late to save the patient. She was that one out of maybe ten thousand in the last two decades to survive it, due to a completely accidental discovery in its initial stage.

NNadir

(37,547 posts)
32. About 25 years ago, my wife advanced to the surgical biopsy stage, upon signing that she might wake up without...
Wed Oct 29, 2025, 01:21 PM
Oct 2025

...one of her breasts.

That was a pretty long four hours of my life.

It was nothing it turned out, a benign cyst.

Congrats.

You are absolutely right to not be mad about it.

My sister-in-law had no such luck. She did have cancer. Her world class surgeon saved her breast and excised the tumor. She's a ten year survivor in remission.

Congratulations again, and once more, again, congratulations. Keep those cat shows coming.

HeartsCanHope

(1,552 posts)
42. My husband's doctor sent him a cologuard test and the results came back as positive for cancer.
Wed Oct 29, 2025, 04:57 PM
Oct 2025

He had to wait for a couple of months to get in for a colonoscopy. It was so hard--my husband lost his father to colon cancer and he was reliving that, too. So sorry you had to go through that, catbyte. So happy for you that you are okay!

Fla Dem

(27,489 posts)
43. Good News is always appreciated, especially this type of good news.
Wed Oct 29, 2025, 06:51 PM
Oct 2025

Last edited Thu Oct 30, 2025, 05:42 PM - Edit history (1)

So glad all's good and you can relax. Make sure you get those annual exams catbyte.

Clouds Passing

(7,489 posts)
44. Yay! Healthy boobies 😁
Wed Oct 29, 2025, 07:02 PM
Oct 2025

Recently had my yearly mammo, waiting for results 🤞🏼🤞🏼 Had bc in 2011, scary times.

Rizen

(1,050 posts)
45. That's great! Early detection is very important.
Wed Oct 29, 2025, 07:06 PM
Oct 2025

My mom died because her breast cancer had metastasized because she didn't find it early enough.

some_of_us_are_sane

(2,897 posts)
46. WHOOPIE, catbyte!!!!
Wed Oct 29, 2025, 08:01 PM
Oct 2025
I KNOW what you mean! I have fibrocystic breasts and they do the same thing to me! Not fun going for that second scan.

hamsterjill

(17,191 posts)
49. Been there. Done that. Nervewracking!!!
Wed Oct 29, 2025, 08:12 PM
Oct 2025

I had such a sense of gratitude when I got the "no worries" result. I stress every year.

Happy you had a "non issue" and certainly understand the cloud you describe. Now, it's time for you to celebrate!!!

Marie Marie

(11,042 posts)
53. Yup me too. The technology in mammograms is sometimes a double edged sword.
Wed Oct 29, 2025, 10:11 PM
Oct 2025

They pick up every microscopic thing which is good but can be terrifying when you get that call telling you that you need to return. So glad that yours was benign Catbyte. Now go celebrate and get out from under that worrying month.

wendyb-NC

(4,629 posts)
55. Very good news
Wed Oct 29, 2025, 10:25 PM
Oct 2025

Celebrate! It can be stressful when tests are results show "something' suspicious. Glad you are okay. Stay well always.

benfranklin1776

(6,993 posts)
60. Excellent news! 👏🏼👏🏼
Thu Oct 30, 2025, 02:07 AM
Oct 2025

What a relief for you and I’m so glad it was much ado about nothing, but still very stressful for you 🫂
Now hopefully you can really celebrate the end of your favorite month without that awful dread hanging over your head! 🤗😸

peacebuzzard

(5,839 posts)
62. so glad you are cleared from this worry!😻
Thu Oct 30, 2025, 07:47 AM
Oct 2025

Everything else in life is small potatoes.....Congratulations! I am so happy for you and us around here....❤️😻

peggysue2

(12,443 posts)
65. Great news, catbyte
Thu Oct 30, 2025, 10:42 AM
Oct 2025

Sorry you had to experience the stress of waiting for the results. That in itself is nerve wracking.

But you received the ultimate reward, a clean bill of health.

Best to you!

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