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AndyA

(16,993 posts)
Mon Jun 3, 2013, 09:00 AM Jun 2013

Advice appreciated on dealing with neighbors

I bought a house last August. The neighbors next door have a lot of children, ranging from college age down to about 9 or 10, I would guess. Many years ago, the oldest kids started a landscaping company, mostly mowing lawns in the neighborhood, cleaning up leaves in the fall, trimming shrubs, etc. They used the money to help defray college costs. They have made a big investment in equipment, as they seem to have almost everything a professional landscaping company has.

The former owner of my house had them do the yard for years, as do a few others in the neighborhood. The neighbors across the street have these kids do their yard, and they've taken care of it for years. It looks like a country club, just beautiful. It could be on the cover of an exclusive magazine it's so beautiful.

On Friday, I asked them to do my yard. We've been having lots of storms lately, and they had to work it in between other neighbors and the next storm which was coming that night. Yesterday, I noticed that a planter I have sitting in the front yard by two concrete benches had been scratched by a weed eater. The planter was just purchased in April, and is a black composite material made of recycled paper and wood products, very green, and more expensive because of that. The material is a actually a light beige color, so the area where the weed eater hit it really stands out as you can see the light beige scratch on the black exterior surface. I had gone out to clean grass clippings off the planter that were stuck to it when I noticed the damage. The mark is about five inches long and there's another damaged part on the back side on a corner.

I wasn't going to make a big deal out of it, but I did plan to mention it the next time they did my yard. Then, last night, when I went to the side of the house to take the trash carts out to the street, I noticed that the air conditioning condenser unit had been moved on the concrete pad it sits on. There is a dent in the side of it. I think they hit it with the big riding mower.

I had new central heat and air installed when I bought this house, so the unit isn't even a year old yet, and in fact was only used for a month and a half last year before it got cold outside. It was hit hard enough that it was actually moved about 12 inches, sitting slightly sideways.

My concern is that they knew they hit it and said nothing. They do wear ear protection when they work, so perhaps they didn't hear anything, but this unit is heavy and I would think they would have noticed that they hit something. If they didn't, it concerns me that they aren't paying enough attention to notice they're causing damage.

The A/C is still under warranty, and I'm afraid that with the unit being dented, if I have a problem the warranty will be void since it doesn't cover damage of this nature, and really shouldn't cover it.

They've generally done a good job, except for not cleaning up clippings from trimming hedges along the driveway a few weeks ago. I felt they should have done a better job, as I spent a couple of hours picking dead branches out of the hedge after they were done. Also, I put fresh mulch around a tree in the back yard earlier last week, and when they used the weed eater they covered the new mulch with grass clippings, making it look bad. I realize it's difficult to control where the grass goes when using a weed eater, but I spent a lot of time cleaning out the bed around the tree, which is lined with stone mortared in place.

What would be reasonable on my part? I haven't talked to them yet, as I didn't notice the A/C damage until last night, and it was too late to call. It took two people to move the A/C unit back into position, and the metal on the condensing unit that's damaged is pretty thick, so it took a good whack to dent it and move it as much as it did.

I'm going to turn the unit on to see if it still works, but the dent is going to bug me every time I walk by, because it represents a lot of money, and is still virtually brand new, and now looks beat up.

I'm planning on telling them they need to be more careful in the future, and that I want the damaged metal cabinet piece on the A/C unit replaced at their expense, if that's even possible (not sure if parts are available separately).

I will have to get touch up paint and touch up the planter myself.

Is this reasonable? I plan on just calling the son to come over, he's a teen ager and is very nice and seems to be responsible. Should I ask him to have his father come over as well? The father isn't normally involved in the business, as I always deal directly with the kids.

I don't want to create a big stink over this, as they are neighbors and pretty much everyone on my block has lived here for at least 35-40 years, so I'm the lone newcomer and don't want to disrupt the peaceful community atmosphere. The former owner of my house owned it for almost 48 years before reluctantly selling it due to health, and was the last "original" homeowner in the neighborhood to sell.

I would appreciate any advice, specifically am I being reasonable in my expectations?

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Advice appreciated on dealing with neighbors (Original Post) AndyA Jun 2013 OP
Looks like you have two choices... OKNancy Jun 2013 #1
Definitely mention it to the young man. If he's running it like a business he should know riderinthestorm Jun 2013 #2
If you do not wish to deal with confrontation ConcernedCanuk Jun 2013 #3
being on bad terms with your neighbors RILib Jun 2013 #4
Update AndyA Jun 2013 #5
aww what good kids Kali Jun 2013 #6
Sounds like a good ending! hamsterjill Jun 2013 #7

OKNancy

(41,832 posts)
1. Looks like you have two choices...
Mon Jun 3, 2013, 10:33 AM
Jun 2013

Let it go or say something.

If you let it go, they kid might be grateful or they might think you are a doofus.
I think you should say something but do it in the kindest way possible. I'd stress... if this is the case... the you still want them to do your yard, but it's important to be more careful. Tell them that you would actually think better of them if they told you that there were some mistakes made.
Knowing you, I know that you will be able to say what you need to in just the right way and tone.

 

riderinthestorm

(23,272 posts)
2. Definitely mention it to the young man. If he's running it like a business he should know
Mon Jun 3, 2013, 11:10 AM
Jun 2013

about what's happening.

You can point out that you know "your stuff" in the yard is not in the "usual" place that the former owner had stuff (like the planter and the AC unit) so mistakes can be made when a new place is worked on. Its different and maneuvering with equipment will be different. Understandable.

Then ask what he can do to make things "right". Maybe offer to paint the planter but leave the AC unit damage as a hanging question. As a business owner myself, I would "get" it right away that I was expected to pay to repair any damage I'd caused to private property. And as a business owner I would offer to pay for the repairs.

If this teen doesn't do that, you can take it a step further and ask him to pay. If he's been doing this a while, he should understand that any damage he or his guys cause should be his responsibility.

If he doesn't offer to pay for the repair or refuses to pay when asked, then its pretty clear you won't be using them in the future.

 

ConcernedCanuk

(13,509 posts)
3. If you do not wish to deal with confrontation
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 12:56 PM
Jun 2013

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I'd get some other contractor to do your maintenance.

Sounds like your present maintenance people are too comfortable with existing customers to be careful.

ONE boo-boo is workable, but the AC thing, well, that's just ridiculous. No way, hearing protection or not did the operator not notice moving a chunk of equipment that size . .

I'd move on . . .

soon.

CC

 

RILib

(862 posts)
4. being on bad terms with your neighbors
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 01:54 PM
Jun 2013

is something you don't want.

I'd fix the stuff including cosmetically and not have them do the lawn any more. Think up some excuse, like a relative went into the lawn business.

I live next to crazy neighbors who went nuts when I objected to their plans to expand their house (they knew I would object before they bought the house) and it's a nightmare.

AndyA

(16,993 posts)
5. Update
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 02:27 PM
Jun 2013

I called the teenager who seems to be in charge of the lawn business and asked him to stop by when he got the chance, that I needed to talk to him. He said he would finish lunch and then come over.

I showed him the damage to the A/C, then to the planter. His sister was apparently driving the mower last week when the damage to the A/C happened, and he was using the weed eater. I told him I was reluctant to even bring it up, because I didn't want there to be any bad feelings between us, and that I wanted them to continue to do the yard (they normally do a very nice job).

He apologized for all the damages, said he would order a new piece for the A/C and install it. He also said he would get touch up paint for the planter that was damaged. He said he didn't realize he'd hit it with the weed eater, but suggested I put another concrete pad under it to raise it up higher than the grass, which would prevent it from getting hit again. I told him I would do that.

So, I think everything will be OK. They are very nice young folks, very polite and respectful of others. I suspect they were in a hurry to get the yard done before the rain came.

Thanks to everyone for your responses and advice, I appreciate it very much. It's nice to know what others think, as it helps to keep me in check and to not let emotions rule my words.

Kali

(55,025 posts)
6. aww what good kids
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 02:44 PM
Jun 2013

remind him to be sure to be up-front about mistakes and be sure to tip the "employed" sibs next time (or buy 'em a pizza)

(being a Mom and a sucker for hard-working kids, I would try to find out how much they are going to be out for the damage to the A/C unit and if it was really hard on them, I might try to find a way to share the cost)

hamsterjill

(15,224 posts)
7. Sounds like a good ending!
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 02:44 PM
Jun 2013

A good lesson for the young man to have learned, and, whether he realizes it now or not, a good response on his part to keep customers (i.e., he made a suggestion so that the problem could be avoided the "next" time).

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