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As part of my "remake myself" plan (ok I just made that up on the spot lol) I'm thinking of going on a week long camping trip by myself. As many of you on here now know I've struggled with several issues over the years (depression and anxiety) but the main one would be my lack of maturity. Basically at 31 I've never left my parents side for more than a few days, which is pretty sad. I'm of my age in other ways but not in terms of life experience, more like 16. Believe it or not I'm just planning on passing my learners license this week too, I've never had a need to drive till recently. So I'm thinking, once I past the test I'm going to plan a week long camping trip and take off by myself. I have no issues with the camping, hiking, etc and I'm quite looking forward to the idea. I've just never done anything like this by myself. What do you think?
Sounding it out makes me feel even more pathetic lol, but this is why I need to change
NuclearDem
(16,184 posts)Usually you can find pretty good campgrounds within a couple of hours of where you live, but hilly or mountainous regions (Cascades were my favorite) during the early/mid Fall are the most fun, just in terms of a hiking challenge and reward.
What degree of camping were you thinking about? Just parking at a campground for a week, doing some hiking, or roughing it in the woods for a few days?
Locut0s
(6,154 posts)There are a number of nice sites within about 4 to 5 hours of here. BC is a big place so most of the good sites are further away. I'm not looking to hike into the woods and camp. The idea is your average rent a gravel pad with a fire pit for a week and camp. I want to pick a place next to a river or lake though where I can get swimming in and with some nice hiking trails near by. I could look at doing more than one location, though one would be enough if the area is nice enough.
NuclearDem
(16,184 posts)Well, depending on the other campers, of course...
One thing I will recommend: if you're planning on doing this soon and want to hike as well, don't skimp on the water. Depending how much walking you're doing or general physical exertion, you'll want to drink close to a gallon of water a day when you're camping. If you happen to be near some sort of freshwater river, think about bringing along some iodine tablets so you can drink straight from it (I can't imagine an outdoor retailer like Cabela's or REI not having them).
Sounds fun though, I think you'll really enjoy it.
Arctic Dave
(13,812 posts)Have fun either way.
Locut0s
(6,154 posts)Going remote sounds fun but I don't have that kind of experience.
CaliforniaPeggy
(156,003 posts)I think it's a wonderful idea, and I say go for it! It sounds like a lot of fun.
I think you're a perfectly competent young man, and you'll do well by yourself.
Take lots of pictures, OK?
olddots
(10,237 posts)are you going to rough it in wild nature or stay close to other humans ? I have never done it but have been alone a lot ,in theory going into the wilderness by yourself with no contact with other humans is very soothing after the initial shock .
bring the camera gear we need a new Minor White .
Locut0s
(6,154 posts)I don't plan to exactly socialize with the neighbouring campers much beyond friendly pleasantries. This is sort of meant to be a bit of a meditative trip, I don't feel experienced enough to rough it but that of course would be the ultimate goal at some point. I will indeed bring my camera!!
Rowdyboy
(22,057 posts)Just allow yourself to enjoy it. You don't sound at all pathetic, just in need of a "makeover". Could be a life-changer. If not, at minimum it's be fun and interesting and different. What do you have to lose?
Brother Buzz
(39,506 posts)"When you come to a fork in the road, take it"
AnneD
(15,774 posts)Spent some time reflecting on his life. It is common in the native American culture for men and women to face challenges to enter into the adult phase. A right of passage is normal.
A good book and some solitude can help.
Locut0s
(6,154 posts)I've never actually read that you know. Yes bringing a good book or two is a great idea!
I didn't think of it along native american lines but you are right many native peoples have similar rituals. The native Australians call it a walkabout I believe.
In_The_Wind
(72,300 posts)marzipanni
(6,012 posts)Last edited Fri Jul 12, 2013, 01:09 PM - Edit history (1)
When I was about your age I stayed in a Sierra Club lodge for a long weekend in the winter and went skiing. My cousin was supposed to go with me but her car broke down on the way to the bus to get there, and her dad rescued us. When the opportunity came up again she had something else to do, so I went with the group on a bus from Berkeley (chartered, city to mountains)
It was really fun because you could go downhill or cross-country skiing, or snowshoeing from the lodge. Everyone who stayed there had a chore in the kitchen at mealtimes, and ate together at big tables, and played cards or other games and talked in the evening, or read.
here's a book that looks like a good one to take-
http://www.amazon.com/A-Short-History-Nearly-Everything/dp/076790818X
Locut0s
(6,154 posts)Just checked a few popular camp grounds. Booked up the wazoo. There ARE a few places here and there with 4 or 5 day openings but god knows if they will be there later. Anyway I'll have to be flexible that much is certain.
This is probably all moot anyway. I'll bet you I'll fail my driving test.
femmocrat
(28,394 posts)You are going to pass your driver's test! Now go out and DO IT. Believe in yourself. As they say in Baltimore:

ConcernedCanuk
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My father took us camping every summer for 4-5 week every summer for as long as I can remember up to the age when I was 15.
Since then I camped at a few sites in my early 20's, but since that time it was always in a private spot in the bush.
Not much privacy in most campgrounds, some are more crowded than than the city - and everybody parties outside.
So - put a slide in camper on my 4x4 21 years ago, would pick a route, and en route would buy what they call topographical maps.
These maps are from aerial photographs, show roads, elevation lakes rivers and so on.
On these maps I noticed dotted lines cutting off main roads, and they were called "cart trails" - but in reality they were roads previously visible from above, but grown over so no longer visible from the air.
I would select a "cart trail" that passed close to either a river or a lake
And I discovered some beautiful private spots!
I have a distinct advantage, living in bush country in Northern Ontario.
Most of these trails are old logging roads on crown land from years gone by - rarely used.
When I go camping I don't want to be listening to someone else's music/partying/fighting/ whatever.
One summer, I went for 10 weeks without returning home to my tiny apartment.
It was GREAT!
Oh - here's one of my favorite spots - only an hour away from where I live.

That's my camper way back up above the river
Below, is a pic from above - same spot.

And in the evening . . .

That's camping . . . .
CC
Locut0s
(6,154 posts)But I think you know I'm not in a position to be doing that at this point. For one I'm driving a little mini ford festiva hah lol. But yes I'd love to do something like that at some point. Nice pics
Chan790
(20,176 posts)Even if you've read them before...especially if you've read them before...bring Walden and a collection of Ralph Waldo Emerson's essays...it'll be mind-blowing.
Sitting in the deep woods reading Thoreau by sunlight is one of life's great maturing pleasures.
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a la izquierda
(12,224 posts)I felt that I didn't really grow up until my first long stint in a foreign country.
Suerte as they say in Mexico.
Duer 157099
(17,742 posts)stop beating yourself up.
We all make different choices about how to live our lives, and fortunately we are not all the same. Find what makes YOU happy and live that life. No apologies.
That said, camping is awesome. But, there are risks associated with going alone, so take appropriate precautions.
Have fun! Sounds very cool.
EvilAL
(1,437 posts)I used to like to get dropped off in the woods with maps of the area and a compass and take 2-3 days or so to make it back out. Hiking, hunting and fishing when possible to lighten to load of food. Hatchet, knives, waterproof matches, lighters, Magnmesium Flint, rope, small fishing pole, Henry Survival .22 rifle, kettle, frying pan, butter, trail mix, change of clothes, whiskey, cigarettes, weed and away I'd go!!
I miss that shit.
Oh ya, and an 8x8 foot tarp in case it rains.
Locut0s
(6,154 posts)I'll be sure to do a trip like that at some point! Well maybe minus the gun, I know it's for safety but still not a gun person.
EvilAL
(1,437 posts)depending on the time of year. It was a Henry Survival gun, taken apart and in a small case, so for safety it wouldn't have been much use. I only used it a couple of times since I was usually able to catch some fish. I was never worried about animals, the only thing I worried about was getting hurt and not being able to make it out with nobody really knowing where I was. That was kind of the fun of it as well though. If you don't have orientation or know how to read maps and compass it would be a very bad idea.
The worse thing that happened to me was we'd had a lot of rain in the weeks before I left and one of the rivers I had to cross was way to rough and deep to go the way I was hoping to safely, took an extra day that time.
Locut0s
(6,154 posts)I know nothing about guns
Those must have been some very memorable trips. Where did you do this? I hope there was appropriate beautiful scenery to accompany the roughing it.
EvilAL
(1,437 posts)around Mount Carleton and what we call the 'south east'. Twice in the Chic Choc mountains around Mount Albert on the Gaspe Peninsula in Quebec. Scenery is incredible, but after the second day or so you don't feel like climbing the peaks to get the views... heheh