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Do you talk to yourself out loud - do you answer also? (Original Post) ConcernedCanuk Jul 2013 OP
Yup, and yup, my dear CC... CaliforniaPeggy Jul 2013 #1
I think I should have added "do you argue with yourself" ConcernedCanuk Jul 2013 #3
Nah...that I don't do, lol! CaliforniaPeggy Jul 2013 #4
That's no fun, what is the sense of having multiple personalities A Simple Game Aug 2013 #56
Mostly Brother Buzz Jul 2013 #2
LOL ConcernedCanuk Jul 2013 #5
I do brilliant monologs and make believe millions are enthralled by them olddots Jul 2013 #6
Sometimes I imagine a scenario where applegrove Jul 2013 #7
I do that all to often, ConcernedCanuk Aug 2013 #79
yes and yes fizzgig Jul 2013 #8
I'm wondering, because while I was working outside I made a boo-boo ConcernedCanuk Aug 2013 #62
That's it? I have arguments with myself. Angleae Jul 2013 #9
Yes. I have some of the best debates that way. In_The_Wind Jul 2013 #10
who wins? ConcernedCanuk Aug 2013 #54
Me In_The_Wind Aug 2013 #55
Yes - best way to figure some things out. tjwmason Jul 2013 #11
Yes and Yes. Iggo Jul 2013 #12
Yes to both. RiffRandell Jul 2013 #13
When your son next complains ConcernedCanuk Jul 2013 #24
Yes and Yes! bigwillq Jul 2013 #14
Yes, to both questions. femmocrat Jul 2013 #15
Don't be embarrassed. ConcernedCanuk Aug 2013 #52
Good answer! femmocrat Aug 2013 #53
Yes. When the voices don't shout me down. nt rrneck Jul 2013 #16
Yes, and I frogmarch Jul 2013 #17
Yes, and people often stare at me. sinkingfeeling Jul 2013 #18
Just wear a bluetooth thingy in your ear marzipanni Jul 2013 #20
I don`t know I will ask myself and find out walkerbait41 Jul 2013 #19
OK - ya had a few days - have you stopped arguing yet? ConcernedCanuk Jul 2013 #36
Yes only because walkerbait41 Jul 2013 #37
Tell "The Mrs" to not interrupt . . . ConcernedCanuk Jul 2013 #38
She is the boss walkerbait41 Jul 2013 #39
Me: "Do you talk to yourself?" Me: "Yes." marzipanni Jul 2013 #21
LOL - "Current location: chair" ConcernedCanuk Jul 2013 #23
I can't tell marzipanni Aug 2013 #73
Interesting - no responders have said NO ConcernedCanuk Jul 2013 #22
Well ... I don't talk to myself walking thru Walmart In_The_Wind Jul 2013 #25
Yummm! - ConcernedCanuk Jul 2013 #27
It's OK to talk to yourself. It's when you have losing arguments with yourself you're in trouble. hobbit709 Jul 2013 #26
Guess I'm in trouble then . . ConcernedCanuk Jul 2013 #28
Of course I answer me. I'd hurt my feelings if I didn't! Demoiselle Jul 2013 #29
I'm so glad I'm not the only one. alarimer Jul 2013 #30
As I mentioned before - I do not see anyone answering "no way!" ConcernedCanuk Jul 2013 #32
Yes and Yes! nt avebury Jul 2013 #31
Yes and yes. crim son Jul 2013 #33
So *that's* where the voices are coming from !! nt eppur_se_muova Jul 2013 #34
yep ConcernedCanuk Jul 2013 #43
A great side effect of having dogs. nolabear Jul 2013 #35
What about the dogs? ConcernedCanuk Aug 2013 #68
There's really only an issue dipsydoodle Jul 2013 #40
When I lose, I win ConcernedCanuk Jul 2013 #42
Sometimes its the most intelligent conversation I have during the day,,,,,,,,,,,, benld74 Jul 2013 #41
I get that ConcernedCanuk Aug 2013 #67
No, but I whisper to myself soothingly when I'm sad. rug Jul 2013 #44
psst . . . ConcernedCanuk Jul 2013 #45
No. rug Jul 2013 #46
Yes I do, and many times I do answer myself. Lady Freedom Returns Jul 2013 #47
I don't answer because I am usually laughing too hard Generic Brad Jul 2013 #48
Yes. The entire point of talking to myself is to procure an answer. n/t DebJ Jul 2013 #49
Works for me! ConcernedCanuk Jul 2013 #51
No ... Yes, I do ... Um, no, I don't. I haven't even been paying attention to what I say ... Why struggle4progress Jul 2013 #50
So, DU is not the only place you have confusing conversations! ConcernedCanuk Aug 2013 #70
Hmmpf! If you can't keep up with the conversation, mebbe you shouldn't struggle4progress Aug 2013 #72
I used to have Jamaal510 Aug 2013 #57
I talk to myself but never answer. RebelOne Aug 2013 #58
OF COURSE WE DO!!! malthaussen Aug 2013 #59
LOL ConcernedCanuk Aug 2013 #60
It's a paraphrase... malthaussen Aug 2013 #61
Yes, occasionally I need to consult the wisest person I know. MrSlayer Aug 2013 #63
"Home country: United Corporations of America" - LOL ConcernedCanuk Aug 2013 #69
yes... AsahinaKimi Aug 2013 #64
Aha - so you argue with yourself also ConcernedCanuk Aug 2013 #65
Yes, yes, and once a co-worker heard me say, "HUH?" to myself. Still Blue in PDX Aug 2013 #66
I always say to people Boom Sound 416 Aug 2013 #71
Of course I answer myself ... JustABozoOnThisBus Aug 2013 #74
I mostly ignore myself. bluedigger Aug 2013 #75
What do you think the idiot thinks of yourself I wonder . . ? ConcernedCanuk Aug 2013 #77
He wants to BE me. bluedigger Aug 2013 #78
Yes, and yes.... Broken_Hero Aug 2013 #76

A Simple Game

(9,214 posts)
56. That's no fun, what is the sense of having multiple personalities
Sun Aug 4, 2013, 11:49 AM
Aug 2013

if they all agree? You don't have to feed them all, do you? That could get expensive.

Brother Buzz

(39,900 posts)
2. Mostly
Wed Jul 24, 2013, 01:04 AM
Jul 2013

But once I got in an argument with myself and didn't talk to myself for a week. It was bliss.

 

olddots

(10,237 posts)
6. I do brilliant monologs and make believe millions are enthralled by them
Wed Jul 24, 2013, 01:51 AM
Jul 2013

I wish I answered myself because I'd tell myself to shut up.

applegrove

(132,217 posts)
7. Sometimes I imagine a scenario where
Wed Jul 24, 2013, 02:56 AM
Jul 2013

I confront somebody. It is a form of venting this playacting. I feel stronger afterwards.

 

ConcernedCanuk

(13,509 posts)
79. I do that all to often,
Sat Aug 24, 2013, 08:32 PM
Aug 2013

.
.
.

and sometimes I follow through on it.

Not very often though.

"Venting" in private,

'tis a good thing.

CC

fizzgig

(24,146 posts)
8. yes and yes
Wed Jul 24, 2013, 03:11 AM
Jul 2013

although the verbal answers are mostly in reaction to the bullshit running through my brain

 

ConcernedCanuk

(13,509 posts)
62. I'm wondering, because while I was working outside I made a boo-boo
Mon Aug 5, 2013, 06:12 PM
Aug 2013

.
.
.

and of course I scolded myself, out loud - then realized something

I was calling myself by my last name -

So, question is,

do you call yourself by your first name, last name or other?

Sometimes I call myself asshole or dickhead when I do a real big boo-boo

today was a small boo-boo so it was just the last name thing . .



CC

In_The_Wind

(72,300 posts)
55. Me
Sat Aug 3, 2013, 06:38 PM
Aug 2013

That's the best choice of all.

I've talked myself out of doing some stupid things.

Also convinced myself to do/confront things I've avoided.

tjwmason

(14,819 posts)
11. Yes - best way to figure some things out.
Wed Jul 24, 2013, 07:44 AM
Jul 2013

My mind thinks best when writing or talking, so if I'm trying to think around an issue raising both sides and debating with myself allows me to come to a better understanding of my own thoughts.

RiffRandell

(5,909 posts)
13. Yes to both.
Wed Jul 24, 2013, 08:35 AM
Jul 2013

Drives my son crazy....just 2 days ago he told me to stop talking to myself....not the first time.

 

ConcernedCanuk

(13,509 posts)
24. When your son next complains
Thu Jul 25, 2013, 07:16 AM
Jul 2013

.
.
.

Tell him (jokingly) - "can't you hear I'm talking to someone? -

It's not polite to interrupt
."

Make it a fun thing.

CC

femmocrat

(28,394 posts)
15. Yes, to both questions.
Wed Jul 24, 2013, 08:51 AM
Jul 2013

It is a little embarrassing at times when someone walks in on me and I am having a solitary conversation!

 

ConcernedCanuk

(13,509 posts)
52. Don't be embarrassed.
Fri Aug 2, 2013, 11:40 PM
Aug 2013

.
.
.

And if they ask you if you were talking to yourself . . .

answer yes! please don't interrupt -

be with you in a minute!



CC

marzipanni

(6,012 posts)
20. Just wear a bluetooth thingy in your ear
Wed Jul 24, 2013, 01:31 PM
Jul 2013

then you'll be the only one who knows you're not having a phone conversation.

walkerbait41

(302 posts)
19. I don`t know I will ask myself and find out
Wed Jul 24, 2013, 12:59 PM
Jul 2013

Myself said yes and yes or was it yes and no or was it no and no. Now I don`t know I think myself and I need another talk.

 

ConcernedCanuk

(13,509 posts)
38. Tell "The Mrs" to not interrupt . . .
Sun Jul 28, 2013, 10:55 AM
Jul 2013

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.
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you were having a private conversation!

I do not have a partner at the moment, but I will make certain that they can put up with my habits when I get one.

And I'll find one, or she will find me.



CC

marzipanni

(6,012 posts)
21. Me: "Do you talk to yourself?" Me: "Yes."
Wed Jul 24, 2013, 01:44 PM
Jul 2013

I also devise some pretty good plans with my reflection in the bathroom mirror.

 

ConcernedCanuk

(13,509 posts)
23. LOL - "Current location: chair"
Wed Jul 24, 2013, 09:05 PM
Jul 2013

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.
.

and what exactly would you be wearing in front of that bathroom mirror?



CC

 

ConcernedCanuk

(13,509 posts)
22. Interesting - no responders have said NO
Wed Jul 24, 2013, 08:57 PM
Jul 2013

.
.
.

I'll have a chat with myself about that . . .

hmmmm

CC

hobbit709

(41,694 posts)
26. It's OK to talk to yourself. It's when you have losing arguments with yourself you're in trouble.
Thu Jul 25, 2013, 07:38 AM
Jul 2013
 

ConcernedCanuk

(13,509 posts)
28. Guess I'm in trouble then . .
Thu Jul 25, 2013, 10:01 AM
Jul 2013

.
.
.

Lose them all the time.

but on the serious side - my decisions when I "lose",

are usually the better ones.



CC

 

alarimer

(17,146 posts)
30. I'm so glad I'm not the only one.
Thu Jul 25, 2013, 09:38 PM
Jul 2013

I'm a brilliant conversationalist when I'm alone. When I actually have to speak to someone, I kind of suck.

 

ConcernedCanuk

(13,509 posts)
32. As I mentioned before - I do not see anyone answering "no way!"
Sat Jul 27, 2013, 10:39 PM
Jul 2013

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.
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But I'm really not surprised.

CC

 

ConcernedCanuk

(13,509 posts)
68. What about the dogs?
Tue Aug 6, 2013, 11:10 PM
Aug 2013

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.
.

Do they look at you oddly when they realize you are not talking to them??



CC

 

ConcernedCanuk

(13,509 posts)
42. When I lose, I win
Sun Jul 28, 2013, 07:19 PM
Jul 2013

.
.
.

The end result is a wiser decision.

After all, I discussed it with a wise man!



CC

 

ConcernedCanuk

(13,509 posts)
67. I get that
Tue Aug 6, 2013, 05:54 PM
Aug 2013

.
.
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I used to work in a government outfit.

Pretty rare to find an intelligent person there.

CC

Lady Freedom Returns

(14,198 posts)
47. Yes I do, and many times I do answer myself.
Tue Jul 30, 2013, 09:37 PM
Jul 2013

Most of the time I am the only one with the answer.

I do that as a way to work things out. I do get odd looks by people who may be around, but they can not argue about the results!

Generic Brad

(14,374 posts)
48. I don't answer because I am usually laughing too hard
Tue Jul 30, 2013, 10:40 PM
Jul 2013

That Generic Brad guy cracks me up sometimes.

struggle4progress

(126,157 posts)
50. No ... Yes, I do ... Um, no, I don't. I haven't even been paying attention to what I say ... Why
Wed Jul 31, 2013, 12:29 AM
Jul 2013

don't I speak for myself, twit! ... I don't know why I'm calling me names ... I'm not calling me names ... Yes, I am ... No, I'm not ... I don't think it's worth my time to continue this conversation, since I don't understand a word I'm saying ... Fine, then! ... Back at me!

 

ConcernedCanuk

(13,509 posts)
70. So, DU is not the only place you have confusing conversations!
Thu Aug 22, 2013, 09:57 PM
Aug 2013

.
.
.

Ever think of putting yourself on "ignore"?



CC

Jamaal510

(10,893 posts)
57. I used to have
Sun Aug 4, 2013, 07:42 PM
Aug 2013

an imaginary friend when I was younger, named Toad (who is based on Toad from the Mario games). I would always whisper to "him" and have arguments and fight with "him". Occasionally, I still do it out of habit.

RebelOne

(30,947 posts)
58. I talk to myself but never answer.
Sun Aug 4, 2013, 09:01 PM
Aug 2013

I also talk to the TV and occasionally shout at it when some RW nutcase is spewing propaganda.

malthaussen

(18,572 posts)
61. It's a paraphrase...
Mon Aug 5, 2013, 12:33 PM
Aug 2013

... from one of the inmates of Treblinka in the book of the same name. Read the book when I was 12 (which I wouldn't recommend), and it had a great impact. Binary thinking is for two-dimensional personalities.

-- Mal

Still Blue in PDX

(1,999 posts)
66. Yes, yes, and once a co-worker heard me say, "HUH?" to myself.
Tue Aug 6, 2013, 11:30 AM
Aug 2013

It's sad but true that seemingly no one listens to me (even me!), but you just never know who might be paying attention.

Broken_Hero

(59,305 posts)
76. Yes, and yes....
Fri Aug 23, 2013, 12:55 PM
Aug 2013

I only get stares when I do this when I"m grocery shopping, example.

"Well, I forgot the damn crackers" "well, yeah you did" then I look around, lots of folks giving me a lot of space....

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