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Locut0s

(6,154 posts)
Wed Jul 10, 2013, 12:24 AM Jul 2013

Thinking of planning a week long camping trip by myself...

As part of my "remake myself" plan (ok I just made that up on the spot lol) I'm thinking of going on a week long camping trip by myself. As many of you on here now know I've struggled with several issues over the years (depression and anxiety) but the main one would be my lack of maturity. Basically at 31 I've never left my parents side for more than a few days, which is pretty sad. I'm of my age in other ways but not in terms of life experience, more like 16. Believe it or not I'm just planning on passing my learners license this week too, I've never had a need to drive till recently. So I'm thinking, once I past the test I'm going to plan a week long camping trip and take off by myself. I have no issues with the camping, hiking, etc and I'm quite looking forward to the idea. I've just never done anything like this by myself. What do you think?

Sounding it out makes me feel even more pathetic lol, but this is why I need to change

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Thinking of planning a week long camping trip by myself... (Original Post) Locut0s Jul 2013 OP
I love camping and hiking, but it all depends on where you live NuclearDem Jul 2013 #1
Nothing extreme. Just park and camp... Locut0s Jul 2013 #4
Those are always fun. NuclearDem Jul 2013 #6
Are you staying on the road system or going remote? Arctic Dave Jul 2013 #2
Staying on the road... Locut0s Jul 2013 #10
My dear Locut0s! CaliforniaPeggy Jul 2013 #3
exellent idea like soul searching olddots Jul 2013 #5
Not roughing it but... Locut0s Jul 2013 #11
Don't over-analyze yourself...at 31 you deserve a week to yourself.... Rowdyboy Jul 2013 #7
May I suggest you keep your plan open and see where it goes - embrace spontaneity Brother Buzz Jul 2013 #8
Henry David Thoreau.... AnneD Jul 2013 #9
Shades of Walden Pond? lol... Locut0s Jul 2013 #12
That sounds absolutely wonderful. Go for it! In_The_Wind Jul 2013 #13
That sounds very restful marzipanni Jul 2013 #14
LOL, this is going to be difficult to do... Locut0s Jul 2013 #15
Ahhh..... raise your expectations! femmocrat Jul 2013 #17
Campsites are not my idea of camping ConcernedCanuk Jul 2013 #16
Yup that's the way to go... Locut0s Jul 2013 #24
Bring Thoreau and Emerson. Chan790 Jul 2013 #18
Message auto-removed Name removed Jul 2013 #19
Get out of your comfort zone. a la izquierda Jul 2013 #20
Number one Duer 157099 Jul 2013 #21
I haven't done it in a few years, but EvilAL Jul 2013 #22
Wow yeah that would be the way to go... Locut0s Jul 2013 #23
Gun was for food, EvilAL Jul 2013 #25
Yeah food was my 2nd guess... Locut0s Jul 2013 #26
I did it mostly in northern New Brunswick, EvilAL Jul 2013 #27
 

NuclearDem

(16,184 posts)
1. I love camping and hiking, but it all depends on where you live
Wed Jul 10, 2013, 12:28 AM
Jul 2013

Usually you can find pretty good campgrounds within a couple of hours of where you live, but hilly or mountainous regions (Cascades were my favorite) during the early/mid Fall are the most fun, just in terms of a hiking challenge and reward.

What degree of camping were you thinking about? Just parking at a campground for a week, doing some hiking, or roughing it in the woods for a few days?

Locut0s

(6,154 posts)
4. Nothing extreme. Just park and camp...
Wed Jul 10, 2013, 12:31 AM
Jul 2013

There are a number of nice sites within about 4 to 5 hours of here. BC is a big place so most of the good sites are further away. I'm not looking to hike into the woods and camp. The idea is your average rent a gravel pad with a fire pit for a week and camp. I want to pick a place next to a river or lake though where I can get swimming in and with some nice hiking trails near by. I could look at doing more than one location, though one would be enough if the area is nice enough.

 

NuclearDem

(16,184 posts)
6. Those are always fun.
Wed Jul 10, 2013, 12:40 AM
Jul 2013

Well, depending on the other campers, of course...

One thing I will recommend: if you're planning on doing this soon and want to hike as well, don't skimp on the water. Depending how much walking you're doing or general physical exertion, you'll want to drink close to a gallon of water a day when you're camping. If you happen to be near some sort of freshwater river, think about bringing along some iodine tablets so you can drink straight from it (I can't imagine an outdoor retailer like Cabela's or REI not having them).

Sounds fun though, I think you'll really enjoy it.

Locut0s

(6,154 posts)
10. Staying on the road...
Wed Jul 10, 2013, 01:19 AM
Jul 2013

Going remote sounds fun but I don't have that kind of experience.

CaliforniaPeggy

(156,003 posts)
3. My dear Locut0s!
Wed Jul 10, 2013, 12:30 AM
Jul 2013

I think it's a wonderful idea, and I say go for it! It sounds like a lot of fun.

I think you're a perfectly competent young man, and you'll do well by yourself.

Take lots of pictures, OK?



 

olddots

(10,237 posts)
5. exellent idea like soul searching
Wed Jul 10, 2013, 12:36 AM
Jul 2013

are you going to rough it in wild nature or stay close to other humans ? I have never done it but have been alone a lot ,in theory going into the wilderness by yourself with no contact with other humans is very soothing after the initial shock .

bring the camera gear we need a new Minor White .

Locut0s

(6,154 posts)
11. Not roughing it but...
Wed Jul 10, 2013, 01:23 AM
Jul 2013

I don't plan to exactly socialize with the neighbouring campers much beyond friendly pleasantries. This is sort of meant to be a bit of a meditative trip, I don't feel experienced enough to rough it but that of course would be the ultimate goal at some point. I will indeed bring my camera!!

Rowdyboy

(22,057 posts)
7. Don't over-analyze yourself...at 31 you deserve a week to yourself....
Wed Jul 10, 2013, 12:47 AM
Jul 2013

Just allow yourself to enjoy it. You don't sound at all pathetic, just in need of a "makeover". Could be a life-changer. If not, at minimum it's be fun and interesting and different. What do you have to lose?

Brother Buzz

(39,506 posts)
8. May I suggest you keep your plan open and see where it goes - embrace spontaneity
Wed Jul 10, 2013, 12:50 AM
Jul 2013

"When you come to a fork in the road, take it"

AnneD

(15,774 posts)
9. Henry David Thoreau....
Wed Jul 10, 2013, 12:59 AM
Jul 2013

Spent some time reflecting on his life. It is common in the native American culture for men and women to face challenges to enter into the adult phase. A right of passage is normal.

A good book and some solitude can help.

Locut0s

(6,154 posts)
12. Shades of Walden Pond? lol...
Wed Jul 10, 2013, 01:25 AM
Jul 2013

I've never actually read that you know. Yes bringing a good book or two is a great idea!

I didn't think of it along native american lines but you are right many native peoples have similar rituals. The native Australians call it a walkabout I believe.

marzipanni

(6,012 posts)
14. That sounds very restful
Wed Jul 10, 2013, 02:34 AM
Jul 2013

Last edited Fri Jul 12, 2013, 01:09 PM - Edit history (1)

When I was about your age I stayed in a Sierra Club lodge for a long weekend in the winter and went skiing. My cousin was supposed to go with me but her car broke down on the way to the bus to get there, and her dad rescued us. When the opportunity came up again she had something else to do, so I went with the group on a bus from Berkeley (chartered, city to mountains)
It was really fun because you could go downhill or cross-country skiing, or snowshoeing from the lodge. Everyone who stayed there had a chore in the kitchen at mealtimes, and ate together at big tables, and played cards or other games and talked in the evening, or read.


here's a book that looks like a good one to take-
http://www.amazon.com/A-Short-History-Nearly-Everything/dp/076790818X

Locut0s

(6,154 posts)
15. LOL, this is going to be difficult to do...
Wed Jul 10, 2013, 02:40 AM
Jul 2013

Just checked a few popular camp grounds. Booked up the wazoo. There ARE a few places here and there with 4 or 5 day openings but god knows if they will be there later. Anyway I'll have to be flexible that much is certain.

This is probably all moot anyway. I'll bet you I'll fail my driving test.

femmocrat

(28,394 posts)
17. Ahhh..... raise your expectations!
Wed Jul 10, 2013, 08:57 AM
Jul 2013

You are going to pass your driver's test! Now go out and DO IT. Believe in yourself. As they say in Baltimore:

 

ConcernedCanuk

(13,509 posts)
16. Campsites are not my idea of camping
Wed Jul 10, 2013, 06:42 AM
Jul 2013

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My father took us camping every summer for 4-5 week every summer for as long as I can remember up to the age when I was 15.

Since then I camped at a few sites in my early 20's, but since that time it was always in a private spot in the bush.

Not much privacy in most campgrounds, some are more crowded than than the city - and everybody parties outside.

So - put a slide in camper on my 4x4 21 years ago, would pick a route, and en route would buy what they call topographical maps.

These maps are from aerial photographs, show roads, elevation lakes rivers and so on.

On these maps I noticed dotted lines cutting off main roads, and they were called "cart trails" - but in reality they were roads previously visible from above, but grown over so no longer visible from the air.

I would select a "cart trail" that passed close to either a river or a lake

And I discovered some beautiful private spots!

I have a distinct advantage, living in bush country in Northern Ontario.

Most of these trails are old logging roads on crown land from years gone by - rarely used.

When I go camping I don't want to be listening to someone else's music/partying/fighting/ whatever.

One summer, I went for 10 weeks without returning home to my tiny apartment.

It was GREAT!

Oh - here's one of my favorite spots - only an hour away from where I live.



That's my camper way back up above the river

Below, is a pic from above - same spot.



And in the evening . . .



That's camping . . . .

CC

Locut0s

(6,154 posts)
24. Yup that's the way to go...
Wed Jul 10, 2013, 02:18 PM
Jul 2013

But I think you know I'm not in a position to be doing that at this point. For one I'm driving a little mini ford festiva hah lol. But yes I'd love to do something like that at some point. Nice pics

 

Chan790

(20,176 posts)
18. Bring Thoreau and Emerson.
Wed Jul 10, 2013, 09:23 AM
Jul 2013

Even if you've read them before...especially if you've read them before...bring Walden and a collection of Ralph Waldo Emerson's essays...it'll be mind-blowing.

Sitting in the deep woods reading Thoreau by sunlight is one of life's great maturing pleasures.

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a la izquierda

(12,224 posts)
20. Get out of your comfort zone.
Wed Jul 10, 2013, 11:35 AM
Jul 2013

I felt that I didn't really grow up until my first long stint in a foreign country.
Suerte as they say in Mexico.

Duer 157099

(17,742 posts)
21. Number one
Wed Jul 10, 2013, 12:11 PM
Jul 2013

stop beating yourself up.

We all make different choices about how to live our lives, and fortunately we are not all the same. Find what makes YOU happy and live that life. No apologies.

That said, camping is awesome. But, there are risks associated with going alone, so take appropriate precautions.

Have fun! Sounds very cool.

EvilAL

(1,437 posts)
22. I haven't done it in a few years, but
Wed Jul 10, 2013, 01:32 PM
Jul 2013

I used to like to get dropped off in the woods with maps of the area and a compass and take 2-3 days or so to make it back out. Hiking, hunting and fishing when possible to lighten to load of food. Hatchet, knives, waterproof matches, lighters, Magnmesium Flint, rope, small fishing pole, Henry Survival .22 rifle, kettle, frying pan, butter, trail mix, change of clothes, whiskey, cigarettes, weed and away I'd go!!
I miss that shit.

Oh ya, and an 8x8 foot tarp in case it rains.

Locut0s

(6,154 posts)
23. Wow yeah that would be the way to go...
Wed Jul 10, 2013, 02:16 PM
Jul 2013

I'll be sure to do a trip like that at some point! Well maybe minus the gun, I know it's for safety but still not a gun person.

EvilAL

(1,437 posts)
25. Gun was for food,
Wed Jul 10, 2013, 02:31 PM
Jul 2013

depending on the time of year. It was a Henry Survival gun, taken apart and in a small case, so for safety it wouldn't have been much use. I only used it a couple of times since I was usually able to catch some fish. I was never worried about animals, the only thing I worried about was getting hurt and not being able to make it out with nobody really knowing where I was. That was kind of the fun of it as well though. If you don't have orientation or know how to read maps and compass it would be a very bad idea.
The worse thing that happened to me was we'd had a lot of rain in the weeks before I left and one of the rivers I had to cross was way to rough and deep to go the way I was hoping to safely, took an extra day that time.

Locut0s

(6,154 posts)
26. Yeah food was my 2nd guess...
Wed Jul 10, 2013, 02:49 PM
Jul 2013

I know nothing about guns Those must have been some very memorable trips. Where did you do this? I hope there was appropriate beautiful scenery to accompany the roughing it.

EvilAL

(1,437 posts)
27. I did it mostly in northern New Brunswick,
Wed Jul 10, 2013, 06:47 PM
Jul 2013

around Mount Carleton and what we call the 'south east'. Twice in the Chic Choc mountains around Mount Albert on the Gaspe Peninsula in Quebec. Scenery is incredible, but after the second day or so you don't feel like climbing the peaks to get the views... heheh

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