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JaneyVee

(19,877 posts)
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 11:39 AM Mar 2013

Find Thing You're Most Passionate About, Then Do It On Nights & Weekends For The Rest Of Your Life

I have always been a big proponent of following your heart and doing exactly what you want to do. It sounds so simple, right? But there are people who spend years—decades, even—trying to find a true sense of purpose for themselves. My advice? Just find the thing you enjoy doing more than anything else, your one true passion, and do it for the rest of your life on nights and weekends when you’re exhausted and cranky and just want to go to bed.

It could be anything—music, writing, drawing, acting, teaching—it really doesn’t matter. All that matters is that once you know what you want to do, you dive in a full 10 percent and spend the other 90 torturing yourself because you know damn well that it’s far too late to make a drastic career change, and that you’re stuck on this mind-numbing path for the rest of your life.

Is there any other way to live?

I can’t stress this enough: Do what you love…in between work commitments, and family commitments, and commitments that tend to pop up and take immediate precedence over doing the thing you love. Because the bottom line is that life is short, and you owe it to yourself to spend the majority of it giving yourself wholly and completely to something you absolutely hate, and 20 minutes here and there doing what you feel you were put on this earth to do.

Before you get started, though, you need to find the one interest or activity that truly fulfills you in ways nothing else can. Then, really immerse yourself in it for a few fleeting moments after an exhausting 10-hour day at a desk job and an excruciating 65-minute commute home. During nights when all you really want to do is lie down and shut your eyes for a few precious hours before you have to drag yourself out of bed for work the next morning, or on weekends when your friends want to hang out and you’re dying to just lie on your couch and watch TV because you’re too fatigued to even think straight—these are the times when you need to do what you enjoy most in life.

The rest, FROM THE ONION: http://www.theonion.com/articles/find-the-thing-youre-most-passionate-about-then-do,31742/

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Find Thing You're Most Passionate About, Then Do It On Nights & Weekends For The Rest Of Your Life (Original Post) JaneyVee Mar 2013 OP
Yeah! Get up after you plant your face into the rug yet once again lunatica Mar 2013 #1
Um, I call that "marriage", and all that it entails. talkingmime Mar 2013 #2

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
1. Yeah! Get up after you plant your face into the rug yet once again
Sat Mar 30, 2013, 11:47 AM
Mar 2013

and ignore the rug burns on your cheeks. Get out there! Follow your dreams!

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