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I heard about it in the morning from the radio show I listened to every morning. I was a Beatle fan. And I was ten.
All my life, the Beatles were the only rock band my parents listened to - hence, it was the only rock band I listened to.
I remember dancing myself sick to "Hey Jude," hearing the melody to "Ticket to Ride" every time I took a roller coaster and thinking Pepperland, from the movie, must have been the coolest place in the world.
So when I heard that John, the smart Beatle, was gunned down senselessly on the morning of Dec 8, 1980 - I couldn't help but cry.
I ran in and told my parents. My dad was disinterested and my mom felt sad, but life goes on.
That's what I was doing.
What were you doing?
randr
(12,409 posts)Sobbing with images of Martin and Bobby in my mind. Still brings me to tears.
I am crying now actually
Tsiyu
(18,186 posts)food poisoning or a bug.
A few hours before, I'd eaten a metal-wrapped TV dinner - Stouffer's Chicken Cacciatore.
And when the bug/poisoning hit, it was not pretty. We lived in a raised ranch with my room downstairs next to the bathroom door (thankfully) and within sight of the den where my brother and cousin were watching TV.
One one of my rapid stumbles out of my door toward the bathroom, my cousin, crying, said "What the hell is wrong with you? John Lennon is dead! You need to come watch this." I was not sure if I wasn't hallucinating.
Some years before that, the two of them had convinced me for about five minutes that they had written and recorded "When I'm Sixty Four." Yeah, they were always pranking me like that. So then I thought they were just messing with me.
It still was weird, the way they were just standing there watching the tube.
It wasn't until the next morning that I realized they were not messing with me, IIRC.
Seems so friggin long ago and then sometimes like yesterday...
madinmaryland
(64,931 posts)his life to a murderer.
applegrove
(118,600 posts)to high school in grade 10.
KamaAina
(78,249 posts)And then Cosell broke in with the news. At the time, pre-Buckner, the lowest point in New England sports history. Not to mention music history.
Taverner
(55,476 posts)And he knew this would be a tough day for all Beatles fans...
nomorenomore08
(13,324 posts)But the Beatles' music certainly has had an impact on my life. Whether it was owning a cassette tape of 'Sgt. Pepper' back in Kindergarten, or listening to the 'Abbey Road' side-two suite over and over again in college, it's always been there in some form.
Taverner
(55,476 posts)Denninmi
(6,581 posts)Heard about it at the bus stop the next morning, and it was a topic of discussion in several classes.
Sad, sad day.
Mr.Bill
(24,274 posts)so like much of the nation, I had to endure the indignity of hearing it from Howard Cosell, America's #1 Douchebag.
and my thoughts exactly
LiberalElite
(14,691 posts)Attending college at night. I didn't find out he was dead till the next day.
silentwarrior
(250 posts)when the news came on the tv about John.
I lay in bed for weeks listening to our local radio station playing tributes
of his music.
I was born in early 60s and brought up listening to The Beatles music.
Fav all time song "Hey Jude"
WCGreen
(45,558 posts)Betsy Ross
(3,147 posts)Heard it on TV, in Italian.
Joe Shlabotnik
(5,604 posts)Grade 4 or 5. I still remember I was eating instant oatmeal. Now I hate that stuff, not sure if its related to JL or not.
But on a brighter note, Dec 8th is Jim Morrison's Birthday.
cliffordu
(30,994 posts)in NW Portland Oregon, with a drag queen, a zaftig bartender, and a person who was getting ready to undergo gender reassignment surgery.
Our bartender, Loretta ("Whoretta" to all the youngsters) was back in the kitchen for a minute making a sandwich, heard it on the radio and came back out, crying - bawling - actually - and could barely get the phrase out -
Everyone in that bar wept as if a member of the family had been killed.
Chuckles no longer exists, victim of a parking lot.
Whoretta, Ray, Cherrie and the rest will be with me always.
Like John.
tonekat
(1,812 posts)And it came on the evening news, my Dad was home, and I said "he was my favorite Beatle!"
As an in the closet trans person at the time, I would have preferred to experience it the way cliffordu did.
cliffordu
(30,994 posts)went and sat in the parking lot with a six pack of beer and a burger, watching the end of the world.
You could see the plume like the devil hisself.
Kath1
(4,309 posts)Howard Cosell broke the news. I was in college at the time and couldn't believe, the next day, that people were not as devestated as I was.
TwilightGardener
(46,416 posts)much about that day--though I knew who John Lennon was, and the rest of the Beatles, they seemed to belong to the past already by 1980--before my time.
petronius
(26,602 posts)didn't make an impression. We didn't have a TV, and the only thing I specifically remember my parents listening to was Neil Diamond...
MrMickeysMom
(20,453 posts)Very much alone... very confused with so many things... I fixed the relationship issues after that time and started growing up past my adulthood assholery stage.
I imagine I was not the only one...
hunter
(38,309 posts)Some days I went to school, some days I skipped classes to move furniture.
Turns out organic chemistry isn't the sort of class one can skip. It was a miserable time in my life for various reasons, and Lennon's murder brought further darkness.
WCGreen
(45,558 posts)I was home from college and didn't have a car so I just stayed home to watch with Ed.
I think Cosell was still doing the Color for the team.
I was really upset about the whole thing.
OriginalGeek
(12,132 posts)We heard it on the radio and I remember one of the leaders (not a youth pastor but I guess an assistant?) cheering and saying "1 down, 3 to go". Rock music was the devil.
I was in my mid-teens and hadn't listened to the Beatles in a long time but I remembered hearing them in my youth before my folks got divorced and my mom went batshit crazy religious fundamentalist.
That was one of the moments that contributed to me questioning and eventually realizing I was an atheist. Fuck those assholes.
johnsolaris
(220 posts)Hi,
I was on my second trip through college having dropped out a few years earlier, but well on my way to graduating. I had gone to bed early since I was working at the local Radio station doing the morning show. I arrived at work to do my shift & the overnight guy gave me the news. I was shocked.
We changed the music to all Beatles for the rest of the day.
RudynJack
(1,044 posts)Went to a friend's dorm room - she answered the door in tears. Told me what had happened. A very sad day.
love_katz
(2,578 posts)Did not have a t.v. then, because you had to have cable or satellite and we were too poor for that.
So, I would've learned the terrible news from either the news paper or the radio. I seem to remember that I heard it from my former husband, when he got home from work.
I remember crying...a lot.
John was my favorite Beetle. I grew up listening to their music, and all the rest of what is now considered Classic Rock.
1980 was a terrible year: Ronnie Raygun became President; Mt. St. Helens violently erupted, killing many animals and about 58 people, blowing down thousands of acres of forests, etc. And, John Lennon was murdered by some scum sucking pig who wanted his 15 minutes of fame. Not a year I would want to live over again.
MrScorpio
(73,630 posts)Everyone at work was upset to hear the news when I got there.
KWorth
(42 posts)Sad day for all.
treestar
(82,383 posts)I heard some person from the other side of the dorm screaming it out the window.
Weird experience. He must have heard of it via the media and then decided to announce it to the entire campus.
Donkees
(31,374 posts)...when the news came over the airwaves, I joined the sea of people surrounding The Dakota. He died on my birthday.
stlsaxman
(9,236 posts)watching the football game wishing i was at the studio when Cosell broke the news. All the jocks were like- "Fuck that- GET BACK TO THE GAME..." etc.
I was heartbroken, totally hated sports fans from there on out... now i realize they're into their thing like i was into music, and they're just plain stoopid, anyways.
In_The_Wind
(72,300 posts)LWolf
(46,179 posts)the lone waitress in the local bowling alley coffee shop.
Hayabusa
(2,135 posts)Dyedinthewoolliberal
(15,563 posts)Howard Cosell told us about it.......
TeamPooka
(24,218 posts)HeiressofBickworth
(2,682 posts)The first I heard about it was when the phone rang. It was my brother in Australia calling to ask if it was true that John Lennon had been shot. I first thought he was calling to wish me a Happy Birthday a little early (my BD was the next day -- today). I told him that I didn't have TV or radio on and I didn't know if it was true or not. He never did wish me a Happy Birthday.
lastlib
(23,207 posts)...Was so upset, I flunked the exam, messed up another one the next day, wound up not having grades to keep me off academic probation, and dropped out.
Then had to live thru the Reagan Administration. Bad times, never really got over 'em.
Iggo
(47,548 posts)We mourned appropriately.
av8rdave
(10,573 posts)My roommate walked in and told me. I was numb.
pink-o
(4,056 posts)who saw The Beatles play Candlestick, their last concert. We heard about it on the morning of the 9th, GMT. My one friend went out to get the Guardian and some smokes, then ran home and shook me awake with the horrible news. I had worked a late shift at the Rock Garden (I was a bartender) and never got up before noon. I was really pissed off at my friend, until I focused on the headline she was waving in front of my face. Then I spent the day weeping.
Gotta add: the three of us were home that evening, listening to the BBC, and they played "Across the Universe". Up to that point, I just dismissed that song as Hippy-Dippy jargon, but since then, it'll make me cry just thinking about it. I like to think of John's love, expanding like the galaxies. And as a fellow Atheist, we know it expands like this: each new person to hear his songs will pass them on, will add to those of us who love and cherish his memory.