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Shermann

(9,062 posts)
Tue Feb 3, 2026, 05:59 PM Feb 3

Companies requiring identity confirmation when calling YOU

I've had two occurrences this week of companies calling me and asking me to provide my date of birth to identify myself before they will speak with me. Having a tech and security background, I sort of balk at this.

In both cases this was legitimate. One was the doctor's office and the other the pharmacy. So, I get it, they want to identify me before discussing private medical details. But I have the phone registered on my account in my possession, and in most cases that satisfies the 2FA requirement. And they called me! If somebody is out to steal your identity, maybe you shouldn't lend them your phone.

I refused to provide any sensitive personal information in that situation, and they talked to me anyway.

My concern is that if this becomes commonplace, then people will let their guard down and readily provide their personal information during a very rudimentary phishing attack. Spoofing a phone number is unfortunately still very easy.

What should healthcare providers be doing in this case? Thoughts? Do you draw the line at date of birth or just social security number?

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Bluestocking

(653 posts)
2. I refuse to provide personal info
Tue Feb 3, 2026, 06:31 PM
Feb 3

If someone called me. It has resulted in the end of phone calls. It is not worth the risk. There are a lot of bad people out there.

stopdiggin

(15,462 posts)
3. date of birth is absolutely commonplace for any kind of medical
Tue Feb 3, 2026, 06:32 PM
Feb 3

it is THE number that they use (in common, and across platform) to access your file(s)

Having said that - exercising real caution with any kind of phone call coming YOUR direction - is basic common sense.

Midnight Writer

(25,404 posts)
4. If I google myself, my date of birth, my address, my phone number, e-mail, names of my relatives, my salary, all pop up.
Tue Feb 3, 2026, 07:00 PM
Feb 3

The cat is already out of the bag.

Shermann

(9,062 posts)
6. I am a bit jaded about these things, but my private info isn't THAT easily searchable.
Tue Feb 3, 2026, 08:25 PM
Feb 3

That said I've been swept up in a half dozen data breaches that I KNOW about by now.

The SSN is still the big one and they haven't asked for that yet. Maybe date of birth isn't even worth fretting about anymore?

OC375

(934 posts)
5. I Don't Answer the Phone
Tue Feb 3, 2026, 07:48 PM
Feb 3

It's for my convenience, it isn't a communications suicide pact. Don't answer the door either, for that matter, unless I'm expecting someone. It's always someone who wants something from me. 90% of my mail never gets opened for the same reason. If I cut out TV, and I'm pretty much a free man... except for the internet.

TBF

(36,665 posts)
9. As a young woman moving to the big city -
Thu Feb 5, 2026, 11:09 AM
Feb 5

I grew up in a very rural area - I was very careful. I felt that just because someone called or knocked on the door, that did not obligate me to respond. That has been a good rule throughout my life! Now it's even easier w/id on phones etc - if it's someone I know a photo will pop up and I know it's safe to answer. Otherwise, I'll just check for a message and return a call if necessary.

I have gotten used to the medical companies using birthdate, but I'm very leery of everything else. Including emails - never click on anything. Go to the applicable website and check if there's a message there, etc.

I do still have a TV in the corner of my office - I still watch sports sometimes or occasionally put on a movie I'm not used to all the streaming yet. It seems like it has gotten excessively expensive with all the different options. I'm a little intimidated by all that so I've got to really want to watch something to turn it on!

GAJMac

(266 posts)
7. Best to call them at their publically published number.
Wed Feb 4, 2026, 10:35 PM
Feb 4

Short of that, ask for the last four of the SSN. Also, to help foil infected attachments I have a code word I share with my family and friends. If I send an attachment, the subject line will include the code word. Without that, they know it's not really from me.

Nittersing

(8,380 posts)
8. My MDs office called (I didn't pick up) and at the end of the message
Thu Feb 5, 2026, 09:20 AM
Feb 5

he said, "I'll call back in 5 minutes." Which he did and then I picked up. First time, for me, a call was handled that way and I thought it was pretty brilliant.

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