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gadjitfreek

(399 posts)
Thu Nov 7, 2013, 09:37 PM Nov 2013

I lost my beloved Mina this afternoon.

Mina lived to 17 1/2 years old, all filled with as much love as you can imagine. She made every day of my life during that time worth living. I was always excited to see her and she was always excited to see me. She was my constant companion and my best friend. In recent months she had began to decline but I was able to keep her chronic renal failure under control. She suffered an eye injury that required corrective surgery and post-surgery she developed chylothorax, which is a fluid effusion in the chest. We had the fluid removed and that helped for a while but she needed to get it removed again and in the meantime she had lost her appetite and her kidneys went all to hell. I did the only thing I could do for her this afternoon and let her go. The vet tech who loved her almost as much as I did sent her on her way. I made a music video this weekend to celebrate her life and I want to have Mina spread far and wide. She was the best thing that ever happened to me and I am going to miss her and all the wonderful little things she used to do terribly.

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I lost my beloved Mina this afternoon. (Original Post) gadjitfreek Nov 2013 OP
I'm so sorry for your loss LiberalEsto Nov 2013 #1
Oh honey, I'm sorry. I know how painful this is. a la izquierda Nov 2013 #2
So sorry for your loss. Captain Stern Nov 2013 #3
I'm so sorry. She was lovely. nolabear Nov 2013 #4
What a wonderful tribute film libodem Nov 2013 #5
sorry you had to let Mina go. Sunlei Nov 2013 #6
So sorry... PasadenaTrudy Nov 2013 #7
I'm so sorry. The Velveteen Ocelot Nov 2013 #8
,,, csziggy Nov 2013 #9
I am so very sorry! GreenPartyVoter Nov 2013 #10
I'm so sorry. I lost my 15 y/o buddy this evening. CurtEastPoint Nov 2013 #11
I'm so sorry libodem Nov 2013 #15
not dumb at all. CurtEastPoint Nov 2013 #18
I am so very sorry Prophet 451 Nov 2013 #12
so sorry gadjitfreek Skittles Nov 2013 #13
I'm so sorry for your loss... magical thyme Nov 2013 #14
Condolences on your Kitty denbot Nov 2013 #16
I'm very sorry for your loss. In_The_Wind Nov 2013 #17
I am so sorry. hamsterjill Nov 2013 #19
All I can send PumpkinAle Nov 2013 #20
. Liberal_in_LA Nov 2013 #21
Sorry, sorry. I have been through the loss RebelOne Nov 2013 #22
I'm so sorry. Blue_In_AK Nov 2013 #23
Ohhhh, I'm so sorry! frogmarch Nov 2013 #24
i am so very sorry for the loss of your friend fizzgig Nov 2013 #25
So sorry......Bless you for being that little dear's best friend. we can do it Nov 2013 #26

Captain Stern

(2,201 posts)
3. So sorry for your loss.
Thu Nov 7, 2013, 09:53 PM
Nov 2013

It's obvious from your video that she added a lot to your life. It's equally obvious that you gave her a great life.

libodem

(19,288 posts)
5. What a wonderful tribute film
Thu Nov 7, 2013, 09:58 PM
Nov 2013

You will treasure that forever. I hope someday you can watch it without crying. So sorry for your loss.

My kitty has recently had to start meds, and is looking at a surgery to remove some tumors. I am trying to figure out what to do. I could be in your shoes soon.

CurtEastPoint

(18,643 posts)
11. I'm so sorry. I lost my 15 y/o buddy this evening.
Thu Nov 7, 2013, 11:08 PM
Nov 2013

Sometimes it's the best thing you can do if they're suffering. I share your pain.

libodem

(19,288 posts)
15. I'm so sorry
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 12:36 PM
Nov 2013

This little film made me cry and not just for his kitty but for all the Kitties we love. My kitty is 15, too. I can see changes in her, everyday that seem like signs, that I won't have her a lot longer.

I cried at the vet, just like somebody else's recent OP. I was in the same room where Toonsis and Bob, were put to sleep. I hope I sounded empathetic to her and not like I just wanted to jump on her band wagon and steal her platform of grief.


This might sound dumb, but I'm feeling your pain.

Prophet 451

(9,796 posts)
12. I am so very sorry
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 12:44 AM
Nov 2013

We never have enough time with our babies. It might not help right now but know that she knew how much you adored her. She was a beautiful girl who knew how much she was loved.

My SO worships Bast. I'll ask her to say a prayer for Mina.

Skittles

(153,160 posts)
13. so sorry gadjitfreek
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 02:10 AM
Nov 2013


Grieve not,
nor speak of me with tears,
but laugh and talk of me
as if I were beside you...
I loved you so --
'twas Heaven here with you.

by Isla Paschal Richardson
 

magical thyme

(14,881 posts)
14. I'm so sorry for your loss...
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 10:00 AM
Nov 2013

You gave Mina a great life and the best passing possible. She left knowing she was loved and cared for.

RIP Mina.

hamsterjill

(15,220 posts)
19. I am so sorry.
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 01:31 PM
Nov 2013

Seventeen and half years! Wow! I am always grateful to hear of fur-babies that are loved, even amongst the sadness of losing them. Thank you for loving her, and she knew that, in that she loved you back, of course.

I wish peace and comfort for you.

RebelOne

(30,947 posts)
22. Sorry, sorry. I have been through the loss
Sat Nov 9, 2013, 05:22 PM
Nov 2013

of a beloved pet many times and it is painful. It's like losing a child.

Blue_In_AK

(46,436 posts)
23. I'm so sorry.
Sat Nov 9, 2013, 06:38 PM
Nov 2013

Just four days after my sweet Sugar. They were almost the same age, too. I can honestly say that I feel your pain.

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