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debm55

(53,986 posts)
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 10:10 AM Nov 28

As a youngster, what kind of Christmas tree did you have. fake. or that silver metallic one with the light spinner

on the floor? We had a real one, the got a fake one. How about you?

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As a youngster, what kind of Christmas tree did you have. fake. or that silver metallic one with the light spinner (Original Post) debm55 Nov 28 OP
I was never True Dough Nov 28 #1
Thank you for sharing that information with us, True Dough. debm55 Nov 28 #11
We had a fake silver one for a few years, then a fake green one BlueWaveNeverEnd Nov 28 #2
BlueWaveNeverEnd. We had that one too, The trunk had holes with paint and you had to match the color coded branches. I debm55 Nov 28 #14
silver, and we always put the branches back in their original paper sleeves bigtree Nov 28 #3
HAHAHAHAHHAH. Thank you very much, bigtree. That is funny. debm55 Nov 28 #15
live trees lapfog_1 Nov 28 #4
That sounds beautiful, lapfog_1 and very earth friendly. debm55 Nov 28 #16
How lovely! electric_blue68 Nov 28 #37
Real ones when I was young House of Roberts Nov 28 #5
Thank you very much, House of Roberts. Do you remember stepping on the real pine needles? The artificial was easier to debm55 Nov 28 #17
We had a vinyl floor in the den so they were easy to sweep up. House of Roberts Nov 28 #23
HAHAHAHHAA. Thank you House of Roberts. We had a rug where the needles would get caught. Mother had a Hoover. debm55 Nov 28 #24
Real tree every Christmas when a youngster 🎄 anciano Nov 28 #6
Thank you anciano for sharing--the needles, the smell. was great.from a real tree. debm55 Nov 28 #18
Real ones as a kid. As an adult only fake green ones. Polly Hennessey Nov 28 #7
Yes, and driving to relatives homes to see trees in the tree lots that no one wanted. It was sad. Thank you debm55 Nov 28 #19
My mom loved the silver tree with the rotating color spindle that squeaked..we hated it and to this day.. Deuxcents Nov 28 #8
thank you very much Deuxcents, My cousins had one. After awhile they stopped using the color spindle and just added blue debm55 Nov 28 #21
Always real; fir or spruce, never pine. Pine needles are too long to hold ornaments properly. Ocelot II Nov 28 #9
Thank you Ocelot II , Your tree sounds absolutly beautiful. I also loved the bubble lights. The tinsels with lead --who debm55 Nov 28 #22
That same aunt & uncle with the bubble lights ALSO had the angel hair! electric_blue68 Nov 28 #39
I hated the angel hair. If you weren't careful it would make cuts on you as it was spun glass. debm55 Nov 28 #45
We probably had those glass ornaments. My favorite were the... electric_blue68 Nov 28 #40
Yes, they passed down from family to family. Very beautiful. Thank you, electric_blue68 debm55 Nov 28 #46
One of my aunts & uncles had those bubble lights! electric_blue68 Nov 28 #38
Started out with real, went artificial, also had a small aluminum tree. 50 Shades Of Blue Nov 28 #10
Thank you very much, 50 Shades Of Blue. I thought the tree looked better without the light spinner and with one color of debm55 Nov 28 #25
I feel better now, LOL! Our had blue ornaments. 50 Shades Of Blue Nov 28 #36
Blue ornamnets looked very nice on it. debm55 Nov 28 #47
We always had a real tree. Diamond_Dog Nov 28 #12
Sounds just like our Christmas tree procedures. Ocelot II Nov 28 #28
Sure does sound similar, Ocelot! Diamond_Dog Nov 28 #31
Thank you very much, Diamond_Dog for your wonderful post and sharing the delight of a child seeing the Christmas tree in debm55 Nov 28 #48
artificial Eugene Nov 28 #13
Thank you Eugene, we had the same tree with the colored coded branches to fit in the trunk. Worked fine until the as the debm55 Nov 28 #49
Traditional cut tree. patphil Nov 28 #20
Thank sounds beautiful. patphil. I loved those glass antique ornaments. Your tree of your youth sounds beautiful . Thank debm55 Nov 28 #26
My mother was the first on the block to get an artificial tree & they didn't look all that great back then. CrispyQ Nov 28 #27
Thank you CrispyQ, Arm still sore , but it will get better. We put our tree up the Sunday before Christmas and kept it debm55 Nov 28 #50
Sometimes real ones until my dad bought an aluminum tree with the colored light wheel SheltieLover Nov 28 #29
Thank you very much, SheltieLover. That's funny. I use to have a tree with a different theme in my house. I have 8 rooms debm55 Nov 28 #52
That alum tree was an embarrassment to my mom, much like the leg lamp SheltieLover Nov 28 #55
HAHAHAHAHAH, that is funny, Thank you SheltieLover. debm55 Nov 29 #88
Real live ones mostly (and I continued to insist even when the silver monstrosity appeared--sans spinner) hlthe2b Nov 28 #30
I agree with you hithe2b. I have the artificial table top tree. and get a pine or balsam wreath for the living room. debm55 Nov 28 #64
My parents had real trees until my brother and I were teenagers. My wife and I have always had live or real trees. NNadir Nov 28 #32
"Just when I think I couldn't possibly love her more, I do." 3catwoman3 Nov 28 #61
Thank you NNadir, you are a very sweet person. You and your wife are very lucky to have the love of each other. debm55 Nov 28 #65
Taken to a justaprogressive Nov 28 #33
Thank you very much, justaprogressive. Beautiful large tree. debm55 Nov 28 #66
As a kid, always real. Always a floor tree, except when Dad broke his hip in '61. rsdsharp Nov 28 #34
Thank you very much for sharing with us, rsdsharp. It was a hassle to have all the trees in my home. But as a youth , debm55 Nov 28 #67
We had real trees. madamesilverspurs Nov 28 #35
Very well said, madamesilverspurs. Thank you for sharing your feelings with us. debm55 Nov 28 #68
Always live cut trees. Fir or ?spruce.... electric_blue68 Nov 28 #41
Thank you for sharing your wonderful memories with us, electric_blue68. I enjoyed reading them debm55 Nov 28 #69
My parents came from the country that had the first recorded Christmas tree Wicked Blue Nov 28 #42
Thank you very much for sharing with us, Wicked Blue. debm55 Nov 28 #70
We had a real tree LogDog75 Nov 28 #43
Thank you very much, LogDog75. The sense of smell is most connect to memories. Thank you for sharing those memories. debm55 Nov 28 #72
We had real trees until ... Dorothy V Nov 28 #44
HAHHAHHAAHA. love you Dorothy V debm55 Nov 28 #57
We always had a real tree, loved the smell and decorating them... wcmagumba Nov 28 #51
Thank you very much, wcmagumba. The smell of a real tree is wonderful and the delight in decorating is magical to a debm55 Nov 28 #56
After I left home, my folks decided they wanted a more orderly tree. They bought an atificial tree (a very good one)... marble falls Nov 28 #53
Thank you very much, marble falls. What a wonderful post. They are treasures of years past. debm55 Nov 28 #54
Thankfully we had an artificial tree growing up Niagara Nov 28 #58
Thank you very much for your compassion for putting the real tree up even though it would make you sick. You are an debm55 Nov 29 #79
Real. My mother would never have a fake tree in her house. MIButterfly Nov 28 #59
Thank you very much MIButterfly. Cats are like that. debm55 Nov 29 #80
Always a real tree. buzzycrumbhunger Nov 28 #60
Thank you very much, buzzycrumbhunger. Sounds like your ex was an ass. I had the Charlie Brown Christmas tree too-bent, debm55 Nov 29 #90
Always real when I was a kid. 3catwoman3 Nov 28 #62
Thank you so much 3catwoman3. Your tree sounds wonderful. I do the same with moving the ornaments around so they are the debm55 Nov 29 #89
It's not quite true that only God can make a tree PikaBlue Nov 28 #63
HAHHAAHHAHHA. Thank you very much. PikaBlue, for sharing your sharing your funny Christmas memory. debm55 Nov 29 #87
LIVE Chanukah Bush elleng Nov 28 #71
Sounds wonderful, elleng. debm55 Nov 29 #86
Silver Tip planted on a table Brother Buzz Nov 28 #73
Thank you, Brother Buzz for sharing your Christmas tree memories with us. debm55 Nov 29 #85
When I was little we got real ones MustLoveBeagles Nov 28 #74
Thank you very much for sharing with us, MustLoveBeagles. debm55 Nov 29 #84
We had a fake tree for my entire childhood. Aristus Nov 28 #75
Thank you so much for sharing your memories with us. Aristus. debm55 Nov 29 #83
We always had live ones. Mad_Dem_X Nov 29 #76
HAHAHA. Thank you Mad_Dem_X. Cutting down your own tree sounds like so much fun.I have never done it , but I wish I had. debm55 Nov 29 #77
LOL! That reminds me of one of the last times my mother and I went out to get a Christmas tree. MIButterfly Nov 29 #82
real. AllaN01Bear Nov 29 #78
Thank you very much, AllaN01Bear. for sharing your memories. debm55 Nov 29 #81
I remember dad tying down the Christmas tree on top Emile Nov 29 #91
HAHAHAHAHAH. Thank you very much for the memories, Emile debm55 Nov 29 #92

BlueWaveNeverEnd

(12,387 posts)
2. We had a fake silver one for a few years, then a fake green one
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 10:14 AM
Nov 28

I still remember the color coded limbs

debm55

(53,986 posts)
14. BlueWaveNeverEnd. We had that one too, The trunk had holes with paint and you had to match the color coded branches. I
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 10:59 AM
Nov 28

took it to school one year and by that time the paint was hard to see. We had one heck of a tree with long branches on to top and an assortment of different sized branches all around. The kids put it together and so I left it be as they liked it.

bigtree

(93,291 posts)
3. silver, and we always put the branches back in their original paper sleeves
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 10:15 AM
Nov 28

...our thrilling christmas tradition.

lapfog_1

(31,520 posts)
4. live trees
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 10:16 AM
Nov 28

with the root ball and dirt.

Day after Christmas we would plant the tree along the long circular drive to our house.

Last time I was there there were some 30 large scotch pine trees along the now stately driveway to the new house that was built after my mother sold the place.

House of Roberts

(6,349 posts)
5. Real ones when I was young
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 10:22 AM
Nov 28

then my mom found a deal on an artificial green one and it sufficed until I was out of the house and married.

debm55

(53,986 posts)
17. Thank you very much, House of Roberts. Do you remember stepping on the real pine needles? The artificial was easier to
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 11:09 AM
Nov 28

set up ,

House of Roberts

(6,349 posts)
23. We had a vinyl floor in the den so they were easy to sweep up.
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 11:41 AM
Nov 28

Anyway, my mom had a Kirby and that thing would eat anything that got under it.

debm55

(53,986 posts)
24. HAHAHAHHAA. Thank you House of Roberts. We had a rug where the needles would get caught. Mother had a Hoover.
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 12:05 PM
Nov 28

Polly Hennessey

(8,442 posts)
7. Real ones as a kid. As an adult only fake green ones.
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 10:26 AM
Nov 28

Too sad seeing a beautiful green tree 🌲 on the curb waiting for the trash truck.

debm55

(53,986 posts)
19. Yes, and driving to relatives homes to see trees in the tree lots that no one wanted. It was sad. Thank you
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 11:14 AM
Nov 28

Polly Hennessey.

Deuxcents

(25,125 posts)
8. My mom loved the silver tree with the rotating color spindle that squeaked..we hated it and to this day..
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 10:31 AM
Nov 28

My sister finds the biggest live tree that will fit in her house..we were traumatized!

debm55

(53,986 posts)
21. thank you very much Deuxcents, My cousins had one. After awhile they stopped using the color spindle and just added blue
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 11:21 AM
Nov 28

ornaments. Your sister is lucky to be able to have such a large tree.

Ocelot II

(128,605 posts)
9. Always real; fir or spruce, never pine. Pine needles are too long to hold ornaments properly.
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 10:35 AM
Nov 28

And there would have been a major mutiny if anyone had so much as suggested an artificial tree. It was a big production. My dad hated unbalanced trees so he'd cut off branches that were in the "wrong" place, drill a hole in the trunk and splice them into another place that made the tree more symmetrical. Then we'd haul out the boxes of ornaments and make another big deal about decorating it properly. For awhile we had that old-fashioned tinsel that was made of lead so it draped nicely, until it was banned because it was made of lead. We also had some of those lights that looked like candles and bubbled when they warmed up. When I was a little kid I thought the Christmas tree was the coolest thing in the world.

debm55

(53,986 posts)
22. Thank you Ocelot II , Your tree sounds absolutly beautiful. I also loved the bubble lights. The tinsels with lead --who
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 11:27 AM
Nov 28

knew back then, It kind of looks like mylar now. The only thing I disliked was the angel hair. that was made of spun glass. Do you have any of those old glass ornaments. They were so beautiful. Thank you for sharing.

debm55

(53,986 posts)
45. I hated the angel hair. If you weren't careful it would make cuts on you as it was spun glass.
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 08:10 PM
Nov 28

electric_blue68

(25,310 posts)
40. We probably had those glass ornaments. My favorite were the...
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 03:16 PM
Nov 28

I guess call them "chubby spindels"? They had a point on both ends, and one side had a deep circular bowl-like indentation, with a sort of "ribbing" going towards the center/"bottom" of the "bowl". Different color on that part. The spindel part was light colored, or white, and the "bowl" was colorful. Although it's possible that the spindle was colored on the bottom half, and white/light colored on the top half.

It's possible my sister may still have 1 or two. 🤔

ETA:
Having just looked up glass Xmas ornaments....
The term "tear drop" seems to apply to both long, thinnish ones, and my "chubby" ones.

50 Shades Of Blue

(11,328 posts)
10. Started out with real, went artificial, also had a small aluminum tree.
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 10:46 AM
Nov 28

But we never had one of those light spinners for it!

debm55

(53,986 posts)
25. Thank you very much, 50 Shades Of Blue. I thought the tree looked better without the light spinner and with one color of
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 12:09 PM
Nov 28

ornaments. especially blue.

Diamond_Dog

(39,474 posts)
12. We always had a real tree.
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 10:53 AM
Nov 28

Somehow we always managed to get one with a crooked trunk so that when my Dad brought it in the house and put it in the stand, it leaned to one side,so he’d either have to take it back outside and cut some more off the bottom or try to clamp it down in the tree stand at an angle. For some reason my mother insisted the tree stand had to sit atop an old washtub that we covered with a white sheet. Much debating, arguing, etc. about whether or not the tree was straight in the stand and rotated properly to hide any bare spots. Every year we got to hear my Dad cuss and swear, lying on the living room floor halfway under the tree, while my mother gave directions. “Turn it towards the window. No, it’s still,crooked. That side has a bare spot and has to go against the wall,”. etc. finally after my sister and I heard a whole bunch of new swear words, the tree was ready for the lights, which was another pain in the ass because if one light went out, the whole string went out on those old light strings. Much searching for the box of spare bulbs that no one remembered where they put. Finally the tree was up, and the lights were on and properly working. My Grandma always supervised the decoration and the tinsel distribution. Then finally the little ceramic house village was set up on the white sheet under the tree that was supposed to simulate snow. Each ceramic house had a hole in the back where you stuck in a bulb from yet another string of lights. Once it was all done and we turned on the lights in the evening, with the tree lights, the tinsel, and the lighted houses in the “snow” village underneath, it was the most beautiful sight in the world to me as a child.

Ocelot II

(128,605 posts)
28. Sounds just like our Christmas tree procedures.
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 12:28 PM
Nov 28

Dad doing plastic surgery on an imperfect tree (they all were) and cussing about it, turning the bare spot to the wall, lights that didn't light and looking for the ones that did, trying to get the star or the angel on the top, arguing about which ornaments went where, complaining that there were too many red ones here and not enough there, the big ones go on the lower branches but not on the lowest ones because of the cat, don't let the cat drink the water, where's the tree skirt?

Good times, good times.

Diamond_Dog

(39,474 posts)
31. Sure does sound similar, Ocelot!
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 01:00 PM
Nov 28

Except for the cat since my mother would not allow us to have a pet. I forgot about the star! That was another aggravation, getting the darn thing to sit up straight and not flop over. Can you believe we used to use that awful tinsel made out of lead? Everyone put it on their Christmas trees back then. I wonder how many pets and small children got sick from ingesting or chewing on it.

debm55

(53,986 posts)
48. Thank you very much, Diamond_Dog for your wonderful post and sharing the delight of a child seeing the Christmas tree in
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 08:18 PM
Nov 28

all its glory.

Eugene

(66,664 posts)
13. artificial
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 10:58 AM
Nov 28

assembled from color-coded hook-in wire branches on a 2-stage wooden "trunk"

it stood about 6 feet tall

debm55

(53,986 posts)
49. Thank you Eugene, we had the same tree with the colored coded branches to fit in the trunk. Worked fine until the as the
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 08:21 PM
Nov 28

years went by the paint came off and you didn't know which branch went where.

patphil

(8,588 posts)
20. Traditional cut tree.
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 11:16 AM
Nov 28

Like you'd see in the holiday movie, "A Christmas Story".
We also used the old style large light bulbs on the tree, and had a blue lite star at the top for at least 20 years.
Some of the decorations were antique bulbs that were handed down from my parents families.
This was the tree I remembered throughout the 50's and 60's.
It was as traditional as a tree could be.

debm55

(53,986 posts)
26. Thank sounds beautiful. patphil. I loved those glass antique ornaments. Your tree of your youth sounds beautiful . Thank
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 12:12 PM
Nov 28

you for sharing,

CrispyQ

(40,538 posts)
27. My mother was the first on the block to get an artificial tree & they didn't look all that great back then.
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 12:16 PM
Nov 28

She was kind of a poop, too, cuz the first thing she'd do on the morning after Christmas was take down the tree. Everyone else had holiday lights on New Years Eve but not us, so when I got older I'd always go to a friends house. New Years is part of the whole season & you don't take your tree down until then. Yet here I am years later, & I don't even put one up.

Hope you had a good day yesterday, Deb!

debm55

(53,986 posts)
50. Thank you CrispyQ, Arm still sore , but it will get better. We put our tree up the Sunday before Christmas and kept it
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 08:26 PM
Nov 28

up until Three Kings day in January.

SheltieLover

(75,585 posts)
29. Sometimes real ones until my dad bought an aluminum tree with the colored light wheel
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 12:30 PM
Nov 28

We all hated it, but he loved it. It was like a joke to us.

Then parents reverted to real trees, then artificial ones later in life.

debm55

(53,986 posts)
52. Thank you very much, SheltieLover. That's funny. I use to have a tree with a different theme in my house. I have 8 rooms
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 08:34 PM
Nov 28

Now it is just a table top tree.

SheltieLover

(75,585 posts)
55. That alum tree was an embarrassment to my mom, much like the leg lamp
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 08:44 PM
Nov 28

I don't even bother with a tree anymore, haven't for many years.

Enjoy!

hlthe2b

(112,400 posts)
30. Real live ones mostly (and I continued to insist even when the silver monstrosity appeared--sans spinner)
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 01:00 PM
Nov 28

The Fake ones (if you spend $$$$$$) are very realistic now, so I get it if you are putting up a really tall one, multiple ones, or just have no ability to cut one down (that is a ready option for many in Colorado) or spend a ridiculous amount at a tree lot. But, I'd still buy real garland or something to bring in that irreplaceable smell. For me, it is not Christmas without it.

debm55

(53,986 posts)
64. I agree with you hithe2b. I have the artificial table top tree. and get a pine or balsam wreath for the living room.
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 10:16 PM
Nov 28

NNadir

(37,044 posts)
32. My parents had real trees until my brother and I were teenagers. My wife and I have always had live or real trees.
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 01:01 PM
Nov 28

In my teens, my parents moved to a fake tree.

In LA, when we were first married, in our little apartment, my wife and I had small potted live trees, but always had difficulty finding a place to plant them when Christmas was over.

All during my sons' infancy, childhood, adolescence and teen years, we had real cut trees.

This year, as we now have property in which we can plant trees, and have the pleasure of being empty nesters with our sons doing well in their own digs, we bought a small live tree, that we'll plant after the holiday.

(We have a rather wild kitten, who we couldn't really trust with a large tree.)

In two days it will be our 40th wedding anniversary. It is nice to reflect with the woman I have loved so much, and continue to love, those early years together in our little apartment, Christmas with just each other.

Just when I think I couldn't possibly love her more, I do.

3catwoman3

(28,369 posts)
61. "Just when I think I couldn't possibly love her more, I do."
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 09:51 PM
Nov 28

What a sweet thing to say. Mrs. NNadir is a lucky woman.

debm55

(53,986 posts)
65. Thank you NNadir, you are a very sweet person. You and your wife are very lucky to have the love of each other.
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 10:19 PM
Nov 28

justaprogressive

(6,111 posts)
33. Taken to a
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 01:03 PM
Nov 28

private forest preserve, hiked in, cut a nice 8' one down. Tied it to the top of the jeep and
brought it home to my parent's house on top of a mountain.

rsdsharp

(11,660 posts)
34. As a kid, always real. Always a floor tree, except when Dad broke his hip in '61.
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 02:08 PM
Nov 28

That year we had a table tree. When I was in my mid teens we switched to a fake (green) tree.

debm55

(53,986 posts)
67. Thank you very much for sharing with us, rsdsharp. It was a hassle to have all the trees in my home. But as a youth ,
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 10:25 PM
Nov 28

Christmas was the one time of year that my home was happy-well sort of. Now a Table Tree is fine and I don't go overboard.

madamesilverspurs

(16,449 posts)
35. We had real trees.
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 02:23 PM
Nov 28

For a few years we had live trees, planted in the yard after the holidays. When we kids got old enough, we went up into the mountains and cut our trees. My brother was tasked with helping Dad put the lights on the tree; my job, thanks to my allergy to the trees, was to hand the ornaments to Mom. These days I have an artificial tree that I can handle without having to slather myself in calamine lotion. I even splurged on a pre-lit one; unfortunately, those lights go out, so my next tree won't be pre-lit. As for ornaments, my favorites are the ones from parents' first tree from 1943; they're simple glass balls with the original paper hangers (everything metal went to the war effort). Thanks to my aging shoulders that don't like to reach up, I've had to downgrade from a 7' tree to a 4' tree. But I still enjoy it, along with my old vinyl Christmas albums. The tree is artificial, but the sentiment and memories are very real.

Merry merry!


.

electric_blue68

(25,310 posts)
41. Always live cut trees. Fir or ?spruce....
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 04:16 PM
Nov 28

Went to various tree sellers in our neighborhood in Washington Heights. Although there was one year I don't remember why we ended up going to? the Upper West Side. So there we (dad, sis, and me) were on the subway taking our tree home. 😄

We had for a fairly long time ? 6- 7 footers, later eventually closer to 5 - 6 footers. For the tallest we atrachted string, or ?wire stabilizers to the wall.

We'd check, and get straight ones, and turn them around at the tree lot to check for bald spots. If there was something like that; as long as it was one area, tht was ok. It got put in the back. Occasionally we'd clip a bit of very dense sections out at home. Always make two cuts near the base before putting it in the stand.

I don't remember whether we had the lead tinsel waaaay back - but it's possible, because when we switched; I think I remember it feeling different maaaaybe lighter as we hung it one year.
We had these textured (sort of like ?frost) colored glass ball lights. And later your typical lights.

Then, all the ornaments! Many different glasses ones. The "chubby spindles" or fat tear drops ones. More slender spindles. Some other shaped ones. Round ones with stenciled glitrery white snowflakes. A few striped ones. Bamboo double triangles. Some metal ones; a sled, and something else. A yarn covered snowman. Glow in the dark ice cicles, although I don't think we exposed them to enough sun light to really work. We had a wonderful selection! Oh, and our older cousin sent me snd my sister gold plated "JOY" ornaments later on.. The letters stacked on top with ?holly leaves, and berries around the "O", and the "Y".

My mom from a crafts section in a women's magazine made clothes pins Santa, and angels. She made wall decorations, too! Cloth covered shapes like ornaments glued on ric-rack, spangles, etc. I still have 2, and my sis has one.

Thanks for encouraging the memories, deb!

debm55

(53,986 posts)
69. Thank you for sharing your wonderful memories with us, electric_blue68. I enjoyed reading them
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 10:33 PM
Nov 28

Wicked Blue

(8,397 posts)
42. My parents came from the country that had the first recorded Christmas tree
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 04:40 PM
Nov 28

We had real trees.

Wikipedia:
Tallinn (Estonia) is the oldest capital city in Northern Europe and has one of the best preserved medieval town centres in the world. The first Christmas tree at Tallinn’s Town Hall Square was erected in 1441 by the Brotherhood of Blackheads; this was the first public Christmas Tree ever put on display in Europe.

LogDog75

(1,021 posts)
43. We had a real tree
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 04:46 PM
Nov 28

We bought a live tree every year when I was a kid. We'd put the old style of incandescent lights on it. The lights would burn hot so anytime you came within 3 feet of it you'd feel the heat. The heat also caused the tree's scent to become more pronounced. Our cat loved to sleep under the tree because of the warmth the lights gave.

After I left home and only my two younger brothers were in their teens did my parents go with an artificial tree.

debm55

(53,986 posts)
72. Thank you very much, LogDog75. The sense of smell is most connect to memories. Thank you for sharing those memories.
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 10:39 PM
Nov 28

Dorothy V

(431 posts)
44. We had real trees until ...
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 05:03 PM
Nov 28

Mom learned they had made an artificial tree that was fire resistant. From then on, we had artificial ones. Mom would test them by borrowing Dad's Zippo and holding the flame to the end of a branch to make sure it Didn't catch fire, just melt a little. Fortunately, they all passed muster, so Mom never got charged with arson!
I grew up with interesting people.

debm55

(53,986 posts)
56. Thank you very much, wcmagumba. The smell of a real tree is wonderful and the delight in decorating is magical to a
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 08:46 PM
Nov 28

child.

marble falls

(70,068 posts)
53. After I left home, my folks decided they wanted a more orderly tree. They bought an atificial tree (a very good one)...
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 08:37 PM
Nov 28

and all new ornaments.

The next day, my three youngest brothers got into the dumpster and recovered the old decorations, redecorated the new tree. My mother didn't notice it for hours.

After then, the deal was to alternate years. My brother now has the old decorations, including ones I remember getting close to seventy years ago.

debm55

(53,986 posts)
54. Thank you very much, marble falls. What a wonderful post. They are treasures of years past.
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 08:42 PM
Nov 28

Niagara

(11,273 posts)
58. Thankfully we had an artificial tree growing up
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 08:58 PM
Nov 28

Mom was particular about how it was decorated so I only pretended to help decorate the thing.


The last real tree I encountered gave me a migraine from hell and to decorate the thing I had to wear a mask. It was a client that I was care giving for and she had Parkinson's. None of the other caregivers would help her decorate it so I did it for her so she had a beautiful Christmas tree when her family came to visit her.


I couldn't put any type of tree up for the longest time because of a certain feline companion that liked to chew on the branches on trees and it made our feline companion sick. I finally got a artificial tree in 2023.


Our place is small and so I have a "skinny" or "pencil" artificial tree. Trying to find a certain height unlit pencil tree was a bit of a challenge but I managed.



debm55

(53,986 posts)
79. Thank you very much for your compassion for putting the real tree up even though it would make you sick. You are an
Sat Nov 29, 2025, 10:33 AM
Nov 29

angel. Had a pencil tree at one time too. but the cats kept knocking it over. Switchec to table top tree.

MIButterfly

(1,767 posts)
59. Real. My mother would never have a fake tree in her house.
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 09:00 PM
Nov 28

I have a fake one now. Bought it about six years ago and have never taken it out of the box. Where's the fire? Yikes! I shudder to think what it looks like now!

The fake trees now look so lifelike. I do like the smell of the real tree, though. The Douglas fir is my favorite. My cats used to like to rip open the tree skirt and drink the nasty Christmas tree water. Fresh clean water in their bowl twice a day and they preferred that dirty water. Go figure.

Who knows what goes on in the mind of a cat?!

buzzycrumbhunger

(1,536 posts)
60. Always a real tree.
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 09:45 PM
Nov 28

Big as possible. It went up just after Thanksgiving and stayed up ’til New Year’s. That’s as long as it lasted as it was always near the fireplace, which got a lot of use during Iowa winters. I think I had one friend whose family opted for that silver tree with the lights, and I was mortified at the unnaturalness of the whole thing.

Later on: My ex’s bday was March 30. He insisted ALL the Xmas decorations had to stay up until after that day. Yes, FOUR MONTHS! One year, my mum came down to FL for Xmas and suggested one day we could be productive and pack everything up for the new year. He came home after work and threw a tantrum.

Just one of the many reasons I should’ve jettisoned him early on. All that tinsel and garlands and crap everywhere just got oppressive, and I just grew to despise the holiday. (He’s also the reason I recognized the orange bawbag’s malignant narcissism before anyone else.)

The only tree we’ve had up since was the Charlie Brown tree that my son won at work one year—tiny fake tree with just the one red bulb and Linus’ blue blanket at the bottom. Seemed a fitting symbol for what we’d been subjected to for too long (23 years!) Now, even the kids couldn’t care less about Xmas—and since we’re all poor and don’t need more clutter to move around with, we pretty much skip holidays in general, except for the big family dinner.

debm55

(53,986 posts)
90. Thank you very much, buzzycrumbhunger. Sounds like your ex was an ass. I had the Charlie Brown Christmas tree too-bent,
Sat Nov 29, 2025, 01:39 PM
Nov 29

red ornament and pale blue blanket. I used to keep it on my desk at school. The kids loved it.

3catwoman3

(28,369 posts)
62. Always real when I was a kid.
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 10:06 PM
Nov 28

My husband and I got fresh trees for many years. We are now on our second artificial tree, which is a 9 footer. Our family room opens to our second floor, so there's lots of room. I'd personally love a 12 footer, but at 74 and 80, going that high on a ladder might not be the smartest thing to do.

We upgraded a couple of seasons back (maybe more) to one of the ones where the 4 sections connect easily to each other and light up when you connect them - just one cord. Our first one had lots of cords in each section, and was kind of a pain to put together.

Our cats do not climb the tree, however they love to nap under it because of the faint warmth of the lights.

It usually takes me several days to get all the ornaments on it, as I'm rather particular about where they go, so I often move them around many times - can't have 2 of the same color too close together, and if it's an animal ornament, it has to hang so I can see the face. Because it takes so long to get the tree decorated just right, it always stays up until at least mid-January. I like looking at it.

debm55

(53,986 posts)
89. Thank you so much 3catwoman3. Your tree sounds wonderful. I do the same with moving the ornaments around so they are the
Sat Nov 29, 2025, 01:32 PM
Nov 29

"perfect place" HAHAHAHAHAH

PikaBlue

(397 posts)
63. It's not quite true that only God can make a tree
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 10:11 PM
Nov 28

We always had a live Christmas tree; however, my father who was an architect, always found that they needed fine tuning. We put up our tree on December 23rd after it had been temporarily installed in the garage with plumb lines running down from the rafters so that the branches were trimmed to create the ideal cone shape. Bare spots? No problem! My dad would cut branches from the bottom of the tree, drill a hole in the trunk where he wanted to eliminate the bare spot and wood glue the branch into the new location. I grew quite impatient waiting for the glue to dry. After the tree was fully decorated, my father and family members visiting for Christmas would make very potent homemade eggnog. The grand finale of Christmas Eve was when my mother wanted the fully decorated tree moved to a new location. At this point, a volunteer, albeit quite tipsy, work crew would attempt to oblige. I should point out that my mother was a non drinker so I never understood why she made this request year after year. It took many years before I understood that Christmas trees were not meant to be horizontal. I had the best childhood ever.

debm55

(53,986 posts)
87. HAHHAAHHAHHA. Thank you very much. PikaBlue, for sharing your sharing your funny Christmas memory.
Sat Nov 29, 2025, 11:27 AM
Nov 29

elleng

(141,877 posts)
71. LIVE Chanukah Bush
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 10:37 PM
Nov 28

harvested from aunt/uncle's exurban Conn property, decorated with aunt's sugar cookies!

Brother Buzz

(39,423 posts)
73. Silver Tip planted on a table
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 10:48 PM
Nov 28

With four generations of heirloom decorations, each with a story, and most homemade. A couple of new ones were added over the years (tiny carved squirrel, cool angle snipped and shaped out of a tin can, Santa made from pulled felt). Always special in my mind. My Play-Doh snowman from the fifties ultimately melted and was retired.

Back in the day, premium table sized Christmas trees didn’t cost an arm and a leg.

Aristus

(71,447 posts)
75. We had a fake tree for my entire childhood.
Fri Nov 28, 2025, 11:45 PM
Nov 28

Christmas Eve, 1972. For some reason, my parents had put off getting a tree. My Dad rushed out and got a fake tree, probably either the only one left, or the best of a bad lot.

That tree ended up being our Christmas tree for the next twenty years. It was the centerpiece of the happiest Christmases of my life.

Mad_Dem_X

(10,096 posts)
76. We always had live ones.
Sat Nov 29, 2025, 08:10 AM
Nov 29

My dad would take my sister and me out to pick up a tree; it was always so cold, and we would point to the first tree we saw and say, "THIS ONE!" Just because we wanted to get back into the warm car.

debm55

(53,986 posts)
77. HAHAHA. Thank you Mad_Dem_X. Cutting down your own tree sounds like so much fun.I have never done it , but I wish I had.
Sat Nov 29, 2025, 10:18 AM
Nov 29

MIButterfly

(1,767 posts)
82. LOL! That reminds me of one of the last times my mother and I went out to get a Christmas tree.
Sat Nov 29, 2025, 10:45 AM
Nov 29

We went to Home Depot and she picked out this pitiful-looking, scrawny tree. I pointed out some fuller, prettier trees but she insisted on that one, saying that it would open up. It never did. A couple of days later, I asked her why that tree and she said it was cold and dark and she just wanted to leave! 🎄

AllaN01Bear

(28,272 posts)
78. real.
Sat Nov 29, 2025, 10:20 AM
Nov 29

didnt have a fake one untill we moved to norcal . the tree was in a living room where there was a wood stove and that scared mom, so she got a fake one .

Emile

(39,812 posts)
91. I remember dad tying down the Christmas tree on top
Sat Nov 29, 2025, 01:40 PM
Nov 29

the roof on his 1952 Henry J every year.

When the new Aluminum tree came out, dad bought one.

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