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littlewolf

(3,813 posts)
Fri Jul 12, 2013, 06:19 PM Jul 2013

well .. I am starting to walk my baby toward the rainbow bridge

she is "only" 15 chow / lab cross
not eating will still drink some when she does eat she vomits
very unsteady on her feet,
shaky, walks very stiff just alot
of difficulty in moving.
been to the vet, got some anti nausea meds
which helps with the vomiting, and she will eat
alittle. will give her meds a chance, if she still
isn't eating or not eating much, Monday
I will probably take her to the vet
and come back alone, Vet sez she isn't in pain
my heart is breaking.
Kind of hope she goes in her sleep.
I have 4 friends waiting for me there,
soon will be 5.
Lucky, Curly, Charlie Brown, Abby, Sally, and soon Shelly
I am sooo going to get mugged when I get there.

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well .. I am starting to walk my baby toward the rainbow bridge (Original Post) littlewolf Jul 2013 OP
Go in peace and love. CurtEastPoint Jul 2013 #1
thank you. littlewolf Jul 2013 #8
It's the hardest, but the kindest thing you'll ever do. HarveyDarkey Jul 2013 #2
it is the hardest think I have ever had to do. littlewolf Jul 2013 #9
this is exactly how i said good bye to hopemountain Jul 2013 #27
So sorry. I had to send my 13-year-old Rottweiler to the Rainbow Bridge RebelOne Jul 2013 #3
it is a little easier when your fighting pain. hard no matter what. littlewolf Jul 2013 #10
Safe passage to Shelly, and a hug for you. bluesbassman Jul 2013 #4
thank you. littlewolf Jul 2013 #12
go easy, shelly fizzgig Jul 2013 #5
I'm sorry you have to go through this with your dear Shelly marzipanni Jul 2013 #6
I will put up some pics later. littlewolf Jul 2013 #13
I'm so sorry. warrior1 Jul 2013 #7
yes it is .... littlewolf Jul 2013 #14
. baldguy Jul 2013 #11
that pretty much sums up how I feel. littlewolf Jul 2013 #17
I'm sorry... one_voice Jul 2013 #15
thank you. littlewolf Jul 2013 #16
safe and easy passing, Shelly - Tuesday Afternoon Jul 2013 #18
thank you. she is sleeping now ....nt littlewolf Jul 2013 #19
Oh no. a la izquierda Jul 2013 #20
thank you. nt littlewolf Jul 2013 #23
I'm sorry, pass easy Shelly. BarbaRosa Jul 2013 #21
Be brave, littlewolf. You're doing the right thing. nolabear Jul 2013 #22
I know ... it is just hard. it just kills me a little bit. nt littlewolf Jul 2013 #24
I know. I've been there. Sending loving vibes to you both. nolabear Jul 2013 #26
Lost "Lady" - our family dog at the age of 17 ConcernedCanuk Jul 2013 #25
May the crossing be easy and full of love. 840high Jul 2013 #28
Oh littlewolf my heart goes out to you. I've been in the place snappyturtle Jul 2013 #29
i lost my baby just two weeks ago orleans Jul 2013 #30
... SammyWinstonJack Jul 2013 #31
littlewolf Bertha Venation Jul 2013 #32
it is hard. and it hurts to let them go littlewolf Jul 2013 #36
We are in the same boat littlewolf. Boomerproud Jul 2013 #33
it is the so difficult to let go. littlewolf Jul 2013 #35
peace and comfort.... BlancheSplanchnik Jul 2013 #34
thank you. nt littlewolf Jul 2013 #37
a friend of mine sent me this ... I wanted to share. littlewolf Jul 2013 #38
Thanks for sharing these sweet words. In_The_Wind Jul 2013 #39
this is so hard blueknight Jul 2013 #40
at 10:15 today I walked her to the rainbow bridge. littlewolf Jul 2013 #41
... fizzgig Jul 2013 #42
. MiddleFingerMom Jul 2013 #43
I am sorry, littlewolf Bertha Venation Jul 2013 #44
You sent her on her way with love.... Avalux Jul 2013 #45
Sent my precious Claude home on Thursday of last week. narnian60 Jul 2013 #46
 

HarveyDarkey

(9,077 posts)
2. It's the hardest, but the kindest thing you'll ever do.
Fri Jul 12, 2013, 06:27 PM
Jul 2013

May Shelly go easily knowing she's loved.

littlewolf

(3,813 posts)
9. it is the hardest think I have ever had to do.
Fri Jul 12, 2013, 07:10 PM
Jul 2013

If I have to put her down I plan on holding her
and petting her and telling her I love her has she goes.

hopemountain

(3,919 posts)
27. this is exactly how i said good bye to
Fri Jul 12, 2013, 09:46 PM
Jul 2013

my girls - 17 & 16 years, respectively. it was time. life wasn't fun for them anymore. the yellow lab was so fiercely loyal she just didn't want to go even though her tumor was huge and she couldn't shit properly. the queensland was old and tire and she was ready.
sniff.sniff.
it isn't easy, littlewolf - but it is freeing for our beloved companions.

RebelOne

(30,947 posts)
3. So sorry. I had to send my 13-year-old Rottweiler to the Rainbow Bridge
Fri Jul 12, 2013, 06:29 PM
Jul 2013

in July of 2010. But she was in pain as she had bone and liver cancer. I know how hard it is to lose one of your fur children.

marzipanni

(6,012 posts)
6. I'm sorry you have to go through this with your dear Shelly
Fri Jul 12, 2013, 07:00 PM
Jul 2013

15 is a good lifespan for a medium-large dog. I so wish dogs had longer lives, though!

Does she look like this chow-lab?
http://www.serendipityrancher.com/labchowmix.htm

BarbaRosa

(2,730 posts)
21. I'm sorry, pass easy Shelly.
Fri Jul 12, 2013, 07:57 PM
Jul 2013

Not an easy time at all, my Tiger just recently wandered across. Like you, I too will get a real mugging.

 

ConcernedCanuk

(13,509 posts)
25. Lost "Lady" - our family dog at the age of 17
Fri Jul 12, 2013, 09:14 PM
Jul 2013

.
.
.

Lady was 17

I was only 15

So she was part of my life from day 1.

Lady never bit nor growled at anyone - it was funny to watch her chase a rabbit across the yard because she would "hop" just like the rabbit.

I remember her last days as she had to drag her back end around - back legs didn't work anymore.

We moved the year my father had her put down. Wise my father was, had her put down during the move - when we arrived at our new home, Lady just wasn't there.

But I can still see her, 45 years later as I type.

Bought a new home (my first) recently.

I'm gonna get me a dawg, female -

And you got it right - -

"Lady" is the name.

CC

snappyturtle

(14,656 posts)
29. Oh littlewolf my heart goes out to you. I've been in the place
Fri Jul 12, 2013, 10:10 PM
Jul 2013

you are right now. May Shelly pass gently.

orleans

(36,918 posts)
30. i lost my baby just two weeks ago
Fri Jul 12, 2013, 10:11 PM
Jul 2013

it's heartbreaking.

sending much love and comfort your way

SammyWinstonJack

(44,316 posts)
31. ...
Fri Jul 12, 2013, 10:20 PM
Jul 2013



I have a few waiting for me too. My little Sammy, my best friend and constant companion...last October...

Bertha Venation

(21,484 posts)
32. littlewolf
Fri Jul 12, 2013, 10:46 PM
Jul 2013

To let them go is one of the hardest things we have to do. I am so sorry for your anguish. May your sweet memories of Shelly sustain you.

littlewolf

(3,813 posts)
36. it is hard. and it hurts to let them go
Sat Jul 13, 2013, 07:44 AM
Jul 2013

and they look at you and trust you are doing
the right thing. after I heal a little
there will be another little furball I know
and I will house em ... feed em.... love em .. spoil em
and travel thru life with em.

Boomerproud

(9,292 posts)
33. We are in the same boat littlewolf.
Sat Jul 13, 2013, 12:40 AM
Jul 2013

My Maddie, 17, is in full renal failure and I'm waiting for the second phone call from the vet so I can give him the go-ahead to end her suffering and set her free.

littlewolf

(3,813 posts)
38. a friend of mine sent me this ... I wanted to share.
Sat Jul 13, 2013, 09:01 AM
Jul 2013

The House Dog’s Grave (Robinson Jeffers)
(Haig, an English bulldog)

I’ve changed my ways a little; I cannot now
Run with you in the evenings along the shore,
Except in a kind of dream; and you, if you dream a moment,
You see me there.

So leave awhile the paw-marks on the front door
Where I used to scratch to go out or in,
And you’d soon open; leave on the kitchen floor
The marks of my drinking-pan.

I cannot lie by your fire as I used to do
On the warm stone,
Nor at the foot of your bed; no, all the nights through
I lie alone.

But your kind thought has laid me less than six feet
Outside your window where firelight so often plays,
And where you sit to read- and I fear often grieving for me-
Every night your lamplight lies on my place.

You, man and woman, live so long, it is hard
To think of you ever dying.
A little dog would get tired, living so long.
I hope that when you are lying

Under the ground like me your lives will appear
As good and joyful as mine.
No, dears, that’s too much hope: you are not so well cared for
As I have been.

And never have known the passionate undivided
Fidelities that I knew.
Your minds are perhaps too active, too many-sided….
But to me you were true.

You were never masters, but friends. I was your friend.
I loved you well, and was loved. Deep love endures
To the end and far past the end. If this is my end,
I am not lonely. I am not afraid. I am still yours.

In_The_Wind

(72,300 posts)
39. Thanks for sharing these sweet words.
Sat Jul 13, 2013, 10:19 AM
Jul 2013


I miss my fur babies. They always gave so much love to everyone.

blueknight

(2,831 posts)
40. this is so hard
Sat Jul 13, 2013, 03:03 PM
Jul 2013

but she will be waiting on you one day. its especially hard for me, because i like animals more then people

littlewolf

(3,813 posts)
41. at 10:15 today I walked her to the rainbow bridge.
Mon Jul 15, 2013, 02:22 PM
Jul 2013

the last thing she heard was me telling her she was a good dog
and she is loved, and me petting her. I am still crying.
but like I said in a few months we will have another furball
to spoil, and love, and laugh over.
and so it goes.

Avalux

(35,015 posts)
45. You sent her on her way with love....
Mon Jul 15, 2013, 02:57 PM
Jul 2013

I've done it too and I know your heart is breaking. I am crying now remembering my Ellie, who I walked to the bridge 3 years ago. I was with her in the end, talking to her and petting her just as you did with your baby. She was a terrier/chow mutt and added to much joy to my life.

Take care.

narnian60

(3,510 posts)
46. Sent my precious Claude home on Thursday of last week.
Mon Jul 15, 2013, 04:14 PM
Jul 2013

17 yrs.old & same symptoms. Had a "new" dog the next day that had been in the family for 5 yrs. but needed us to be her forever family. My condolences, littlewolf.

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