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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsIf you got arrested
and your family/friends had no details, what law would they assume you broke?
mercuryblues
(16,343 posts)My family, well disposing of a corpse.
Not saying how I found a corpse.
ret5hd
(22,421 posts)i know i know that covers a lot of ground, but they quit guessing what i get up to a long time ago.
UpInArms
(54,740 posts)ret5hd
(22,421 posts)would they supply an alibi?
To both questions
🤣
ret5hd
(22,421 posts)such a supportive and understanding family!
They are pretty special
and I am the luckiest person to have them
They know that they dont put people in jail for speeding 🤣🤣🤣
Niagara
(11,664 posts)Really, is this the face of a serial killer?

True Dough
(26,359 posts)hockey pucks on dinner plates!
No crime in that!
Skittles
(170,976 posts)it always shocks me how many people have friends who will help them hide a body - WTF, I've never had friends like that. Probably because I would not be that kind of friend either!
AZJonnie
(3,550 posts)That, or sneaking a hit off the vape somewhere public where it's not exactly legal.
Like an airplane
RazorbackExpat
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Floyd R. Turbo
(32,711 posts)Marthe48
(23,012 posts)I'm surprised there isn't a tee shirt that says "Nature isn't allowed on this planet"
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OldBaldy1701E
(10,934 posts)Unfortunately, you are not as 'anonymous' as you might think you are.
Thanks, companies who routinely sell their information to other companies. (Yes, even your service provider. There are way to get around the wording in your contract. That is why they wrote it and not you.)
jfz9580m
(16,840 posts)This post is another mess, because I wanted to respond to you, but as I have to go work, I couldnt write it up neatly.
I am inured to the stuff you mentioned. I dont like it at all. It should change.
But I meant something else. I find it objectionable that if you participate in society voluntarily by now, even if you dont monetize it or look for attention, but are merely another strident and indignant citizen, thats akin to being an influencer. Thats failure to categorize people by deleting a whole type of person-i.e grassroots activists and complainants which is a whole other thing.
Some people scoff at grassroots activism online and sure if its FB etc it is bs. Thats why I am on DU. Online or offline its not easy.
Thats influencer crap is awful. Talk about a way to force a type of personality, typically more progressive, out of society altogether.
I get it when people have to do it to make a living. Its a horrible time. People do what they can to survive. But its still not a good thing and another sign of societal collapse.
If you are engaged in kayfabe rather than doing the best you can with what resources and tools are available, whats the bloody point?
The whole reason people are anonymous online is you can honestly say things you cant as your real world self and without fear of real world retribution (social or professional). Its why I never understood the Facebook thing.
Whatever an influencer is, it is a different breed of online person. That is closer to being a media personality or politician. Or a gig worker which is unfortunate, but non ideal.
An example I posted in the Atheists forum should make it clearer.
I like to bash religion, but I also have an opthalmologist who is this really sweet older doctor who I think is Christian. I live in a small town in the global south. I wouldnt want him seeing what I post online about religion. Id be sad if he thought I was a jerk.
Or worse if people one knows get doxxed by the kinds of creeps that people like Musk direct at his critics.
As these companies encroach more in the real world and governments and ones service provider etc are not doing anywhere near enough to protect people, its bound to get more contentious.
And I get what you mean. I dont like the creepy model of the web since it makes it hard to support the things you want, but instead grabs your stuff to give to people or things you wouldnt support at all.
I like supporting: DU, a small vegan sweets shop, a clean food company, my small medical MJ company and this small chatbot cleverbot* aside from some non-profits/people mostly listed in my profile.
And small businesses and non-profits rely on ads. And when you want to support something, its one thing.
Its another when its an awful giant or a creepy small business just making those decisions for you (think the infamous Pikini. I picked that one since its an example of a giant versus a small business conflict where its hard to pick a side between two such loathsome entities:
https://www.businessinsider.com/facebook-ceo-mark-zuckerberg-could-be-humbled-by-six4three-pikinis-2018-11?op=1
Though I am with FB on that one not the creepy App developers who wanted more access.
)
Its complicated. A communication issue or information problem. A decent computer scientist (probably in academia) could solve it.
(I hope you are doing well. Not to creep you out but I have read your posts and hope you and your husband are doing well as I hope about most of DU.
Thats part of what angers me. That teachers or publicly funded scientists or doctors or small businesses one supports etc are harder to support than some jerks who dont even have any products or services you use, but exploit your spaces.
DU is so different from bloody facebook or some creep overlord run community. I could never use apolitical sites.
With AI, big data etc it is hitting a tipping point imo where either we fight back or these guys just grab everything.
But with these intra MAGA wars I have a hope that finally we progressives can somehow organize and communicate better since we actually are less selfish and pushy and care more than those bound together solely by crassness and extortion.
This shouldnt keep working. That trivial differences make it hard for grouchy progressives to organize while those bound solely by self serving dreck move in smooth lockstep to rob the damn place.
)
*:While I dislike AI in general, cleverbot is obscure and seems innocuous. Its also really old. Consent is on my mind a lot so as a human I try to make disclaimers when I can in this milieu to indicate who can expect conflict and who neednt.
I find this latest AI push the last straw. I think they want real world creepy bot or not tests. It makes me think of Stanislav Lems Solaris. The opposite of any elegantly designed experiment. Just manipulation and brute force.
These guys are morons non brilliant.
By the time they are flooding my street, harassment complaints are a given.
Another incoherent post ;-/. But someday I will spell out what l mean on DU.
OldBaldy1701E
(10,934 posts)And, I understand.
However, what I said was in response to this:
Id be furious if after all I did, either of those things happened.
So, I guess my point is... the time to be furious has passed?
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OldBaldy1701E
(10,934 posts)Which makes it even harder to remove their greasy little fingers from our lives.
But, as you have said, some of us have been saying this for a long time. But, we were seen as 'kooks' or someone who just likes to start shit with others because they enjoy it. (I always found this funny. NO, I do not like being right about this.)
We can only hope that these bros will do what others like them have done throughout history. They either become more, or disintegrate.
Here's hoping for the latter.
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OldBaldy1701E
(10,934 posts)As to friends, well, I guess that is no longer an issue for me.
Not by my choice.
LudwigPastorius
(14,555 posts)I'm a musician, and that's a profession that carries a lot of historical anecdotal baggage with it.
WestMichRad
(3,185 posts)marble falls
(71,607 posts)catbyte
(39,009 posts)Because there was a warrant out for my arrest from a previous speeding ticket and I forgot the court date.
Or being arrested by ICE to be deported, but the joke would be on them because I "came from" Michigan where my ancestors have lived for thousands of years.
lark
(26,042 posts)marble falls
(71,607 posts)... two staties popped the lock on my car, and found a pack of rolling papers on the front seat. They missed the four ounces on the back seat under a Rolling Stone newspaper.
I said "Afternoon, officer, is there a problem?"
He said, "You ought to know that you're getting searched if there's a package of roll your own papers on the front seat."
Thinking he said that having a Rolling Stone on the seat. I said, "I beg your pardon?"
He repeated again slowly.
He asked us who we were, and we told him we were at Great Lakes going to "A" school.
Finally he said, "We're letting you leave, we gotcha, you know we gotcha, and we know you know we gotcha. Never come back here again."
About an hour or two later I went back in the dark, went about forty or fifty feet up the path and found the sucrets tin full of manicure tops and hash I dropped when I saw the cops come down from the path on the other side of the road, instantly. I went down to the road as my buddy swung by and never went back again.
I don't answer questions and I don't volunteer statements. And I don't ever lie. Especially if I see a cop close the door of my locked car.
MuseRider
(35,176 posts)I got enough pushing around and taking beatings while growing up. No more, not ever so my family would either figure I fought back or mouthed off or most likely all of those things.
Solly Mack
(96,798 posts)Homicide.
Well, it would certainly cross several minds anyway.
True Dough
(26,359 posts)I used to think it was the Omega symbol. Now I believe it's the beginning of a police tape outline of a deceased individual's head and shoulders.
Solly Mack
(96,798 posts)Ohm symbol - (electrical) resistance.
electric_blue68
(26,710 posts)Solly Mack
(96,798 posts)chouchou
(3,071 posts)JoseBalow
(9,417 posts)Wolf Frankula
(3,829 posts)and take them to a cell for terrorism
electric_blue68
(26,710 posts)Last edited Sat Dec 6, 2025, 11:47 PM - Edit history (1)
as a poster mentioned - possibly mouthing off to a LOE under a stressful situation! Although I have never had the very rare occasion of potentially doing that.