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(17,671 posts)You give them a truth you don't need to conceal that leads to the lie you want.
Tuesday Afternoon
(56,912 posts)rrneck
(17,671 posts)Tuesday Afternoon
(56,912 posts)rrneck
(17,671 posts)One of the most pernicious types of lie is the lie of omission, which is also a half truth I guess. It is also one of the most cowardly lies since the liar doesn't actually tell a lie, but allows others to simply draw the wrong conclusions from the truth.
Leading people to believe something that isn't true is wrong, no matter how it is done.
Tuesday Afternoon
(56,912 posts)rrneck
(17,671 posts)I'm not that dogmatic though. I guess it's okay to tell aunt Gertrude her carp goulash is delicious. Of course that just increases the chance you'll have to face it again.
Tuesday Afternoon
(56,912 posts)the one she brags on at her mahjong group.
rrneck
(17,671 posts)It's worth a trip to a fancy joint to avoid that stuff! I mean, I might could stand it if it weren't for the mayonnaise.
OriginalGeek
(12,132 posts)my wife made a big production of telling me how if she ever cooked something I didn't like that I should tell her or else I would get it again as she generally cooked stuff she liked.
I found out the hard way that that was some bulllllllshit.
But perhaps that was partly due to my presentation. I guess making vomit noises and shouting "Ewwww gross, WTF is this!?" was the wrong way to say "Honey, thank you for preparing supper but I'm not a fan of carp goulash".
(BTW, I am blatantly stealing "carp goulash" and using it for everything that ever looks unappetizing ever again.)
hobbit709
(41,694 posts)rug
(82,333 posts)Tuesday Afternoon
(56,912 posts)that because Hitler was a vegetarian that it it bad to be a vegetarian?
is that your point, rug?
rug
(82,333 posts)The other half is the Holocaust.
There's your definition, withholding the full truth.
Tuesday Afternoon
(56,912 posts)rug
(82,333 posts)Politicians use half truths all the time. It's not hard to see what they're doing.
Tuesday Afternoon
(56,912 posts)rug
(82,333 posts)Forbade smoking in the bunker until the very end.
Tuesday Afternoon
(56,912 posts)rug
(82,333 posts)Until he poisoned Blondie and her pups.
Tuesday Afternoon
(56,912 posts)FleetwoodMac
(351 posts)ZombieHorde
(29,047 posts)Example:
Wife asks husband: What did you do last night?
Husband: Went to Olive Garden with Tony. (Fails to mention the strip club after the Olive Garden.)
Tuesday Afternoon
(56,912 posts)pscot
(21,044 posts)Truth is in the eye of the observer. It's a moving target.
Tuesday Afternoon
(56,912 posts)truth, like beauty, is in the eye of the beholder.
not sure that is the whole truth though. that might just be a half-truth.
petronius
(26,696 posts)But a man who tells half-lies, has forgotten where he's put it."
-- Dryden (Lawrence of Arabia)
Tuesday Afternoon
(56,912 posts)sounds like a lost man.
petronius
(26,696 posts)Dryden was one of the least lost; he lied coldly, and for a purpose, and knew he did it. The characters who told the half-lies - just lied enough to convince themselves - were the ones that really suffered...
Tuesday Afternoon
(56,912 posts)a half-truth is when there is more to the story, correct? (remembering Paul Harvey ... the rest of the story and showing my age)
therefore couldn't it be said that both (any/all) sides use this strategy in order to further their agenda?
petronius
(26,696 posts)they're really lying - they don't truly believe in what they believe to be the truth. And so they need to convince themselves that the truth is what they need it to be, and lie just enough to create that truth.
True believers, on the other hand, can lie boldly for the greater good - or tell the scrupulous truth because they have faith (or facts)...
Tuesday Afternoon
(56,912 posts)although, perhaps it could all come under a group heading of self-preservation . . .
In_The_Wind
(72,300 posts)of what the dudes at date.com try to feed ya is 1/2 true. [img]
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ie: Yes, that is my photo.
not said: 1/2 a lifetime ago.
just sayin'
Tuesday Afternoon
(56,912 posts)ie: I will call you, later.
not said: later is forever.
Tuesday Afternoon
(56,912 posts)Wounded Bear
(64,324 posts)It actually did improve the economy
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for 1% of the population.
Sorry, couldn't resist breaking the no politics in the lounge rule on that one.