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Thu Sep 12, 2013, 10:07 AM

I can't handle anymore deaths

Since August of 2012 I been beset with misfortune I fell off a ladder my Uncle died 4 days later My parents couldn't afford a burial we had to cremate him which he always said he didn't want January, 3, 2013 my 44 year old cousin dies from diabetes and a heart attack March 13, 2013 my dad passes 10 days after being diagnosed with cancer, April 2013 Mom is admitted to ICU with pneumonia and has had a small stroke. June 2013 I am admitted to the James Cancer Center with possible Ovarian Cancer, I have complete hysterectomy on June 24. July 13 2013 My mother has a massive heart attack I pull her off the bed to do CPR she dies hours later at the hospital. August 25 2013 my Aunt passes from cancer. Now I am being told I need more tests because I am still bleeding from a hysterectomy and my CA 125 is slightly elevated. I am losing my husband to another woman though he doesn't know I know about cause he just leaves without telling me most of the time so now I am dealing with that She called for him I answered his "work" phone not knowing. We have 4 kids I am being evicted because SSD has not come through and my husband barely makes enough to pay all the bills. I need my DU friends now more than ever I need a shoulder to cry on that isn't family they too have been through enough this year.

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rbrnmw Sep 2013 OP
In_The_Wind Sep 2013 #1
NYC_SKP Sep 2013 #2
rbrnmw Sep 2013 #3
irisblue Sep 2013 #7
redwitch Sep 2013 #4
Duer 157099 Sep 2013 #5
LiberalEsto Sep 2013 #6
RebelOne Sep 2013 #8
bluesbassman Sep 2013 #9
LeftofObama Sep 2013 #10
B Calm Sep 2013 #11
MiddleFingerMom Sep 2013 #12
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graywarrior Sep 2013 #14
riderinthestorm Sep 2013 #15
rbrnmw Sep 2013 #16
SammyWinstonJack Sep 2013 #17

Response to rbrnmw (Original post)

Thu Sep 12, 2013, 10:09 AM

1. Hey

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Response to rbrnmw (Original post)

Thu Sep 12, 2013, 10:11 AM

2. We are always here for you.

 

I hope help for you and the kids comes very soon.

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Response to rbrnmw (Original post)

Thu Sep 12, 2013, 10:14 AM

3. I am on effexor but the counseling

center can't see me until October unless I am suicidal which I am not I could not even think about doing that to my kids.

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Response to rbrnmw (Reply #3)

Thu Sep 12, 2013, 12:23 PM

7. you mentioned the James (Cancer Center?)

if you are in Franklin County, or near Columbus Ohio call Netcare 614-276-CARE(2273). There is emergency care 27/7/365.

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Response to rbrnmw (Original post)

Thu Sep 12, 2013, 10:17 AM

4. Oh my, that IS too much.

I hope you can get the financial assistance you need to stay in your home and that you have actual shoulders to cry on and not just our virtual ones. Someone is always here to listen, usually lots of someones. I send you loving energy my friend.

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Response to rbrnmw (Original post)

Thu Sep 12, 2013, 11:13 AM

5. That is a whole lotta bad stuff at once

I've had strings like that, but never to that extent. I don't even know what to say because there's nothing to say other than I feel your pain.

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Response to rbrnmw (Original post)

Thu Sep 12, 2013, 12:01 PM

6. That is way too much of a load...

 

I hope things get better from here on...
and we're with you

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Response to rbrnmw (Original post)

Thu Sep 12, 2013, 01:04 PM

8. That is really too much to handle within a year.

But you seem to be coping with it. I don't know that I could. Good luck. I hope circumstances improve soon.

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Response to rbrnmw (Original post)

Thu Sep 12, 2013, 01:11 PM

9. That's a lot to bear rbrnmw. Vibes for strength and wisdom going out too you.

The best advice I can offer is to try and focus on one thing at a time, your own health being the most important.

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Response to rbrnmw (Original post)

Thu Sep 12, 2013, 05:53 PM

10. We'll always be here for you.

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Response to rbrnmw (Original post)

Thu Sep 12, 2013, 06:01 PM

11. That's too much stress for you to handle. We're here for you, but

 

you should seek professional help for stress.

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Response to rbrnmw (Original post)

Thu Sep 12, 2013, 06:10 PM

12. If your hysterectomy was done with robotic surgery, see an attorney.

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There has been a problem with post-surgical bleeding with some of those.
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Response to rbrnmw (Original post)

Thu Sep 12, 2013, 06:38 PM

13. I know its tough

I lost four brothers, my wife, grandparents, stepfather, my beloved Labrador and my cousin to suicide in a 4 year span. If the phone rang I would break out in tears thinking more shit had happened.

I honestly numbed myself with drugs of any kind and booze for a couple years. Bad mistake cause when you finally clean out, the real pain starts.

Stay strong and healthy

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Response to rbrnmw (Original post)

Thu Sep 12, 2013, 06:44 PM

14. .

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Response to rbrnmw (Original post)

Thu Sep 12, 2013, 08:25 PM

15. What is your wishadoo name and can you link for donations?

 

I know One Grass Root has you on her donation page...

Please let people financially help you AND give you a shoulder to lean on...

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Response to riderinthestorm (Reply #15)

Thu Sep 12, 2013, 08:57 PM

16. rbrnmw same as here

Last edited Thu Sep 12, 2013, 09:34 PM - Edit history (1)

my name is Robin

http://www.wishadoo.org/rbrnmw/

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Response to rbrnmw (Original post)

Thu Sep 12, 2013, 09:55 PM

17. Oh my..

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