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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsDU member elleng has passed. Edited
Last edited Sun Dec 14, 2025, 07:53 AM - Edit history (2)
Update: I have replaced the link--which was in my original post very early this morning--with a screen shot because some people indicated the link didn't work for them.
She has been a member here since 2004. No details. Her daughter has posted it on her Facebook account.

And her other daughter has just now posted this photo of her when she was younger

May her memory be a blessing.
LearnedHand
(5,212 posts)Its almost not possible. She was just posting yesterday or the day before!
dalton99a
(91,647 posts)unblock
(55,851 posts)Fla Dem
(27,395 posts)My sympathies go out to her family, she was truly a good person, may she rest in peace.
Tactical Peek
(1,392 posts)
mahatmakanejeeves
(67,892 posts)sprinkleeninow
(21,977 posts)SamKnause
(14,629 posts)montanacowboy
(6,654 posts)I loved her photos of the birds. My God, what happened?
jfz9580m
(16,427 posts)I knew I have seen her posts a bunch. I interacted with her only once..something to do with the plural of mongoose
She posted about atheists once in the Jewish Forum.
She used to post pics of geese and other birds..she must not have been well. Very sad. I dont have FB so I couldnt see it.
She seemed like a sweet person.
ZZenith
(4,443 posts)She was always helpful and friendly.
Godspeed, elleng.
Exp
(730 posts)blm
(114,404 posts)For us long timers, she was a daily voice
..a dependable pal.
💐🕯️💐
jfz9580m
(16,427 posts)She posted just last week..
Thats sad. I have seen her posts for years (in cooking and baking mostly)
hamsterjill
(16,888 posts)I always loved interacting with her. This is DU sadness.
brer cat
(27,308 posts)Condolences to her family.
tishaLA
(14,704 posts)we'll miss her and her many contributions.
NJCher
(42,237 posts)I noticed I had not seen posts from her in the last few days, but she had talked about being with family, so I thought she was busy with holiday gatherings.
I was going to post to ask about her.
I'm so sad to hear this. This place will not be the same without elleng.
PJMcK
(24,533 posts)When we sailed the Chesapeake a few years ago, we met up with Ellen on Solomons Island, MD which was near her home. We shared a delicious seafood dinner and wonderful conversation. I genuinely liked her immediately.
Her interests and knowledge were broad but her love for her family overshadowed everything. We frequently communicated on DU email and her calm intelligence was a hallmark of her personality. Of course, her love of food was evident from her posts on your daily dinner posts!
dalton99a
(91,647 posts)My deepest condolences to her family and friends.
Dear_Prudence
(999 posts)Hosts our photography forum
She will be so missed here.
Fla Dem
(27,395 posts)My sympathies go out to her family, she was truly a good person, may she rest in peace.
highplainsdem
(59,427 posts)I can't see what her daughter posted on FB. Sometimes I can see a posr there if a link is provided, but with this I just get a log-in page.
My condolences to all her friends and family. This was so sudden.
DFW
(59,627 posts)She was smart, informed, always civil.
We are poorer for her passing.
yellow dahlia
(4,156 posts)I am relatively new to DU, but her persona and presence were clear.
IbogaProject
(5,518 posts)I estimate she averaged just shy of 16 posts per day since March, 2004. 141,926 posts.
Permanut
(7,869 posts)Her memory will be a blessing, and I will miss her.
yorkster
(3,627 posts)She loved Smetana's Moldau.
What a voice to lose...
catchnrelease
(2,120 posts)She always had something interesting and/or informative to say. And I always checked out her posts. I will miss her so much! I hope there will be more info on what happened, it seems so sudden.
chowder66
(11,704 posts)HeartsCanHope
(1,491 posts)Elleng was a beloved member of the forum. She gave so much of herself to others. We were fortunate to have her as a DUer.
She will be missed.
YoshidaYui
(44,857 posts)she reached out to me several times in the past, she was very nice.
irisblue
(36,602 posts)Easterncedar
(5,362 posts)She was a lovely presence here. I will miss her
LoisB
(12,186 posts)SheltieLover
(75,686 posts)Deepest condolences to her family.
I will forever treaaure her posts of nature, especially the Spring she had the Osprey nest outside her window.
Soar with your beloved Osprey, Ellen!
PJMcK
(24,533 posts)elleng and I had become friends IRL. I miss her already.
She was funny, kind, thoughtful and she loved her family. A retired lawyer, she was smart and wise. elleng was a dedicated DUer who was fiercely progressive and a determined Democrat.
She loved food and her contributions to the Cooking and Baking forum were delicious.
RIP, dear friend.
2naSalit
(99,493 posts)But have had some interesting conversations on DU. She was one of the first DUers I had conversations with here. I've always appreciated her knowledge of the law. I will miss her too.
LostOne4Ever
(9,732 posts)LuckyCharms
(21,301 posts)BlueWaveNeverEnd
(12,463 posts)Laffy Kat
(16,838 posts)c-rational
(3,121 posts)Donkees
(33,335 posts)
Photo - Douglas Liu
When despair for the world grows in me...
I go and lie down where the wood drake
rests in his beauty on the water, and the great heron feeds.
I come into the peace of wild things
who do not tax their lives with forethought
of grief. I come into the presence of still water.
And I feel above me the day-blind stars
waiting with their light. For a time
I rest in the grace of the world, and am free. - Wendell Berry

ms liberty
(10,897 posts)Marthe48
(22,564 posts)I enjoyed seeing her posts and I will miss her.
R.I.P. elleng.
hlthe2b
(112,487 posts)I will be sending my love to her in whatever realm exists and my appreciation for her to her grieving family.
samplegirl
(13,661 posts)Read her posts all the time.
we can do it
(12,974 posts)BeyondGeography
(40,775 posts)I will miss her.
RIP dear Ellen and my condolences to her loved ones.
2naSalit
(99,493 posts)I like her! Haven't interacted much recently but...
Thank you for letting us know!
we can do it
(12,974 posts)UpInArms
(53,884 posts)Valiant and steadfast, you have been a unflinching warrior
You will be missed
blogslug
(39,069 posts)You were loved.
BootinUp
(50,755 posts)With her.
bucolic_frolic
(53,653 posts)Her daily doses of culture will be sorely missed.
Thanks for giving us courage these many months of 2025 and many years before.
ProfessorGAC
(75,596 posts)A pretty prolific poster. She'll be missed.
Emile
(40,075 posts)DeeDeeNY
(3,889 posts)Thank you for letting us know.
liberalla
(10,755 posts)She certainly will be missed here... she added so much!
My condolences to her family and friends.
lostincalifornia
(4,853 posts)cachukis
(3,599 posts)littlemissmartypants
(31,224 posts)Scrivener7
(58,027 posts)Mad_Dem_X
(10,102 posts)May she rest in peace.
PikaBlue
(404 posts)I so enjoyed her nature photos, especially those taken of the water in southern Maryland. They brought back happy memories of more than 50 years ago for me. Sending love to her family and friends. She will be greatly missed and fondly remembered.
livetohike
(23,922 posts)and friends. I will miss her posts in the Outdoor Life group. Such a heavy sadness to hear this news
.
choie
(6,504 posts)She will be so missed here.
sinkingfeeling
(56,984 posts)missed and lovingly remembered here on DU.
debm55
(54,425 posts)Last edited Sun Dec 14, 2025, 09:25 AM - Edit history (1)
Niagara
(11,307 posts)We seem to keep losing all the friendly and beautiful souls here on DU.
Rest in Paradise, elleng.
Docreed2003
(18,707 posts)My deepest condolences to Ellen's family. She was such an incredibly warm and supportive person. She was one of my first friends here when I first joined this forum. In fact, we chatted frequently during some pretty tumultuous times on DU to commiserate and share our feelings. We shared a birthday and I always enjoyed slyly wishing her a Happy Birthday in posts without drawing attention. I will miss her presence here dearly.
Diamond_Dog
(39,563 posts)I always enjoyed her posts, recipes, and photographs of the river where she lived. Rest in Peace, Ellen. We will all miss you here with heavy hearts here at DU.
IronLionZion
(50,679 posts)she's often in the DC group.
Rest in Power
onethatcares
(16,949 posts)say how much she will be missed..
Nittersing
(8,041 posts)My condolences to all she touched.
mwmisses4289
(2,998 posts)🫂 to your family.
BumRushDaShow
(164,717 posts)I have been interacting with her on and off over the years, especially if I had any news items about Maryland.
What a loss but I send my condolences to her family and hope she is at peace now.
marble falls
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DinahMoeHum
(23,309 posts)CaptainTruth
(8,020 posts)Kali
(56,564 posts)JoeOtterbein
(7,863 posts)(tears)
underpants
(194,385 posts)Her friend was in town to go to a public hearing of some sort. We met and had lunch. What a truly kind wonderful person.
This makes me very sad.
❤️🕯️
Nanuke
(893 posts)CousinIT
(12,125 posts)...
Wishing EllenG's family strength and peace at this painful time. I know Ellen's memory will be a blessing to them as time goes on.
GPV
(73,355 posts)ms liberty
(10,897 posts)This shakes me a bit, she has been here almost as long as I have. I just commented on one of here posts, like two days ago.
Solly Mack
(96,256 posts)She was steadfast. I never told her, but I loved that about her.
Goodbye, Ellen.
May you soar always.
cate94
(3,035 posts)riversedge
(79,064 posts)Ocelot II
(128,706 posts)She was a DU mainstay, and such a sweet person! My deepest condolences to her family.
CBHagman
(17,413 posts)I so appreciated her, and I know her memory will be for a blessing.
Deepest sympathy to all in her circle of family and friends.
CaliforniaPeggy
(155,972 posts)May her memory be a blessing.
Sanity Claws
(22,319 posts)radical noodle
(10,453 posts)DU won't be the same without her.
Collimator
(2,067 posts)My heart goes out to her family and those DUers who felt a strong connection with her.
I had noticed that her location is in Maryland where I am and I had recently toyed with the idea of reaching out to her personally. Now, that chance is gone.
The tributes posted here are lovely. I hope they provide comfort to those dealing with the sharp pangs of loss.
There is no doubt that, with the easing of pain, her memory will carry on as a song of joy; a blessing indeed.
Thank you, Elleng, for the good that you brought into the world.
marmar
(79,096 posts)whathehell
(30,326 posts)I read her posts every day.
Ninga
(8,975 posts)miss her posts.
lapfog_1
(31,545 posts)I loved her posts. I just responded to one a few days ago.
quaint
(4,537 posts)applegrove
(129,762 posts)Beacool
(30,500 posts)She was posting this week. I'm so sorry to lose a longtime and valuable DU member.
My condolences to her family and loved ones.
Rest in peace, Ellen. You will be missed.
defacto7
(14,158 posts)Polly Hennessey
(8,474 posts)Elleng, I loved your posts. Always read them. I am still shocked. Dear Elleng, I will miss you so much.
democrank
(12,048 posts)Rest in peace, Ellen.
NNadir
(37,104 posts)Clouds Passing
(6,765 posts)WheelWalker
(9,379 posts)Miles Archer
(21,333 posts)Condolences to Julie for the loss of her mom.
leftstreet
(38,682 posts)AllaN01Bear
(28,337 posts)bronxiteforever
(11,038 posts)the impersonal medium of the net to touch one personally. Ellen was an exceptional human and humane person. I will miss her dearly and may her memory be a blessing and light to all who knew her.
Sneederbunk
(17,158 posts)Emile
(40,075 posts)in the cooking forum.
Breaks my heart, she was a lovely person.
hermetic
(9,102 posts)She was a great lady. RIP
cbabe
(6,076 posts)Maraya1969
(23,387 posts)surfered
(10,864 posts)RIP!
MacKasey
(1,465 posts)Onthefly
(1,130 posts)As a fellow Marylander, we shared a love of the Patuxent River and bay. She was a regular at my cousins restaurant.
justaprogressive
(6,193 posts)a shining light is gone.
xocetaceans
(4,328 posts)She had a great presence here and contributed a fantastic amount to this forum.
RIP.
Alliepoo
(2,758 posts)I enjoyed reading her and loved the photos she posted. She will be missed. My condolences to her family and friends. Wishing them peace and comfort.
debm55
(54,425 posts)Leghorn21
(14,009 posts)I am also glad that she was active and doing things she loved right up to her last moments
Deepest condolences to her family. And her DU family as well.
She will be sorely missed
OLDMDDEM
(2,987 posts)kimbutgar
(26,624 posts)I remember reading her posts. She will be missed here on DU. RIP Elleng .
PatSeg
(51,771 posts)I must say I was rather shocked. Ellen has been a Facebook friend for quite some time and was also part of the original Joe Biden group here on DU.
She will truly be missed.
Grumpy Old Guy
(4,154 posts)I am so sorry to hear this. She will be missed in the Photography forum!
pandr32
(13,714 posts)May we all take comfort in her memories and the light that she gave.
sheshe2
(95,370 posts)Peace to elleng and her family. 💕
nocoincidences
(2,448 posts)I will miss her posts and photos.
QueerDuck
(826 posts)Rest in Peace.
DelMar dem
(70 posts)Deepest condolences to her family.
Catherine Vincent
(34,594 posts)Bayard
(28,242 posts)I always read her posts, and enjoyed the photos of the wonderful area where she lived.
Sad here. I will miss her. This seems very sudden.
angrychair
(11,623 posts)Absolutely one one my favorite people on DU.
bluestarone
(20,999 posts)MLAA
(19,646 posts)May her spirit remain with us. 🩷🩷🩷
harumph
(3,066 posts)I've been reading and responding to her posts for several years.
Mike Nelson
(10,882 posts)question everything
(51,584 posts)Some years back we were following her brain treatment.
May her memory be blessed.
Greybnk48
(10,655 posts)TygrBright
(21,274 posts)lpbk2713
(43,240 posts)I regret I haven't kept up with Elleng. I don't read or post as much as I used to.
She was a valuable asset to the DU community. Her loss will be felt.
FemDemERA
(675 posts)Her presence will truly be missed on DU. May the memories of Ellen wrap all in love and be of comfort in coming days.
Hekate
(100,131 posts)EarlG
(23,258 posts)She will be missed. My condolences to her family.
yonder
(10,216 posts)Her calm presence will be missed.
Condolences to her family and friends.
orangecrush
(27,928 posts)She was always so nice to me.
Deepest sympathy
Blue Owl
(58,096 posts)And I will be forever grateful for all the classical music postings she contributed on DU, and will miss them
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