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debm55

(53,763 posts)
Thu Dec 4, 2025, 09:34 AM 13 hrs ago

Do you remember a Christmas tradition or item from your youth? I remember the cardboard fireplaces and the TV stations

Last edited Thu Dec 4, 2025, 12:21 PM - Edit history (1)

showing a burning yule log at night. --all three stations. How about you?: EDIT to add driving around looking at Christmas lights and
decorations.

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Do you remember a Christmas tradition or item from your youth? I remember the cardboard fireplaces and the TV stations (Original Post) debm55 13 hrs ago OP
We used to have real candles on the Christmas tree Turbineguy 13 hrs ago #1
Oh you. Thank you very much, Turbineguy. I never knew anyone with real candles on the tree. debm55 13 hrs ago #3
They were common when we lived in Switzerland... regnaD kciN 11 hrs ago #31
Thank you very much, regnaD kciN. We used the string lights too. debm55 11 hrs ago #36
Instead of Christmas stockings, we had vinyl boots, red with Christmas decoration Walleye 13 hrs ago #2
Thank you very much for sharing with us. Walleye. That is a unique idea. debm55 12 hrs ago #4
Living in a small town in northern New Jersey... FalloutShelter 12 hrs ago #5
Great post, FalloutShelter. The local fire department would throw candy from the truck. You are so lucky to get Tiny debm55 12 hrs ago #7
Thanks for the post Deb and FalloutShelter 12 hrs ago #10
You are welcome, FalloutShelter debm55 12 hrs ago #15
A big memory is my dad and I singing "The 12 Days of Christmas" every day after dinner during the season lark 12 hrs ago #6
Thank you very much lark for sharing with us. May the memories of your mother be a blessing to you. debm55 12 hrs ago #8
ALCOA is from western Pennsylvania.... MyOwnPeace 12 hrs ago #9
Thank you very much, My OwnPeace. We never had one. I am so glad. Didn't know that ALCOA made them here in Western PA. debm55 12 hrs ago #11
Midnight Mass displacedvermoter 12 hrs ago #12
Thank you very much, displacedvermotor. I was in the children's chorus. and we sang at the Midnight Mass. debm55 12 hrs ago #14
Before the inflatables, the hard plastic yard decorations. debm55 12 hrs ago #13
My parents always bought the Firestone Christmas album Freddie 12 hrs ago #16
Thank you very much, Freddie for sharing. I am unfamiliar with the album, but it sounds great. debm55 11 hrs ago #21
It was an annual record only available at Firestone dealers Freddie 11 hrs ago #32
Thank you.Freddie. debm55 11 hrs ago #38
We had the cardboard fireplace... discntnt_irny_srcsm 12 hrs ago #17
Thank you very much, discntnt_irny_srcsm. So Santa had a way to deliver the presents. debm55 11 hrs ago #23
Our main tree was in the living room on the first floor. discntnt_irny_srcsm 11 hrs ago #34
Thank you very much for sharing with us discntnt_irny_srcsm. debm55 10 hrs ago #41
My dad raised three kids on his own. That said, we were lucky to even have a tree. Emile 12 hrs ago #18
Thank you very much for sharing with us Emile. Your tree sounds beautiful. And your father sounds like a great man. May debm55 11 hrs ago #24
Two: the nut bowl and the angel chime decoration. Xavier Breath 12 hrs ago #19
Oh , Thank you Xavier Breath. I had the angel carousel with the candles . Didn't you just stare at it in wonder? debm55 11 hrs ago #27
We used to go to a Christmas Party every year. Kids applegrove 11 hrs ago #20
My dad would take us 3 kids to the VFW Christmas Party Emile 11 hrs ago #22
Sounds like a riot. What is VFW? applegrove 11 hrs ago #25
Veterans of Foreign Wars Emile 11 hrs ago #28
Thank you Emile for sharing with us. I went to the Knights of Columbus party and got a gift. Bless you Emile. debm55 11 hrs ago #26
Thank you very much, applegrove for sharing with us. I bet it was fun for you. debm55 10 hrs ago #42
We did the same, but it was a Kiwanis Christmas party. I'll never forget Cloudhopper 9 hrs ago #47
Thank you for sharing . Wow that was a huge teddy bear. I got a tin of those hard candies. debm55 9 hrs ago #50
My family never did huge, elaborate, easily-spotted-from-orbit outdoor decorations. Aristus 11 hrs ago #29
Thank you very much Aristus. I remember people decorating their doors that way. I though it was very nice and festive. debm55 10 hrs ago #44
Cookies, cookies, cookies! Raven123 11 hrs ago #30
My mom's aunt would make a TON of cookies, all kinds Mad_Dem_X 11 hrs ago #35
Thank you very much Raven123. Yes, Christmas cookies are the best. debm55 10 hrs ago #46
We had a cardboard fireplace Mad_Dem_X 11 hrs ago #33
HAHAHAHAHHA. Did you have the red brick cardboard one? Thanks Mad_Dem_X debm55 9 hrs ago #51
Oh yes! Mad_Dem_X 7 hrs ago #73
My dad would routinely burst into song Mad_Dem_X 11 hrs ago #37
HAHAHAH. Thank you very much Mad_Dem_X. May your dad's memories be a blessing to you. debm55 9 hrs ago #54
I miss him terribly, especially this time of year. Mad_Dem_X 7 hrs ago #74
______________ debm55 7 hrs ago #75
I loved hanging the tinsel. pandr32 11 hrs ago #39
Thank you very much, pandr32. My brother would do the same. It made my Father very angry. debm55 7 hrs ago #71
We had a Lionel train on a platform my dad made some_of_us_are_sane 11 hrs ago #40
HAHAHAHAHAHAHHHAHA. I am sorry some_of _us _are_sane. but that is sort of funny. debm55 7 hrs ago #72
Yes. This. OldBaldy1701E 10 hrs ago #43
Thank you very much OldBaldy1701E for sharing the manger scene. It is beautiful and carries the memories of your debm55 10 hrs ago #45
I remember always having this mix of hard Christmas candy that came in a blue or green foil tin. The brand was Society KitFox 9 hrs ago #48
Thank you very much, KitFox for sharing the wonderful Christmas Eve events in your home. Excellent. debm55 8 hrs ago #64
We had these plastic hanging decorations made from small, round, colored plastic Cloudhopper 9 hrs ago #49
I remember them. Cloudhopper. We called them popcorn decorations as they were rough. I live in SW PA and they were all debm55 9 hrs ago #53
The annual Christmas music album 31st Street Bridge 9 hrs ago #52
Thank you very much, 31st Street Bridge. debm55 8 hrs ago #63
I remember some time before Christmas, awaiting the arrival of the big Sears catalog SheltieLover 9 hrs ago #55
Thank you, SheltieLover. Did you dog ear or circle the items that you wanted Santa to bring you? debm55 9 hrs ago #58
Oh, absolutely. Dog-eared & circled items. Lol SheltieLover 9 hrs ago #59
HAHAAHAHA Thank you. SheltieLover. debm55 8 hrs ago #61
Mr Jingaling ... marble falls 9 hrs ago #56
HAHAHHAHAHAHA, Thank you very much, marble falls. debm55 9 hrs ago #57
Homemade cinnamon bread, rum balls, egg nog and homemade fruitcake. mwmisses4289 8 hrs ago #60
Thank you very much, mwmisses4289. That sounds wonderful. debm55 8 hrs ago #62
Popcorn balls. Sneederbunk 8 hrs ago #65
Thank you very much, Sneederbunk. And you could make more popcorn to string on the tree. debm55 7 hrs ago #69
Plywood/painted cut outs ballardgirl 8 hrs ago #66
HAHAHHAH. Thank you very much, ballardgirl for sharing your memory. debm55 7 hrs ago #70
That pink light bulb, pushing a candied yam around on my plate (I hate yams, even candied ones), and Mom's wonderful Dorothy V 8 hrs ago #67
Thank you so much for sharing your Christmas memories with us Dorothy V. Love you, deb. debm55 7 hrs ago #68
One of my grandmother's churches had Christmas caroling every year with a party at the church afterwards. CrispyQ 6 hrs ago #76
Thank you very much for the Christmas caroling. In 8th grade, my homeroom went caroling. You don't see that any more. debm55 6 hrs ago #77
Velvet dresses for girls and a velvet vest and dress pants and white shirt for boys. debm55 5 hrs ago #78

Turbineguy

(39,715 posts)
1. We used to have real candles on the Christmas tree
Thu Dec 4, 2025, 09:40 AM
13 hrs ago

They would be lit every evening after dinner for 20-30 minutes. We never had a tree fire because everybody watched the tree like a hawk. In any case, the tree was next to a balcony door so in a pinch we could throw the tree over the balcony and set any pedestrians walking by, on fire.

debm55

(53,763 posts)
3. Oh you. Thank you very much, Turbineguy. I never knew anyone with real candles on the tree.
Thu Dec 4, 2025, 09:45 AM
13 hrs ago

regnaD kciN

(27,392 posts)
31. They were common when we lived in Switzerland...
Thu Dec 4, 2025, 11:30 AM
11 hrs ago

…in the mid-‘60s, but my family always used standard string lights.

Walleye

(43,449 posts)
2. Instead of Christmas stockings, we had vinyl boots, red with Christmas decoration
Thu Dec 4, 2025, 09:45 AM
13 hrs ago

Large Santa Claus type boots that would get filled by our parents, a.k.a. Santa Claus, with goodies Christmas Eve that we would wake up to Christmas morning

FalloutShelter

(14,073 posts)
5. Living in a small town in northern New Jersey...
Thu Dec 4, 2025, 09:54 AM
12 hrs ago

Xmas week, the volunteer fire company would drive a truck around town with Santa who waved to the kids from the ladder.

My dad was a volunteer fireman, and one year the truck stopped in front of the house .
Santa got down from the truck and brought us a puppy. ( of course, dad had arranged it.)
“Tiny” my first dog, and the beginning of a lifelong passion for dogs in need of homes and help.

🐕‍🦺🐾🐶

debm55

(53,763 posts)
7. Great post, FalloutShelter. The local fire department would throw candy from the truck. You are so lucky to get Tiny
Thu Dec 4, 2025, 10:01 AM
12 hrs ago

From Santa.

lark

(25,800 posts)
6. A big memory is my dad and I singing "The 12 Days of Christmas" every day after dinner during the season
Thu Dec 4, 2025, 09:58 AM
12 hrs ago

Other memories of the times - bubble lights, tinsel, a big beautiful real Scotch pine tree, opening one present on Christmas eve and it was always Christmas pajamas which we promptly put on. Christmas was always very special for mom and me, we just loved the season and decorating for it and I miss her so much durng ths time of year.

debm55

(53,763 posts)
8. Thank you very much lark for sharing with us. May the memories of your mother be a blessing to you.
Thu Dec 4, 2025, 10:03 AM
12 hrs ago

MyOwnPeace

(17,429 posts)
9. ALCOA is from western Pennsylvania....
Thu Dec 4, 2025, 10:05 AM
12 hrs ago

I’m sure they were pleased to see the aluminium Christmas trees with the spotlight and rotating color sheets shining on them!
Late 50’s, early 60’s……..

debm55

(53,763 posts)
11. Thank you very much, My OwnPeace. We never had one. I am so glad. Didn't know that ALCOA made them here in Western PA.
Thu Dec 4, 2025, 10:10 AM
12 hrs ago

debm55

(53,763 posts)
14. Thank you very much, displacedvermotor. I was in the children's chorus. and we sang at the Midnight Mass.
Thu Dec 4, 2025, 10:16 AM
12 hrs ago

Freddie

(10,019 posts)
16. My parents always bought the Firestone Christmas album
Thu Dec 4, 2025, 10:29 AM
12 hrs ago

At the local tire store. Some really great stuff on those records.

debm55

(53,763 posts)
21. Thank you very much, Freddie for sharing. I am unfamiliar with the album, but it sounds great.
Thu Dec 4, 2025, 11:05 AM
11 hrs ago

Freddie

(10,019 posts)
32. It was an annual record only available at Firestone dealers
Thu Dec 4, 2025, 11:32 AM
11 hrs ago

A compilation of various artists (mostly folks my parents liked) performing holiday songs. Not sure when they stopped, was very popular in the 60s.

discntnt_irny_srcsm

(18,708 posts)
34. Our main tree was in the living room on the first floor.
Thu Dec 4, 2025, 11:33 AM
11 hrs ago

Sometimes we had a second tree near the cardboard fireplace downstairs.

Good times.

Emile

(39,693 posts)
18. My dad raised three kids on his own. That said, we were lucky to even have a tree.
Thu Dec 4, 2025, 10:40 AM
12 hrs ago

He did the best he could, but most of the decorations were from us kids.

I remember popping popcorn, and using a needle and thread to string it for the Christmas tree.

debm55

(53,763 posts)
24. Thank you very much for sharing with us Emile. Your tree sounds beautiful. And your father sounds like a great man. May
Thu Dec 4, 2025, 11:10 AM
11 hrs ago

The memories of him be a blessing to you.

Xavier Breath

(6,341 posts)
19. Two: the nut bowl and the angel chime decoration.
Thu Dec 4, 2025, 10:46 AM
12 hrs ago

The nut bowl was plastic and looked like a ring cut from a tree. You'd fill it with nuts and there was a silver nutcracker and picks in the center to open and remove all that glorious nut meat

The angel chime was a carousel of sorts. The base had four candles, and on a center shaft were four angels and a fan at the top. The heat from the candles would spin the fan and the angels would strike bells as they rotated.

Good times.

debm55

(53,763 posts)
27. Oh , Thank you Xavier Breath. I had the angel carousel with the candles . Didn't you just stare at it in wonder?
Thu Dec 4, 2025, 11:19 AM
11 hrs ago

Thank you for sharing you memories.

applegrove

(129,523 posts)
20. We used to go to a Christmas Party every year. Kids
Thu Dec 4, 2025, 11:03 AM
11 hrs ago

we're in the basement and there was candy and pop everywhere. My mom didn't allow candy or pop in our home so it was novel to have an endless supply of it. My cousins were there. It was fun.

Emile

(39,693 posts)
22. My dad would take us 3 kids to the VFW Christmas Party
Thu Dec 4, 2025, 11:07 AM
11 hrs ago

to see Santa and get a free gift. After the party we would look for dad to take us home. He was almost always in the secret room playing the illegal slots.

Emile

(39,693 posts)
28. Veterans of Foreign Wars
Thu Dec 4, 2025, 11:20 AM
11 hrs ago

When he came home from the VFW, us kids would be called into the kitchen. Dad would have a big pile of coins that he won from the slot machines on the table. He would take each coin, one by one, and say, one for you, one for you, and one for you.

debm55

(53,763 posts)
26. Thank you Emile for sharing with us. I went to the Knights of Columbus party and got a gift. Bless you Emile.
Thu Dec 4, 2025, 11:15 AM
11 hrs ago

Cloudhopper

(160 posts)
47. We did the same, but it was a Kiwanis Christmas party. I'll never forget
Thu Dec 4, 2025, 12:56 PM
9 hrs ago

I once got a big (about 2 ft tall) white and lime green teddy bear. Loved that bear.

debm55

(53,763 posts)
50. Thank you for sharing . Wow that was a huge teddy bear. I got a tin of those hard candies.
Thu Dec 4, 2025, 01:14 PM
9 hrs ago

Aristus

(71,423 posts)
29. My family never did huge, elaborate, easily-spotted-from-orbit outdoor decorations.
Thu Dec 4, 2025, 11:22 AM
11 hrs ago

But one thing my mother would do was take brightly-colored metallic wrapping paper, and cover the front door with it, then add a big ribbon to it so the door looked like a huge gift package.

I've got a photo of one year's effort somewhere.

debm55

(53,763 posts)
44. Thank you very much Aristus. I remember people decorating their doors that way. I though it was very nice and festive.
Thu Dec 4, 2025, 12:19 PM
10 hrs ago

Raven123

(7,363 posts)
30. Cookies, cookies, cookies!
Thu Dec 4, 2025, 11:27 AM
11 hrs ago

Mom baked a lot of different types of cookies, it was cold enough to store them in her tins in the garage, all labeled. When we visited, we would load a tray daily and indulge.

Mad_Dem_X

(10,094 posts)
35. My mom's aunt would make a TON of cookies, all kinds
Thu Dec 4, 2025, 11:34 AM
11 hrs ago

and she would bring some over to our house at Christmastime. What a treat!

Mad_Dem_X

(10,094 posts)
37. My dad would routinely burst into song
Thu Dec 4, 2025, 11:38 AM
11 hrs ago

...well, kind of. He would be walking down the hall, and suddenly start singing, "And a partridge in a pear tree!" That's it; that's all he would sing. My sister and I would laugh. God, I miss him.

debm55

(53,763 posts)
54. HAHAHAH. Thank you very much Mad_Dem_X. May your dad's memories be a blessing to you.
Thu Dec 4, 2025, 01:23 PM
9 hrs ago

pandr32

(13,681 posts)
39. I loved hanging the tinsel.
Thu Dec 4, 2025, 11:42 AM
11 hrs ago

I did it so carefully, but my brother would get frustrated and throw clumps of it on the branches and I wanted the tree 'pretty' so i would spread out his clumps.
The tinsel would somehow drift all around the house and stick on all kinds of things. It made me smile.

debm55

(53,763 posts)
71. Thank you very much, pandr32. My brother would do the same. It made my Father very angry.
Thu Dec 4, 2025, 03:29 PM
7 hrs ago

some_of_us_are_sane

(2,630 posts)
40. We had a Lionel train on a platform my dad made
Thu Dec 4, 2025, 11:44 AM
11 hrs ago

with metal train tracks. I used to throw the METALLIC icicles from the Christmas tree onto the tracks and it made the train jump the track. ROFL!! Man, did my dad get annoyed with those shenanigans!

OldBaldy1701E

(9,759 posts)
43. Yes. This.
Thu Dec 4, 2025, 12:12 PM
10 hrs ago


My grandmother would place this on the table in the front hallway of her house. I remember it from every single Christmas that was celebrated at her house, which was every year until she passed.

There were a few more figures, but they were broken or disintegrated over the decades. I am missing the other two 'Kings of Orient', as well as another shepherd boy leaning on his crook, with a sheep beside him, and three sheep laying down like the mule and the cow are doing. I had to repair some of the ones you see because they were also broken, but she did not throw them away. I am very glad, because I was not interested in the display being 'correct', I just wanted to the one that I grew up with. It is fragile, but I will still set it out for the holiday in remembrance of my grandmother, who obviously liked it enough to buy all new figures for it on three different occasions. It is on the shelf behind me a this very moment.

The stable has a wind up music thing on the inside where it plays the first verse of 'What Child Is This?' I have not tried it since I got it, so I think it still works, but I don't want to risk it without some prep first.

(I also remember the TV stations doing the burning log, but my grandmother did not have a color television until the late seventies, so it was always a bit funny to us grandkids to see a black and white fire.)

debm55

(53,763 posts)
45. Thank you very much OldBaldy1701E for sharing the manger scene. It is beautiful and carries the memories of your
Thu Dec 4, 2025, 12:30 PM
10 hrs ago

Grandmother. You are very lucky to have it. Even though pieces are missing it shows the love you both had for each other. May the memories of your grandmother be a blessing to you.

KitFox

(483 posts)
48. I remember always having this mix of hard Christmas candy that came in a blue or green foil tin. The brand was Society
Thu Dec 4, 2025, 01:07 PM
9 hrs ago

and the letters were spelled out in candy shapes. We ate it while decorating the tree. On Christmas Eve, my mom always made hamburgers and French fries and we opened one present and went to Midnight Mass. When we got home, we opened the giant Hickory Farms box that out of town relatives sent. My mom stirred up a batch of cornbread for use in the dressing and we smelled it baking while we snacked. We thought it was so much fun staying up so late and trying to stay awake! Thank you for sending us down memory lane, Deb! ❤️❤️❤️

debm55

(53,763 posts)
64. Thank you very much, KitFox for sharing the wonderful Christmas Eve events in your home. Excellent.
Thu Dec 4, 2025, 02:06 PM
8 hrs ago

Cloudhopper

(160 posts)
49. We had these plastic hanging decorations made from small, round, colored plastic
Thu Dec 4, 2025, 01:12 PM
9 hrs ago

chips that were mostly melted together, but not entirely so they were still rough. Shapes like Santa, bells, presents.

They might have been a local item since they were made in the next town over. Not sure how widespread they were.


debm55

(53,763 posts)
53. I remember them. Cloudhopper. We called them popcorn decorations as they were rough. I live in SW PA and they were all
Thu Dec 4, 2025, 01:20 PM
9 hrs ago

over the place here.

debm55

(53,763 posts)
58. Thank you, SheltieLover. Did you dog ear or circle the items that you wanted Santa to bring you?
Thu Dec 4, 2025, 01:41 PM
9 hrs ago

marble falls

(70,001 posts)
56. Mr Jingaling ...
Thu Dec 4, 2025, 01:25 PM
9 hrs ago
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As my dad used to sing, "Deck the halls with bills from Halles's!"

mwmisses4289

(2,922 posts)
60. Homemade cinnamon bread, rum balls, egg nog and homemade fruitcake.
Thu Dec 4, 2025, 01:49 PM
8 hrs ago

Mom would start soaking the fruit she was going to use in the fruitcake in rum starting around September, and make the cakes about November. And the eggnog! Oh my! 6 eggs, six cans of sweetened condensed/regular condensed milk (usually 3 of each) and a fifth of rum. All well blended, left in the fridge, stirred a couple of times a day, then served during holiday parties. She often warned people to have no more than two small tumbler glasses of it. Yum!

debm55

(53,763 posts)
69. Thank you very much, Sneederbunk. And you could make more popcorn to string on the tree.
Thu Dec 4, 2025, 03:23 PM
7 hrs ago

ballardgirl

(176 posts)
66. Plywood/painted cut outs
Thu Dec 4, 2025, 02:18 PM
8 hrs ago

Of the three wise guys in our front yard. We weren't particularly religious so not sure what the deal was. This was in the 50's

Dorothy V

(428 posts)
67. That pink light bulb, pushing a candied yam around on my plate (I hate yams, even candied ones), and Mom's wonderful
Thu Dec 4, 2025, 02:28 PM
8 hrs ago

collection of tree ornaments.
The pink bulb was a tree light. All the other bulbs were the standard red, green, blue, yellow and white, but there was this one pink bulb, origin unknown. These were the old style bulbs, not the little ones they have nowadays.
I still hate yams. And sweet potatoes.
Mom had birds, some lanterns, ceramic bells and other little doohickeys from at least three generations and several countries. I still have two of the birds, two lanterns, and three bells that somehow have remained unbroken over the years. The lanterns are the oldest, dating from before WWI, and the bells are from Germany. I love them all but my fave is the smallest bell, a tinkly little thing no longer than an inch or so and painted with tiny pink birds. We called it the baby bell.
It was always special when Mom brought out her box of pretties, as she most rightly called them, and hung them on the tree. We were all admonished to look but don't touch, and for a wonder, we minded! What broke the most of them over the years was the constant moving, not kids.

debm55

(53,763 posts)
68. Thank you so much for sharing your Christmas memories with us Dorothy V. Love you, deb.
Thu Dec 4, 2025, 02:57 PM
7 hrs ago

CrispyQ

(40,529 posts)
76. One of my grandmother's churches had Christmas caroling every year with a party at the church afterwards.
Thu Dec 4, 2025, 04:00 PM
6 hrs ago

Every house we went to had some kind of treat for us, usually homemade. I loved it, even on the really cold years! I remember the most wonderful fudge from my 8th grade English teacher.

debm55

(53,763 posts)
77. Thank you very much for the Christmas caroling. In 8th grade, my homeroom went caroling. You don't see that any more.
Thu Dec 4, 2025, 04:04 PM
6 hrs ago

Thank you very much CrispyQ,

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